Online punition

[da****]

As a dom, sometimes I don't have any new ideas. Even if I order my sub to contribuate, it is not enough, especially for online punition when she deserve it. The thing is that she can't do pictures and videos so I really don't know what she can do to show me her respect : I thought of writtings, audio messages then what ... ?
Calling for the kinky community is the best thing to help me ! (To have the point of view of dom and sub also)
Thank you for your help !

[Ch****]

Thank for sharing fellow Switch! If you ask a compleate stranger... i may have to say that you lean into what you have in regards of your Dom/Sub relationship... in specifics: writing can do wonders on telling what the other is thinking, but the nature of rewriting and control of what can send can be... undesireable, maybe in sticking to audio messages can give a more sincere and clear power exchange... just food for thpught fellow man : )

[GoingDown777]

It's hard to give suggestions without knowing what she likes and what have you tried so far especially without pics and videos. When I was in long distance relationship he sent me toys to play with or just made me find things around the house to play with. Clothes pegs, wooden spoons, hairbrushes etc. Then you can tell her exactly what to do with them and she can report back how they feel. One we had most fun was a simple table spoon. It can be put in the freezer... Also obviously edging and orgasm denial. But I guess you're already doing that. Xx pls report back

[ge****]

Think writing is a good way - stories, journals, thoughts etc are all a good way of getting insights and ideas etc.
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However the cynical me would be questioning why they can't send pics or do videos etc - are they hiding something - not saying 100% they are but if this is a committed dynamic of some sort then it suggests either lack of trust or as I said, that they're hiding something.
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Will they do audio? Know you've suggested as much in your OP but not sure if that's just thoughts or they've committed to do so or have done so - so perhaps that would be another option where you can at least "hear" them acting on your instructions.

[GoingDown777]

32 minutes ago, gemini_man said:

Think writing is a good way - stories, journals, thoughts etc are all a good way of getting insights and ideas etc.
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However the cynical me would be questioning why they can't send pics or do videos etc - are they hiding something - not saying 100% they are but if this is a committed dynamic of some sort then it suggests either lack of trust or as I said, that they're hiding something.
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Will they do audio? Know you've suggested as much in your OP but not sure if that's just thoughts or they've committed to do so or have done so - so perhaps that would be another option where you can at least "hear" them acting on your instructions.

My thoughts exactly. It's a bit sus 🤭

[ge****]

1 hour ago, GoingDown777 said:

My thoughts exactly. It's a bit sus 🤭

Indeed it could be - though to be fair and to balance my initial comments there are also those who won't send pics or do video etc for *** of those pics/videos being exploited.
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Just think it's important for the OP to validate who they're interacting with if they've not done so already - as it could well be Barry sat in his truck in a layby getting his jollies 😉

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I use daily tasks. I find keeping us both in mind really helps

[GoingDown777]

3 hours ago, gemini_man said:

Indeed it could be - though to be fair and to balance my initial comments there are also those who won't send pics or do video etc for *** of those pics/videos being exploited.
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Just think it's important for the OP to validate who they're interacting with if they've not done so already - as it could well be Barry sat in his truck in a layby getting his jollies 😉

I understand the no face pics *** but tiny partial pictures at least ...

[AKA_Copper]

21 minutes ago, GoingDown777 said:

I understand the no face pics *** but tiny partial pictures at least ...

Revenge porn is a real thing. It would take a huge amount of trust for me to send any nudes/explicit photos of myself. Once photo's/video's are sent you've no control of them.
It's also not about the personal impact, for some of us, it may well mean losing careers.

[GoingDown777]

21 minutes ago, CopperKnob said:

Revenge porn is a real thing. It would take a huge amount of trust for me to send any nudes/explicit photos of myself. Once photo's/video's are sent you've no control of them.
It's also not about the personal impact, for some of us, it may well mean losing careers.

There's a huge difference between a home sex vid/porn clip and a small bad quality partial pic.

[Deleted Member]

24 minutes ago, CopperKnob said:

Revenge porn is a real thing. It would take a huge amount of trust for me to send any nudes/explicit photos of myself. Once photo's/video's are sent you've no control of them.
It's also not about the personal impact, for some of us, it may well mean losing careers.

Agree so risky to do and needing huge trust

[AKA_Copper]

12 minutes ago, GoingDown777 said:

There's a huge difference between a home sex vid/porn clip and a small bad quality partial pic.

And still, depending on your own personal circumstances, still risky.

[Hy****]

Puniton sound like an automatic flogging machine. Made me chuckle.

I did online darling for about 10 years.

The skills I learned from it were fairly invaluable for my real life timing, but one of the biggest shortcomings that online darling had was that I had no means of enforcing power dynamics through touch, which is really the clincher for keeping it going.

I’m strongly of the opinion that punishments should not be rewards. The reason that everyone is saying that This is a huge risk is because if she ain’t into it, the least worst thing that happens is she drops you. The worse issues are even less in your favor.