Find kinky women in Derby

here for connection and to see where it goes- with the hopes of a long term relationship forming- Not one nights stands. Do not bother me if you’re not interested in romantic commitment I am not a Domme. I’m not looking for long distance connections and I am looking to form real life connections with fun and respectful people not just be pen pals I’d like to connect with others who are also experienced and are emotionally intelligent and very capable of communicating well. I am a Rope slut. I've been tying and being tied 10 years. I enjoy being restrained, orgasm control, servitude, being given princess treatment, impact play - I enjoy many other things but these are a few. When you find the right person that you want to submit to, and you find the one that you want to sacrifice for - you don't feel it, like it's not an emotion. You just are it. It's a need, it's a constant and it's like it feels part of you and it completes you.
Female (34) Derby, Derbyshire
I am big lady new to scene looking to chat and share pictures maybe with a bit dirty talk as well. Update: Just a little Update on my profile. I do apologise if I don't respond right away as I am a busy person and might sometimes not have time to respond.
Female (36) Derby, Derbyshire
🖤 Gothic, geeky, and unapologetically me 🖤 Hey, I’m Strigol — a gothic fun-loving woman, massive nerd, and lifelong lover of all things fantasy. D&D, Warhammer, gaming, and anything that lets me escape into another world are basically my happy place. 🎲⚔️ I’m someone with a strong personality, a caring heart, and a more dominant side that I’ve grown into over time. I know what I want, I value honesty, communication, and people who are confident enough to be themselves. I’ve had some difficult experiences in the past, so trust and getting to know someone properly matters a lot to me. I’m not someone who rushes into things — I like building a genuine connection first. I’m married and I also have a boyfriend, so I’m looking for someone who understands openness, honesty, and respectful poly connections. I don’t believe in hiding people away — communication and everyone being comfortable matters. I’m affectionate, playful, and I love a good bit of teasing and banter. I enjoy people who can match my energy, challenge me, and appreciate both my softer and stronger sides. I live with chronic depression and ADHD, and I have a back disability, so I use a walking stick — but I don’t let that stop me from enjoying life, laughing, gaming, and being my wonderfully weird self. If you’re into deep chats, nerdy conversations, fantasy worlds, and someone with a gothic edge and a confident personality… we’ll probably get along. 🖤
Female (34) Derby, Derbyshire
Hey! Ummm where to start? ? I’ve only been in one relationship and it was with a girl. She was very sub but we never really explored much- handcuffs here and there, spanking, paddles etc I know I’m a switch but have never really got to explore my sub side. I’ve spoken to people online and since realised I am sub that wants someone to pin me against the wall by my throat but then smother me in kisses and tell me I’m a good girl. I confuse myself. I know I have a huge praise kink and honestly just anything positive. So I want a soft Dom? Switch? I don’t know AHH! I’ve not done this before I’m sorry. I’m also pretty shy and can’t believe I’m even on here eeeekkk so yea um thanks for reading if you got this far :,) thanks for reading!!
Female (23) Derby, Derbyshire
A lot of guys don't seem to understand what lesbian is. I don't respond to messages from men, end of. You're wasting your time! Hi. I am seeking a playful girl for my absolute first time lesbian experience, if you want to be my first time, get in touch with me! I have a vomit kink too, I am very lesbian with this, girls being sick turns me on way more than men. If you want to, I will let you lead, I will let you make me hopelessly sick, but you gotta take extra special care of me while I unburden my stomach :P I am up for chatting about my kink online first. :) xxx **Desires and Fantasies** My ultimate fantasy is being with a girl who is feeling sick, and is eventually sick. I'd make her wear a frontless bra and put nipple clamps on her nipples (and mine!) And just as she gags I'd pull the nipple clamps as hard as I could. I'd do glorious things to her as the contents of her upset tummy splashed into the toilet. If you're not into actual vomit, then just talking about it while you suck my nipples will do 😝 Are you my girl? Message me if you are ?
Female (40) Derby, Derbyshire
I have a lovely partner and mentor, with whom I am exclusive sexually. I am exploring impact play on a strictly non-sexual basis. I'm also keen to learn rope work and shibari. I'm hoping to make friends in the kink scene, and perhaps play, non-sexually, at events. I love writing erotica, and publish my stories on Fetlife under the profile name of PurpleCrocus.
