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The_Sweetest_Thing
The_Sweetest_Thing
I’ve been out of the dating scene for a little while so I thought it was time for an update (Jan 2026). I’m very much all or nothing. My ideal relationship would be a monogamous, TPE Male-led relationship. I am into traditional gender role relationships and really appreciate the values and benefits it has to both sides. I think both sides compliment each other very well. The lifestyle is more than just kink to me, it’s a comfort blanket and I feel safer with the rules, boundaries and structure around me. Im not here for casual hook ups, to find a play partner, or just for the kinky chats. Consistency is very important to me. I don’t work well with rules that are put in place just for the sake of it. If they don’t mean anything to you, and are not beneficial to the dynamic we are building, then they don’t mean anything to me either. Honesty and communication is also very important to me (as I am sure it is for most people). But if I don’t feel I can communicate with my partner, or that they aren’t communicating with me properly, this absolutely will not work. If you have got this far and feel as though the above resonates with you and what you are looking for, then by all means send a message and let’s see if we are compatible. Before exchanging personal details and arranging to meet, I prefer to vet through Fetlife as I find seeing people’s activity and how they interact with others says a lot about them. If you message and I don’t respond - please don’t be offended. It is nothing personal, just that I have read your profile and for one reason or another don’t believe we will be a good match. Just as I am not for everyone, everyone is not for me either. Thank you for taking the time to read 🌷🌸🧸
Female (38) Oxford, Oxfordshire
ebbyyyy
e*****y
Cute, short, and a bit of a nerd. Books, gaming, and late-night rabbit holes keep me busy. Tattooed and leaning toward the alternative side of life and music. Exploring my submissive side and drawn to confident, respectful Doms. Bonus points if you’re alt or tattooed too 😘
Female (26) Oxford, Oxfordshire
Babygirl-101
B**********1
***New to Fetlife: diaperbabybunny Hey, just a little girl hoping to find her Daddy/CG I’m an avid ddlg fan and highly into age play. I like everything that comes with being a little baby. I want to be pampered, put in a nappy, dummy in my mouth, head pats and cuddles. But to be disciplined when needed. I’m hoping to find a kind, caring, nurturing daddy who enjoys that side just as much as the sexual side because I’m not always a sexual little. On the whole I’m a good little girl but can sometimes be a little bit bratty. I have a busy, “normal” every day life with responsibilities (like most) so this isn’t something I practice everyday. I’m looking for a good connection with someone so when we are together, we can be in a ddlg dynamic. I’m not here for “cyber fun”. Btw I’ve been in this lifestyle for many years now and can spot fakes from a mile off so please, let’s not waste each others time. Happy to send photo of my face once we’ve started chatting, thank you for reading.
Female (34) Oxford, Oxfordshire
Suebellina
S********a
I am single. Non monogamous. I work hard so I value my free time incredibly and enjoy fitting in lots of playtime. I can host on certain days and also Happy to travel.
Female (53) Oxford, Oxfordshire
rachelcameback
r************k
hi! no one reads this right? Anyway, I’m Rachel and I’m the filthiest girl you’ll ever meet. Primarily seeking a MUCH older man, a cute girl or a wonderful couple. Greedy aren’t I? I am definitely the very definition of a switch, so if you’re a brutal dom you can probably put me in my place. Having said that about older men, I have recently discovered I have a real penchant for Young, fit studs. Apply within…. Slide into my DMs…..I dare you.
Female (37) Oxford, Oxfordshire
sassypants55
s**********5
recently entered a relationship with a very kinky person and as a kink noob they have opened my eyes to a whole new world of pleasure and fun as well as structure and communication, openness and trust in relationships. he has brought me here to learn more about the community, find people I can talk to about different kinks and finding out about dom sub relationships. not looking for dick pics, ons, fwb just looking to make friends
Female (52) Oxford, Oxfordshire
ronnie-rr98
r*********8
Dom-leaning and stepping into it with intention rather than bravado. I like being the one who sets the tone, checks in, and keeps things moving with purpose. I’m confident taking the lead, but I’m also big on talking things through, learning what works, and building something that actually feels good for everyone involved. I’m not here to rush scenes, I care about consent, communication, and getting things right. Exploration is very much on the table, as long as it’s mutual, considered, and enthusiastic. Effort and honesty matter to me more than polish. I value consistency and think these things get better over time so ONS isn’t my thing. 5'8", plus-size and comfortable in my skin. Tattooed, grounded, and not shy about taking up space.
Female (27) Oxford Airport, Oxfordshire
ladyofpleasure
l************e
hi I'm a blank page waiting to be written on. I'm single and a widow. I'm abit Dom/sub right now I need some guidance.....
Female (54) Oxford, Oxfordshire
cazz2080
c******0
Intelligent, grounded, occasionally savage. Love of deep convos,dark humour, planning events & organising chaos. I’m real, resilient, traditional, full of opinions, memes and to many mental tabs. looking for a long term relationship with someone kind, funny, emotionally switched on, assertive, dominant and a traditional gentleman who can put a brat in its place. I am a dominant lady in day to day life with work, looking after family etc. I love a man who can make me feel submissive and feminine outside of that. As much as I’m a brat I am not a little and not into ddlg. dating for my full time forever match, no flakey rubbish. Bring some positivity and nonsense and let’s laugh together.
Female (45) Oxford, Oxfordshire
babybenee
b*******e
Hi im switching it up! after a recent new experience, I'm looking for an older submissive man who likes to be degraded and told what to do by me! you still need to enjoy sucking on nipples, but I'm in charge now!
Female (22) Oxford, Oxfordshire
InfiniteZest
I**********t
Social profile- I am not looking to meet anybody here, so please don't waste your time if you have ulterior motives! Now that's out of the way, I'm here because I'm new to kink, sex and relations in general and wanted to find a space to socialise that might also allow me to discuss that with others who can guide me with their experience.
Female (21) Oxford, Oxfordshire
goodgirl0520
g**********0
a little looking for a daddy who can look after me. can be bratty so need someone to put me in my place occasionally🙈 ideally looking for something long-term, but also happy to go with the flow and see what happens (: face pics set to private but can be shared after talking x
Female (22) Oxford, Oxfordshire
Ediee57878
E********8
hey everyone! we’re a loving couple looking for other like minded couples to connect with. we are really new to this and would love to find ppl to help us explore? pls no pics without asking. run by both of us :)
Female (25) Oxford, Oxfordshire

