Here for connection and to see where it goes. Not one nights stands.
I am not a Domme.
I’m not looking for long distance connections and I am looking to form real life connections with fun and respectful people not just be pen pals
I’d like to connect with others who are also experienced and are emotionally intelligent and very capable of communicating well.
I am a Rope slut. I've been tying and being tied 10 years. I enjoy being restrained, orgasm control, servitude, being given princess treatment, impact play - I enjoy many other things but these are a few.
When you find the right person that you want to submit to, and you find the one that you want to sacrifice for - you don't feel it, like it's not an emotion. You just are it. It's a need, it's a constant and it's like it feels part of you and it completes you.
I hate writing these things, describing myself in a few paragraphs feels impossible.
I'm married so not looking for anything more than FWB situation.
I'm a complete geek, I read a lot and would rather gouge my eyes out than watch a soap opera.
I have a good sense of humour, am witty and sarcastic and banter is important to me. If I can't have a laugh with you then it's pretty much guaranteed there will be no chemistry
**Desires and Fantasies**
I have a lovely partner and mentor, with whom I am exclusive sexually. I am exploring impact play on a strictly non-sexual basis. I'm also keen to learn rope work and shibari. I'm hoping to make friends in the kink scene, and perhaps play, non-sexually, at events. I love writing erotica, and publish my stories on Fetlife under the profile name of PurpleCrocus.
goddess, art director, stylist, poetess, modern geisha, experimenter, ikebana mistress
recently moved from berlin to derby (uk).
meow. i am a wild cat - i purr and i bite
Soft domme energy with a switch’s heart.
I lead with a slow smile and steady hands, but I melt just as beautifully when the right person takes control. I crave connection as much as control — tension, teasing, eye contact that lingers a second too long.
I adore power play in all its forms: the quiet dominance, the playful brat-taming, the gentle praise, the firm grip at the small of your back. I’m equal parts velvet and steel — nurturing but commanding, sweet but deliciously wicked when the mood hits.
Gender? Vibes matter more. I love confidence, curiosity, and people who aren’t afraid to explore the edges of themselves with me.
I'm looking for someone to help guide and teach me. I'm relatively new to this and am still exploring my sub side. I'm more of a little (headspace) with a side of submissive. Help me push my limits and see how far we can go?
Sweet with a little edge. I melt for confidence, clarity, and calm control. Looking for someone who knows what they want and isn’t afraid to show it, I’m also a gentle soul with a curious mind. Drawn to confidence, structure, and a steady presence. I appreciate someone who leads with intention.
I’m looking to give up complete control though out the relationship as well as the bedroom, I don’t want to think for myself any more.
If you are just going to message to leave me on read in 3 days time or ask for pics then please leave me alone 🤦♀️
If your not interested in actually getting in a relationship then please don’t message me neither.
looking for someone who’s willing to go to the gym with me and make process together!
I won’t message first…I’m to shy :)
Hello, 👋 I'm been a big girl and trying this. I'm a complete newby so bare with me! I'm looking for someone to hold my hand and teach me a thing or two. 😊
* UPDATE*
After a little exploring on here I have learnt a few things about what I'm after so here goes. . . . . 🐇
I definitely need an emotional connection first. I genuinely want to know how your day was 🥰 I am Neurospicy so I'm doing my best with communication but please bare with me.
I'm making a new category on here of "COZY KINKSTER " like let's get hot and heavy, but first a nice cup of tea 😂☕💝 if anyone knows a better place to find fellow CK's please let me know!
Example
let's take a stroll out into the woods. . . but first we look for toadstools and moss, then I get lost in the whimsy of your eyes and press you firmly against the nearest tree as you gasp at the touch of my cold hand on your cheek. . . . 🍄🌳💋
we cook some cozy food and settle in to watch a film , candles lit, Blankets a plenty. . . . But the many soft warm layers hide our mischievous hands. . . 🍲
- Unfortunately I have not yet had the pleasure of being intimate with a lady , I'm here to change that. I need a gentle touch to guide me, but don't worry I'm a fast learner!
- I'm curious to explore been a Little. I didn't know I was until my partner pointed out that (and my giant toy dinosaur collection) I probably already was! 😂🦕❤️
If you have got this far don't be shy and send me a message 🥰 why not start by telling me what your favourite dinosaur is, or woodland creature? 🍄🦕🐇
I am in an open relationship
I'm looking for friends, FWBs, and anyone to have fun with!
Im open-minded and easy to get along with.
Im very much a sub and love *** 😈
I want new other worldly experiences 😏
Hi there
I’m not sure what to put here lol, best off messaging me
looking to expand my bdsm experience, potentially with a long term dom? if not, I’m open to the occasional play session both online and in person
Please nobody older than 26.
Just a sub with ADHD, looking for a partner who can be a long term guiding light. No ONS or FWB, my attachment issues can’t deal with that ✨
Must haves: Excellent communication, understanding when it comes to my emotions, a cuddler, is ok to listen to me ramble, treats me like a princess.
Looking for a dom who’s a care giver and a brat tamer, who’s in it for the long run.
Someone who understands that a dynamic isn’t just in the bedroom ✨
• I like to play fight- I’m a huge WWE nerd
•I am 5 foot 3 ish, so it’s a bonus if you’re taller
• I like pushing buttons
Looking for onine fun at the moment. Im working away a lot so looking for some mutually interesting stories for my lonely nights. I have experimented being a sub in relationships that started vanilla. Now looking for an experienced Dom to find my limits and have some NSA fun with. Working abroad at the moment so looking for someone to help my lonely nights and to play with my body when I am available to meet in person.
