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Not looking for online play, or long distance. Not looking for a slave either. Strictly sub here..quit trying to make me switch. Don't have snapchat. Don't give my number out. Other than the above, and my limits, I'm an absolute delight ??
BDSM and the fetish scene have been a big part of my life for more than a decade. Initially, it was just for fun, but I enjoyed it so much that I ended up doing it professionally - all you have to do is look for Goddess Ruby Rousson. Recently, I've been more into hedonism, playing around with sensations, pleasure, and pain, rather than identifying solely as a Sadistic Domme. Don't get me wrong, I still love my canes, paddles, and floggers, but I have a love for how a few words and a light touch can turn someone into putty in my hands. My kinks vary depending on who I'm playing with and the dynamics we share, and there are more fetishes in my repertoire than what I've listed (I've only included those that sprang to mind first). I’m relatively open-minded when it comes to kinks, and I've encountered a lot of fetishes over the years. Right now, I'm looking for like-minded kinky folks and accessible events. I'm open to finding a play partner, but I'm not actively searching for one; just keeping my eyes open for someone I click with. Outside of kink, I run a few websites, start conversations, educate myself when curious, enjoy learning new instruments, am a bit of a nerd, and read/write copious amounts of fiction. Goddess Ruby Rousson
Female (30) London, Greater London
Once upon a time there was a girl, innocent by looks, filthy by nature. :kissing_heart: If you are interested in messaging me then please read the below generic responses: "Hey sexy" Hello and goodbye. "How are you?" I'm really good thank you. "Do you want to have some fun?" Only if there is an intense mental connection first. "What are your biggest kinks?" Being controlled inside and outside of the bedroom, restraint, impact play, breath play and extended orgasm denial over days/weeks. "What's your fantasy?" That Wentworth Miller wasn't gay. That guy is hot! If you have further questions past that then do message 9_9
Female (33) Leeds, West Yorkshire
✨Hello & welcome to my VERIFIED profile! You have permission to message me. However, please be mindful that I am a complete stranger until you get to know me. DO NOT present in my messages asking me to observe you on cam, or with a shopping list of what you would like me to do to you! Any such actions will result in you being immediately blocked. Have I made myself clear? I AM an experienced, natural LIFESTYLE DOMME I have been in the lifestyle for a long time. I have extremely high standards. I am on here to make like minded friends only. I am not on here seeking a date. Or to hook up. I am NOT a kink dispenser. NOT a sex worker/pro domme/ Fin domme. I offer NO services/sessions whosoever. I have NO tribute list or OF ( I earn my money respectfully and buy my own things!). I am NOT YOUR goddess, miss or mistress. You may refer to me as Mezmerism or M unless I instruct otherwise. Vanilla me likes: Going The gym, cooking, walking, watching, documentaries and people watching! ? What I look like: I have long blonde hair, 5’6 36H natural boobs! Curvy( not fat) Pale skin, Blue eyes, Size 6 feet, Softly spoken( well, most of the time! ??). I look like butter wouldn’t melt I’ve been told! If I don’t reply, please don’t take it personally. I receive a lot of messages! ⚠️ WARNING: You DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and copyright, and you will be subject to legal ramifications. Permission is explicitly denied for any republication of videos or photographs appearing online anywhere without my prior written consent. ⚠️
I am a submissive female recently become free. Not 100% sure what I want next if I am honest, I think it depends if I feel the right click, after all it is all about chemistry. I have a very open mind about most things and have a lot to learn. The one thing I crave more than anything is discipline without it I get bored and become a brat, when I become a brat I am unhappy.
I thought that as I got older my libido would diminish, no such luck. I have an insatiable sex drive, coupled with a high pain threshold and desire to please and be pleased by the male and female form.
