Never had an orgasm alone (let me explain)

[Little_Bxnny]

I can give myself an orgasm, that’s not the topic. I just cannot do it without a/multiple partner(s) or whatever I call a "public"  

Giving myself pleasure is not a problem. But orgasm is not possible if no one is participating one way or an other : actively or just watching. I have lots of great toys and my sexuality is not to dispair ^^ 

 

But if you have any advice to help me be self satisfied, I’d be so glad.

[FETMOD-KF]

ideas, suggestions, etc welcome

but - please, of course, no "pick me" or "I'll help" comments

ta :)

[Concupiscent]

Maybe you have to replace orgasms with fulfillment.

[Little_Bxnny]

5 minutes ago, Concupiscent said:

Maybe you have to replace orgasms with fulfillment.

I’m not sure to understand 🤔 can you develop

[Deleted Member]

Seems like you need a primary focus during the act other than merely yourself, perhaps a detox from vaginal/cliteral pleasure. Try a few sessions where you only watch another person/pleasure them, nothing for you below the waste. After a week or so maybe things will have 'reset' so to speak and you'll be able to get into self pleasure more without the external stimulation. Absolutely no toys for you for a good long while! Hope this maybe helps. X

[Deleted Member]

Waist" stupid typos lol x

[Little_Bxnny]

1 minute ago, leanneandmartin said:

Seems like you need a primary focus during the act other than merely yourself, perhaps a detox from vaginal/cliteral pleasure. Try a few sessions where you only watch another person/pleasure them, nothing for you below the waste. After a week or so maybe things will have 'reset' so to speak and you'll be able to get into self pleasure more without the external stimulation. Absolutely no toys for you for a good long while! Hope this maybe helps. X

Thank you very much 🙏

[Deleted Member]

31 minutes ago, Little_Bxnny said:

Thank you very much 🙏

You can message for more anytime 😊 and good luck cheeky lady x

[Concupiscent]

2 hours ago, Little_Bxnny said:

I’m not sure to understand 🤔 can you develop

Sure. Orgasms are more physical stimulation and have different levels of intensities. Your physical orgasms have happened even when you touch yourself alone but you were not fulfilled with high intensity. You may try tantric experiences to find yourself and it may heal to feel yourself and enjoy.

[Little_Bxnny]

I have loads of dms advising me to take a break from toys and cams, and worry about my personal pleasure. thank you but it is a primary advice that I have already applied to myself.

 

My trouble is deeper. It comes from a trauma. I was not born with the inability to make myself cum alone. 
 

those dm’s mostly comes from men, obviously 🙄 

[Concupiscent]

20 minutes ago, Little_Bxnny said:

I have loads of dms advising me to take a break from toys and cams, and worry about my personal pleasure. thank you but it is a primary advice that I have already applied to myself.

 

My trouble is deeper. It comes from a trauma. I was not born with the inability to make myself cum alone. 
 

those dm’s mostly comes from men, obviously 🙄 

This could be your deeper fantasy of being a sub or a "slut" ( I hope it's fine to use this word on a public post, if not please remove it ). Your subconscious slut denies you to cum for yourself.

[ar****]

6 hours ago, Little_Bxnny said:

I have loads of dms advising me to take a break from toys and cams, and worry about my personal pleasure. thank you but it is a primary advice that I have already applied to myself.

 

My trouble is deeper. It comes from a trauma. I was not born with the inability to make myself cum alone. 
 

those dm’s mostly comes from men, obviously 🙄 

If you know you were not born with the inability, then you must know about which trauma may be getting in your way. Perhaps you may want to focus on playing examining/tackling that, and gain some awareness or even closure/mastery of the blockage that you have?