LS**** Posted July 25 Posted July 25 By the nature of this app, we meet a lot of people and open a lot of first time conversations. I’m curious; to the submissives out there, when you’re contacting a dom for the first time and feeling out whether you want to continue speaking with them, how dominant do you prefer them to be from the get-go? Do you expect them to start initiating conversations, asking questions and assuming topics right away? Showing off their dom behavior in their flirting and such? And what about when a dom makes the first move to speak with you?