Find kinky women in London

The most dangerous thing about Me isn’t what I do, it’s how easily you’ll want it. I don’t bark. I don’t chase. I command with a whisper, and often, with nothing at all. Most obey before they even realise they’ve submitted. I’ve existed within the fetish world for over a decade. What began as curiosity became deep practice, and a precise understanding of how power moves between people. Some of you already know who I am. If not, you will. I am a creator. A Domme. **The Madame.** I don’t merely create content, I engineer conditions for exquisite surrender. I’ve produced over 1,000 full-length videos and audio confessions, each designed to draw you deeper, reveal what you crave, and let you choose how far you’ll fall. Personally, My style - My dynamic, evolves with the mind I’m shaping. I don’t inflict sensation for spectacle, I delight in what’s offered in reverence. Mind games. Chastity. Silent suggestion. Denial. Restraint. Curiosity becomes obedience. Obedience becomes pleasure. And pleasure becomes devotion. Devotion, when desperately, _freely_, given, tastes the sweetest. Beyond the screen, I run multiple companies, shape creative ecosystems, and study everything from strategy to sound, systems to seduction. I’m enthralled by My own life and what I create within it. My hours are claimed by purpose, not distraction. But I’m always watching for the rare few who can match Me, and earn their place beside what I’m building. Because I build self-sustaining ecosystems that will change the world. If you found Me through another mask, business, leadership, the voice of FemDom command, know this: You weren’t lost. Your curiosity led you here. And if you return to Me, in any context, I’ll know. UK-based (not London). Inbox: _Crowded._ Choose your words wisely. You’ll kneel long before I ever ask. You won’t know when it started. _Only that you never want it to end._
Female (32) London, Greater London
Hi loves, I found this site by accident lol but thought hey why not sign up. I have always wanted to experiment more and look into this side of myself more as BDSM has always fascinated me. I'm pretty new at this and am looking for new experiences and eager to learn a thing or two if anyone is willing to teach me 😉
Female (18) London, Greater London
Type A and strong in my day to day, needing to submit for praise and pleasure. Nothing gets me going like talking me into a worked up mess. The fantasy is to be able to submit to someone strong and dominant who appreciates my obedience. I'll do as I'm told if it gets me what I want, and I want to please as much as feel good myself. Make the things I read about that get me hot a reality, and I'll know I've found what I'm looking for.
Female (34) London, Greater London
I am a commanding, powerful, and sensual dominatrix who thrives on control, discipline, and the art of submission. With a magnetic presence and unwavering authority, I captivate my submissives, guiding them into obedience and devotion. My style blends elegance with strictness, ensuring my subs feel both desired and dominated. I value loyalty, respect, and absolute surrender, rewarding dedication while punishing disobedience. Skilled in psychological and physical domination, I take pleasure in molding my submissives into devoted slaves. My energy is intoxicating, my will unbreakable, and my dominance leaves an unforgettable mark on all who serve me. I demand complete surrender.
Female (48) London, Greater London
I am a woman who speaks desire like a native tongue: its low ember, its razor-sharp rhythm, its ability to command a room without raising a voice. I don’t chase; I draw. Every step I take is deliberate, every glance calculated, every silence loaded. Grace is my weapon, intensity my crown. I have no interest in boys who stumble or men who posture. I claim the rare one: a man whose confidence is quiet steel, whose purpose cuts clean through noise, whose hunger matches mine measure for measure. He doesn’t ask for entry; he earns it. He doesn’t beg for control; he meets mine and raises the stakes. What I offer is absolute: a connection carved from raw truth, forged in unbreakable trust, electrified by relentless exploration. No games, no masks, no half-lit moments. Only depth that drowns the shallow, authenticity that shatters illusion, and a chemistry so fierce it brands itself on bone. If you can stand in that fire without flinching, if you can hold my gaze while the world burns around us, then step forward. The throne beside mine has been empty for a reason. Prove you’re the one worthy to claim it.
