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The most dangerous thing about Me isn’t what I do, it’s how easily you’ll want it. I don’t bark. I don’t chase. I command with a whisper, and often, with nothing at all. Most obey before they even realise they’ve submitted. I’ve existed within the fetish world for over a decade. What began as curiosity became deep practice, and a precise understanding of how power moves between people. Some of you already know who I am. If not, you will. I am a creator. A Domme. **The Madame.** I don’t merely create content, I engineer conditions for exquisite surrender. I’ve produced over 1,000 full-length videos and audio confessions, each designed to draw you deeper, reveal what you crave, and let you choose how far you’ll fall. Personally, My style - My dynamic, evolves with the mind I’m shaping. I don’t inflict sensation for spectacle, I delight in what’s offered in reverence. Mind games. Chastity. Silent suggestion. Denial. Restraint. Curiosity becomes obedience. Obedience becomes pleasure. And pleasure becomes devotion. Devotion, when desperately, _freely_, given, tastes the sweetest. Beyond the screen, I run multiple companies, shape creative ecosystems, and study everything from strategy to sound, systems to seduction. I’m enthralled by My own life and what I create within it. My hours are claimed by purpose, not distraction. But I’m always watching for the rare few who can match Me, and earn their place beside what I’m building. Because I build self-sustaining ecosystems that will change the world. If you found Me through another mask, business, leadership, the voice of FemDom command, know this: You weren’t lost. Your curiosity led you here. And if you return to Me, in any context, I’ll know. UK-based (not London). Inbox: _Crowded._ Choose your words wisely. You’ll kneel long before I ever ask. You won’t know when it started. _Only that you never want it to end._
Female (32) London, Greater London
A true Mistress carries herself with quiet authority and absolute confidence. I understand the responsibility that comes with guiding a submissive and I embrace it fully. Power exchange, discipline, and trust form the foundation of the dynamic I offer. Submission is not weakness to me; it is a meaningful gift that deserves respect, direction, and firm but fair control. A devoted Sub should be sincere, reliable, and willing to grow while under my guidance. I am interested in a Sub who values depth and long-term commitment rather than temporary excitement. Someone who respects structure, appreciates guidance, and is prepared to build a lasting connection with a strong and self-assured woman. Outside the dynamic, I appreciate intelligence, thoughtful conversation, and unwavering loyalty. A Sub who chooses to serve me will discover stability, purpose, and a Mistress who expects dedication while rewarding genuine devotion and trust.
Female (51) London, Greater London
Open-minded, curious, and always respectful. I enjoy exploring different sides of kink and connecting with people who are honest about what they like. Communication, trust, and mutual respect are very important to me.
Female (39) London, Greater London
intelligent, articulate, intellectual Alpha Male needed. I would love to experience being truly controlled, commanded and ordered, being given daily tasks and follow rules, and I’d love learning about discipline and submission. I am looking for deep mental stimulation as well as physical. I am looking for structure, routine and to be properly trained and owned. I need a gentlemen that will both cherish me, as well teach me, correct me, punish me and discipline me. Generally, in life, I preform at my best when under pressure. Ideally I am looking for a committed Dom able to teach me obedience and total devotion. I like strict and a firm hand.
Female (51) London, Greater London
I am Mistress Athena I've been in the lifestyle for over 8 years I am looking for female or male Submissive/Slave Things i enjoy are Candle wax, ice-cubes, bondage, whipping, flogger, riding crop, spanking, cock cage or chastity wear, cum denial, nipple clamps, using toys, CNC, ***, pegging. For more information if you just want to watch content i have an onlyfans accout Only interested in people aged over 35 And live in London
Female (44) London, Greater London
I'm mistress who exudes elegance and demands respect. My presence is a tantalizing pull, where pleasure and obedience intertwine. In my world, submission is earned, boundaries are tested, and only the willing are allowed to stay
Female (44) London, Greater London
I'm nerdy and love Dnd and mtg. I love music and singing as well. I'm curious, playful, and love deep chats. Looking to explore being a dominant~ Think you could be a good little sub for me 😉?
