Ki**** Posted September 26, 2024 Well, I had a man that liked my feet and I was sending him pictures of my feet. He got all weird and stopped talking to me and it kind of depressed me. A friend of mine told me to go on this website and fill out a profile and have fun and that’s what I did and I have met lots of nice people on here and help me grow in the BDSM lifestyle so much so that I committed to it by having a tattoo put on my right wrist. It looks like a bracelet, but it’s the secret symbol of BDSM. I really like my new tattoo. It reminds me of the lifestyle every day. I’m looking for a Dom . I have not found one yet. I’m looking for one that knows the old school BDSM.
Pu**** Posted September 27, 2024 My BDSM journey started and progressed over time and I'm trying to grow more into it...in the beginning from time to time I would have a women tell me that she wanted me to *** her...me being a gentle person I never wanted to hurt anyone so I was always hesitant.... but then a few years back one of my partners and I were having a conversation about her past experiences and she was telling me some of the things she's done or wanted to do...one of those things was being ***d.....almost to the point of passing out . .so when she told me that I decided to try it on her...the way that her body reacted to feeling my hand around her throat got me really excited....then to grab her by the neck and kiss her made your pussy so wet which made my dick even harder.....that was a new and exciting experience to me and I wanted more......months later I met another woman who was looking for a Dom and wanted to be my sub...she was also a hotwife.......even though I didn't really have any experience she was willing to give herself to me.....through her I realized my passion for being a pleasure Dom.....the reaction to the pleasure and climax that was given and controlled by me was very addicting and I wanted more....
PR**** Posted October 7, 2024 My Journey started in a lot vanilla relationship only the men get satisfied I was always feeling not satisfied 123 it's over. NO FUN OR EXCITEMENT. I started to finger myself watching rough erotica porn, gangbangs few others turn my life around being aroused. Now is finding a partner to experiment with.!!!!!
DK**** Posted July 22 I entered the scene a month before my twenty-first birthday and haven't looked back. I was super lucky to have a mentor that exposed me to not only different scenes but pushed me to fully explore my desires.
Ot**** Posted July 22 I’d done the normal fumbling around when I was younger. Things like reading the story of O, reading about the Marquis de Sade, seeing films like the secretary. I even tried tying up my girlfriend. But those were the pre-internet days and we all knew about the swinger and BDSM paper (the SF spectator) and organizations like the society of Janus, but that was a long drive so my learning paused there. 20 years and a divorce later I’m back on the dating scene and now it’s everywhere. The first woman I started dating was committed to helping me find my kinks and exposed me to impact, breath play, needles, rope, play parties, and basic D/s. That relationship didn’t last but I sought out a kink educator to act as my coach and really went down that rabbit hole. Now I teach others rope and fire play. I have two amazing submissives and several play partners. I feel at home in the community and attend munches, play parties, and several BDSM conventions through the year. It’s been a wonderful journey and I see no reason for it to end anytime soon.
Pa**** Posted July 24 Looking for women and trans women that are SUBS near Mcalester Oklahoma for hot fun with pantyhose and more
Deleted Member Posted July 29 How the hell can I delete my profile when I don't know my password? No replies to my emails from support or moderators for FIVE days.
Rh**** Posted September 9 Unfortunately I cannot post about my journey. I've done so in the past and due to the subject matter it gets flagged and I get put into time outs. It's a shame because I would like to talk about it. At times it's been a struggle to understand and come to terms with parts of it. I guess that is what therapy is for. I will say trauma is weird sometimes. One part of it is very ***ful while another part is comforting. Through the years I've become numb so I return to the *** so I can feel something again.
Deleted Member Posted September 11 I was first introduced to BDSM by my mom on accident. She used to own an adult toy shop. She would have these showcases every Sunday. One day, she had one in my grandparents house. On those days, I wasn't allowed to go down stairs & see what's going on. But my curiosity really got the better of me one day. I remember overheard some music & laughter coming from down stairs in the living room. So I sneaked out of my room & head to the railing just to see what was happening. I didn't see much but I remember I saw a lady wearing a feather boa. I heard my mom talking. It was a s***ch about femme dominance. I was enthralled by what she was talking about. Years later, the topic of BDSM came up in a book I was reading on Wattpad. It was about submission. I searched it up. At first, I saw myself as a sub. But then it really didn't add up to me & I was slowly opening up to my dominant side. I found out that my dominant side was leaning more strongly than my submissive side. I searched up the term for it recently. I think it was a year ago, I found out what it's called. So I labeled myself as a Domme leaning Switch. It really clicked for me & the rest was history.
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