Female (34) London, Greater London
I am an experienced, strict yet sensual Mistress who thrives on control, discipline, and devotion. I expect respect, obedience, and effort from those who wish to serve me. I enjoy training submissives to understand their place, pushing limits safely, and creating intense, unforgettable sessions filled with power exchange, elegance, and authority. I value loyalty, consistency, and honesty above all else talk is cheap, actions prove your worth. What I Enjoy Obedience training & protocol Worship (body, feet, heels, ass) CBT, spanking, flogging, paddling Bondage & restraint Feminisation & sissification *** & *** (verbal, physical, psychological) Chastity control Roleplay & tasks Service (domestic & personal)
Female (52) London, Greater London
I love laughter, flirting that comes naturally, and meeting people who bring positive energy.
Female (25) London, Greater London
I frequently travel between the United States and Europe, and I am looking for a gentleman in Europe to develop a long-term relationship with
Female (39) London, Greater London
currently looking to make friends, to have some fun and to find potential love. I identify as a queer woman (trans and pansexual). very kinky with experience as a domme. would like to try being submissive though. open to any and all messages x
Female (32) London, Greater London
Experienced, confident, and deeply passionate about BDSM. I value obedience, loyalty, and mutual respect. Skilled in roleplay, bondage, and worship, I thrive on power exchange, pushing boundaries, and creating intense, unforgettable experiences.
Female (40) London, Greater London
I am Mistress Athena I've been in the lifestyle for over 8 years I am looking for female or male Submissive/Slave Things i enjoy are Candle wax, ice-cubes, bondage, whipping, flogger, riding crop, spanking, cock cage or chastity wear, cum denial, nipple clamps, using toys, CNC, ***, pegging. For more information if you just want to watch content i have an onlyfans accout Only interested in people aged over 35 And live in London
Female (44) London, Greater London
Looking forward to fun interactions! Not yet sure what I want so you can text me about anything, I’ll promise to respond like a good girl. What I can say for sure is that I’m submissive from nature and need someone to guide me in life. I’m also a virgin so if that’s a problem for you don’t text me. I can be a lot of fun for a dom who wants an unexperienced sub whom they can mold. So sir if that sound like you hit me up🤭(I only do online sorry)
Female (19) London, Greater London
Hey x, so I'm going to keep adding to this as I'm still pretty new here & I'm learning day by day. I also understand that clarity and an open line of communication are key. we had a bash last year but couldn't find what we were looking for and bowed out. I'm hoping this time we'll be more successful 😉 😜 I'm a pretty chilled kind of lady, who just wants to explore my fun, naughty, bratty side, I'm looking for an older, more experienced Bull for a hotwife scenario. someone who knows what he's doing, absolutely no degrading or ***. I want to be led not to lead. I'm not into being verbally or physically bulled. A caring Dom with a wicked sense of humour and a firm hand 🍑 ✋️ it’s important to understand I’m married & my husband will play role but not physically anything that happens here my hubby will have a say so. A proper connection will need to be established as this whole experience is based on trust, and it's hard to trust someone you don't know. I'm not into anything illegal, unethical, or unhygienic.
