ed**** Posted April 25 Mixed signals and no proper education on what is acceptable for flirting or posting in the kink world, just because you can say something or post something doesn't mean you should. I have made that mistake too many times to count. Save the best for last.
Me**** Posted June 24 It’s nice to see a post like this. From my POV I actually deleted my old profile with pictures because even though the ego enjoys the compliments, it became almost overwhelming- the amount of messages in general and feeling bad because I didn’t respond to most of them , which only caused more and more messages asking why I hadn’t responded. I can usually get past the flat out crude comments and I would absolutely love to eventually find someone to serve and give my gifts to but for me personally I find having no pictures the way to go . If we have spoken for a bit and there is a mutual respect then absolutely, I will send a picture. This is just what works for me (so far) since having this new account 🤷♀️
Deleted Member Posted June 24 This took over my spirit for years. I wasn't treated like a person. I was merely the robot that holds the holes. Practically all my friends, the men and women, have tried to f*ck me. No matter their age, how I knew them, how long I knew them, the professional or legal risk, let alone the ethical/ moral ones. The friends who haven't used me or tried to screw me can be counted on one hand. It broke my soul. Then there were the strangers. Hungry, scheming, collaborating with friends. Never listening to a thing I say or only pretending long enough to finally have access to the holes my body. I was a purveyor of beauty and status for every partner. At home, forgotten, ignored, and put away. Secret from others. Brainwashed and lost. Nothing but contempt or envy from onlookers. When I do talk about anything it's often met with shock of accomplishment or incredulity. Men and women. It took me years to crawl out of that pit. By myself no less. It ***ed a lot of people off, and continues to when I express my boundaries.
Deleted Member Posted June 27 This is something I have struggled with. I choose to show photos because I have worked hard to acheive what I have. For the most part, the people I choose to engage with are respectful, and come across as open and honest people. I am happy to say that I have made some wonderful friends. If they see this, they know who they are! After a long time navigating this world, eventually your instinct kicks in and trusting that is vital. We do have to protect ourselves, ladies. But at the same time, if we shut down and dont let anyone in, then we miss out on some truly amazing people and experiences. Tarring everyone with the same brush just leads to more loneliness. The message that disrespect is unacceptable, will eventually get through xx
Ru**** Posted August 29 Yep, it's absolutely soul crushing when every encounter is treated as a transaction instead of connection. It would be one thing if it was just aggressive creeps sending dick pics, but it cuts the deepest when you realize your friends are all just waiting in line for their chance with you. That every kindness, every moment of support and human connection is just a bargaining chip they're using to try and get what they *really* want, my body 🤷🏼 Beauty is absolutely a privilege, it makes a lot of things in life easier, but if you're always being put on a pedestal you're not seen as human anymore, just a trophy.
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