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Missswitchie
Missswitchie
here for connection and to see where it goes- with the hopes of a long term relationship forming- Not one nights stands. Do not bother me if you’re not interested in romantic commitment I am not a Domme. I’m not looking for long distance connections and I am looking to form real life connections with fun and respectful people not just be pen pals I’d like to connect with others who are also experienced and are emotionally intelligent and very capable of communicating well. I am a Rope slut. I've been tying and being tied 10 years. I enjoy being restrained, orgasm control, servitude, being given princess treatment, impact play - I enjoy many other things but these are a few. When you find the right person that you want to submit to, and you find the one that you want to sacrifice for - you don't feel it, like it's not an emotion. You just are it. It's a need, it's a constant and it's like it feels part of you and it completes you.
Female (34) Derby, Derbyshire
Til
Til
Hey! Ummm where to start? ? I’ve only been in one relationship and it was with a girl. She was very sub but we never really explored much- handcuffs here and there, spanking, paddles etc I know I’m a switch but have never really got to explore my sub side. I’ve spoken to people online and since realised I am sub that wants someone to pin me against the wall by my throat but then smother me in kisses and tell me I’m a good girl. I confuse myself. I know I have a huge praise kink and honestly just anything positive. So I want a soft Dom? Switch? I don’t know AHH! I’ve not done this before I’m sorry. I’m also pretty shy and can’t believe I’m even on here eeeekkk so yea um thanks for reading if you got this far :,) thanks for reading!!
Female (23) Derby, Derbyshire
Vomiteddesires
Vomiteddesires
A lot of guys don't seem to understand what lesbian is. I don't respond to messages from men, end of. You're wasting your time! Hi. I am seeking a playful girl for my absolute first time lesbian experience, if you want to be my first time, get in touch with me! I have a vomit kink too, I am very lesbian with this, girls being sick turns me on way more than men. If you want to, I will let you lead, I will let you make me hopelessly sick, but you gotta take extra special care of me while I unburden my stomach :P I am up for chatting about my kink online first. :) xxx **Desires and Fantasies** My ultimate fantasy is being with a girl who is feeling sick, and is eventually sick. I'd make her wear a frontless bra and put nipple clamps on her nipples (and mine!) And just as she gags I'd pull the nipple clamps as hard as I could. I'd do glorious things to her as the contents of her upset tummy splashed into the toilet. If you're not into actual vomit, then just talking about it while you suck my nipples will do 😝 Are you my girl? Message me if you are ?
Female (40) Derby, Derbyshire
Iamowned
Iamowned
I hate writing these things, describing myself in a few paragraphs feels impossible. I'm married so not looking for anything more than FWB situation. I'm a complete geek, I read a lot and would rather gouge my eyes out than watch a soap opera. I have a good sense of humour, am witty and sarcastic and banter is important to me. If I can't have a laugh with you then it's pretty much guaranteed there will be no chemistry **Desires and Fantasies**
Female (44) Derby, Derbyshire
Crocus
Crocus
I have a lovely partner and mentor, with whom I am exclusive sexually. I am exploring impact play on a strictly non-sexual basis. I'm also keen to learn rope work and shibari. I'm hoping to make friends in the kink scene, and perhaps play, non-sexually, at events. I love writing erotica, and publish my stories on Fetlife under the profile name of PurpleCrocus.
Female (53) Derby, Derbyshire
sam98
sam98
I am 5,2 I got short brown hair and eyes I am bit silm I am looking for so fun and also i am sub
Female (40) Derby, Derbyshire
mistresswxngui
m************i
Confident, feminine Domme seeking a respectful and genuinely submissive man. I enjoy leading a dynamic built on trust, communication, consistency, and mutual understanding. My interests include foot worship, chastity, ***, ***, service-oriented submission, watersports, CBT, and breath play and more. While kink is important to me, I'm also interested in meeting someone for dates and seeing where a genuine connection leads. I'm drawn to submissives who are attentive, respectful, self-aware, and take pride in serving. Loyalty, honesty, and effort will always get my attention more than empty words. If you're interested, introduce yourself properly and tell me what draws you to submission.
Female (22) Derby, Derbyshire
miss_e
m****e
goddess, art director, stylist, poetess, modern geisha, experimenter, ikebana mistress recently moved from berlin to derby (uk). meow. i am a wild cat - i purr and i bite
Female (39) Derby, Derbyshire
BunnyBlueEyes
B***********s
I am a submissive girl who enjoys the carefree dynamic of DD/LG... I have soft little tendencies.. love soft affections as well as the rough and dominance on the darker side... just here to chat with like minded people...no real agenda or expectations