Female (27) London, Greater London
Looking for an experienced Dom who can deal with my sarcasm and put me in my place but also gently guide me Really into the mental side of being dominated (and obvs the physical haha) Can be shy at first so need to feel comfortable to open up
Female (21) London, Greater London
Sapiosexual Demisexual Holosexual, Electro-switch :hearts_around: **Desires and Fantasies** My fantasy is that someone will take time to talk to me and get to know me and build a deep connection with me. Maybe even let me sit on their tiramisu and destroy it. I enjoy being the bringer of entropy. And I enjoy being allowed to indulge in that feeling. To make chaos out of order, as it were. As for me day to day, I am into Art, Biology, Botany, Paleontology, Archaeology, Physics. Some of my favourite genres are Horror and Sci-fi. I grow and cook all my own food and compete in those areas for awards. I also love to go to fetish events and compete for best dressed. Always up for some company for a fetish event! Also love photography and am happy to talk about photoshoots.
Female (37) London, Greater London
Thank you for checking my profile, I can assure you that your every need will be accommodated. Every fetish and fantasy that could ever have crossed your mind would have been seen and put into practice by me over the years so nothing could shock me. From age play, naughty boys who need a spanking by either the headmistress or over mommy's knee. Adult baby. Needing their time out. Water play, ***d fem, nipple clamps, boot worship, and many more fantasies. If you would like to know more please message me.
Female (37) London, Greater London
A Domme, heterosexual, and looking for service submissives, sissy (maids), subs, and like minded Dom/mes to befriend, joining me in the domination and *** of men. As well helping me learn so much more to this kink life. Always researching & learning. I'm like a diamond and an onion. There are many sides, layers, hard, and soft aspects of/to me. I may make you cry. Who feels like they're worthy of pleasing this Empress? Are you worth my time and energy? Don't you dare try to waste them! I enjoy socialising, chatting with people, having a laugh, gigs and attending events/munches. HARD LIMITS* Anything to do with ***, race play, age play, ***, vomit, ***, needles, ***, anything illegal, CAPRICORNS, tea, coffee, online Domming, topping from the bottom, NSA, and One Night Stands. **Desires and Fantasies** The main one is to have TOTAL CONTROL of slaves, subs, sissy maids, or TVs/cross dressers. Absolute ownership. There are many more, but you will have to get to know me to find out.
Female (63) London, Greater London
I am an experienced, strict yet sensual Mistress who thrives on control, discipline, and devotion. I expect respect, obedience, and effort from those who wish to serve me. I enjoy training submissives to understand their place, pushing limits safely, and creating intense, unforgettable sessions filled with power exchange, elegance, and authority. I value loyalty, consistency, and honesty above all else talk is cheap, actions prove your worth. What I Enjoy Obedience training & protocol Worship (body, feet, heels, ass) CBT, spanking, flogging, paddling Bondage & restraint Feminisation & sissification *** & *** (verbal, physical, psychological) Chastity control Roleplay & tasks Service (domestic & personal)
Female (52) London, Greater London
I'm Cheryl based in London but spend time in the North west (Liverpool) and the Midlands (Birmingham). I am in an open relationship (Jamie) and were looking to explore and make friends with females or couples, whether it's meeting up for drinks, walks or food etc. We can accommodate and travel also. Please only contact us if you are genuine, honest and clean and are up for laughs.
Female (39) London, Greater London
Apparently people can't read I am a DOMINANT sadist woman who has TWO slaves. NO online play. First topic must be non kink. No play bottoms. An automatic assumption for physical / sexual intimacy turns me off as much as folks who don't read my profile before messaging me. I look forward to the first meet at my local munch in Romford, Essex. I am a very experienced LiFESTYLE Dominant Sadist Woman and am currently looking around only at the moment to see who chats. I will seek a submissive guy for munches together, where he drives & has a car, for something long term, maybe more. In my view a submissive guy needs to accept Me as Boss in daily life, play and the bedroom. Be aware of this when approaching me. Please drive/have your own car. NO NEWBIES
Female (55) London, Greater London
I am open to just chatting online but not to sure on meeting up just yet Looking to date someone who is also kinky. Looking for companionship and maybe a relationship further down the line. Not interested in being someone's Slave. I obviously would also like someone to be able to help fulfill my kinks too. Who wants to help fulfill my kinks? **Desires and Fantasies** My motto is No condom No sex. If you can't or won't wear one. Please don't message me! I am a Masochist. Quite open minded and have a few kinks. I do also have my limits as most do. If you want to know which are which, ask me! Sorry this isn't very detailed. I'm just not very good describing things.