Female (60) London, Greater London
very inexperienced with BDSM curious to find what my interests are bit shy and awkward but say hi! (:
Female (19) Abbeydore, Herefordshire
NOT LOOKING FOR A PARTNER! Just wanna have some conversations with like minded individuals. ♡ I will not respond to faceless people ♡ I'm fun-loving, carefree and love video games... hence the name haha! Drop a message if ya wanna have a chat!
Female (28) Glasgow, Scotland
I'm brand new to the lifestyle but have been thinking about it for years. Please be bright and funny. Ultimately looking for a Dom to explore kinks and fantasies but also someone who wants to share conventional life goals eventually- commitment, kids etc. If you want to know more ask. I won't bite unless I'm feeling bratty x
Female (34) Cotswold, Gloucestershire
i’m not particularly looking for anything specific just entertaining people who like what i like if you understand the two meanings to my username then i love you you’re funny
Female (18) Oldham, Lancashire
A Kitten With A Tiger Attitude Like CNC / Somnophilia / Witchcraft All Photographs Are Copyrighted. 2022-Present Day Please Do Not Use Them Without Consent. Foxy ?
Female (44) Lincoln, Lincolnshire
Thought id best write a little something here tho i doubt many take the time to read it! Im not here looking for anything other than friendship, im a social lil bean you'll quite often find me at the Bristol munch which i have the pleasure of co-hosting or swamp causing mayhem in the dungeon with a rubber chicken or 2. I’m extremely blessed with some amazing people around me friends that ive met here that i couldnt imagine life without now, one of those being my Partner! I’m more often than not the loud gobby wiggling one surrounded by jager bombs and dancing or singing (badly) to whatever happens to be on the hatchet jukebox. So nope not looking for play, hook ups, sexts all my needs are well taken care of and the tattoo on my arse reads “Heart of a saint, Mind of a sinner but my love is pure” so no need to message and ask that either lol.
***** please start messages with a hello or something similar ******* submissive in the bedroom not neccassarily in chat, female looking to tick off some curiosities, extreme bondage and cnc, to see if they become a regularly in my kinky sex life or not. Ideally a Dom/me with experience to guide me into what I’m yet to experience and fully abuse and use me with what I do enjoy doing. Outside of my kinks I’m down to earth just tryna have fun. Big nerd at heart. Ideally a Dom/me who is OLDER than me please. Also interested in couples if at least one Dom/me in the dynamic. Any questions feel free to message or spank me if you can’t message first. please open with a hello not a scenario!!
Female (28) London, Greater London
Hi hi everyone! I’d love to make some new friends and chat with people who like the same stuff I do as I don’t have many friends :gift_heart: xx
tattooed and pierced plus sized elder goth trying to find myself again and make a few like minded friends along the way
Female (46) Bournemouth, Dorset
This might be a kink site, but manners are still important. If you don’t have any, and can’t have a conversation outside of your sexual interests, don’t message me. I haven’t put any roles on my profile, as I don’t really fit any of them very well and don’t enjoy the presumption that seems to come with the labels. I’m not your baby girl, not your slave or your princess OR your mistress and you, are definitely NOT my dominant, so no, I will not call you Sir or Daddy, or anything else on demand. Submission is earned, if it’s given at all. If you don’t understand that, again, please don’t message me. I’m not looking for sessions or a fling, I’d ideally like to meet someone I have a genuine connection with, for a mainly vanilla based relationship (doing vanilla things together) with lots of kinky, none vanilla, amazing sex. On that note, I’m going to say have fun, be safe and remember…bad manners are a cock block! ? **Desires and Fantasies** my fantasies will come out when my naughty side does, you just need banter to find it ;-)
I'm a sub naturally, with a pleasing kink. I'm looking for someone with a Dominant & a Sadistic nature to stimulate me mentally and physically. Not looking for anything too serious just someone to have fun with on a regular basis
Female (29) Leeds, West Yorkshire
Little and slightly into verbal and physical humiliation during play. Not into whips/canes. Horse hair floggers considered and love cutesy things. own mind own opinions own choices. Monogamous. Do not share.