Female (37) Derby, Derbyshire
sultry_siren48
s************8
Tall, professional, independent, metalhead. I throw sharp shit! Seeking 6’1+ gentleman for relationship with added spice. More details given when connected due to privacy requirements. It’s a job thing. Be more original with your opening gambit please.
Female (48) Derby, Derbyshire
bournemouth314815
b***************5
Looking for onine fun at the moment. Im working away a lot so looking for some mutually interesting stories for my lonely nights. I have experimented being a sub in relationships that started vanilla. Now looking for an experienced Dom to find my limits and have some NSA fun with. Working abroad at the moment so looking for someone to help my lonely nights and to play with my body when I am available to meet in person.
Female (31) Derby, Derbyshire
SCLW666
S*****6
I’m fairly new to the BDSM world, although fulfilled a lot of kinks. I know there’s more to explore. x
Female (40) Derby, Derbyshire
dumbplaything
d***********g
Hi there I’m not sure what to put here lol, best off messaging me looking to expand my bdsm experience, potentially with a long term dom? if not, I’m open to the occasional play session both online and in person
Female (18) Derby, Derbyshire
secretslutxox
s***********x
22 year old female. looking for another female to be naked around, not 100% sexual. just free to be nude, light touching, boob rubs, nipple pinches, ass slaps, pussy rubs etc
Female (22) Derby, Derbyshire
Chubby_Bunny_Buns
C***************s
Hello, 👋 I'm been a big girl and trying this. I'm a complete newby so bare with me! I'm looking for someone to hold my hand and teach me a thing or two. 😊 * UPDATE* After a little exploring on here I have learnt a few things about what I'm after so here goes. . . . . 🐇 I definitely need an emotional connection first. I genuinely want to know how your day was 🥰 I am Neurospicy so I'm doing my best with communication but please bare with me. I'm making a new category on here of "COZY KINKSTER " like let's get hot and heavy, but first a nice cup of tea 😂☕💝 if anyone knows a better place to find fellow CK's please let me know! Example let's take a stroll out into the woods. . . but first we look for toadstools and moss, then I get lost in the whimsy of your eyes and press you firmly against the nearest tree as you gasp at the touch of my cold hand on your cheek. . . . 🍄🌳💋 we cook some cozy food and settle in to watch a film , candles lit, Blankets a plenty. . . . But the many soft warm layers hide our mischievous hands. . . 🍲 - Unfortunately I have not yet had the pleasure of being intimate with a lady , I'm here to change that. I need a gentle touch to guide me, but don't worry I'm a fast learner! - I'm curious to explore been a Little. I didn't know I was until my partner pointed out that (and my giant toy dinosaur collection) I probably already was! 😂🦕❤️ If you have got this far don't be shy and send me a message 🥰 why not start by telling me what your favourite dinosaur is, or woodland creature? 🍄🦕🐇
Female (36) Derby, Derbyshire
unusualpossession
u***************n
Soft domme energy with a switch’s heart. I lead with a slow smile and steady hands, but I melt just as beautifully when the right person takes control. I crave connection as much as control — tension, teasing, eye contact that lingers a second too long. I adore power play in all its forms: the quiet dominance, the playful brat-taming, the gentle praise, the firm grip at the small of your back. I’m equal parts velvet and steel — nurturing but commanding, sweet but deliciously wicked when the mood hits. Gender? Vibes matter more. I love confidence, curiosity, and people who aren’t afraid to explore the edges of themselves with me.
Female (37) Derby, Derbyshire
kitty200124
k*********4
Sweet with a little edge. I melt for confidence, clarity, and calm control. Looking for someone who knows what they want and isn’t afraid to show it, I’m also a gentle soul with a curious mind. Drawn to confidence, structure, and a steady presence. I appreciate someone who leads with intention. I’m looking to give up complete control though out the relationship as well as the bedroom, I don’t want to think for myself any more. If you are just going to message to leave me on read in 3 days time or ask for pics then please leave me alone 🤦‍♀️ If your not interested in actually getting in a relationship then please don’t message me neither. looking for someone who’s willing to go to the gym with me and make process together! I won’t message first…I’m to shy :)
Female (24) Derby, Derbyshire
ktsubs
k****s
I'm looking for someone to help guide and teach me. I'm relatively new to this and am still exploring my sub side. I'm more of a little (headspace) with a side of submissive. Help me push my limits and see how far we can go?
Female (25) Derby, Derbyshire
Ruby2512
R******2
I am in an open relationship I'm looking for friends, FWBs, and anyone to have fun with! Im open-minded and easy to get along with. Im very much a sub and love *** 😈 I want new other worldly experiences 😏
Female (33) Derby, Derbyshire

