Hey there
Thank you for stopping by my profile. My name is Cherry. i am 35 year old female.
Face photos kept private only due to professional boundaries
i am happily married.
i am not seeking any play partners or play. My only play partner is my husband.
any dynamics i will offer are strictly platonic. Nothing sexual in any matter.
Hi I’ve always been aware that I’m a submissive woman but I’ve only recently decided to embrace this side of me and live out my fantasies. I’m a mature woman married to a lovely man who’s open and understanding of my kinks.
I’m here to learn and explore and make some kinky friends along the way.
Looking for people to help/guide/teach me in my discoveries! But if you just want to chat/laugh/flirt that’s fine too.
I value honesty and kindness above all else.
By the way, tattoos and beards are my thing but not essential. Men who can make me laugh are though!
== Results from bdsmtest.org: ==
98% Submissive
91% Little
79% Ageplayer
77% Brat
76% Masochist
72% Rope bunny
63% Experimentalist
48% Non-monogamist
48% Voyeur
46% Vanilla
35% Exhibitionist
27% Slave
8% Pet
7% Switch
0% Degradee
0% Primal (Prey)
hiya im shaz a pre op trans woman looking to meet new people and see what happens. I'm open to most things
off limits are
skat, ***, vomit, and men no exceptions
I don’t rlly come on here anymore sorry 😎😎 in a committed, mono relationship so you are wasting ur time coming in my inbox w ur nonsense !!
If you’re looking for strictly platonic friends go ahead n message!! I’d like to attend kink events sometime, I’m particularly interested in getting to know other pet players, esp my fellow puppy girls!!! I’m a big ass nerd, video games, mtg, ttrpgs ect. I’m autistic and have adhd. I love getting a coffee and a little treat. Hmu if you think we’d vibe!
Been out of the game for a while but am looking refresh and enjoy my kinks.
I am bisexual and enjoy being a unicorn, as well as most forms of groups sex and both sides of the power dynamic.
Due to my son’s also being in the BDSM community I will not meet anyone under 35.
Not sure what else to put as it’s been a while since I wrote one of these but I have an energy limiting disability and am an ambulatory wheelchair user.
Looking for a respectful Dom/s relationship. I am a natural submissive but that doesn't mean I am naive or desperate. I enjoy the power play between Dom/s and the intimacy that the dynamic brings. I expect respect and gentleness outside of play. Whilst I am relatively new to this scene (3 years) I am clear on my wants and desires. If you think being a Dom is just an act of controlling me sexually to fulfill your own needs then you don't understand the dynamic so I would respectfully request you don't contact me. Stay safe everyone x
**Desires and Fantasies**
Consensual non Consensual play. Bondage, orgasm control, sensory deprivation and who knows where else this could go!
i’m a 22 year old submissive mostly based in england! i have a soft spot for older guys!
bdsm is an important aspect of my life- the power exchange within a d/s dynamic provides me with the structure i crave. i'm very submissive & love being well behaved and knowing that what i'm doing is pleasing my dom. i hate being bratty- it’s just not for me! also as stated in my limits it’s a hard limit to call me a brat so please be mindful when messaging
i would definitely consider myself a masochist, i adore my body being ***ted with bruises and impact play is one of my favourite kinks. i love testing my limits and discovering how much my mind and body is able to handle.
i’d love to find a dom of my own to learn more about who i am as a submissive, and explore my kinks further!
although i am looking for my long term Dom (mono), im only willing to consider the perfect match for me. if you think we may get along based on my profile, say hi! (note- i’m not able to do long distance so if you’re thousands of miles away i’m happy to be pals but won’t be a good fit for more).
i am very submissive, and a very good girl- however that doesn’t mean i’m submissive for anyone who barks demands at me. submission is earned with respect and trust, messaging me orders or telling me what you want to do to me won’t get you very far. (:
Age: 20
Location: Southampton
Role: Brat (with a soft center, sharp tongue, and zero shame)
Looking For: A Daddy Dom who isn’t just here to play—but to stay.
Let’s get one thing straight: I’m not a good girl… unless I really want to be. And getting me there takes more than rules and rewards. I want a Daddy who sees the brat as part of the package, not a flaw to “fix.” Someone who finds joy in the push-and-pull—who knows that behind every smirk and eye roll is a girl who wants to feel safe enough to surrender.
I’m a chaotic mix of boldness and softness. I’ll test you, tease you, and pout when I don’t get my way—but what I’m really asking for is presence. Consistency. Patience. A firm hand, yes, but also a steady heart. I want discipline, affection, and the feeling that someone actually wants to understand me beyond the kink.