Female (36) London, Greater London
Quite new to the scene and still figuring it out. In a relationship with a gorgeous submissive pet/slave but very curious about the other side. Who knows what the sub hiding inside me can achieve?? Everything is to have fun 😊 Mature guys only please, 45ish and over.
Female (53) London, Greater London
I frequently travel between the United States and Europe, and I am looking for a gentleman in Europe to develop a long-term relationship with
Female (39) London, Greater London
Type A and strong in my day to day, needing to submit for praise and pleasure. Nothing gets me going like talking me into a worked up mess. The fantasy is to be able to submit to someone strong and dominant who appreciates my obedience. I'll do as I'm told if it gets me what I want, and I want to please as much as feel good myself. Make the things I read about that get me hot a reality, and I'll know I've found what I'm looking for.
Female (34) London, Greater London
‘He who wishes to be obeyed must know how to command.’ PLEASE READ AND ONLY CONTACT ME IF YOU FIT MY CRITERIA. Talented Dom/Master needed by sapiosexual unfinished Masterpiece, needing to be claimed and owned IRL. If you have survived extinction, there is an exceptionally well trained creative and artistic Alpha slave/switch, looking for highly skilled, (at least 20+ years experience in The Very Fine Art of Domination), mature, emotionally intelligent, caring Dom/Master over 50. I am looking for a very specific type of Domination with a very precise type of person and not just any good looking, wealthy and well adjusted individual, who wants to play with me, there are many of those around, but very few can deliver on their promises. Cerebral is a must and an academic, politician, writer, psychologist, hypnotherapist, psychiatrist, neuroscientist or someone holding a high profile job, would suit me perfectly. I seek genuine connection, substance, deep psychological play, Intimacy of the Mind and Flesh, a real life interaction with a Dominant man, (not a domineering one). A person who fully understands the responsibility of owning the title of Master, and doesn’t just play the role. I have very high standards and expectations of you and so should you. I am visual and auditory and have a fetish for height so, if under 6’1+ I am not for you. I also have a fetish for elegant, well groomed, eloquent and exceptionally well mannered Alpha Men, so you must look good in a suit/tuxedo. If you can make my brain hurt, my pulse race, my knees wobble, and my butterflies flutter and if you consider yourself to be someone with whom I could potentially explore a sane, caring, 24/7 TPE M/s D/s relationship IRL, (SSC and RACK a must), please make yourself visible to me. Do so with intelligence. Impress me with your intellect and your banter. Can you seduce me me without using ‘The art of seduction’…? If you are up for a challenge and you think you have the knowledge and skills to control me, command me, push me slowly (yet relentlessly), out of my comfort zone, take residence inside my head, own my mind, my body, my soul without using ‘Methods of..’, I am warning you, I seek a slavery without a shelf life, a slavery with terrifying depths. Can you create in me the desire, the willingness to serve you, to worship you, to obey you, to beg you…can you make me yearn to be devoted to you? If so, please let me take care of your needs…and most importantly, don’t overlook mine. Stimulate my intellect to watch me blossom into the slave girl I was possibly born to be for you. Make me seductively crawl to your feet. Mould me like putty, turn me into your vision, allow me to find the best version of myself I could ever hope to be, both as a slave as well as in my life outside kink. Direct me like nobody ever could. Become my Muse, be my Berlin! (Watch Berlin and Angel blue interview on you tube, to understand what it is that I seek and need). I’m not interested in quick hookups or a play mate only. As stated, I switch, I have a very pronounced Dominant side and there is an Insufferable Cunt always ready to come out, at any given chance. If you approach me with a bunch of stupid instructions to follow, before we get to know each other and agree to consensually enter the dynamic, I will ridicule you, embarrass and humiliate you, like you have never experienced before. ***rs will be immediately blocked and reported. Needless to say, if your opening line is ‘Hey’, ‘Hey hey’, ‘Hi gorgeous’, ‘Hey sexy’ ‘Hey how are you’, or anything along those lines, I am not the one for you and you won’t receive a reply.