Female (54) Derby, Derbyshire
I am 5,2 I got short brown hair and eyes I am bit silm I am looking for so fun and also i am sub
Female (41) Derby, Derbyshire
Fuck it, Carpe diem! Not looking for forever, just chemistry and an orgasm. I appreciate confidence, great kisses, slow seduction, and a man who enjoys making a woman feel thoroughly worshipped. Don’t call me Mommy. Don’t message me if you can’t handle waiting for a reply. I don’t vibe with passive aggression because you are having a tantrum. Be a good fucking boy and wait quietly 💋
Female (36) Derby, Derbyshire
Confident, feminine, and naturally dominant. I’m drawn to respectful, submissive men who genuinely enjoy showing appreciation through thoughtful gestures, generosity, and acts of devotion. If you admire powerful women and find fulfillment in spoiling them as part of a consensual dynamic, I’d love to hear from you. Respect, communication, and good manners go a long way.Open for dates and seeing if there’s a connection as well.
Female (22) Derby, Derbyshire
I’m fairly new to the BDSM world, although fulfilled a lot of kinks. I know there’s more to explore. x
Female (40) Derby, Derbyshire
I'm looking for someone to help guide and teach me. I'm relatively new to this and am still exploring my sub side. I'm more of a little (headspace) with a side of submissive. so be prepared to give a lot of care and support to a somewhat needy little.
Female (25) Derby, Derbyshire
Sweet with a little edge. I melt for confidence, clarity, and calm control. Looking for someone who knows what they want and isn’t afraid to show it, I’m also a gentle soul with a curious mind. Drawn to confidence, structure, and a steady presence. I appreciate someone who leads with intention. I’m looking to give up complete control though out the relationship as well as the bedroom, I don’t want to think for myself any more. If you are just going to message to leave me on read in 3 days time or ask for pics then please leave me alone 🤦‍♀️ If your not interested in actually getting in a relationship then please don’t message me neither. looking for someone who’s willing to go to the gym with me and make process together! I won’t message first…I’m to shy :)
Female (24) Derby, Derbyshire
Hello, 👋 I'm been a big girl and trying this. I'm a complete newby so bare with me! I'm looking for someone to hold my hand and teach me a thing or two. 😊 * UPDATE* After a little exploring on here I have learnt a few things about what I'm after so here goes. . . . . 🐇 I definitely need an emotional connection first. I genuinely want to know how your day was 🥰 I am Neurospicy so I'm doing my best with communication but please bare with me. I'm making a new category on here of "COZY KINKSTER " like let's get hot and heavy, but first a nice cup of tea 😂☕💝 if anyone knows a better place to find fellow CK's please let me know! Example let's take a stroll out into the woods. . . but first we look for toadstools and moss, then I get lost in the whimsy of your eyes and press you firmly against the nearest tree as you gasp at the touch of my cold hand on your cheek. . . . 🍄🌳💋 we cook some cozy food and settle in to watch a film , candles lit, Blankets a plenty. . . . But the many soft warm layers hide our mischievous hands. . . 🍲 - Unfortunately I have not yet had the pleasure of being intimate with a lady , I'm here to change that. I need a gentle touch to guide me, but don't worry I'm a fast learner! - I'm curious to explore been a Little. I didn't know I was until my partner pointed out that (and my giant toy dinosaur collection) I probably already was! 😂🦕❤️ If you have got this far don't be shy and send me a message 🥰 why not start by telling me what your favourite dinosaur is, or woodland creature? 🍄🦕🐇
Female (36) Derby, Derbyshire
22 year old female. looking for another female to be naked around, not 100% sexual. just free to be nude, light touching, boob rubs, nipple pinches, ass slaps, pussy rubs etc
Female (22) Derby, Derbyshire
Soft domme energy with a switch’s heart. I lead with a slow smile and steady hands, but I melt just as beautifully when the right person takes control. I crave connection as much as control — tension, teasing, eye contact that lingers a second too long. I adore power play in all its forms: the quiet dominance, the playful brat-taming, the gentle praise, the firm grip at the small of your back. I’m equal parts velvet and steel — nurturing but commanding, sweet but deliciously wicked when the mood hits. Gender? Vibes matter more. I love confidence, curiosity, and people who aren’t afraid to explore the edges of themselves with me.
