✅ Warrior princess submissive.
Alpha submissive works too, if you don't mean "the alpha of a group of submissives".
Basically, I'm Xena. 😂 because in vanilla life I am a *** to be reckoned with, often leading with (perceived) confidence, resilience and a seemingly unbreakable spirit, but in the bedroom, I want to be a spoiled princess.
✅Polyamorous, but allergic to hierarchy. (Married people, pass me by, please.)
✅I'm into older men (40+), so please keep that in mind.
✅Pleasure Doms and Soft Doms to the front.
🚫 NOT LOOKING FOR CASUAL PLAY 🚫. As a sapiosexual, I need at least a mental connection, but ideally an emotional/romantic connection to submit in any capacity.
🚫I do not want 24/7 or TPE dynamics.🚫
🚯I do not want a Daddy, I do not want an Owner. I do not want someone who wants to “mould me”, or “break me” or “turn me into their version of a perfect submissive”. I am already my version of a perfect submissive. Yes, we will explore and grow together, but if you have a fixed image in your mind of who you want your submissive to be, then your mind is closed and not open for true connection. 🚯
✅ Here is a first list of “must haves” for me as of now:
- Praise; I have a praise kink and respond best to positive rein***ment
- Dirty Talk; closely linked to the praise above, I have a very vivid imagination, my brain needs to be engaged and teased for me to enjoy a sexual relationship. If you are the silent type, we are not compatible. I want to hear your pleasure, as you will hear mine. It doesn’t always have to be words, it can be sounds, but it cannot be silence.
- Playing with senses; this can include light spankings (a riding crop features in many of my fantasies), but should also include blindfolds, different textures, temperatures, varying intensities of touch etc.
- Toys; they are our friends, not our enemies. While they do not need to feature in every play session, they should be included liberally as and when desired and not despised.
Due to a health issue, there are a few small limitations to what I can do, which I'm fine to discuss if we connect.
Outside of the bedroom, I'm an independent woman without kids, just a lovely cat. I can hold a conversation, I try to be kind and thoughtful always.