New members in Derby

Missswitchie
Missswitchie
here for connection and to see where it goes- with the hopes of a long term relationship forming- Not one nights stands. Do not bother me if you’re not interested in romantic commitment I am not a Domme. I’m not looking for long distance connections and I am looking to form real life connections with fun and respectful people not just be pen pals I’d like to connect with others who are also experienced and are emotionally intelligent and very capable of communicating well. I am a Rope slut. I've been tying and being tied 10 years. I enjoy being restrained, orgasm control, servitude, being given princess treatment, impact play - I enjoy many other things but these are a few. When you find the right person that you want to submit to, and you find the one that you want to sacrifice for - you don't feel it, like it's not an emotion. You just are it. It's a need, it's a constant and it's like it feels part of you and it completes you.
Female (34) Derby, Derbyshire
Crocus
Crocus
I have a lovely partner and mentor, with whom I am exclusive sexually. I am exploring impact play on a strictly non-sexual basis. I'm also keen to learn rope work and shibari. I'm hoping to make friends in the kink scene, and perhaps play, non-sexually, at events. I love writing erotica, and publish my stories on Fetlife under the profile name of PurpleCrocus.
Female (53) Derby, Derbyshire
Til
Til
Hey! Ummm where to start? ? I’ve only been in one relationship and it was with a girl. She was very sub but we never really explored much- handcuffs here and there, spanking, paddles etc I know I’m a switch but have never really got to explore my sub side. I’ve spoken to people online and since realised I am sub that wants someone to pin me against the wall by my throat but then smother me in kisses and tell me I’m a good girl. I confuse myself. I know I have a huge praise kink and honestly just anything positive. So I want a soft Dom? Switch? I don’t know AHH! I’ve not done this before I’m sorry. I’m also pretty shy and can’t believe I’m even on here eeeekkk so yea um thanks for reading if you got this far :,) thanks for reading!!
Female (23) Derby, Derbyshire
sam98
sam98
I am 5,2 I got short brown hair and eyes I am bit silm I am looking for so fun and also i am sub
Female (40) Derby, Derbyshire
Iamowned
Iamowned
I hate writing these things, describing myself in a few paragraphs feels impossible. I'm married so not looking for anything more than FWB situation. I'm a complete geek, I read a lot and would rather gouge my eyes out than watch a soap opera. I have a good sense of humour, am witty and sarcastic and banter is important to me. If I can't have a laugh with you then it's pretty much guaranteed there will be no chemistry **Desires and Fantasies**
Female (44) Derby, Derbyshire
Vomiteddesires
Vomiteddesires
A lot of guys don't seem to understand what lesbian is. I don't respond to messages from men, end of. You're wasting your time! Hi. I am seeking a playful girl for my absolute first time lesbian experience, if you want to be my first time, get in touch with me! I have a vomit kink too, I am very lesbian with this, girls being sick turns me on way more than men. If you want to, I will let you lead, I will let you make me hopelessly sick, but you gotta take extra special care of me while I unburden my stomach :P I am up for chatting about my kink online first. :) xxx **Desires and Fantasies** My ultimate fantasy is being with a girl who is feeling sick, and is eventually sick. I'd make her wear a frontless bra and put nipple clamps on her nipples (and mine!) And just as she gags I'd pull the nipple clamps as hard as I could. I'd do glorious things to her as the contents of her upset tummy splashed into the toilet. If you're not into actual vomit, then just talking about it while you suck my nipples will do 😝 Are you my girl? Message me if you are ?