Female (43) London, Greater London
Looking for an experienced Dom who can deal with my sarcasm and put me in my place but also gently guide me Really into the mental side of being dominated (and obvs the physical haha) Can be shy at first so need to feel comfortable to open up
Female (21) London, Greater London
Hello ✨ Welcome to the profile of a shy but very desperate girl! I don't have much experience, but I'm eager to try and learn! And I hope you'll be patient with teaching me too :) I aspire to become the perfect little fuckdoll and an obedient submissive for someone. I'm very soft and affectionate, cuddly and overall just caring and empathetic person. But I'm not looking for a relationship or permanent dynamic, so don't expect that you will own me. I love anime, games, alternative fashion, cosplay, and I’m more than happy to incorporate that into play and fulfil your fantasies :) I would love to meet in person or chat on discord and enjoy a few glasses of fun-drinks with you ? So feel free to DM me anytime! I do get a lot of requests though, so try poking me one more time if you really want to chat. But be warned! I’m really new into all of this, like, almost no experience, so may I ask you to be patient with me and teach me how to be a good girl ? Hope to hear from you soon! Cheers! 160 cm/ 5’2 52 kg/ 114 pounds 07/07/2002
Female (23) London, Greater London
I am open to just chatting online but not to sure on meeting up just yet Looking to date someone who is also kinky. Looking for companionship and maybe a relationship further down the line. Not interested in being someone's Slave. I obviously would also like someone to be able to help fulfill my kinks too. Who wants to help fulfill my kinks? **Desires and Fantasies** My motto is No condom No sex. If you can't or won't wear one. Please don't message me! I am a Masochist. Quite open minded and have a few kinks. I do also have my limits as most do. If you want to know which are which, ask me! Sorry this isn't very detailed. I'm just not very good describing things.
Female (35) London, Greater London
Hey, My Domme side is looking for Content Subs/Slaves to serve for a range of kinks including pet play, impact play, facesitting, farting, foot worship ect. the more humiliating the hotter. I'm a strict but sensual Domme I'm a full switch. However, playing the Domme role doesn't make me orgasm but it does give me a mental release. I was actually submissive a lot longer before exploring my Domme side. I have experience as a sub but only within my kinks- mainly facesitting, ***, rimming & deep throat I'm happy to join a couple as a Domme to dominate one of the partners together
Female (37) London, Greater London
I'm nerdy and love Dnd and mtg. I love music and singing as well. I'm curious, playful, a bit shy, and love to serve. No FWB or casual connections. I'm demisexual and looking for a relationship with a kinky aspect.
Female (26) London, Greater London
I'm a professional business woman, looking to meet someone for extra spicy fun times, ideally a FWB NSA type thing, something that can develop into a trusting connection allowing us to explore each others kinks, desires, fantasies and even some of the darker things we don't tell everyone we want. I'm tall 5'10 barefoot in my heels I easily stand 6'2 having a guy that is taller than me is a turn on, as I can then feel properly over-powered. I have curves, but that also means I have a decent pair of tits and according to feedback a cracking good ass! Haha Long blonde hair, great for grabbing hold of! I'm very submissive sexually, love turning up as my usual control freak and then letting go, giving control to you, and submitting myself to you, being yours for that time, for you to with as you please. I love being tied up, pinned down or against a wall, just restrained in any fashion really. I do enjoy being spanked and I enjoy impact play. I'm looking for someone to push my boundaries, show me new things, guiding me, getting the most out of me and hopefully I can help you fulfil some of your kinks, desires & fantasies.
Female (38) London, Greater London
Fun, easy going, curvy woman looking to find a dom to tame me. I'm tired of constant vanilla and want kink in my life. Not really looking for ONS, more a regular thing to play out our desires and fantasies.
Female (44) London, Greater London
Me in a nutshell, 5'2 (AND A HALF) chunky, and constantly changing my hair, I like to think of myself as an always evolving person as I learn more about myself, and myself in kink. I consider myself an emotionally mature person, so I tune into people and how they feel quite easily and love to talk and explore the depths of emotions. Where a feeling sparked and the chain of emotions after. I enjoy deeper conversations and genuine connections with people. I have always had a love of many different types of things, singing being at the forefront as my favourite way to feel chill and just shake things off my brain. Walking, hikes, cycling, I really love the feeling of wind and rain. Collecting postcards/cards with art on them, all unique and beautiful. I love seeing so much individuality in artists. I live to explore, feel, be creative, and discover beautiful things and people. On the more so kinky side of the spectrum, I am a baby at heart. With a 'golden hoard' of treasures, being stuffies, blankets, and really pretty candles. I'm soft and would do anything for a cuddle, well nearly anything. I can range from being little to a middle, and I'm also a pet. Primarily a fox, with a little hint of kitten. Lastly and finally I am also a masochist, slowly but surely working my way up to experiencing more things.
