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velvet_clit
velvet_clit
• I’m shy at first, but very responsive once I feel safe. I value depth, emotional intelligence, and genuine connection. Kink is important to me, but it lives within a relationship - not a replacement for one. • I’m sub-leaning and happiest staying in that lane. I don't Dom or switch - not even a little. I enjoy being guided with intention, measured control and self-assured energy that is always collaborative and attuned. • I tend to fantasise more about the emotional side of kink than ticking off specific acts. I’m always open to new experiences when there’s trust, communication, and care behind them. At this point I’m looking to build something with one person rather than navigating group dynamics. Depth over novelty.
Female (25) Southampton, Hampshire
G0DDESS
G0DDESS
I’m naturally dominant in presence and energy. The dynamic that fits me is a devotional LTR, with submission gifted by the sub rather than demanded by me. The closest archetype that fits how I am, would be a Goddess Domme. I don’t instruct someone into submission; the right person is naturally submissive and enjoys discovering, through trial and error, what pleases me. I’ll allow what pleases me and gently decline what doesn’t. My dominance is feminine in nature, so I don’t pursue or lead the dating ritual. I enjoy being romanced. I appreciate submissives who take initiative, plan dates, and enjoy learning what delights me. I particularly enjoy being presented with options and giving feedback. I value emotional intelligence, steadiness, and authenticity. Character and behaviour matter more to me than claims or labels. I’m not interested in kink discussions with strangers, and I don’t enjoy long online messaging. The intimate side of a dynamic only reveals itself once trust, romantic connection, and compatibility exist in person. When intimacy exists, my pleasure comes first. The right kind of submissive finds fulfillment in that. I take D/s seriously and I am not abusive. I see submission as a gift, and allowing a submissive to please me as a gift from me to them
Female (43) Southampton, Hampshire
Chezza90
Chezza90
Hey there Thank you for stopping by my profile. My name is Cherry. i am 36 year old Domme from southampton. Face photos kept private only due to professional boundaries i am happily married. i am not seeking any play partners or play. as my husband/ sub are my only play partner. i am here for events, networking, and getting to know the wider kink community. little FYI, leave the honorifics for your well negotiated, consented, and established dynamics. i am NOT your Mistress, Mommy, Domme,Goddess, or whatever D type honorific you use. your dm will go unread, deleted, and possibly blocked.
Female (36) Southampton, Hampshire
Nissy53
N*****3
There are a number of kinks that I am currently exploring; ANR/ABF but not for adult babies, I’d love to try this with another woman. I currently have two long term lovers. However, I’m currently exploring a cuckold relationship with someone separately from the other two and would now like to form a relationship with a bi/curious male as part of this dynamic. I am not looking for a cuckold, I have one! You’ll be more of a lover than a bull, younger but mature, confident but not overly dominant, attentive but not needy. You’ll be at ease with the cuckold in the room but your focus and attention will be on me. Between the two of you, all my needs will be met, you will be skilled, experienced, and know how to please. UPDATE: My standards are high, so I’m very selective with who I engage with, and I expect you to be the same. To me attraction and integrity are paramount. I will ask for a face pic early on and will say if you’re not for me. I’m under no obligation to chat with you if you send me a message, nor continue a conversation if we have chatted before. Sometimes I might need a nudge to respond, but please keep it light.
Female (53) Southampton, Hampshire
Anna-Angel
A********l
Mature sub who loves dressing up/role play, restraints, shibari amongst other things. Open to trying most things but I do have limits. I would really like to explore DD/lg more with the right DD. Looks, age etc are not as important as honesty, humour and good communication, although I do love a man with a beard! Tattoos as well gets you bonus points! I only want to hear from genuine Doms/DDs so no time wasters please! And please don’t message me asking for nude selfies straight away. I may be slutty but I do have some class! Let’s get to know each other a bit first! I would love a Dom who has the same amount of self respect. Desperation is not sexy!
Female (56) Southampton, Hampshire
clairexhotwife
c************e
Newish wife to everything, looking for respectful men that would like to have some fun while by husband watches and possibly takes some pics/vids. Prefer black guys or do have a preference for older gents 60+ Open to meeting women to (Would be on my own as it’s very new to me still) Please either have a profile picture or send one because I won’t reply without it
Female (42) Southampton, Hampshire
AmyPiece
A******e
I would like to find NSA, FWB and casual relationships. I am looking to make friends and connections. I am down to chat, exchange pics, and meet in person. I enjoy being used. I am a good girl with a cute but naughty side. I am the ultimate sex doll.
Female (38) Southampton, Hampshire
sarieldhd
s*******d
I like tall (taller than 190cm) and skinny guys. text me if you are submissive and would like a mistress **Desires and Fantasies** bondage, spanking, collar, leash, absolute control
Female (31) Southampton, Hampshire
NaughtyRaven666
N*************6
Raven- bisexual- originally from Liverpool I'm 5'7 plus size 32… must love the curves full length pic added I am my psychiatrist wet dream 😂 Few disabilities… this has left me somewhat disabled 420 Party Girl Dark humour Kindhearted Love seeing a smile on someone’s face Need a daddy dom - complete baby girl who needs to be adored and looked after. I need an experienced dom, someone who understands mental health & trauma.
Female (42) Southampton, Hampshire
Tinks77
T*****7
A natural Sub/Brat with no actual experience with having a Daddy/Dom. I’m a novice, looking to learn. I am a BBW **Desires and Fantasies** Baby Girl, Brat, Sub, little. Looking for my Daddy Dom. Enjoying two men at once.
Female (48) Southampton, Hampshire
CuteStuff_
C********_
Into the softer side of this beautiful world... I consider myself a service sub, whatever that service may be... I'm only 4ft4, so you may enjoy manhandling me... If you're a growly Dom who's looking for a long-term thing, let's chat ? P.S. *Will send face pictures in the chat, just ask*
Female (19) Southampton, Hampshire
NewGirl19
N*******9
Looking for a Long term relationship. Someone who is a real Master/Sir - Someone to own me, control me, restrain me, use me, punish me and look after me. I can be a brat and don’t always do as I’m told - so I feel like punishments might be given out often. If you are just looking for a one night stand or just fun in general please don’t message me as it’ll be wasting both our times.
Female (30) Southampton, Hampshire