Female (51) Medway City Estate, Kent
hello there:) thanks for checking out my profile I won't just tell you what I'm after right away with the amount of fake "Dom's" on here lol I'm fun, plus sized, a mother and can be shy at times. anything else feel free to message me and find out if you are looking for NSA don't waste my time messaging me
Female (32) Renfrewshire, Scotland
Wanting to explore the Kink world, I am finding mainstream dating boring, Im an excellent Dom but can switch. I want to find someone to build up a relationship with and explore more Dom-Sub dynamic with me being the Sub. few people have managed to make me submit to them... I'm a bratt but once I submit I absolutely love the power exchange and want my limits to be tested. I am a single Mum to a 15 year old but im more than just a mum...
Female (33) Maidstone, Kent
dark and twisted but scared of the dark ? wishlist for those who want to spoil me: https://www.amazon.co.uk/hz/wishlist/ls/1EYFMS08JMZRH?ref_=wl_share
Female (27) Hyndburn, Lancashire
I'm a autassassinophilia & Masochist Love knife play & blood play Love CNC Love to be dominated, humiliated, degraded,choked & mind fucks..I need to be used and abused I'm very submissive These are non negotiable, I'm not satisfied without it
Before we start I would like to say I am happily in a relationship and am not searching for anything. Any photos of my toys on here are bought from reputable people if you want to know where from just send me a message of which one and I’ll get back to you on it. I thought it was time for a proper bio. I am a female Dom and I go by male titles but that is to be earnt not given freely. My pronouns are generally She/Her but I answer to most things. My favourite quote proverbs 17:17 - A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for a time of adversity. Hello everyone my name is Lion. I have decided it’s time to update this bio and give it a proper go, that being said I am not seeking a relationship but if it just so happens that I connect with someone it is a possibility. I recently came to terms with my past and accepted that the lack of controls I held over myself, my anger and my emotions when I was younger does not define who I am today. From this I have come to realise that I have the ability to adapt to any situation and overcome previous adversities in order to become a good, kind and fair dominant. I have realised that I hold the power to do what is right, to do what is in the best interest of my sub and the strength to know when to walk away, to distance myself from a situation that’s causing a negative reaction to ensure I keep both the sub in question and myself safe and unharmed mentally and physically. Due to only just having come to terms with myself I have very little experience when it comes to dominating an individual, but I have had a few past relationships where I was the one on the receiving end of the D/s dynamic. From this I know what it is like to be the one on the receiving end of the dynamic and I will do everything I can to fulfil both the desires of myself and the sub under me at that point. I have been in the lifestyle now for 3 almost 4 years and have made some great friends through it that I turn to when I need help or guidance. I am a naturally strict and dominant person when it comes to general manners, etiquette, respect and rules but I am also a very playful person at the same time and have been described in the past as a bratty Dom. When it comes to what I want from my submissive I would never expect them to do something that I myself would not do and when it comes to toys and play I would never do anything I haven’t both tried on myself prior and without proper demonstration on how to use it safely. There are many things that I am interested in trying in the future but I am not going to disclose them within this bio as there is no fun in telling everything before a good conversation. With that being said I am going to leave the bio here it may change again at a later point but for now thank you for reading. Lion
Female (22) Flintshire, Wales
It is of paramount importance that spontaneous and meaningful conversations be had outside of the FET message portal due to latency If secrecy is top priority then app teIegram allow for automatic deletion of conversation history This demonstrates a degree of trust and commitment to a serious BDSM relationship. I will want to ask lots of questions at the beginning to find out about you. I will require your full and frank engagement in this process if you've read to the end then I know you have a degree of seriousness & commitment so will hope to speak soon!