Female (40) Derby, Derbyshire
secretslutxox
s***********x
22 year old female. looking for another female to be naked around, not 100% sexual. just free to be nude, light touching, boob rubs, nipple pinches, ass slaps, pussy rubs etc
Female (22) Derby, Derbyshire
sultry_siren48
s************8
Tall, professional, independent, metalhead. I throw sharp shit! Seeking 6’1+ gentleman for relationship with added spice. More details given when connected due to privacy requirements. It’s a job thing. Be more original with your opening gambit please.
Female (48) Derby, Derbyshire
unusualpossession
u***************n
Soft domme energy with a switch’s heart. I lead with a slow smile and steady hands, but I melt just as beautifully when the right person takes control. I crave connection as much as control — tension, teasing, eye contact that lingers a second too long. I adore power play in all its forms: the quiet dominance, the playful brat-taming, the gentle praise, the firm grip at the small of your back. I’m equal parts velvet and steel — nurturing but commanding, sweet but deliciously wicked when the mood hits. Gender? Vibes matter more. I love confidence, curiosity, and people who aren’t afraid to explore the edges of themselves with me.
Female (37) Derby, Derbyshire
mistresswxngui
m************i
Confident, feminine Domme seeking a respectful and genuinely submissive man. I enjoy leading a dynamic built on trust, communication, consistency, and mutual understanding. My interests include foot worship, chastity, ***, ***, service-oriented submission, watersports, CBT, and breath play and more. While kink is important to me, I'm also interested in meeting someone for dates and seeing where a genuine connection leads. I'm drawn to submissives who are attentive, respectful, self-aware, and take pride in serving. Loyalty, honesty, and effort will always get my attention more than empty words. If you're interested, introduce yourself properly and tell me what draws you to submission.
Female (22) Derby, Derbyshire
Ruby2512
R******2
I am in an open relationship I'm looking for friends, FWBs, and anyone to have fun with! Im open-minded and easy to get along with. Im very much a sub and love *** 😈 I want new other worldly experiences 😏
Female (33) Derby, Derbyshire
kitty200124
k*********4
Sweet with a little edge. I melt for confidence, clarity, and calm control. Looking for someone who knows what they want and isn’t afraid to show it, I’m also a gentle soul with a curious mind. Drawn to confidence, structure, and a steady presence. I appreciate someone who leads with intention. I’m looking to give up complete control though out the relationship as well as the bedroom, I don’t want to think for myself any more. If you are just going to message to leave me on read in 3 days time or ask for pics then please leave me alone 🤦‍♀️ If your not interested in actually getting in a relationship then please don’t message me neither. looking for someone who’s willing to go to the gym with me and make process together! I won’t message first…I’m to shy :)