New members in Oxford

The_Sweetest_Thing
The_Sweetest_Thing
I’ve been out of the dating scene for a little while so I thought it was time for an update (Jan 2026). I’m very much all or nothing. My ideal relationship would be a monogamous, TPE Male-led relationship. I am into traditional gender role relationships and really appreciate the values and benefits it has to both sides. I think both sides compliment each other very well. The lifestyle is more than just kink to me, it’s a comfort blanket and I feel safer with the rules, boundaries and structure around me. Im not here for casual hook ups, to find a play partner, or just for the kinky chats. Consistency is very important to me. I don’t work well with rules that are put in place just for the sake of it. If they don’t mean anything to you, and are not beneficial to the dynamic we are building, then they don’t mean anything to me either. Honesty and communication is also very important to me (as I am sure it is for most people). But if I don’t feel I can communicate with my partner, or that they aren’t communicating with me properly, this absolutely will not work. If you have got this far and feel as though the above resonates with you and what you are looking for, then by all means send a message and let’s see if we are compatible. Before exchanging personal details and arranging to meet, I prefer to vet through Fetlife as I find seeing people’s activity and how they interact with others says a lot about them. If you message and I don’t respond - please don’t be offended. It is nothing personal, just that I have read your profile and for one reason or another don’t believe we will be a good match. Just as I am not for everyone, everyone is not for me either. Thank you for taking the time to read 🌷🌸🧸
Female (38) Oxford, Oxfordshire
ebbyyyy
e*****y
Cute, short, and a bit of a nerd. Books, gaming, and late-night rabbit holes keep me busy. Tattooed and leaning toward the alternative side of life and music. Exploring my submissive side and drawn to confident, respectful Doms. Bonus points if you’re alt or tattooed too 😘
Female (26) Oxford, Oxfordshire
ronnie-rr98
r*********8
Dom-leaning and stepping into it with intention rather than bravado. I like being the one who sets the tone, checks in, and keeps things moving with purpose. I’m confident taking the lead, but I’m also big on talking things through, learning what works, and building something that actually feels good for everyone involved. I’m not here to rush scenes, I care about consent, communication, and getting things right. Exploration is very much on the table, as long as it’s mutual, considered, and enthusiastic. Effort and honesty matter to me more than polish. I value consistency and think these things get better over time so ONS isn’t my thing. 5'8", plus-size and comfortable in my skin. Tattooed, grounded, and not shy about taking up space.
Female (27) Oxford Airport, Oxfordshire
Suebellina
S********a
I am single. Non monogamous. I work hard so I value my free time incredibly and enjoy fitting in lots of playtime. I can host on certain days and also Happy to travel.
Female (53) Oxford, Oxfordshire
cazz2080
c******0
Intelligent, grounded, occasionally savage. Love of deep convos,dark humour, planning events & organising chaos. I’m real, resilient, traditional, full of opinions, memes and to many mental tabs. looking for a long term relationship with someone kind, funny, emotionally switched on, assertive, dominant and a traditional gentleman who can put a brat in its place. I am a dominant lady in day to day life with work, looking after family etc. I love a man who can make me feel submissive and feminine outside of that. As much as I’m a brat I am not a little and not into ddlg. dating for my full time forever match, no flakey rubbish. Bring some positivity and nonsense and let’s laugh together.
Female (45) Oxford, Oxfordshire
rachelcameback
r************k
hi! no one reads this right? Anyway, I’m Rachel and I’m the filthiest girl you’ll ever meet. Primarily seeking a MUCH older man, a cute girl or a wonderful couple. Greedy aren’t I? I am definitely the very definition of a switch, so if you’re a brutal dom you can probably put me in my place. Having said that about older men, I have recently discovered I have a real penchant for Young, fit studs. Apply within…. Slide into my DMs…..I dare you.
Female (37) Oxford, Oxfordshire
sassypants55
s**********5
recently entered a relationship with a very kinky person and as a kink noob they have opened my eyes to a whole new world of pleasure and fun as well as structure and communication, openness and trust in relationships. he has brought me here to learn more about the community, find people I can talk to about different kinks and finding out about dom sub relationships. not looking for dick pics, ons, fwb just looking to make friends
Female (52) Oxford, Oxfordshire