Female (39) London, Greater London
I’m pretty down to earth, I want to do some more exploring which mean I’m happy to give anything a try
Female (29) London, Greater London
Step into my digital realm—where control is mine, and surrender is yours. I'm a commanding presence who thrives in the art of psychological dominance, sensual power plays, and strict obedience. I value cleanliness, intelligence, devotion, and the thrill of power. Whether you're a curious sub or a loyal pet, you'll learn that in my world, your pleasure is earned... not given. Let’s explore control, boundaries, and your desire to please. Message only if you're ready to serve.
Female (29) London, Greater London
I’m mostly on FL now, so I don’t check messages on here, unless we are already friends. if you check on FL you will see what events I attend. Who am I: I am Kinky Tiger, but you can call me Miss Tiger (She/her). I’m a blogger first and a TOP after. What do I do: I blog about of all things kinky, fetish, sex, BDSM, fashion, and whatnot (since 2018). I am London-based but sometimes I travel, and I like to meet like-minded people. Please note: I am NOT A SUB or a SWITCH. So, Doms out there, STOP asking me to be your sub. How to contact me online: have we met? I don’t like random messages, especially with no introduction. I find that INCREDIBLY rude.
Female (40) London, Greater London
Tell me what you want, and let's see if I can help accommodate. Like people who have good manners, respectful. And who never forget to treat me like the woman that I am. Protection always and is a must, don't even ask!!! I don't feel comfortable sharing my pictures. But I'm happy to get on a vidcall to reassure you I'm real. Chonky. If you like curves you're in the right place. Not into people who are always high and stupid.
Female (44) London, Greater London
I am a sadistic, dominant woman in search of older, attractive, submissive. One who graves discipline, and equates punishment. you will look deep into My eyes and watch them light up as you relish in My control.
Female (31) London, Greater London

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The most dangerous thing about Me isn’t what I do, it’s how easily you’ll want it. I don’t bark. I don’t chase. I command with a whisper, and often, with nothing at all. Most obey before they even realise they’ve submitted. I’ve existed within the fetish world for over a decade. What began as curiosity became deep practice, and a precise understanding of how power moves between people. Some of you already know who I am. If not, you will. I am a creator. A Domme. **The Madame.** I don’t merely create content, I engineer conditions for exquisite surrender. I’ve produced over 1,000 full-length videos and audio confessions, each designed to draw you deeper, reveal what you crave, and let you choose how far you’ll fall. Personally, My style - My dynamic, evolves with the mind I’m shaping. I don’t inflict sensation for spectacle, I delight in what’s offered in reverence. Mind games. Chastity. Silent suggestion. Denial. Restraint. Curiosity becomes obedience. Obedience becomes pleasure. And pleasure becomes devotion. Devotion, when desperately, _freely_, given, tastes the sweetest. Beyond the screen, I run multiple companies, shape creative ecosystems, and study everything from strategy to sound, systems to seduction. I’m enthralled by My own life and what I create within it. My hours are claimed by purpose, not distraction. But I’m always watching for the rare few who can match Me, and earn their place beside what I’m building. Because I build self-sustaining ecosystems that will change the world. If you found Me through another mask, business, leadership, the voice of FemDom command, know this: You weren’t lost. Your curiosity led you here. And if you return to Me, in any context, I’ll know. UK-based (not London). Inbox: _Crowded._ Choose your words wisely. You’ll kneel long before I ever ask. You won’t know when it started. _Only that you never want it to end._
Female (32) London, Greater London
Open-minded, curious, and always respectful. I enjoy exploring different sides of kink and connecting with people who are honest about what they like. Communication, trust, and mutual respect are very important to me.
