Kinky women in Oxford

I’ve been out of the dating scene for a little while so I thought it was time for an update (Jan 2026). I’m very much all or nothing. My ideal relationship would be a monogamous, TPE Male-led relationship. I am into traditional gender role relationships and really appreciate the values and benefits it has to both sides. I think both sides compliment each other very well. The lifestyle is more than just kink to me, it’s a comfort blanket and I feel safer with the rules, boundaries and structure around me. Im not here for casual hook ups, to find a play partner, or just for the kinky chats. Consistency is very important to me. I don’t work well with rules that are put in place just for the sake of it. If they don’t mean anything to you, and are not beneficial to the dynamic we are building, then they don’t mean anything to me either. Honesty and communication is also very important to me (as I am sure it is for most people). But if I don’t feel I can communicate with my partner, or that they aren’t communicating with me properly, this absolutely will not work. If you have got this far and feel as though the above resonates with you and what you are looking for, then by all means send a message and let’s see if we are compatible. Before exchanging personal details and arranging to meet, I prefer to vet through Fetlife as I find seeing people’s activity and how they interact with others says a lot about them. If you message and I don’t respond - please don’t be offended. It is nothing personal, just that I have read your profile and for one reason or another don’t believe we will be a good match. Just as I am not for everyone, everyone is not for me either. Thank you for taking the time to read 🌷🌸🧸

hi I'm a blank page waiting to be written on. I'm single and a widow. I'm abit Dom/sub right now I need some guidance.....

***New to Fetlife: diaperbabybunny Hey, just a little girl hoping to find her Daddy/CG I’m an avid ddlg fan and highly into age play. I like everything that comes with being a little baby. I want to be pampered, put in a nappy, dummy in my mouth, head pats and cuddles. But to be disciplined when needed. I’m hoping to find a kind, caring, nurturing daddy who enjoys that side just as much as the sexual side because I’m not always a sexual little. On the whole I’m a good little girl but can sometimes be a little bit bratty. I have a busy, “normal” every day life with responsibilities (like most) so this isn’t something I practice everyday. I’m looking for a good connection with someone so when we are together, we can be in a ddlg dynamic. I’m not here for “cyber fun”. Btw I’ve been in this lifestyle for many years now and can spot fakes from a mile off so please, let’s not waste each others time. Happy to send photo of my face once we’ve started chatting, thank you for reading.

recently entered a relationship with a very kinky person and as a kink noob they have opened my eyes to a whole new world of pleasure and fun as well as structure and communication, openness and trust in relationships. he has brought me here to learn more about the community, find people I can talk to about different kinks and finding out about dom sub relationships. not looking for dick pics, ons, fwb just looking to make friends

Miss, she/her Dominant BDSM is a way of thinking that has always come naturally to me, and I’m starting to explore it more intentionally as a lifestyle. I’m homosexual. I’m not a Pro. My bottom is my top priority, but I’m a person, not a fantasy. Minimise assumptions. I am looking for: BDSM, exploration, play partner, friend, fwb, mentor I am NOT looking for: A 24/7 dynamic or relationship, sex, romance (unless I let you know otherwise), being dominated I’m in to: Sensual play, SM, bratty confident masochists, leather, impact play, bondage, intelligent conversations, imagination I’m curious about: Primal and pet play, dirty talk, wax play, shibari Same username everywhere

hi! no one reads this right? Anyway, I’m Rachel and I’m the filthiest girl you’ll ever meet. Primarily seeking a MUCH older man, a cute girl or a wonderful couple. Greedy aren’t I? I am definitely the very definition of a switch, so if you’re a brutal dom you can probably put me in my place. Slide into my DMs…..I dare you.

Intelligent, grounded, occasionally savage. Love of deep convos,dark humour, planning events & organising chaos. I’m real, resilient, traditional, full of opinions, memes and to many mental tabs. looking for a long term relationship with someone kind, funny, emotionally switched on, assertive, dominant and a traditional gentleman who can put a brat in its place. I am a dominant lady in day to day life with work, looking after family etc. I love a man who can make me feel submissive and feminine outside of that. As much as I’m a brat I am not a little and not into ddlg. dating for my full time forever match, no flakey rubbish. Bring some positivity and nonsense and let’s laugh together.

Hi I’m a 21 year old girl looking to explore her daddy/daughter roleplay fetish. I’m looking for a daddy (anyone 10 + years older really) to teach me how to please and be gentle but ***ful and dominant at the same time. I am looking for a man who wants to gently teach me how to please him as we discovering our loving sexual relationship as father and daughter. I am very into the idea of breeding/ being bred, having. round belly full of my siblings/***. Being bred also means having round full breasts full of baby milk. I love the idea of milking/breastfeeding for my daddy. I also love sloppy tongue kissing as I want my daddy to even dominate my mouth. I even am wanting to try a daddy taking me whilst I'm 'asleep'.🤭 make no mistake, this isn’t an excuse to get abusive and hurtful! I want a kind daddy who takes things slow and is gentle, someone who is willing to teach a girl like me. please message if you would like to help x (also you have to love playing with nipples!?)

