looking to explore BDSM in a submissive role. Not much experience in this area so I'm here hoping to explore my kinks. Down for casual connections or more if the right thing comes along, feel free to ask me any questions.
Hoping for real life encounters, not pen pals.
I'm a cheeky, eager-to-please submissive who thrives on structure, correction, and being put in my place by someone confident enough to take control. I crave firm guidance, discipline, and a dynamic where power is felt, not just talked about.
I’ve explored D/s deeply over the last 10 years, including caregiver/dom dynamics, and absolutely love the emotional depth that comes with it. I’m an open-minded, non-judgmental soul who enjoys connecting with like-minded kink-positive people and building genuine trust and chemistry before anything physical.
I’m plus-sized, curvy, and very flexible (don’t let the softness fool you — I can be bent however you want me). Hair pulling, restraints, breath control, being handled and claimed… all those intense, primal touches make me melt. I adore sadistic, masculine energy paired with emotional intelligence and dominance rooted in mutual respect.
At my happiest, I am restrained, exposed, and fully surrendered — waiting to be guided, teased, and owned in a way that reminds me exactly who I belong too. At the moment I’m not open to meets for my own reasons but I never say never!
I’m submissive. I want to serve and want to be degraded for enjoying it, but praised when I do it well…
Open minded but not a switcher…I can’t dominate.
chaotic and feral brat
also a lot to handle so tread with caution
I’ve had a lot of vanilla partners in the past so I’m not the best experienced. But I would love to explore
Suspected AuDHD so you know you’re in for a wild ride
Ask me about my kinks
Well hiding your profile then forgetting your username wasn’t a bright idea of mine but I suppose it means a fresh start lol
Been on and off here for years, been into the lifestyle for a long time. Saying that now the fucket list has mostly been ticked off I’m looking for something more steady, someone to share the vanilla with the spicy. I’m in no hurry to find my Mr Right and I’m sure he will pop along when he’s good and ready so I’m on and off here at the minute until something changes. Therefore I’m not really looking for short term or one off’s currently and taking my time until some one special pops out at me lol.
Taking time out of the swinging and club side of things at min as it’s a lot of fun to be a unicorn but I miss having a partner in crime.
💜 Soft, submissive, and secretly a little needy for the right gentleman
💜 Chubby, nerdy, sarcastic, and intelligent
💜 Loves looking after people but melts for someone who wants to look after me too
💜 Independent with my life together ( missing someone to share it with)
💜 Big fan of affection, reassurance, and feeling safe in strong hands
💜 Looking for a kind, respectful, consistent man who knows how to lead
💜 Dates, good conversation, and genuine effort appreciated
💜 Here for something real. My own sadistic gentleman who knows how to speak to a lady and treat a woman before anything else
🌶 neurospicy switch🌶
l'm burnt-out and looking to be taken care of.
seeking a Daddy or Owner ❤️ ideally.
been out of the game a long time, read too many spicy books and now im here because things i want are apparently "criminal offences" 😂
looking for a selfish lover, the more you get off the more i do.
🚫< please no submissive men, i really have reached my limit for that. I do not want to play, dont message, just scroll past please >🚫
I’ve been in the lifestyle for a while, but the past year I’ve been navigating it on my own. It gave me space to really understand what I want and what I enjoy.
I’m confident, playful, and I enjoy teasing the right person. I can take control when I want to, but I’m naturally drawn to someone more dominant, someone who knows how to lead without forcing it.
I’m into sensory play, impact play, and wax play. I enjoy the build up, the tension, the way things are felt rather than rushed. I’m not into anything dirty or extreme when it comes to ***.
Connection is everything for me. If the energy isn’t there, nothing else really works.
Outside of this, I’m a photographer. I love hikes, live music, and deep conversations that go beyond the surface.