Female (39) London, Greater London
A true Mistress carries herself with quiet authority and absolute confidence. I understand the responsibility that comes with guiding a submissive and I embrace it fully. Power exchange, discipline, and trust form the foundation of the dynamic I offer. Submission is not weakness to me; it is a meaningful gift that deserves respect, direction, and firm but fair control. A devoted Sub should be sincere, reliable, and willing to grow while under my guidance. I am interested in a Sub who values depth and long-term commitment rather than temporary excitement. Someone who respects structure, appreciates guidance, and is prepared to build a lasting connection with a strong and self-assured woman. Outside the dynamic, I appreciate intelligence, thoughtful conversation, and unwavering loyalty. A Sub who chooses to serve me will discover stability, purpose, and a Mistress who expects dedication while rewarding genuine devotion and trust.
Female (51) London, Greater London
I am a sadistic, dominant woman in search of older, attractive, submissive. One who graves discipline, and equates punishment. you will look deep into My eyes and watch them light up as you relish in My control.
Female (31) London, Greater London
a kinky puppy girl, very obedient, love attention, and I give a lot of attention and hugs back, Woof!
Female (24) London, Greater London
I’m a pretty young girl with no limits, wanna have a threesome that starts of in a bar or party. I enjoy laughter, late night talks and being spoiled. in a relationship bi-curious girls hmu 🤭 🍃smoker
Female (20) London, Greater London
I’m a kind hearted woman who values honesty, faith, and meaningful connection. I enjoy good conversation, laughter, and building something real with the right person. I believe relationships grow best with trust, patience, and God at the center. I’m not perfect, but I’m sincere, loyal, and ready for something genuine
Female (49) London, Greater London
I'm mistress who exudes elegance and demands respect. My presence is a tantalizing pull, where pleasure and obedience intertwine. In my world, submission is earned, boundaries are tested, and only the willing are allowed to stay
Female (44) London, Greater London
Hi loves, I found this site by accident lol but thought hey why not sign up. I have always wanted to experiment more and look into this side of myself more as BDSM has always fascinated me. I'm pretty new at this and am looking for new experiences and eager to learn a thing or two if anyone is willing to teach me 😉
Female (18) London, Greater London
Just a switch looking for fun new experiences and excited to learn more about my kinks. Outgoing and a bit of a book nerd, looking for someone to have fun with. I'm bisexual, but mainly looking for women and couples to connect with right now. And a female friend to go to some bdsm clubs or parties to together. Mainly masochist, sadist, and bondage, but very much open to experimentation
Female (22) London, Greater London
I frequently travel between the United States and Europe, and I am looking for a gentleman in Europe to develop a long-term relationship with
Female (39) London, Greater London
Just got married, but we are a cuckold couple, happy to play alone or with hubby in toe. Been on fet before but gone rubbish. Love to meet my long term Dom or master, I'll give anything a go once, have dark side that the right person can get out hehe.
Female (25) London, Greater London
London-based, recently single, and ready to explore what (and who) I’ve been missing. One charming gent already on board, now just looking for the right second to complete the picture. Chemistry, confidence, and a sense of adventure required...
Female (28) London, Greater London
I'm nerdy and love Dnd and mtg. I love music and singing as well. I'm curious, playful, and love deep chats. Looking to explore being a dominant~ Think you could be a good little sub for me 😉?
Female (27) London, Greater London
Love kinky, reverse harem books. Curious about BDSM, Dom/Sub. Never done anything like it. Like spanking, hands around my throat, biting. Mostly want to know about places where I can explore my curiosity.
