I’ve been out of the dating scene for a little while so I thought it was time for an update (Jan 2026).
I’m very much all or nothing. My ideal relationship would be a monogamous, TPE Male-led relationship. I am into traditional gender role relationships and really appreciate the values and benefits it has to both sides. I think both sides compliment each other very well. The lifestyle is more than just kink to me, it’s a comfort blanket and I feel safer with the rules, boundaries and structure around me.
Im not here for casual hook ups, to find a play partner, or just for the kinky chats.
Consistency is very important to me. I don’t work well with rules that are put in place just for the sake of it. If they don’t mean anything to you, and are not beneficial to the dynamic we are building, then they don’t mean anything to me either.
Honesty and communication is also very important to me (as I am sure it is for most people). But if I don’t feel I can communicate with my partner, or that they aren’t communicating with me properly, this absolutely will not work.
If you have got this far and feel as though the above resonates with you and what you are looking for, then by all means send a message and let’s see if we are compatible.
Before exchanging personal details and arranging to meet, I prefer to vet through Fetlife as I find seeing people’s activity and how they interact with others says a lot about them.
If you message and I don’t respond - please don’t be offended. It is nothing personal, just that I have read your profile and for one reason or another don’t believe we will be a good match. Just as I am not for everyone, everyone is not for me either.
Thank you for taking the time to read 🌷🌸🧸
hiii I’m zarr I’m a little and puppyyyy. I’m 18 and am a bbw so don’t think I’m skinny! In a dynamic first And foremost communication is key!!!! From telling me If youre uncomfortable, want to try out new stuff and talking to me just in general.
I’m looking for someone who doesnt JUST care about sex but vanilla stuff aswell as quality time is a big thing for me and someone who I can just vibe with.
Kink wise I’m into A LOT but the main things would be impact play, S/M, *** this is the same for dom or sub. but I can also be soft and want to just get taken care of.
Vanilla life I love walks and picnics, movies (I’m a little bit of a nerd), a drive (love a road trip) and I am a big fan of history so if anyone wants to go on a museum date hit a girl up!!!!
***New to Fetlife: diaperbabybunny
Hey, just a little girl hoping to find her Daddy/CG
I’m an avid ddlg fan and highly into age play. I like everything that comes with being a little baby. I want to be pampered, put in a nappy, dummy in my mouth, head pats and cuddles. But to be disciplined when needed. I’m hoping to find a kind, caring, nurturing daddy who enjoys that side just as much as the sexual side because I’m not always a sexual little.
On the whole I’m a good little girl but can sometimes be a little bit bratty.
I have a busy, “normal” every day life with responsibilities (like most) so this isn’t something I practice everyday. I’m looking for a good connection with someone so when we are together, we can be in a ddlg dynamic. I’m
not here for “cyber fun”.
Btw I’ve been in this lifestyle for many years now and can spot fakes from a mile off so please, let’s not waste each others time.
Happy to send photo of my face once we’ve started chatting, thank you for reading.
I am single. Non monogamous.
I work hard so I value my free time incredibly and enjoy fitting in lots of playtime.
I can host on certain days and also Happy to travel.
recently entered a relationship with a very kinky person and as a kink noob they have opened my eyes to a whole new world of pleasure and fun as well as structure and communication, openness and trust in relationships.
he has brought me here to learn more about the community, find people I can talk to about different kinks and finding out about dom sub relationships.
not looking for dick pics, ons, fwb just looking to make friends
Submissive and can be bratty.
Forming a connection and building trust is important, whilst having a sense of humour and being playful too.
ideally seeking a long term partner however happy to explore and see where things go too.
I am a single 37 year old bi woman and I'm looking to meet someone into polyamory who would love to swing as well. Not into a one night stand or anyone already in a relationship so if that’s what you’re looking for I’m not the one for you.
I’m very slow to meet up coz I want to know if the connection is right first so if you can bear with me we will get on..
Open to a poly relationship if it blossomed into that.
If you go straight into the convo about what you want in the bedroom or send a dick pic without me asking you will probably be blocked sorry!! Just being honest!!
Hi back againnnnn and I'm going back to my roots, looking for a daddy to play into a daddy/daughter roleplay you need to have a breeding kink and if possible, looking to get me to milky titties for you to suck on!😂
Looking for someone gentle but dominant and a little bit of a pervert!🤭
Cute, short, and a bit of a nerd.
Books, gaming, and late-night rabbit holes keep me busy.
Tattooed and leaning toward the alternative side of life and music.
Exploring my submissive side and drawn to confident, respectful Doms.