New members in Southampton

velvet_clit
velvet_clit
• I’m shy at first, but very responsive once I feel safe. I value depth, emotional intelligence, and genuine connection. Kink is important to me, but it lives within a relationship - not a replacement for one. • I’m sub-leaning and happiest staying in that lane. I don't Dom or switch - not even a little. I enjoy being guided with intention, measured control and self-assured energy that is always collaborative and attuned. • I tend to fantasise more about the emotional side of kink than ticking off specific acts. I’m always open to new experiences when there’s trust, communication, and care behind them. At this point I’m looking to build something with one person rather than navigating group dynamics. Depth over novelty.
Female (25) Southampton, Hampshire
Chezza90
Chezza90
Hey there Thank you for stopping by my profile. My name is Cherry. i am 36 year old Domme from southampton. Face photos kept private only due to professional boundaries i am happily married. i am not seeking any play partners or play. as my husband/ sub are my only play partner. i am here for events, networking, and getting to know the wider kink community. little FYI, leave the honorifics for your well negotiated, consented, and established dynamics. i am NOT your Mistress, Mommy, Domme,Goddess, or whatever D type honorific you use. your dm will go unread, deleted, and possibly blocked.
Female (36) Southampton, Hampshire
G0DDESS
G0DDESS
I’m naturally dominant in presence and energy. The dynamic that fits me is a devotional LTR, with submission gifted by the sub rather than demanded by me. The closest archetype that fits how I am, would be a Goddess Domme. I don’t instruct someone into submission; the right person is naturally submissive and enjoys discovering, through trial and error, what pleases me. I’ll allow what pleases me and gently decline what doesn’t. My dominance is feminine in nature, so I don’t pursue or lead the dating ritual. I enjoy being romanced. I appreciate submissives who take initiative, plan dates, and enjoy learning what delights me. I particularly enjoy being presented with options and giving feedback. I value emotional intelligence, steadiness, and authenticity. Character and behaviour matter more to me than claims or labels. I’m not interested in kink discussions with strangers, and I don’t enjoy long online messaging. The intimate side of a dynamic only reveals itself once trust, romantic connection, and compatibility exist in person. When intimacy exists, my pleasure comes first. The right kind of submissive finds fulfillment in that. I take D/s seriously and I am not abusive. I see submission as a gift, and allowing a submissive to please me as a gift from me to them
Female (43) Southampton, Hampshire
Nissy53
N*****3
There are a number of kinks that I am currently exploring; ANR/ABF but not for adult babies, I’d love to try this with another woman. I currently have two long term lovers. However, I’m currently exploring a cuckold relationship with someone separately from the other two and would now like to form a relationship with a bi/curious male as part of this dynamic. I am not looking for a cuckold, I have one! You’ll be more of a lover than a bull, younger but mature, confident but not overly dominant, attentive but not needy. You’ll be at ease with the cuckold in the room but your focus and attention will be on me. Between the two of you, all my needs will be met, you will be skilled, experienced, and know how to please. UPDATE: My standards are high, so I’m very selective with who I engage with, and I expect you to be the same. To me attraction and integrity are paramount. I will ask for a face pic early on and will say if you’re not for me. I’m under no obligation to chat with you if you send me a message, nor continue a conversation if we have chatted before. Sometimes I might need a nudge to respond, but please keep it light.
Female (53) Southampton, Hampshire