🖤 plus size
🖤 pierced and tattooed
🖤gym girl
🖤 switch
🖤 NSA only
🖤 no snapchat/kik
PSA - We all have lives outside, messages will be replied to when possible 🖤
I’m submissive. I want to serve and want to be degraded for enjoying it, but praised when I do it well…
Open minded but not a switcher…I can’t dominate.
looking to explore BDSM in a submissive role. Not much experience in this area so I'm here hoping to explore my kinks. Down for casual connections or more if the right thing comes along, feel free to ask me any questions.
Hoping for real life encounters, not pen pals.
I'm a cheeky, eager-to-please submissive who thrives on structure, correction, and being put in my place by someone confident enough to take control. I crave firm guidance, discipline, and a dynamic where power is felt, not just talked about.
I’ve explored D/s deeply over the last 10 years, including caregiver/dom dynamics, and absolutely love the emotional depth that comes with it. I’m an open-minded, non-judgmental soul who enjoys connecting with like-minded kink-positive people and building genuine trust and chemistry before anything physical.
I’m plus-sized, curvy, and very flexible (don’t let the softness fool you — I can be bent however you want me). Hair pulling, restraints, breath control, being handled and claimed… all those intense, primal touches make me melt. I adore sadistic, masculine energy paired with emotional intelligence and dominance rooted in mutual respect.
At my happiest, I am restrained, exposed, and fully surrendered — waiting to be guided, teased, and owned in a way that reminds me exactly who I belong too. At the moment I’m not open to meets for my own reasons but I never say never!
I’ve been in the lifestyle for a while, but the past year I’ve been navigating it on my own. It gave me space to really understand what I want and what I enjoy.
I’m confident, playful, and I enjoy teasing the right person. I can take control when I want to, but I’m naturally drawn to someone more dominant, someone who knows how to lead without forcing it.
I’m into sensory play, impact play, and wax play. I enjoy the build up, the tension, the way things are felt rather than rushed. I’m not into anything dirty or extreme when it comes to ***.
Connection is everything for me. If the energy isn’t there, nothing else really works.
Outside of this, I’m a photographer. I love hikes, live music, and deep conversations that go beyond the surface.
💜 Soft, submissive, and secretly a little needy for the right gentleman
💜 Chubby, nerdy, sarcastic, and intelligent
💜 Loves looking after people but melts for someone who wants to look after me too
💜 Independent with my life together ( missing someone to share it with)
💜 Big fan of affection, reassurance, and feeling safe in strong hands
💜 Looking for a kind, respectful, consistent man who knows how to lead
💜 Dates, good conversation, and genuine effort appreciated
💜 Here for something real. My own sadistic gentleman who knows how to speak to a lady and treat a woman before anything else
🌶 neurospicy switch🌶
l'm burnt-out and looking to be taken care of.
seeking a Daddy or Owner ❤️ ideally.
been out of the game a long time, read too many spicy books and now im here because things i want are apparently "criminal offences" 😂
looking for a selfish lover, the more you get off the more i do.
🚫< please no submissive men, i really have reached my limit for that. I do not want to play, dont message, just scroll past please >🚫
🖤 plus size
🖤 pierced and tattooed
🖤gym girl
🖤 switch
🖤 NSA only
🖤 no snapchat/kik
PSA - We all have lives outside, messages will be replied to when possible 🖤
Well hiding your profile then forgetting your username wasn’t a bright idea of mine but I suppose it means a fresh start lol
Been on and off here for years, been into the lifestyle for a long time. Saying that now the fucket list has mostly been ticked off I’m looking for something more steady, someone to share the vanilla with the spicy. I’m in no hurry to find my Mr Right and I’m sure he will pop along when he’s good and ready so I’m on and off here at the minute until something changes. Therefore I’m not really looking for short term or one off’s currently and taking my time until some one special pops out at me lol.
Taking time out of the swinging and club side of things at min as it’s a lot of fun to be a unicorn but I miss having a partner in crime.
chaotic and feral brat
also a lot to handle so tread with caution
I’ve had a lot of vanilla partners in the past so I’m not the best experienced. But I would love to explore
Suspected AuDHD so you know you’re in for a wild ride
Ask me about my kinks
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