What I love:
Deep conversations that unravel into something raw and real
Long walks with music in my ears and daydreams in my head
Baking at 2AM because my mind’s too loud to sleep
Reading dark, spicy stories with morally grey men (Haunting Adeline is my problematic fave)
Solo coffee dates—because being alone doesn’t mean I’m lonely
Working on my music—because it’s where I say all the things I can’t explain out loud
Emotional growth, even when it’s ugly—because I’ve been made to feel like no one wants a “broken” sub, but I’m learning that my softness is strength
And of course… stirring up trouble wherever I go. Chaos? Always. Apologies? Rarely. Regret? Only if you earn it.
Important to know:
If you want to understand me, listen to my music. That’s where my heart lives. Sometimes I can’t explain how I’m feeling—but I can sing it. If you really want to know me, ask me to make you a song. It’ll say more than words ever could.
What I’m looking for:
Not just sex. Not just kink. I want a full dynamic. Emotional depth. Power exchange that exists outside the bedroom. I want to feel owned, not just used. Cherished and corrected. A soft place to land after being thoroughly put in my place.
If you're calm, communicative, consistent, and know how to take the reins without crushing the spirit you're holding…
Then I might just let you tame me.
Maybe.
Raven- bisexual- originally from Liverpool
I do have a boyfriend but poly
Looking for a cute submissive
I'm 5'7
plus size 32… must love the curves full length pic added
I am my psychiatrist wet dream 😂
Few disabilities… I will chase you even if I’m in my scooter 😂
420
Party Girl
Dark humour
Kindhearted
Love seeing a smile on someone’s face
⛓️😈PRIMAL DOMME😈⛓️
I am currently in a primal dynamic with others My Alpha/boyfriend,myself as Luna and my boyfriend’s submissive/parter as den mother and we have omegas in the pack too. Make no mistake, if you don’t mix well with the pack it will go no further!⛓️😈
I may have a health problems but trust me they never effect 😏
Alternative Brats To The Front 😏
hey, im 20 y/o
I’m looking for a hopefully long term connection, with a kink dynamic but also a genuine care for eachother. I love dates and romantic gestures from both sides in a dynamic.
looking into kink:
my sub/slave side is something I would wait to speak about until I get to know you more as a person. but feel free to drop me a message explaining what you like within kink! However, please dont include anything forward about what you would think/do to me.
In my everyday life I am a lover of exercise! Fashion and ***ting (altho I use ***ting by numbers haha), I am quite a routine orientated person. and am always looking for a dynamic that brings out the best in both of us, staying healthy and happy.
I'm married but in a open relationship.
I'm looking for a occasional Dom to connect with and see roughly once a month for friendship and fun in a secondary relationship.
I do like to become friends and go out to do nice things with a new partner. Not just sex.
No one night stands ✌️
I'm a dominant leaning gal, here to find those enthusiastically interested in submission.
My main interest is pegging and all forms of anal play.
Big fan of blindfolds and restraints
I love to see a nice red ass so I hope you're keen on some impact play.
I like tall and skinny guys. text me if you are submissive and would like a mistress
**Desires and Fantasies**
bondage, spanking, collar, leash, absolute control
No ONS, FWB or ENM please.
📚💐⚾🏏🏀🏈
I enjoy the simple things in life, and value my peace. I love to read (may have a minor book obsession), grow my own flowers, and fruits/vegetables, and watch various sports.
I'm looking for an experienced Dominant, who wants a monogamous D/s relationship. I don't switch or title stack.
I'm 5ft 10 so someone taller is preferable. I don't want to look down on you.
Hi, single mum here. Hopefully that doesn’t put too many people off.
Two kids.
Looking for someone to chat to that I get along with and see what happens.
Open to new experiences.
I’ve dipped in and out over the last 10 years dependant on relationships and partners at the time but wanting to explore more. I’ve realised in this last few months I’m completely submissive although a bit of a brat at times and have yet to find something that doesn’t turn me on
Your typical neuro spicy, tatted/pierced, nerdy alt type.
Sub leaning switch
Demisexual and just beginning to explore my bisexuality 😅
Connection and communication are key
Hoping to find the perfect woman or couple to help me explore my sexuality 😅 give a newbie a chance?
If you’re not into plus size women, you’re in the wrong place 💁🏻♀️
I took a break from this app for a while but decided recently to give it another go.
I’m bi and a switch, leaning towards dom but perfectly happy subbing too.
