Staring

[CptDetroit]

Is this a new thing, or am I just now noticing…

My last long-term lg/sub & gf used to turn around and stare at me and smile, happy that she had a caring Daddy. That was new at the time.

Now 2 submissives later, I’ve taken note that they too did/do the same thing, and do so most often while stroking/scratching my beard.

Submissives, is this something that younger subs do or is it common and I’m only now noticing?

[my****]

Clearly you’re doing it right. Make sure the smile makes it to her eyes. If it’s there, it’s probably real.

[Ca****]

I don’t think it’s necessarily a younger or older thing. It’s an admiration of their dom, taking “you” and/ or the moment in. 😌 don’t interrupt the moment.

[ki****]

Maybe you are becoming a better Dom and partner, worthy of such smiles.

[Th****]

This isn't a man/woman, Dom/sub, or even kink/vanilla thing.

It's relatively common for people who are super into someone in whatever way to look at/watch them with admiration because they simply really really like them and/or love them. 

My guess is you're just noticing it. 

Edited May 29, 2024 by ThaliaV

[ma****]

That's very common with those who truly admire their partner. It can be a submissive doing it or a Dom or a vanilla person.

[CptDetroit]

I HAVE noticed it before in vanilla relationships. Often. It’s just new for me in D/s DD/lg dynamics.

Maybe I’ve learned to open up and share more with subs than I did previously.

[Th****]

49 minutes ago, CptDetroit said:

I HAVE noticed it before in vanilla relationships. Often. It’s just new for me in D/s DD/lg dynamics.

Maybe I’ve learned to open up and share more with subs than I did previously.

That very well could be the case then 

[Deleted Member]

I can’t speak for all girls, but for me I like doing that too and I’m not young. I love laying on a man’s chest an looking up watching him watch tv an breathe. I like watching a man chew guy. I’m a watcher voyeurism is my kink.  Also if I’m satisfied, super attracted, or in a playful mood. 

[Deleted Member]

It's not a new thing just not everyone does it.

It's a common one among people whose choice for expression of love is touch oriented as looking deeply into partners eyes then touching them in some way is there version of saying I love you without saying it verbally.

So if your partner is doing this take it as your doing things right and try to respond in your own 5 languages of loves appropriate way.

Edited June 13, 2024 by Deleted Member
Goofball

[Submissive_summer]

Oh I know that smile....
That stare and smile that comes from deep inside from a submissive who feels truly held in her Dominants presence....
It’s not just happiness tho.... its quiet contentment, knowing she is safe..... protected... and importantly seen....

That smile is full of gratitude and admiration..... The silent smile that says you are the only one who make it possible for me to rest so peacefully ... you are the only one who can create that space

[my****]

The trust involved in submitting makes strong feelings of attachment almost inevitable. All but one sub I’ve been with looked at me like that. When that look stops, you’ve got to have a long introspective look, because you’re nearing the end.

[Ma****]

They do have the Gen Z stair.