We are a fun couple living in coventry. I am a 24 year old redhead and my boyfriend is 31. We are new to this scene, we are both fairly submissive by nature but both switch take the dominant with each other. I love being tied up and used but I love to tie him up and torture him (he can take a lot more pain than me).

We have been lurking around here for a while (pretty much since we got together) but never posted a lot as we are interested in the lifestyle but it all seems quite daunting at first.

I am completely straight and at the minute would never do anything with another woman, my boyfriend is bi curious and there is nothing that turns me on more than the thought of seeing him with another man (he is a little wary of this)

One of his biggest fantasies is to see me being tied, teased and used by another man and to be honest this turns me on so much.

We have been looking for a while to bring someone else (a man) into the bedroom to try to see if we can make our fantasies a reality but every time we do we get disappointed by the amount of fakes that are around.

We are both quite shy and would love to get into this lifestyle but would love to try it out first. It’s a so frustrating, go to meetings and get scared and run away or put an add up and up get inundated with fakes and get so disappointed and give up.

We are also looking for some decent websites to use to chat to other people and any advice would be appreciated