Female (33) London, Greater London
I'm a professional business woman, looking to meet someone for extra spicy fun times, ideally a FWB NSA type thing, something that can develop into a trusting connection allowing us to explore each others kinks, desires, fantasies and even some of the darker things we don't tell everyone we want. I'm tall 5'10 barefoot in my heels I easily stand 6'2 having a guy that is taller than me is a turn on, as I can then feel properly over-powered. I have curves, but that also means I have a decent pair of tits and according to feedback a cracking good ass! Haha Long blonde hair, great for grabbing hold of! I'm very submissive sexually, love turning up as my usual control freak and then letting go, giving control to you, and submitting myself to you, being yours for that time, for you to with as you please. I love being tied up, pinned down or against a wall, just restrained in any fashion really. I do enjoy being spanked and I enjoy impact play. I'm looking for someone to push my boundaries, show me new things, guiding me, getting the most out of me and hopefully I can help you fulfil some of your kinks, desires & fantasies.
Female (39) London, Greater London
I’m a black BBW who embraces my dominant side and looking for Man who is a sub who likes to fuse his kinks with the vanilla and everyday. the psychological bond between 2 partners is what appeals to me most. Kinks can vary depending how on that link. I am looking for a serious long term relationship that could lead to marriage and a kind of best friend that makes the everyday less mundane
Female (38) London, Greater London
I am an experienced, strict yet sensual Mistress who thrives on control, discipline, and devotion. I expect respect, obedience, and effort from those who wish to serve me. I enjoy training submissives to understand their place, pushing limits safely, and creating intense, unforgettable sessions filled with power exchange, elegance, and authority. I value loyalty, consistency, and honesty above all else talk is cheap, actions prove your worth. What I Enjoy Obedience training & protocol Worship (body, feet, heels, ass) CBT, spanking, flogging, paddling Bondage & restraint Feminisation & sissification *** & *** (verbal, physical, psychological) Chastity control Roleplay & tasks Service (domestic & personal)
Female (52) London, Greater London
Type A and strong in my day to day, needing to submit for praise and pleasure. Nothing gets me going like talking me into a worked up mess. The fantasy is to be able to submit to someone strong and dominant who appreciates my obedience. I'll do as I'm told if it gets me what I want, and I want to please as much as feel good myself. Make the things I read about that get me hot a reality, and I'll know I've found what I'm looking for.
Female (34) London, Greater London
Thank you for checking my profile, I can assure you that your every need will be accommodated. Every fetish and fantasy that could ever have crossed your mind would have been seen and put into practice by me over the years so nothing could shock me. From age play, naughty boys who need a spanking by either the headmistress or over mommy's knee. Adult baby. Needing their time out. Water play, ***d fem, nipple clamps, boot worship, and many more fantasies. If you would like to know more please message me.
Female (37) London, Greater London
I am young in heart and spirit, active and energetic, honest and straight forward, reflective and thoughtful, know things I'm good at and not. I care about people and try to put them at ease. I'm good at understanding people and making them comfortable. I like having fun but also like quiet moments and interesting conversations. Don't like lies and hidden agendas.
Female (43) London, Greater London
A sub looking to explore my Dom side. I’m looking for men/women who love ass worshipping and smothering to use for my face sitting fantasies.
Female (26) London, Greater London
So I am very dom, I have a bf/ sub in my life- but I do as I please! I enjoy watching men wank and cum for me or to be my play thing. I like to make my sub be at my feet while I enjoy watching and playing with other boys/men. And control him and have the power to him watch me doing that or make him watch men cum for me and make him touch and cum over that- as he is straight! But I also like to humiliate my sub- and would like any guys to join me in dominating and humiliating him!!!! Also find women very beautiful.
Female (54) London, Greater London
A desperate realistic romantic who needs to be destroyed mentally. only into good looking people, aesthetics is the hottest thing(^^)-☆ I don’t have much experience in BDSM but I would like to explore things like rope play, restrains, neglect play etc… I’m looking for someone who’s patient and knows how to take things slow to cultivate the trust, ideally a brat tamer. Good foreplay and aftercare is also the key. I’ve also found it’s so hard for me to truly respect a dom and being willing to serve them, so you need to be prepared if our position swap (^^)= I’m also very picky and please don’t take it personal. Straight men go out and turn left, DO NOT MESSAGE you’re not the special one.
Female (23) London, Greater London

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