Bonus points if you’re alt or tattooed too 😘
I’ve been out of the dating scene for a little while so I thought it was time for an update (Jan 2026).
I’m very much all or nothing. My ideal relationship would be a monogamous, TPE Male-led relationship. I am into traditional gender role relationships and really appreciate the values and benefits it has to both sides. I think both sides compliment each other very well. The lifestyle is more than just kink to me, it’s a comfort blanket and I feel safer with the rules, boundaries and structure around me.
Im not here for casual hook ups, to find a play partner, or just for the kinky chats.
Consistency is very important to me. I don’t work well with rules that are put in place just for the sake of it. If they don’t mean anything to you, and are not beneficial to the dynamic we are building, then they don’t mean anything to me either.
Honesty and communication is also very important to me (as I am sure it is for most people). But if I don’t feel I can communicate with my partner, or that they aren’t communicating with me properly, this absolutely will not work.
If you have got this far and feel as though the above resonates with you and what you are looking for, then by all means send a message and let’s see if we are compatible.
Before exchanging personal details and arranging to meet, I prefer to vet through Fetlife as I find seeing people’s activity and how they interact with others says a lot about them.
If you message and I don’t respond - please don’t be offended. It is nothing personal, just that I have read your profile and for one reason or another don’t believe we will be a good match. Just as I am not for everyone, everyone is not for me either.
Thank you for taking the time to read 🌷🌸🧸
hiii I’m zarr I’m a little and puppyyyy. I’m 18 and am a bbw so don’t think I’m skinny! In a dynamic first And foremost communication is key!!!! From telling me If youre uncomfortable, want to try out new stuff and talking to me just in general.
I’m looking for someone who doesnt JUST care about sex but vanilla stuff aswell as quality time is a big thing for me and someone who I can just vibe with.
Kink wise I’m into A LOT but the main things would be impact play, S/M, *** this is the same for dom or sub. but I can also be soft and want to just get taken care of.
Vanilla life I love walks and picnics, movies (I’m a little bit of a nerd), a drive (love a road trip) and I am a big fan of history so if anyone wants to go on a museum date hit a girl up!!!!
I am a single 37 year old bi woman and I'm looking to meet someone into polyamory who would love to swing as well. Not into a one night stand or anyone already in a relationship so if that’s what you’re looking for I’m not the one for you.
I’m very slow to meet up coz I want to know if the connection is right first so if you can bear with me we will get on..
Open to a poly relationship if it blossomed into that.
If you go straight into the convo about what you want in the bedroom or send a dick pic without me asking you will probably be blocked sorry!! Just being honest!!
Cute, short, and a bit of a nerd.
Books, gaming, and late-night rabbit holes keep me busy.
Tattooed and leaning toward the alternative side of life and music.
Exploring my submissive side and drawn to confident, respectful Doms.
Bonus points if you’re alt or tattooed too 😘
I am single. Non monogamous.
I work hard so I value my free time incredibly and enjoy fitting in lots of playtime.
I can host on certain days and also Happy to travel.
recently entered a relationship with a very kinky person and as a kink noob they have opened my eyes to a whole new world of pleasure and fun as well as structure and communication, openness and trust in relationships.
he has brought me here to learn more about the community, find people I can talk to about different kinks and finding out about dom sub relationships.
not looking for dick pics, ons, fwb just looking to make friends
***New to Fetlife: diaperbabybunny
Hey, just a little girl hoping to find her Daddy/CG
I’m an avid ddlg fan and highly into age play. I like everything that comes with being a little baby. I want to be pampered, put in a nappy, dummy in my mouth, head pats and cuddles. But to be disciplined when needed. I’m hoping to find a kind, caring, nurturing daddy who enjoys that side just as much as the sexual side because I’m not always a sexual little.
On the whole I’m a good little girl but can sometimes be a little bit bratty.
I have a busy, “normal” every day life with responsibilities (like most) so this isn’t something I practice everyday. I’m looking for a good connection with someone so when we are together, we can be in a ddlg dynamic. I’m
not here for “cyber fun”.
Btw I’ve been in this lifestyle for many years now and can spot fakes from a mile off so please, let’s not waste each others time.
Happy to send photo of my face once we’ve started chatting, thank you for reading.
Hi back againnnnn and I'm going back to my roots, looking for a daddy to play into a daddy/daughter roleplay you need to have a breeding kink and if possible, looking to get me to milky titties for you to suck on!😂
Looking for someone gentle but dominant and a little bit of a pervert!🤭
Submissive and can be bratty.
Forming a connection and building trust is important, whilst having a sense of humour and being playful too.
ideally seeking a long term partner however happy to explore and see where things go too.
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