Female (25) London, Greater London
Quite new to the scene and still figuring it out. In a relationship with a gorgeous submissive pet/slave but very curious about the other side. Who knows what the sub hiding inside me can achieve?? Everything is to have fun 😊 Mature guys only please, 45ish and over.
Female (52) London, Greater London
I’m mostly on FL now, so I don’t check messages on here, unless we are already friends. if you check on FL you will see what events I attend. Who am I: I am Kinky Tiger, but you can call me Miss Tiger (She/her). I’m a blogger first and a TOP after. What do I do: I blog about of all things kinky, fetish, sex, BDSM, fashion, and whatnot (since 2018). I am London-based but sometimes I travel, and I like to meet like-minded people. Please note: I am NOT A SUB or a SWITCH. So, Doms out there, STOP asking me to be your sub. How to contact me online: have we met? I don’t like random messages, especially with no introduction. I find that INCREDIBLY rude.
Female (40) London, Greater London
An automatic assumption for physical / sexual intimacy turns me off as much as folks who don't read my profile before messaging me. I look forward to the first meet at my local munch in Romford, Essex. I am a very experienced LiFESTYLE Dominant Sadist Woman and am currently looking around only at the moment to see who chats. I will seek a submissive guy for munches together, where he drives & has a car, for something long term, maybe more. In my view a submissive guy needs to accept Me as Boss in daily life, play and the bedroom. Be aware of this when approaching me. Please drive/have your own car. NO NEWBIES
Female (54) London, Greater London

New members in London

The most dangerous thing about Me isn’t what I do, it’s how easily you’ll want it. I don’t bark. I don’t chase. I command with a whisper, and often, with nothing at all. Most obey before they even realise they’ve submitted. I’ve existed within the fetish world for over a decade. What began as curiosity became deep practice, and a precise understanding of how power moves between people. Some of you already know who I am. If not, you will. I am a creator. A Domme. **The Madame.** I don’t merely create content, I engineer conditions for exquisite surrender. I’ve produced over 1,000 full-length videos and audio confessions, each designed to draw you deeper, reveal what you crave, and let you choose how far you’ll fall. Personally, My style - My dynamic, evolves with the mind I’m shaping. I don’t inflict sensation for spectacle, I delight in what’s offered in reverence. Mind games. Chastity. Silent suggestion. Denial. Restraint. Curiosity becomes obedience. Obedience becomes pleasure. And pleasure becomes devotion. Devotion, when desperately, _freely_, given, tastes the sweetest. Beyond the screen, I run multiple companies, shape creative ecosystems, and study everything from strategy to sound, systems to seduction. I’m enthralled by My own life and what I create within it. My hours are claimed by purpose, not distraction. But I’m always watching for the rare few who can match Me, and earn their place beside what I’m building. Because I build self-sustaining ecosystems that will change the world. If you found Me through another mask, business, leadership, the voice of FemDom command, know this: You weren’t lost. Your curiosity led you here. And if you return to Me, in any context, I’ll know. UK-based (not London). Inbox: _Crowded._ Choose your words wisely. You’ll kneel long before I ever ask. You won’t know when it started. _Only that you never want it to end._
Female (32) London, Greater London
I love laughter, flirting that comes naturally, and meeting people who bring positive energy.