Here for connection and to see where it goes. Not one nights stands.
I am not a Domme.
I’m not looking for long distance connections and I am looking to form real life connections with fun and respectful people not just be pen pals
I’d like to connect with others who are also experienced and are emotionally intelligent and very capable of communicating well.
I am a Rope slut. I've been tying and being tied 10 years. I enjoy being restrained, orgasm control, servitude, being given princess treatment, impact play - I enjoy many other things but these are a few.
When you find the right person that you want to submit to, and you find the one that you want to sacrifice for - you don't feel it, like it's not an emotion. You just are it. It's a need, it's a constant and it's like it feels part of you and it completes you.
I have a lovely partner and mentor, with whom I am exclusive sexually. I am exploring impact play on a strictly non-sexual basis. I'm also keen to learn rope work and shibari. I'm hoping to make friends in the kink scene, and perhaps play, non-sexually, at events. I love writing erotica, and publish my stories on Fetlife under the profile name of PurpleCrocus.
I hate writing these things, describing myself in a few paragraphs feels impossible.
I'm married so not looking for anything more than FWB situation.
I'm a complete geek, I read a lot and would rather gouge my eyes out than watch a soap opera.
I have a good sense of humour, am witty and sarcastic and banter is important to me. If I can't have a laugh with you then it's pretty much guaranteed there will be no chemistry
**Desires and Fantasies**
Soft domme energy with a switch’s heart.
I lead with a slow smile and steady hands, but I melt just as beautifully when the right person takes control. I crave connection as much as control — tension, teasing, eye contact that lingers a second too long.
I adore power play in all its forms: the quiet dominance, the playful brat-taming, the gentle praise, the firm grip at the small of your back. I’m equal parts velvet and steel — nurturing but commanding, sweet but deliciously wicked when the mood hits.
Gender? Vibes matter more. I love confidence, curiosity, and people who aren’t afraid to explore the edges of themselves with me.
Please nobody older than 26.
Just a sub with ADHD, looking for a partner who can be a long term guiding light. No ONS or FWB, my attachment issues can’t deal with that ✨
Must haves: Excellent communication, understanding when it comes to my emotions, a cuddler, is ok to listen to me ramble, treats me like a princess.
Looking for a dom who’s a care giver and a brat tamer, who’s in it for the long run.
Someone who understands that a dynamic isn’t just in the bedroom ✨
• I like to play fight- I’m a huge WWE nerd
•I am 5 foot 3 ish, so it’s a bonus if you’re taller
• I like pushing buttons
I am in an open relationship
I'm looking for friends, FWBs, and anyone to have fun with!
Im open-minded and easy to get along with.
Im very much a sub and love *** 😈
I want new other worldly experiences 😏
Sweet with a little edge. I melt for confidence, clarity, and calm control. Looking for someone who knows what they want and isn’t afraid to show it, I’m also a gentle soul with a curious mind. Drawn to confidence, structure, and a steady presence. I appreciate someone who leads with intention.
I’m looking to give up complete control though out the relationship as well as the bedroom, I don’t want to think for myself any more.
If you are just going to message to leave me on read in 3 days time or ask for pics then please leave me alone 🤦♀️
If your not interested in actually getting in a relationship then please don’t message me neither.
looking for someone who’s willing to go to the gym with me and make process together!
I won’t message first…I’m to shy :)
Hello, 👋 I'm been a big girl and trying this. I'm a complete newby so bare with me! I'm looking for someone to hold my hand and teach me a thing or two. 😊
* UPDATE*
After a little exploring on here I have learnt a few things about what I'm after so here goes. . . . . 🐇
I definitely need an emotional connection first. I genuinely want to know how your day was 🥰 I am Neurospicy so I'm doing my best with communication but please bare with me.
I'm making a new category on here of "COZY KINKSTER " like let's get hot and heavy, but first a nice cup of tea 😂☕💝 if anyone knows a better place to find fellow CK's please let me know!
Example
let's take a stroll out into the woods. . . but first we look for toadstools and moss, then I get lost in the whimsy of your eyes and press you firmly against the nearest tree as you gasp at the touch of my cold hand on your cheek. . . . 🍄🌳💋
we cook some cozy food and settle in to watch a film , candles lit, Blankets a plenty. . . . But the many soft warm layers hide our mischievous hands. . . 🍲
- Unfortunately I have not yet had the pleasure of being intimate with a lady , I'm here to change that. I need a gentle touch to guide me, but don't worry I'm a fast learner!
- I'm curious to explore been a Little. I didn't know I was until my partner pointed out that (and my giant toy dinosaur collection) I probably already was! 😂🦕❤️
If you have got this far don't be shy and send me a message 🥰 why not start by telling me what your favourite dinosaur is, or woodland creature? 🍄🦕🐇
Hi there
I’m not sure what to put here lol, best off messaging me
looking to expand my bdsm experience, potentially with a long term dom? if not, I’m open to the occasional play session both online and in person
Looking for onine fun at the moment. Im working away a lot so looking for some mutually interesting stories for my lonely nights. I have experimented being a sub in relationships that started vanilla. Now looking for an experienced Dom to find my limits and have some NSA fun with. Working abroad at the moment so looking for someone to help my lonely nights and to play with my body when I am available to meet in person.
goddess, art director, stylist, poetess, modern geisha, experimenter, ikebana mistress
recently moved from berlin to derby (uk).
meow. i am a wild cat - i purr and i bite
I'm looking for someone to help guide and teach me. I'm relatively new to this and am still exploring my sub side. I'm more of a little (headspace) with a side of submissive. Help me push my limits and see how far we can go?
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