Female (37) Derby, Derbyshire
*** *** bondage, teasing, begging, rough, slapping, spitting, CNC, edge play, orgasm control, somnophilia, marking/biting
Female (23) Derby, Derbyshire

New members in Derby

I am big lady new to scene looking to chat and share pictures maybe with a bit dirty talk as well. Update: Just a little Update on my profile. I do apologise if I don't respond right away as I am a busy person and might sometimes not have time to respond.
Female (36) Derby, Derbyshire
here for connection and to see where it goes- with the hopes of a long term relationship forming- Not one nights stands. Do not bother me if you’re not interested in romantic commitment I am not a Domme. I’m not looking for long distance connections and I am looking to form real life connections with fun and respectful people not just be pen pals I’d like to connect with others who are also experienced and are emotionally intelligent and very capable of communicating well. I am a Rope slut. I've been tying and being tied 10 years. I enjoy being restrained, orgasm control, servitude, being given princess treatment, impact play - I enjoy many other things but these are a few. When you find the right person that you want to submit to, and you find the one that you want to sacrifice for - you don't feel it, like it's not an emotion. You just are it. It's a need, it's a constant and it's like it feels part of you and it completes you.
Female (34) Derby, Derbyshire
I have a lovely partner and mentor, with whom I am exclusive sexually. I am exploring impact play on a strictly non-sexual basis. I'm also keen to learn rope work and shibari. I'm hoping to make friends in the kink scene, and perhaps play, non-sexually, at events. I love writing erotica, and publish my stories on Fetlife under the profile name of PurpleCrocus.
Female (54) Derby, Derbyshire
Hey! Ummm where to start? ? I’ve only been in one relationship and it was with a girl. She was very sub but we never really explored much- handcuffs here and there, spanking, paddles etc I know I’m a switch but have never really got to explore my sub side. I’ve spoken to people online and since realised I am sub that wants someone to pin me against the wall by my throat but then smother me in kisses and tell me I’m a good girl. I confuse myself. I know I have a huge praise kink and honestly just anything positive. So I want a soft Dom? Switch? I don’t know AHH! I’ve not done this before I’m sorry. I’m also pretty shy and can’t believe I’m even on here eeeekkk so yea um thanks for reading if you got this far :,) thanks for reading!!
Female (23) Derby, Derbyshire
I am 5,2 I got short brown hair and eyes I am bit silm I am looking for so fun and also i am sub
Female (41) Derby, Derbyshire
🖤 Gothic, geeky, and unapologetically me 🖤 Hey, I’m Strigol — a gothic fun-loving woman, massive nerd, and lifelong lover of all things fantasy. D&D, Warhammer, gaming, and anything that lets me escape into another world are basically my happy place. 🎲⚔️ I’m someone with a strong personality, a caring heart, and a more dominant side that I’ve grown into over time. I know what I want, I value honesty, communication, and people who are confident enough to be themselves. I’ve had some difficult experiences in the past, so trust and getting to know someone properly matters a lot to me. I’m not someone who rushes into things — I like building a genuine connection first. I’m married and I also have a boyfriend, so I’m looking for someone who understands openness, honesty, and respectful poly connections. I don’t believe in hiding people away — communication and everyone being comfortable matters. I’m affectionate, playful, and I love a good bit of teasing and banter. I enjoy people who can match my energy, challenge me, and appreciate both my softer and stronger sides. I live with chronic depression and ADHD, and I have a back disability, so I use a walking stick — but I don’t let that stop me from enjoying life, laughing, gaming, and being my wonderfully weird self. If you’re into deep chats, nerdy conversations, fantasy worlds, and someone with a gothic edge and a confident personality… we’ll probably get along. 🖤
Female (34) Derby, Derbyshire
A lot of guys don't seem to understand what lesbian is. I don't respond to messages from men, end of. You're wasting your time! Hi. I am seeking a playful girl for my absolute first time lesbian experience, if you want to be my first time, get in touch with me! I have a vomit kink too, I am very lesbian with this, girls being sick turns me on way more than men. If you want to, I will let you lead, I will let you make me hopelessly sick, but you gotta take extra special care of me while I unburden my stomach :P I am up for chatting about my kink online first. :) xxx **Desires and Fantasies** My ultimate fantasy is being with a girl who is feeling sick, and is eventually sick. I'd make her wear a frontless bra and put nipple clamps on her nipples (and mine!) And just as she gags I'd pull the nipple clamps as hard as I could. I'd do glorious things to her as the contents of her upset tummy splashed into the toilet. If you're not into actual vomit, then just talking about it while you suck my nipples will do 😝 Are you my girl? Message me if you are ?