Female (32) London, Greater London

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Once upon a time there was a girl, innocent by looks, filthy by nature. :kissing_heart: If you are interested in messaging me then please read the below generic responses: "Hey sexy" Hello and goodbye. "How are you?" I'm really good thank you. "Do you want to have some fun?" Only if there is an intense mental connection first. "What are your biggest kinks?" Being controlled inside and outside of the bedroom, restraint, impact play, breath play and extended orgasm denial over days/weeks. "What's your fantasy?" That Wentworth Miller wasn't gay. That guy is hot! If you have further questions past that then do message 9_9
Female (33) Leeds, West Yorkshire
✨Hello & welcome to my VERIFIED profile! You have permission to message me. However, please be mindful that I am a complete stranger until you get to know me. DO NOT present in my messages asking me to observe you on cam, or with a shopping list of what you would like me to do to you! Any such actions will result in you being immediately blocked. Have I made myself clear? I AM an experienced, natural LIFESTYLE DOMME I have been in the lifestyle for a long time. I have extremely high standards. I am on here to make like minded friends only. I am not on here seeking a date. Or to hook up. I am NOT a kink dispenser. NOT a sex worker/pro domme/ Fin domme. I offer NO services/sessions whosoever. I have NO tribute list or OF ( I earn my money respectfully and buy my own things!). I am NOT YOUR goddess, miss or mistress. You may refer to me as Mezmerism or M unless I instruct otherwise. Vanilla me likes: Going The gym, cooking, walking, watching, documentaries and people watching! ? What I look like: I have long blonde hair, 5’6 36H natural boobs! Curvy( not fat) Pale skin, Blue eyes, Size 6 feet, Softly spoken( well, most of the time! ??). I look like butter wouldn’t melt I’ve been told! If I don’t reply, please don’t take it personally. I receive a lot of messages! ⚠️ WARNING: You DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and copyright, and you will be subject to legal ramifications. Permission is explicitly denied for any republication of videos or photographs appearing online anywhere without my prior written consent. ⚠️
I thought that as I got older my libido would diminish, no such luck. I have an insatiable sex drive, coupled with a high pain threshold and desire to please and be pleased by the male and female form.
Female (60) London, Greater London
I am a submissive female recently become free. Not 100% sure what I want next if I am honest, I think it depends if I feel the right click, after all it is all about chemistry. I have a very open mind about most things and have a lot to learn. The one thing I crave more than anything is discipline without it I get bored and become a brat, when I become a brat I am unhappy.
BDSM and the fetish scene have been a big part of my life for more than a decade. Initially, it was just for fun, but I enjoyed it so much that I ended up doing it professionally - all you have to do is look for Goddess Ruby Rousson. Recently, I've been more into hedonism, playing around with sensations, pleasure, and pain, rather than identifying solely as a Sadistic Domme. Don't get me wrong, I still love my canes, paddles, and floggers, but I have a love for how a few words and a light touch can turn someone into putty in my hands. My kinks vary depending on who I'm playing with and the dynamics we share, and there are more fetishes in my repertoire than what I've listed (I've only included those that sprang to mind first). I’m relatively open-minded when it comes to kinks, and I've encountered a lot of fetishes over the years. Right now, I'm looking for like-minded kinky folks and accessible events. I'm open to finding a play partner, but I'm not actively searching for one; just keeping my eyes open for someone I click with. Outside of kink, I run a few websites, start conversations, educate myself when curious, enjoy learning new instruments, am a bit of a nerd, and read/write copious amounts of fiction. Goddess Ruby Rousson
Female (30) London, Greater London
Not looking for online play, or long distance. Not looking for a slave either. Strictly sub here..quit trying to make me switch. Don't have snapchat. Don't give my number out. Other than the above, and my limits, I'm an absolute delight ??