Female (25) London, Greater London
Hi loves, I found this site by accident lol but thought hey why not sign up. I have always wanted to experiment more and look into this side of myself more as BDSM has always fascinated me. I'm pretty new at this and am looking for new experiences and eager to learn a thing or two if anyone is willing to teach me 😉
Female (18) London, Greater London
Just a switch looking for fun new experiences and excited to learn more about my kinks. Outgoing and a bit of a book nerd, looking for someone to have fun with. I'm bisexual, but mainly looking for women and couples to connect with right now. And a female friend to go to some bdsm clubs or parties to together. Mainly masochist, sadist, and bondage, but very much open to experimentation
Female (22) London, Greater London
Looking forward to fun interactions! Not yet sure what I want so you can text me about anything, I’ll promise to respond like a good girl. What I can say for sure is that I’m submissive from nature and need someone to guide me in life. I’m also a virgin so if that’s a problem for you don’t text me. I can be a lot of fun for a dom who wants an unexperienced sub whom they can mold. So sir if that sound like you hit me up🤭(I only do online sorry)
Female (19) London, Greater London
I am a woman who speaks desire like a native tongue: its low ember, its razor-sharp rhythm, its ability to command a room without raising a voice. I don’t chase; I draw. Every step I take is deliberate, every glance calculated, every silence loaded. Grace is my weapon, intensity my crown. I have no interest in boys who stumble or men who posture. I claim the rare one: a man whose confidence is quiet steel, whose purpose cuts clean through noise, whose hunger matches mine measure for measure. He doesn’t ask for entry; he earns it. He doesn’t beg for control; he meets mine and raises the stakes. What I offer is absolute: a connection carved from raw truth, forged in unbreakable trust, electrified by relentless exploration. No games, no masks, no half-lit moments. Only depth that drowns the shallow, authenticity that shatters illusion, and a chemistry so fierce it brands itself on bone. If you can stand in that fire without flinching, if you can hold my gaze while the world burns around us, then step forward. The throne beside mine has been empty for a reason. Prove you’re the one worthy to claim it.
Female (34) London, Greater London
currently looking to make friends, to have some fun and to find potential love. I identify as a queer woman (trans and pansexual). very kinky with experience as a domme. would like to try being submissive though. open to any and all messages x
Female (32) London, Greater London
I frequently travel between the United States and Europe, and I am looking for a gentleman in Europe to develop a long-term relationship with
Female (39) London, Greater London
Just got married, but we are a cuckold couple, happy to play alone or with hubby in toe. Been on fet before but gone rubbish. Love to meet my long term Dom or master, I'll give anything a go once, have dark side that the right person can get out hehe.
Female (25) London, Greater London
London-based, recently single, and ready to explore what (and who) I’ve been missing. One charming gent already on board, now just looking for the right second to complete the picture. Chemistry, confidence, and a sense of adventure required...
Female (28) London, Greater London
I'm nerdy and love Dnd and mtg. I love music and singing as well. I'm curious, playful, a bit shy, and love to serve. No FWB or casual connections. I'm demisexual and looking for a relationship with a kinky aspect.
Female (26) London, Greater London
hot ex wife looking for fulfilment. ideally looking for BBC to help me…. also bi-curious and would like to explore this side with a willing couple x
Female (43) London, Greater London
Love kinky, reverse harem books. Curious about BDSM, Dom/Sub. Never done anything like it. Like spanking, hands around my throat, biting. Mostly want to know about places where I can explore my curiosity.
Female (33) London, Greater London
I am a commanding, powerful, and sensual dominatrix who thrives on control, discipline, and the art of submission. With a magnetic presence and unwavering authority, I captivate my submissives, guiding them into obedience and devotion. My style blends elegance with strictness, ensuring my subs feel both desired and dominated. I value loyalty, respect, and absolute surrender, rewarding dedication while punishing disobedience. Skilled in psychological and physical domination, I take pleasure in molding my submissives into devoted slaves. My energy is intoxicating, my will unbreakable, and my dominance leaves an unforgettable mark on all who serve me. I demand complete surrender.
Female (48) London, Greater London
I'm a professional business woman, looking to meet someone for extra spicy fun times, ideally a FWB NSA type thing, something that can develop into a trusting connection allowing us to explore each others kinks, desires, fantasies and even some of the darker things we don't tell everyone we want. I'm tall 5'10 barefoot in my heels I easily stand 6'2 having a guy that is taller than me is a turn on, as I can then feel properly over-powered. I have curves, but that also means I have a decent pair of tits and according to feedback a cracking good ass! Haha Long blonde hair, great for grabbing hold of! I'm very submissive sexually, love turning up as my usual control freak and then letting go, giving control to you, and submitting myself to you, being yours for that time, for you to with as you please. I love being tied up, pinned down or against a wall, just restrained in any fashion really. I do enjoy being spanked and I enjoy impact play. I'm looking for someone to push my boundaries, show me new things, guiding me, getting the most out of me and hopefully I can help you fulfil some of your kinks, desires & fantasies.