clairexhotwife
c************e
Newish wife to everything, looking for respectful men that would like to have some fun while by husband watches and possibly takes some pics/vids. Prefer black guys or do have a preference for older gents 60+ Open to meeting women to (Would be on my own as it’s very new to me still) Please either have a profile picture or send one because I won’t reply without it
Female (42) Southampton, Hampshire
AmyPiece
A******e
I would like to find NSA, FWB and casual relationships. I am looking to make friends and connections. I am down to chat, exchange pics, and meet in person. I enjoy being used. I am a good girl with a cute but naughty side. I am the ultimate sex doll.
Female (38) Southampton, Hampshire
Anna-Angel
A********l
Mature sub who loves dressing up/role play, restraints, shibari amongst other things. Open to trying most things but I do have limits. I would really like to explore DD/lg more with the right DD. Looks, age etc are not as important as honesty, humour and good communication, although I do love a man with a beard! Tattoos as well gets you bonus points! I only want to hear from genuine Doms/DDs so no time wasters please! And please don’t message me asking for nude selfies straight away. I may be slutty but I do have some class! Let’s get to know each other a bit first! I would love a Dom who has the same amount of self respect. Desperation is not sexy!
Female (56) Southampton, Hampshire
NaughtyRaven666
N*************6
Raven- bisexual- originally from Liverpool I'm 5'7 plus size 32… must love the curves full length pic added I am my psychiatrist wet dream 😂 Few disabilities… this has left me somewhat disabled 420 Party Girl Dark humour Kindhearted Love seeing a smile on someone’s face Need a daddy dom - complete baby girl who needs to be adored and looked after. I need an experienced dom, someone who understands mental health & trauma.
Female (42) Southampton, Hampshire
NewGirl19
N*******9
Looking for a Long term relationship. Someone who is a real Master/Sir - Someone to own me, control me, restrain me, use me, punish me and look after me. I can be a brat and don’t always do as I’m told - so I feel like punishments might be given out often. If you are just looking for a one night stand or just fun in general please don’t message me as it’ll be wasting both our times.
Female (30) Southampton, Hampshire
CuteStuff_
C********_
Into the softer side of this beautiful world... I consider myself a service sub, whatever that service may be... I'm only 4ft4, so you may enjoy manhandling me... If you're a growly Dom who's looking for a long-term thing, let's chat ? P.S. *Will send face pictures in the chat, just ask*
Female (19) Southampton, Hampshire
Tinks77
T*****7
A natural Sub/Brat with no actual experience with having a Daddy/Dom. I’m a novice, looking to learn. I am a BBW **Desires and Fantasies** Baby Girl, Brat, Sub, little. Looking for my Daddy Dom. Enjoying two men at once.
Female (48) Southampton, Hampshire
sarieldhd
s*******d
I like tall (taller than 190cm) and skinny guys. text me if you are submissive and would like a mistress **Desires and Fantasies** bondage, spanking, collar, leash, absolute control
Female (31) Southampton, Hampshire

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Sweet Home Chicago

I’m returning back to Illinois after many many moons 🌙 It will be the beginning to some kinky fun 💕 Hope to find like minds to welcome this lil wolfie 🙇🏻‍♀️🪢🤍🐺

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Skullfck me til I go limp

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forensic413
Seeking LTR with live-in for right match

I am NOT a submissive.
Professional Domme from northern CA, now in WV until late-2027 and then moving to the TX Hill Country area an hour NW of San Antonio.
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You will be fully vetted if selected.
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