Female (24) Derby, Derbyshire
SCLW666
S*****6
I’m fairly new to the BDSM world, although fulfilled a lot of kinks. I know there’s more to explore. x
Female (40) Derby, Derbyshire
Chubby_Bunny_Buns
C***************s
Hello, 👋 I'm been a big girl and trying this. I'm a complete newby so bare with me! I'm looking for someone to hold my hand and teach me a thing or two. 😊 * UPDATE* After a little exploring on here I have learnt a few things about what I'm after so here goes. . . . . 🐇 I definitely need an emotional connection first. I genuinely want to know how your day was 🥰 I am Neurospicy so I'm doing my best with communication but please bare with me. I'm making a new category on here of "COZY KINKSTER " like let's get hot and heavy, but first a nice cup of tea 😂☕💝 if anyone knows a better place to find fellow CK's please let me know! Example let's take a stroll out into the woods. . . but first we look for toadstools and moss, then I get lost in the whimsy of your eyes and press you firmly against the nearest tree as you gasp at the touch of my cold hand on your cheek. . . . 🍄🌳💋 we cook some cozy food and settle in to watch a film , candles lit, Blankets a plenty. . . . But the many soft warm layers hide our mischievous hands. . . 🍲 - Unfortunately I have not yet had the pleasure of being intimate with a lady , I'm here to change that. I need a gentle touch to guide me, but don't worry I'm a fast learner! - I'm curious to explore been a Little. I didn't know I was until my partner pointed out that (and my giant toy dinosaur collection) I probably already was! 😂🦕❤️ If you have got this far don't be shy and send me a message 🥰 why not start by telling me what your favourite dinosaur is, or woodland creature? 🍄🦕🐇
Female (36) Derby, Derbyshire
BunnyBlueEyes
B***********s
I am a submissive girl who enjoys the carefree dynamic of DD/LG... I have soft little tendencies.. love soft affections as well as the rough and dominance on the darker side... just here to chat with like minded people...no real agenda or expectations
Female (37) Derby, Derbyshire
dumbplaything
d***********g
Hi there I’m not sure what to put here lol, best off messaging me looking to expand my bdsm experience, potentially with a long term dom? if not, I’m open to the occasional play session both online and in person
Female (18) Derby, Derbyshire
bournemouth314815
b***************5
Looking for onine fun at the moment. Im working away a lot so looking for some mutually interesting stories for my lonely nights. I have experimented being a sub in relationships that started vanilla. Now looking for an experienced Dom to find my limits and have some NSA fun with. Working abroad at the moment so looking for someone to help my lonely nights and to play with my body when I am available to meet in person.
Female (31) Derby, Derbyshire
miss_e
m****e
goddess, art director, stylist, poetess, modern geisha, experimenter, ikebana mistress recently moved from berlin to derby (uk). meow. i am a wild cat - i purr and i bite
Female (39) Derby, Derbyshire
ktsubs
k****s
I'm looking for someone to help guide and teach me. I'm relatively new to this and am still exploring my sub side. I'm more of a little (headspace) with a side of submissive. Help me push my limits and see how far we can go?
Female (25) Derby, Derbyshire

