Ch**** Posted June 24, 2023 Posted June 24, 2023 How do.you cope when you go from dating your dom to just being fwb Would you still do kink or would you walk away from it all
Br**** Posted June 24, 2023 Posted June 24, 2023 If you want more than fwb then it’s best to just walk away. You need to do what’s best for you even if it’s the hard option
pi**** Posted June 24, 2023 Posted June 24, 2023 Play like u have more then him and Secretly do something nice for yourself
Deleted Member Posted June 24, 2023 Posted June 24, 2023 No, the dynamics changed for the worse. Especially the trust being gone, naaa run away
Je**** Posted June 24, 2023 Posted June 24, 2023 Are you alright? For me personally, I couldn't cope and would need to walk. But thats just me.
dr**** Posted June 24, 2023 Posted June 24, 2023 Consider it like a non-kink relationship, would you still have sex with an ex because they wanted something different?
Rzero Posted June 24, 2023 Posted June 24, 2023 Hope you're doing okay, Chams, but yeah, if you're not going to get what you need anymore, it's probably best to let it go.
bu**** Posted June 24, 2023 Posted June 24, 2023 It’s brutal but I would walk, the relationship has fundamentally changed so the trust wouldn’t be there for me to do kink
Ki**** Posted June 24, 2023 Posted June 24, 2023 Hope you are ok, and sorry this happened to you. But I do agree with the others it will be best to just leave it and move on especially if you are looking for more and they are not. And if they aren’t open to anything more it will only effect you in the long run
smilingthief Posted June 24, 2023 Posted June 24, 2023 In all honesty, I'd walk. I've had some relationships go that way, and I've always walked
Deleted Member Posted June 24, 2023 Posted June 24, 2023 I’m a strict Dominant. If the relationship isn’t my Dominance their submission it’s not a relationship. This isn’t a bit of cosplay or role play for me. I can’t wake up one morning and decide to be vanilla.
Ed**** Posted June 24, 2023 Posted June 24, 2023 From a relationship to a fwb? Walk. The other way around is quite possible.
MrHulk Posted June 24, 2023 Posted June 24, 2023 To be honest if he has come out with he don't love yo and you had been dating him and now Wats to be fab ten wlk away cause you will get hurt
Lu**** Posted June 24, 2023 Posted June 24, 2023 Im sorry to hear that's happened to you and I hope you are doing well. Just because the other person have stated their preference it doesn't mean you must ignore your own wants and needs. If you want more, they are not going to give you more. Do what's right for yourself. To answer your question if it was me, as hard as it would be I will walk because I cherish my time and energy.
Am**** Posted June 24, 2023 Posted June 24, 2023 I agree with everyone who has already posted. Take care of yourself and find what you need somewhere else. Hope you’re ok.
Deleted Member Posted June 24, 2023 Posted June 24, 2023 You need to think about yourself and what you need. Best to walk away and find that connection and commitment elsewhere then *** yourself with something that obviously won't be. His loss not yours
Deleted Member Posted June 24, 2023 Posted June 24, 2023 I know that although everyone is saying walk away and you may be struggling with what to do. Maybe if he once wanted to be more than just fwb,.maybe he will change his mind again? Yeah there is that possibility, however if you let someone treat you like you are just something they can puck up and drop whenever they feel like it, they will. In the meantime there you will be in love and hurting because just kink will not be enough, the longer it goes on the deeper you get and the harder it becomes to walk away. You end up hating yourself for being so weak/stupid etc and you end up hating him because he keeps using you eventhough he knows how you feel. Even worse he meets someone that he is really into and you're just dropped like yesterday's worn socks. IMO take the hard road and walk away now before it gets worse. Look after your heart and soon you will be in a place where you'll be able to move forward.
StrictMaster44 Posted June 24, 2023 Posted June 24, 2023 Walk, heal, and find someone who treats and loves you how you deserve to be.
Em**** Posted June 24, 2023 Posted June 24, 2023 After being ghosted emotionally by mine for almost 2 weeks. I chose to kindly release myself. I try to remember my worth. Walking away was difficult, it hurt, but ultimately I know I’ll grow from it.
StrictMaster44 Posted June 24, 2023 Posted June 24, 2023 20 minutes ago, Emjay_xx said: After being ghosted emotionally by mine for almost 2 weeks. I chose to kindly release myself. I try to remember my worth. Walking away was difficult, it hurt, but ultimately I know I’ll grow from it. Sorry to hear that happened to you.
Deleted Member Posted June 24, 2023 Posted June 24, 2023 1 hour ago, Emjay_xx said: After being ghosted emotionally by mine for almost 2 weeks. I chose to kindly release myself. I try to remember my worth. Walking away was difficult, it hurt, but ultimately I know I’ll grow from it. It’s really unforgivable for a Dominant to have behaved like that. It’s principally about caring for someone in my view.
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