Female (38) London, Greater London
I am a super charismatic and fun woman, always with a smile on my face. I love spreading my good vibes and making others feel comfortable. I am very committed, I like to be there for those who need me and I always try to be a good companion. I am also a pasta fanatic, I never tire of trying new recipes. And, of course, there is nothing I like more than watching a sunset; that moment always fills me with peace and gratitude.
Female (35) London, Greater London
Virgin fo thid i had srlfish lovers i wanna try everthingfind a playmate forver mate thats like me HORNY AS FUCK SEXEE AS FUCK FILTHY SLUT BUTHE RARE REAL ONE U ALL WILL DESIRE . Oh train my pussy its dedigner tight trained wrt snd i go deep snd hate gag as not sexee so i mase sure i know what will get me the best sexual partner finally
Female (49) London, Greater London
I am a strong-willed woman. I'm ready to fight for love. I am very strong on the outside and very *** on the inside. I'm very comfortable with my own sexuality and aware of my sexual energy as well. Emotional responsibility is always my slave. I have my own sense of style. I am honest, I always have a positive outlook. Life can't always be a bed of roses and at some point in your relationship, you and your partner will disagree. It's completely normal and even inevitable. But a relationship can only work if both partners are willing to compromise. I have a good relationship with my parents. If you want to know what your partner will be like in 30 years, look at their parents. If you want to know how they will treat you in 30 years, look at how they treat their parents now (If any).
Female (38) London, Greater London
I am an experienced, strict yet sensual Mistress who thrives on control, discipline, and devotion. I expect respect, obedience, and effort from those who wish to serve me. I enjoy training submissives to understand their place, pushing limits safely, and creating intense, unforgettable sessions filled with power exchange, elegance, and authority. I value loyalty, consistency, and honesty above all else talk is cheap, actions prove your worth. What I Enjoy Obedience training & protocol Worship (body, feet, heels, ass) CBT, spanking, flogging, paddling Bondage & restraint Feminisation & sissification *** & *** (verbal, physical, psychological) Chastity control Roleplay & tasks Service (domestic & personal)
Female (52) London, Greater London
Experienced, confident, and deeply passionate about BDSM. I value obedience, loyalty, and mutual respect. Skilled in roleplay, bondage, and worship, I thrive on power exchange, pushing boundaries, and creating intense, unforgettable experiences.
Female (40) London, Greater London
Type A and strong in my day to day, needing to submit for praise and pleasure. Nothing gets me going like talking me into a worked up mess. The fantasy is to be able to submit to someone strong and dominant who appreciates my obedience. I'll do as I'm told if it gets me what I want, and I want to please as much as feel good myself. Make the things I read about that get me hot a reality, and I'll know I've found what I'm looking for.
Female (34) London, Greater London
Thank you for checking my profile, I can assure you that your every need will be accommodated. Every fetish and fantasy that could ever have crossed your mind would have been seen and put into practice by me over the years so nothing could shock me. From age play, naughty boys who need a spanking by either the headmistress or over mommy's knee. Adult baby. Needing their time out. Water play, ***d fem, nipple clamps, boot worship, and many more fantasies. If you would like to know more please message me.
Female (37) London, Greater London

New personal ads in London

BDSM/Fetish Family26 to 80 years ● 5km around USA Baltimore

Find kinky women in London

Looking for kinky women in London?
Get ready for a spanking good time! Sign up for free and discover BDSM dates and fetish parties, munches and BDSM clubs in London. Be part of Fetish.com, THE kink-positive community.