I’m an ambitious and irreverent submissive woman searching for a wickedly sharp, but gentle Dom. Nothing beats the serenity of wholly submitting to a person that I love and trust. I’m on the hunt for dark humour, in-jokes and shared experiences. Ideally I’d like to progress our relationship to a wide array of interesting minor sex injuries to spice up my week. I’d love for you to have hobbies that you’re passionate about, and to listen to me raving about mine with a similar enthusiasm. I’m an unashamed nerd that spends a lot of time outside. I enjoy hiking, climbing, films, and gaming, though science will always be my first love. I share my home with my Bengal cat Magnus, and a Milksnake called Noodle. I was under the impression that my Milksnake would bring all the boys to the yard, but so far I've had a mixed response. **I am child free. I don't hate children, I just don't plan to have any.**
Female (35) Swansea, Wales
Newly peaked and learning that the fantasies I've had most of my life are actually part of BDSM. Hers to meet others and explore my kinks and limits.
Female (32) Cambridge, Cambridgeshire
I like small animals, I love adventure, and I also like the sea. Free diving will be a great hobby of mine. I go to the gym three times a week and keep yoga practice for the other 4 days. I am a girl with self-discipline and a strong time concept.
Female (35) Renfrewshire, Scotland
I'm just starting my adventure in this dark corner of the web. I am looking to learn new and exciting skills and experience and am willing to experiment in most areas. I just require a dominant master who is willing to teach me. My desire is to be dominated well. love rock and metal music but also various other genres. I have tattoos and piercings on various parts of my body. I believe I'm easy going and fun to be around.
Female (43) Bridgend, Wales
Fully equipped BDSM house in Belfast: sex swing spanking bench whipping bench gynaecologist chair orgasm slave tower CBT stand St Andrew’s style wall board bondage table chains stocks for fucking machine queening/toilet chair Other equipment: various restraints (soft, hard, heavy leather, soft leather, collars, arm and leg restraints, etc.), bondage bag, fucking machine (compatible with vac-U-lock attachments), penis and pussy pumps, various dildos and vibrators in different shapes and sizes, Doxy, prostate massagers/anal toys, butt plugs and dildos, strap-on harnesses, chastities (metal, pink , black), needles, syringes, bags for breath play, chains, ropes, cock rings, fist arm, cupping kit, electro kit, hoods, floggers, crops, tawses, collars and leashes, blow up sex doll, various CBT devices, burdizzo, metal clamps, urethra sounds, weights, boxing gloves, masks, foldable mat (to put on the floor), ABDL (bottles, dummies, baby food, colouring books, onsie, nappies, baby oil, baby powder), and more… Sissy boudoir – pink chamber -> There is a make up dresser full of make up and everything else that a girl needs to look pretty! Fake eyelashes, nails, lipsticks and lipglosses, foundations, glitter, fake boobs, wigs. There is a rail of clothes and different uniforms, corsets, fancy lingerie, heels… There is fully equipped kitchen (gas cooker, oven, fridge, freezer, glasses, plates, cutlery, glasses, pots, pans) and bathroom with shower and bathtub. Fresh linen and towels provided.
Female (26) Ballysillan, Belfast
Hello there, I am to be addressed as Mistress or Mistress Maya Poison at all times. I am a sadistic and seductive dominatrix that derives pleasure in tormenting you into sweet and eager submission. Do you have what it takes to serve me?
Female (31) Bristol, City of Bristol
I’m single very honest understanding person I’m here to search for love and I’m able and willing to verify my self and do anything for the good man
Female (35) London, Greater London
Hi girls I'm lynz am a chubby lesbian girl who loves dressing up who used to be straight but now am into girls and myself only. I've been into girls for 14 years now and NO MEN WILL GET 2 TALK TO ME OR TOUCH MY BODY AT ALL. By “myself” I mean I love to get high it makes me so horny that edging, sharing my pics, looking at porn and chatting with the right person can feel better than sex. Love to ruin and deny my own orgasms, each time I do it I get wetter, more swollen and more sensitive. I don’t have edging sessions all the time. I love being a sweaty mess, soaked in my own juices just teasing my clit with a finger and clenching my pelvic floor muscles if I get too close to cumming before I’m ready. I love watching mostly other solo girls, teens exploring their bodies, lesbians. I’ve been rubbing myself to vids here for years. Love to chat dirty with other women and I love knowing when another woman sees any part of my naked body. Especially my pusssy n asshole! And I love butt stuff, I love dressing up every day with my high heeled boots and shoes with butt plugs into me and love taking pics and videos for the my sexy filthy girls :-))) Love trying new things also I attended 2 try new things what you desire me 2 do. IM LOOKING FORWARD TO SEEING OR HEARING FROM YOU GIRLS. maybe you could be the girl for me for eva:-)))) Xxxx
Female (38) Durham, Durham
I'd like to find a man who's into ddlg. Not looking a very dominant man who want a sub and follow orders for him. More like a genuine, kinky guy with a freaky mind. I'm into more things, if we having a conversation I'm sure will be revealed.