I’m kind of picky and i know what I’m looking for - I won’t reply to anyone who doesn’t have pictures on their account,, just personal preference. I prefer having a face in mind when I’m talking to someone.
I’m open to pretty much anything - i prefer giving *** than receiving it but other than that my kinks are the same if i’m domming or subbing. send me a message and i’ll go into more detail :) hard limits pretty standard - no bodily fluids other than cum, no needles and nothing illegal
i am a very shy persion who has never done this kinda stuff befor, spent a long time being a good girl, now im looking for some spice.
cannot bring you home so any games will have to be at your place, willing to try anything new
Soft heart, sharp eyeliner. If you’re generous, respectful, and know how to spoil someone who deserves it—congrats, you just found your favorite mystery.
I like late nights, soft things, and pretending I’m not the main character (but I am). Keep it cute, keep it classy, and maybe I’ll let you fund my next daydream. No creeps, no cheapskates, no weird energy—just vibes and 💸
semi new to this, looking for an actual partner not any one night stands so don't ask for anything
kind and considerate but can be bratty at times
== Results from bdsmtest.org: ==
98% Submissive
97% Brat
78% Rope bunny
75% Masochist
62% Primal (Prey)
53% Voyeur
51% Non-monogamist
50% Vanilla
48% Experimentalist
44% Little
37% Degradee
Hi I’ve always been aware that I’m a submissive woman but I’ve only recently decided to embrace this side of me and live out my fantasies. I’m a mature woman married to a lovely man who’s open and understanding of my kinks.
I’m here to learn and explore and make some kinky friends along the way.
Looking for people to help/guide/teach me in my discoveries! But if you just want to chat/laugh/flirt that’s fine too.
I value honesty and kindness above all else.
By the way, tattoos and beards are my thing but not essential. Men who can make me laugh are though!
== Results from bdsmtest.org: ==
98% Submissive
91% Little
79% Ageplayer
77% Brat
76% Masochist
72% Rope bunny
63% Experimentalist
48% Non-monogamist
48% Voyeur
46% Vanilla
35% Exhibitionist
27% Slave
8% Pet
7% Switch
0% Degradee
0% Primal (Prey)
Been out of the game for a while but am looking refresh and enjoy my kinks.
I am bisexual and enjoy being a unicorn, as well as most forms of groups sex and both sides of the power dynamic.
Due to my son’s also being in the BDSM community I will not meet anyone under 35.
Not sure what else to put as it’s been a while since I wrote one of these but I have an energy limiting disability and am an ambulatory wheelchair user.
hiya im shaz a pre op trans woman looking to meet new people and see what happens. I'm open to most things
off limits are
skat, ***, vomit, and men no exceptions
I don’t rlly come on here anymore sorry 😎😎 in a committed, mono relationship so you are wasting ur time coming in my inbox w ur nonsense !!
If you’re looking for strictly platonic friends go ahead n message!! I’d like to attend kink events sometime, I’m particularly interested in getting to know other pet players, esp my fellow puppy girls!!! I’m a big ass nerd, video games, mtg, ttrpgs ect. I’m autistic and have adhd. I love getting a coffee and a little treat. Hmu if you think we’d vibe!
Hey there
Thank you for stopping by my profile. My name is Cherry. i am 35 year old female.
Face photos kept private only due to professional boundaries
i am happily married.
i am not seeking any play partners or play. My only play partner is my husband.
any dynamics i will offer are strictly platonic. Nothing sexual in any matter.
Looking for a respectful Dom/s relationship. I am a natural submissive but that doesn't mean I am naive or desperate. I enjoy the power play between Dom/s and the intimacy that the dynamic brings. I expect respect and gentleness outside of play. Whilst I am relatively new to this scene (3 years) I am clear on my wants and desires. If you think being a Dom is just an act of controlling me sexually to fulfill your own needs then you don't understand the dynamic so I would respectfully request you don't contact me. Stay safe everyone x
**Desires and Fantasies**
Consensual non Consensual play. Bondage, orgasm control, sensory deprivation and who knows where else this could go!
Soft heart, sharp eyeliner. If you’re generous, respectful, and know how to spoil someone who deserves it—congrats, you just found your favorite mystery.