Female (40) Derby, Derbyshire
*** *** bondage, teasing, begging, rough, slapping, spitting, CNC, edge play, orgasm control, somnophilia, marking/biting
Female (23) Derby, Derbyshire
Fuck it, Carpe diem! Not looking for forever, just chemistry and an orgasm. I appreciate confidence, great kisses, slow seduction, and a man who enjoys making a woman feel thoroughly worshipped. Don’t call me Mommy. Don’t message me if you can’t handle waiting for a reply. I don’t vibe with passive aggression because you are having a tantrum. Be a good fucking boy and wait quietly 💋
Female (36) Derby, Derbyshire
22 year old female. looking for another female to be naked around, not 100% sexual. just free to be nude, light touching, boob rubs, nipple pinches, ass slaps, pussy rubs etc
Female (22) Derby, Derbyshire
Soft domme energy with a switch’s heart. I lead with a slow smile and steady hands, but I melt just as beautifully when the right person takes control. I crave connection as much as control — tension, teasing, eye contact that lingers a second too long. I adore power play in all its forms: the quiet dominance, the playful brat-taming, the gentle praise, the firm grip at the small of your back. I’m equal parts velvet and steel — nurturing but commanding, sweet but deliciously wicked when the mood hits. Gender? Vibes matter more. I love confidence, curiosity, and people who aren’t afraid to explore the edges of themselves with me.
Female (37) Derby, Derbyshire
Confident, feminine, and naturally dominant. I’m drawn to respectful, submissive men who genuinely enjoy showing appreciation through thoughtful gestures, generosity, and acts of devotion. If you admire powerful women and find fulfillment in spoiling them as part of a consensual dynamic, I’d love to hear from you. Respect, communication, and good manners go a long way.Open for dates and seeing if there’s a connection as well.
Female (22) Derby, Derbyshire
Sweet with a little edge. I melt for confidence, clarity, and calm control. Looking for someone who knows what they want and isn’t afraid to show it, I’m also a gentle soul with a curious mind. Drawn to confidence, structure, and a steady presence. I appreciate someone who leads with intention. I’m looking to give up complete control though out the relationship as well as the bedroom, I don’t want to think for myself any more. If you are just going to message to leave me on read in 3 days time or ask for pics then please leave me alone 🤦‍♀️ If your not interested in actually getting in a relationship then please don’t message me neither. looking for someone who’s willing to go to the gym with me and make process together! I won’t message first…I’m to shy :)
Female (24) Derby, Derbyshire
I’m fairly new to the BDSM world, although fulfilled a lot of kinks. I know there’s more to explore. x
Female (40) Derby, Derbyshire
Hello, 👋 I'm been a big girl and trying this. I'm a complete newby so bare with me! I'm looking for someone to hold my hand and teach me a thing or two. 😊 * UPDATE* After a little exploring on here I have learnt a few things about what I'm after so here goes. . . . . 🐇 I definitely need an emotional connection first. I genuinely want to know how your day was 🥰 I am Neurospicy so I'm doing my best with communication but please bare with me. I'm making a new category on here of "COZY KINKSTER " like let's get hot and heavy, but first a nice cup of tea 😂☕💝 if anyone knows a better place to find fellow CK's please let me know! Example let's take a stroll out into the woods. . . but first we look for toadstools and moss, then I get lost in the whimsy of your eyes and press you firmly against the nearest tree as you gasp at the touch of my cold hand on your cheek. . . . 🍄🌳💋 we cook some cozy food and settle in to watch a film , candles lit, Blankets a plenty. . . . But the many soft warm layers hide our mischievous hands. . . 🍲 - Unfortunately I have not yet had the pleasure of being intimate with a lady , I'm here to change that. I need a gentle touch to guide me, but don't worry I'm a fast learner! - I'm curious to explore been a Little. I didn't know I was until my partner pointed out that (and my giant toy dinosaur collection) I probably already was! 😂🦕❤️ If you have got this far don't be shy and send me a message 🥰 why not start by telling me what your favourite dinosaur is, or woodland creature? 🍄🦕🐇
Female (36) Derby, Derbyshire
I'm looking for someone to help guide and teach me. I'm relatively new to this and am still exploring my sub side. I'm more of a little (headspace) with a side of submissive. so be prepared to give a lot of care and support to a somewhat needy little.
Female (25) Derby, Derbyshire

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