A slightly confused bi guy

[Steve-UK]

I am a “straight/?bi” married guy and I’ve only ever had one very unexpected gay experience which initially messed with my head. But because it was so electrifyingly erotic, I eventually realised that it was probably the most amazing sexual experience of my life. The young guy who seduced me got me to do things I never knew people did, but these are things I continue to do solo to this day. The problem for me is this: I would love to I pursue further sexual activity with guys, some of it pretty extreme, but I can’t get my head around kissing another guy. My apologies to those who may be offended, but am I alone with this mindset?

[ma****]

You can want to suck dick (and other things) and not want to kiss a guy that’s perfectly ok just set your boundaries with any sexual partner!

[Guy4dick]

There are guys that are ok with kissing and other guys that are not, with another guy. You are not alone. It's all in ones "head-space," to what you are comfortable doing and not doing.

[Steve-UK]

Thanks guys, I feel easier about it now. 🙏

[ge****]

It's quite a common thing with bisexual guys that kissing is a limit - so you're definitely not alone - ultimately it's all about what you are comfortable with

[Masterian]

Not into kissing guys

[Wi****]

You are not alone. I feel the exact same way

[Deleted Member]

So don t kiss? Look sex is sex- it feels good. It’s 2023 nobody cares anymore. Except your wife. Don’t be a shit.

[fa****]

Talk to your wife. She might like the honesty and might like that dynamic. Nothing wrong with bi curious it turns a lot of girls on.

[Ea****]

Kissing a guy, I wouldn’t do it either. And be upfront about your limits and things that turn u off.

[lo****]

I’m a bi guy
That’s lived in the straight world
My hole life
I can’t explain why I haven’t came out yet
I’m in a relationship with a wonderful man right now
That I’ve Fallen in love with

I’d love to hear what your extremes are

[Nocturne]

I'd say, labels aren't always necessary, if you can set your own limits and know what you like, you can communicate that, I recommend talking about this with your partner so you can possibly experiment on whatever you want to try in a way that doesn't bother your partner, discuss boundaries and such while figuring them out as well.