Female (35) London, Greater London
Bi curious 38 female that keeps getting more and more curious regarding beautiful woman and also beautiful transfemales (even without the full sex change as long as the effort as really been made for the female transition) I want to find someone who is confident enough to show me what I feel I've been missing and really show what it's like to have my desires as true reality..
Female (38) Torbay, Devon
I am a super sized beautiful woman, yes a big girl who has a lot of care to give to the right person, need someone who can keep up with my high sex drive and not shy away from any naughty ideas. Want someone who I can chat with and have good banter and laugh with, do love a cuddly man something to grab hold of. Looking for someone between the ages of 50 to 59. Don't be shy to message me.
Female (51) Knowsley, Merseyside
a new sub looking for the right daddy to put me in my place when I’m being a brat! I’ll push buttons and be cheeky but always do what I’m told in the end! I don’t have any pictures on here out of choice for my security ;)
Female (28) Blackburn, Lancashire
Single (recently) kind of a newbie. Tried a couple of these type of sites but still to be convinced - can you convince me!
Female (45) Bristol, City of Bristol
I'm in no way new to the scene, just to this app. But Holy fuck!!! It's like being fed to the damn lions. Some behaviour here is disgusting!!! I promise I'm really not your worst nightmare. Those who decide to take the time to read this will understand. I found kink a good few years ago. But the short time I've been on this app has showed me how cruel people can be when disingenuous. I'm just a submissive looking to find a single Dominant/Domme or happy to be a unicorn for a genuine couple. I have been hounded since joining this app and its horrible and cruel. Happy to share photos on request.
Female (40) Aberdeen, Scotland
Hi hi everyone! I’d love to make some new friends and chat with people who like the same stuff I do as I don’t have many friends :gift_heart: xx
I’d say im shy but once you get to know me I’m funny love 4/20 and can’t stand people who can’t laugh away there trauma life sucks let’s at-least laugh about it
Female (24) Great Yarmouth, Norfolk
***** please start messages with a hello or something similar ******* submissive in the bedroom not neccassarily in chat, female looking to tick off some curiosities, extreme bondage and cnc, to see if they become a regularly in my kinky sex life or not. Ideally a Dom/me with experience to guide me into what I’m yet to experience and fully abuse and use me with what I do enjoy doing. Outside of my kinks I’m down to earth just tryna have fun. Big nerd at heart. Ideally a Dom/me who is OLDER than me please. Also interested in couples if at least one Dom/me in the dynamic. Any questions feel free to message or spank me if you can’t message first. please open with a hello not a scenario!!
Female (28) London, Greater London
I’m looking for an intelligent, dominant male who will not be threatened by a relatively clever sub with a career and very much in control in the professional arena. Someone I can have fun with and have an equal relationship with in some situations. But also someone who will take control, allow me to relinquish power, and punish me, restrain me, or cause me pain or discomfort, when appropriate. N.B. Appropriate reasons for punishment/pain/restraint include: - Needing to relax (me or you) - My behaviour has been poor (genuine punishment) - My behaviour has been excellent (reward punishment) - Because you decide I should be punished
Female (44) Cambridge, Cambridgeshire

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