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bbg419
Lonely

I need some one to telll me all the humiliating things they wanna do to me in full detail
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Mistress_Lascivious
San Diego

I am in San Diego this weekend and I’m looking to meet like-minded people.
Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around USA San Diego
WonderlandAndBeyond
Looking for you to join us this Friday!

Looking for a female (21-45yo) to join my boyfriend and I in the bedroom for fun activities, toy play and letting loose.
Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA San Jose
las-vegas43405
Tonight???

This cuckqueen wants a 3 some?
Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 45km around USA Las Vegas
Pink_Kush
Looking for friends or FWB

I've always wanted to explore my sexuality with women, I find them much more attractive than men especially when they have a little chub to grab on to, I'm available often looking for someone nearby. If the sexual chemistry isn't there I'm down to be just friends. I'm very shy at first, but I will open up 🤍
NSA ● 18 to 40 years ● 25km around USA Baroda
sweetsadiex
anyone else fantasize about being ***ed?

i just can't stop thinking about it. i want to be tied up in your bed forever, never able to escape. i want to be ***d daily and even when you're busy you keep big toys inside me so i'm never empty. want to spend every waking moment dumb and crying. it just sounds so perfect <3 i think it's my true purpose hehe
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saint64304
Hey Doms, predators, and filthy strangers…

This tall, curvy, dripping wet slut is craving a rough night (Friday) in Ybor City or Downtown St. Pete. I want to be hunted, taken, and used like a worthless doll.
I’ll be dressed like a total tease — short dress, heels, no panties, easy access. Come find me at the clubs, bars, or on the streets. Grab me, drag me into a dark alley, out back behind the club, or wherever you want. Pin me against the wall, and put your cock into me. No mercy.
Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 100km around USA Saint Petersburg
ardmore37
Tonight

Come get me im down for a night or more
NSA ● 18 to 60 years ● 155km around USA Marietta
WhimsyWonder
Dirty story

I love a filthy story. Talk dirty to me 😝
Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around Canada Montréal
Your_Morticia
Who's a good boy?

A switch with the heart of a golden retriever?
Do you fall fast and hard?
Craving dark lust and obsessive devotion?
How far would you go for your Priestess?
BDSM/Fetish Family ● 28 to 52 years ● 500km around USA Juneau
fort-wayne186385
Date!

Who wants to actually date? Of course, sex included
Kinky Date ● 40 to 63 years ● 105km around USA Fort Wayne
chipmunk00
Enthrall me with your acumen

Anyone want to play chess and actually talk about real dynamics let me know
Pro-Dom/me Session ● 18 to 40 years ● 500km around USA Alton
quincysv0219
Mfm or mmf

Boston based 28F. Not interested in solo MF. Not interested in MFMF. Must have pics and be within 60 miles of Boston.

😘
NSA ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Braintree
safehaven773
ARE YOU READY TO SERVE YOUR MISTRESS

I'm an experienced Mistress trying to find a submissive that is ready to learn, explore and serve, someone I can teach, adore, care about and help become a better person
Kinky Date ● 21 to 57 years ● 172km around USA Fort Worth
bigbrat618
Hang in charlotte? 6/20, 6/21

I’m here until Monday. Want someone chill and freaky without being creepy. Take me out for dinner and drinks and we can discuss what we are gonna do for the night.
Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA New York
amorningrose
In Need!

Is anyone available to dominate me tonight. This isn’t a joke I just want to feel secure and useful. If you know shibari that would be great. I live in Lincoln RI and I could host you for the night. Or I could come to you if you picked me up.

Best,
Rose
Pro-Dom/me Session ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Manville
bigbankcontessa
Looking for subs -- READ BIO FIRST.

Spoiled and high-maintenance femdom here! Looking for online footsubs / sissies / etc into , , denial, etc. Make sure to read my bio before approach, otherwise you'll be ignored 💋
Pro-Dom/me Session ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA New York
liloox1111
Sadistic men come chat

Looking to hear your most messed up fantaisies I’m really curious 😇 I might me into it
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 79 years ● 500km around France Besançon
edinburgh894302
Looking for someone who wants to get tickled

Hi, anyone near Edinburgh or Glasgow interested in getting tickled? If yes, drop me a DM.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around UK Edinburgh
LilithChoseHerself
Sub wanted

Be:

  • Serious about a 24/7 dynamic in the form of a FLR.
  • Clear in your leftist views.
  • Interested in art / literature / culture in some shape or form.
  • An 🐈🐕🦆🐌 lover.
  • Into thick women with body hair.
  • Okay with being permanently caged
  • Vegan or open to it

  • Alcohol and drug free or willing to be

    Read my full bio before you message!

    Looking for a needle in a haystack but a girl needs what a girl needs :P
Kinky Date ● 24 to 45 years ● 500km around UK London
sacramento52604
Looking for an adventure 🌹🌹

Im looking for someone to entertain me 😉
NSA ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Reno
boston46084
Someone that will do what I say

A slave
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lizzy_bug
Looking for my match

I want to meet someone who matches my level of nasty someone I can bond with and have a relationship with but also have that primal nasty side
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Columbia

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