Cuck Men Who Aren’t Submissive

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9 hours ago, Clarakink said:

I think it all comes down to the type of relationship you have with your sub.
If you know them well enough and they trust you to make the right decision on their behalf then it could be quite exciting for them to not know who the person would be.
But that would take time to get to that point.
In general though, I think both parties need to discuss who the 3rd person will be, but normally it's the Dom (female or male) that finds them.
Subs are entitled to a voice and opinion as they are human beings and individuals (I think that is sometimes forgotten), but ultimately as a Dom, the final decision will rest with me.
Is that because I'm a Dom or a woman? That's a question for another day!

Agreed..

I think in bdsm even a Male Dom own the final decison, I don’t personally think it has to do with gender but with a previous agreement among person involved.

But all this has a value until it doesn’t prevail over the sub (wether male or female) limits…

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a big part of D/s is the Dominant has the final decision.

I think in any scenario though if a sub is like x, y, z will work for me - a, b and c will not.

And the Dominant is very; I am the Dominant and I chose b and c

then that's fair, but also asks a big question on why the two are together.

[MisstressStorm]

On 6/12/2023 at 6:02 AM, Bwantsmore said:

As someone who finds cuckolding a hot topic I just don't understand how someone can expect a domme to just cuck them right off the bat?
Surely it comes as part of a strong and loving dynamic.
Of you don't have that, is it not just b
Vouyerism?

 

[FREAK_SALAD]

On 6/13/2023 at 7:23 AM, norman146 said:

Then make your own post and leave me alone….?

WTF?  All of the sudden you turn anti social and obstinate.