Is this atypical of a male sub?

[Deleted Member]

To begin.I have always enjoyed giving myself totally to a woman. Mostly because I had partners who are one sided and who werent all that giving.

I enjoy giving female head especially even if it's not reciprocal. So my question is this. Is it usual to be so focused on someone else even sexually that I do not care if I am getting something out of it?

[CopperKnob]

I'd argue that you are getting something out of it... I don't see it as altruistic at all.

[ey****]

I don't really think this is either submissive nor 'not' submissive

there's likely to be millions of couples around the world, where one does a sex act "for their partner" which is reciprocal only in the sense of "I enjoy doing things that you enjoy"

 

[Im****]

You’re taking pleasure from pleasing you’re partner, that is definitely getting something out of it. This concept is very common in all dynamics it’s not really submissive it’s just nice

[Mezmerism]

You sound like a ‘pleasure sub?’ - your dominant is very lucky to have a submissive who is into giving and isn’t focused on just receiving like some are.

[Deleted Member]

Sounds like fine qualities to me

[Deleted Member]

5 hours ago, Mezmerism said:

You sound like a ‘pleasure sub?’ - your dominant is very lucky to have a submissive who is into giving and isn’t focused on just receiving like some are.

Unfortunately I have no FemDom at this time but perhaps someday.

[Ju****]

Nothing peculiar about that. But id always feel sad for soemone whos always giving in bed and never recieves. I dont feel its fair. Id feel left out if i was always the one doing things with none in return to show appreciation, even if i wasnt expecting it.