New to Dom/sub

[Jndc]

Hello, all. 

We’ve recently begun our journey down the road of domination and submission, and so far we’re in love with it. We’re looking for ideas to further enrich our experience with it. We’re trying to practice sort of gentle domination, both in the bedroom and day to day life. We’re hoping to reach out and find concepts and practices to explore, both in the bedroom and our day to day life. She’s a very obedient sub.

[Kratzbuerste]

My Girlfriend loves the Magic Wand from Hitachi, but now "Europe" produce the good ones. We Got a Old one with a analog "switch/wheel" to control the Speed. At the evening i put her in a Straitjacket put the Magic Wand in an Plug the Wand to a Timeclock and let her Sleep or she try to ^^

At the beginning she didn't know that she is able to squirt, but with the Magic Wand she cant hold it anymore. Some times she was so exhausted that some tears were running while orgasm. She loved it

Edited October 3, 2019 by Kratzbuerste
Forget something

[DaisyMae]

The best advice I can give is to seek a mentor. Either to mentor you both together or each get your own.

[Deleted Member]

Just go with the flow, try not to look to porn for ideas as it isn't always realistic. Just enjoy it as much as possible whilst finding your feet 

[JohnLeslie]

Check YouTube!!  Search BDSM. Yes, YouTube!! There are some great BDSM educators there.  (and some horrible ones too)  Whatever you do forget what porn movie (50 Shades of Gray Bullshit) and all those XXX books you've read. That is Hollyweird, not anything like true BDSM! Look for Munches listed here on fetish.com Most importantly,  join fetlife.com -  it's the Facebook of BDSM. I highly recommend it! 

Edited October 9, 2019 by JohnLeslie