Social profile- I am not looking to meet anybody here, so please don't waste your time if you have ulterior motives! Now that's out of the way, I'm here because I'm new to kink, sex and relations in general and wanted to find a space to socialise that might also allow me to discuss that with others who can guide me with their experience.

a little looking for a daddy who can look after me. can be bratty so need someone to put me in my place occasionally🙈 ideally looking for something long-term, but also happy to go with the flow and see what happens (: face pics set to private but can be shared after talking x

hey everyone! we’re a loving couple looking for other like minded couples to connect with. we are really new to this and would love to find ppl to help us explore? pls no pics without asking. run by both of us :)

I’ve been out of the dating scene for a little while so I thought it was time for an update (Jan 2026). I’m very much all or nothing. My ideal relationship would be a monogamous, TPE Male-led relationship. I am into traditional gender role relationships and really appreciate the values and benefits it has to both sides. I think both sides compliment each other very well. The lifestyle is more than just kink to me, it’s a comfort blanket and I feel safer with the rules, boundaries and structure around me. Im not here for casual hook ups, to find a play partner, or just for the kinky chats. Consistency is very important to me. I don’t work well with rules that are put in place just for the sake of it. If they don’t mean anything to you, and are not beneficial to the dynamic we are building, then they don’t mean anything to me either. Honesty and communication is also very important to me (as I am sure it is for most people). But if I don’t feel I can communicate with my partner, or that they aren’t communicating with me properly, this absolutely will not work. If you have got this far and feel as though the above resonates with you and what you are looking for, then by all means send a message and let’s see if we are compatible. Before exchanging personal details and arranging to meet, I prefer to vet through Fetlife as I find seeing people’s activity and how they interact with others says a lot about them. If you message and I don’t respond - please don’t be offended. It is nothing personal, just that I have read your profile and for one reason or another don’t believe we will be a good match. Just as I am not for everyone, everyone is not for me either. Thank you for taking the time to read 🌷🌸🧸

Intelligent, grounded, occasionally savage. Love of deep convos,dark humour, planning events & organising chaos. I’m real, resilient, traditional, full of opinions, memes and to many mental tabs. looking for a long term relationship with someone kind, funny, emotionally switched on, assertive, dominant and a traditional gentleman who can put a brat in its place. I am a dominant lady in day to day life with work, looking after family etc. I love a man who can make me feel submissive and feminine outside of that. As much as I’m a brat I am not a little and not into ddlg. dating for my full time forever match, no flakey rubbish. Bring some positivity and nonsense and let’s laugh together.

hi! no one reads this right? Anyway, I’m Rachel and I’m the filthiest girl you’ll ever meet. Primarily seeking a MUCH older man, a cute girl or a wonderful couple. Greedy aren’t I? I am definitely the very definition of a switch, so if you’re a brutal dom you can probably put me in my place. Slide into my DMs…..I dare you.

recently entered a relationship with a very kinky person and as a kink noob they have opened my eyes to a whole new world of pleasure and fun as well as structure and communication, openness and trust in relationships. he has brought me here to learn more about the community, find people I can talk to about different kinks and finding out about dom sub relationships. not looking for dick pics, ons, fwb just looking to make friends

Social profile- I am not looking to meet anybody here, so please don't waste your time if you have ulterior motives! Now that's out of the way, I'm here because I'm new to kink, sex and relations in general and wanted to find a space to socialise that might also allow me to discuss that with others who can guide me with their experience.

hey everyone! we’re a loving couple looking for other like minded couples to connect with. we are really new to this and would love to find ppl to help us explore? pls no pics without asking. run by both of us :)

hi I'm a blank page waiting to be written on. I'm single and a widow. I'm abit Dom/sub right now I need some guidance.....

Miss, she/her Dominant BDSM is a way of thinking that has always come naturally to me, and I’m starting to explore it more intentionally as a lifestyle. I’m homosexual. I’m not a Pro. My bottom is my top priority, but I’m a person, not a fantasy. Minimise assumptions. I am looking for: BDSM, exploration, play partner, friend, fwb, mentor I am NOT looking for: A 24/7 dynamic or relationship, sex, romance (unless I let you know otherwise), being dominated I’m in to: Sensual play, SM, bratty confident masochists, leather, impact play, bondage, intelligent conversations, imagination I’m curious about: Primal and pet play, dirty talk, wax play, shibari Same username everywhere

a little looking for a daddy who can look after me. can be bratty so need someone to put me in my place occasionally🙈 ideally looking for something long-term, but also happy to go with the flow and see what happens (: face pics set to private but can be shared after talking x

***New to Fetlife: diaperbabybunny Hey, just a little girl hoping to find her Daddy/CG I’m an avid ddlg fan and highly into age play. I like everything that comes with being a little baby. I want to be pampered, put in a nappy, dummy in my mouth, head pats and cuddles. But to be disciplined when needed. I’m hoping to find a kind, caring, nurturing daddy who enjoys that side just as much as the sexual side because I’m not always a sexual little. On the whole I’m a good little girl but can sometimes be a little bit bratty. I have a busy, “normal” every day life with responsibilities (like most) so this isn’t something I practice everyday. I’m looking for a good connection with someone so when we are together, we can be in a ddlg dynamic. I’m not here for “cyber fun”. Btw I’ve been in this lifestyle for many years now and can spot fakes from a mile off so please, let’s not waste each others time. Happy to send photo of my face once we’ve started chatting, thank you for reading.

Hi I’m a 21 year old girl looking to explore her daddy/daughter roleplay fetish. I’m looking for a daddy (anyone 10 + years older really) to teach me how to please and be gentle but ***ful and dominant at the same time. I am looking for a man who wants to gently teach me how to please him as we discovering our loving sexual relationship as father and daughter. I am very into the idea of breeding/ being bred, having. round belly full of my siblings/***. Being bred also means having round full breasts full of baby milk. I love the idea of milking/breastfeeding for my daddy. I also love sloppy tongue kissing as I want my daddy to even dominate my mouth. I even am wanting to try a daddy taking me whilst I'm 'asleep'.🤭 make no mistake, this isn’t an excuse to get abusive and hurtful! I want a kind daddy who takes things slow and is gentle, someone who is willing to teach a girl like me. please message if you would like to help x (also you have to love playing with nipples!?)