InfiniteZest
I**********t
Social profile- I am not looking to meet anybody here, so please don't waste your time if you have ulterior motives! Now that's out of the way, I'm here because I'm new to kink, sex and relations in general and wanted to find a space to socialise that might also allow me to discuss that with others who can guide me with their experience.
Female (21) Oxford, Oxfordshire
Ediee57878
E********8
hey everyone! we’re a loving couple looking for other like minded couples to connect with. we are really new to this and would love to find ppl to help us explore? pls no pics without asking. run by both of us :)
Female (25) Oxford, Oxfordshire
ladyofpleasure
l************e
hi I'm a blank page waiting to be written on. I'm single and a widow. I'm abit Dom/sub right now I need some guidance.....
Female (54) Oxford, Oxfordshire
goodgirl0520
g**********0
a little looking for a daddy who can look after me. can be bratty so need someone to put me in my place occasionally🙈 ideally looking for something long-term, but also happy to go with the flow and see what happens (: face pics set to private but can be shared after talking x
Female (22) Oxford, Oxfordshire
Babygirl-101
B**********1
***New to Fetlife: diaperbabybunny Hey, just a little girl hoping to find her Daddy/CG I’m an avid ddlg fan and highly into age play. I like everything that comes with being a little baby. I want to be pampered, put in a nappy, dummy in my mouth, head pats and cuddles. But to be disciplined when needed. I’m hoping to find a kind, caring, nurturing daddy who enjoys that side just as much as the sexual side because I’m not always a sexual little. On the whole I’m a good little girl but can sometimes be a little bit bratty. I have a busy, “normal” every day life with responsibilities (like most) so this isn’t something I practice everyday. I’m looking for a good connection with someone so when we are together, we can be in a ddlg dynamic. I’m not here for “cyber fun”. Btw I’ve been in this lifestyle for many years now and can spot fakes from a mile off so please, let’s not waste each others time. Happy to send photo of my face once we’ve started chatting, thank you for reading.
Female (34) Oxford, Oxfordshire
babybenee
b*******e
Hi im switching it up! after a recent new experience, I'm looking for an older submissive man who likes to be degraded and told what to do by me! you still need to enjoy sucking on nipples, but I'm in charge now!
Female (22) Oxford, Oxfordshire

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birmingham632530
F(21) and M(27) couple looking for a third!

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A818
Unicorn looking for MF couple

Very kinky unicorn here looking for a nice, fit, couple to play with. Very open minded and love having a great time. HMU!
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JadeSaysSo
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Genisiss1
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tacoma115904
Anal advice

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Any ideas or tricks on how to get better?
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Open me up and expose ALL my holes
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bigdicklover
I hate socializing

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slipperystud
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MommyRiyah224
I degrade for fun & my god complex real.

I made subs cry with brutal —can tone down or ignore. Not into it? Don’t message.
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Mostly NSA, commit if right. Seeking: ATM, femdom, losers, service subs, feet/armpit/sweat/burp/fart/ worship, sissies, SPH, ***, meetups
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ToBeMyDog
Slut dog

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phatbleu
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babypeach95
Little looking for a Daddyy

Highly experienced little/babygirl searching for a Daddy/Dom for ongoing fun.

Enjoy being worshipped as well as doing the worshipping.
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Redwench22
Ride for a ride?

This weather is making me miss my bike.. I am here in Nashville for another week and really want to feel that rumble between my legs with the wind blowing my hair..
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bigtitsbigbrains
Interested in one night stand!

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laryssa2005
who wants to control me?

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Good_Girl21
I’m hoping to find a new Daddy.

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dodgertown97756
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SunshineInTheCity
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little-rock931510
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