I like late nights, soft things, and pretending I’m not the main character (but I am). Keep it cute, keep it classy, and maybe I’ll let you fund my next daydream. No creeps, no cheapskates, no weird energy—just vibes and 💸
I’ve dipped in and out over the last 10 years dependant on relationships and partners at the time but wanting to explore more. I’ve realised in this last few months I’m completely submissive although a bit of a brat at times and have yet to find something that doesn’t turn me on
hi my name is saf im 20 and will cry if i see a 3 legged *** (THEY ARE JUST LIL BABIES 😭). Im an age regressor due to trauma and want a partner who can cater to it in a non sexual way also pls, if you dont do aftercare i dont do you ;). i am very submissive and am open to trying new things. 🤍🤍
semi new to this, looking for an actual partner not any one night stands so don't ask for anything
kind and considerate but can be bratty at times
== Results from bdsmtest.org: ==
98% Submissive
97% Brat
78% Rope bunny
75% Masochist
62% Primal (Prey)
53% Voyeur
51% Non-monogamist
50% Vanilla
48% Experimentalist
44% Little
37% Degradee
No ONS, FWB or ENM please.
📚💐⚾🏏🏀🏈
I enjoy the simple things in life, and value my peace. I love to read (may have a minor book obsession), grow my own flowers, and fruits/vegetables, and watch various sports.
I'm looking for an experienced Dominant, who wants a monogamous D/s relationship. I don't switch or title stack.
I'm 5ft 10 so someone taller is preferable. I don't want to look down on you.
Your typical neuro spicy, tatted/pierced, nerdy alt type.
Sub leaning switch
Demisexual and just beginning to explore my bisexuality 😅
Connection and communication are key
Hoping to find the perfect woman or couple to help me explore my sexuality 😅 give a newbie a chance?
If you’re not into plus size women, you’re in the wrong place 💁🏻♀️
i am a very shy persion who has never done this kinda stuff befor, spent a long time being a good girl, now im looking for some spice.
cannot bring you home so any games will have to be at your place, willing to try anything new
Raven- bisexual- originally from Liverpool
I do have a boyfriend but poly
Looking for a cute submissive
I'm 5'7
plus size 32… must love the curves full length pic added
I am my psychiatrist wet dream 😂
Few disabilities… I will chase you even if I’m in my scooter 😂
420
Party Girl
Dark humour
Kindhearted
Love seeing a smile on someone’s face
⛓️😈PRIMAL DOMME😈⛓️
I am currently in a primal dynamic with others My Alpha/boyfriend,myself as Luna and my boyfriend’s submissive/parter as den mother and we have omegas in the pack too. Make no mistake, if you don’t mix well with the pack it will go no further!⛓️😈
I may have a health problems but trust me they never effect 😏
Alternative Brats To The Front 😏
Hi, single mum here. Hopefully that doesn’t put too many people off.
Two kids.
Looking for someone to chat to that I get along with and see what happens.
Open to new experiences.
I took a break from this app for a while but decided recently to give it another go.
I’m bi and a switch, leaning towards dom but perfectly happy subbing too.
I’m kind of picky and i know what I’m looking for - I won’t reply to anyone who doesn’t have pictures on their account,, just personal preference. I prefer having a face in mind when I’m talking to someone.
I’m open to pretty much anything - i prefer giving *** than receiving it but other than that my kinks are the same if i’m domming or subbing. send me a message and i’ll go into more detail :) hard limits pretty standard - no bodily fluids other than cum, no needles and nothing illegal
hey, im 20 y/o
I’m looking for a hopefully long term connection, with a kink dynamic but also a genuine care for eachother. I love dates and romantic gestures from both sides in a dynamic.
looking into kink:
my sub/slave side is something I would wait to speak about until I get to know you more as a person. but feel free to drop me a message explaining what you like within kink! However, please dont include anything forward about what you would think/do to me.
In my everyday life I am a lover of exercise! Fashion and ***ting (altho I use ***ting by numbers haha), I am quite a routine orientated person. and am always looking for a dynamic that brings out the best in both of us, staying healthy and happy.
i’m a 22 year old submissive mostly based in england! i have a soft spot for older guys!
bdsm is an important aspect of my life- the power exchange within a d/s dynamic provides me with the structure i crave. i'm very submissive & love being well behaved and knowing that what i'm doing is pleasing my dom. i hate being bratty- it’s just not for me! also as stated in my limits it’s a hard limit to call me a brat so please be mindful when messaging
i would definitely consider myself a masochist, i adore my body being ***ted with bruises and impact play is one of my favourite kinks. i love testing my limits and discovering how much my mind and body is able to handle.
i’d love to find a dom of my own to learn more about who i am as a submissive, and explore my kinks further!
although i am looking for my long term Dom (mono), im only willing to consider the perfect match for me. if you think we may get along based on my profile, say hi! (note- i’m not able to do long distance so if you’re thousands of miles away i’m happy to be pals but won’t be a good fit for more).
i am very submissive, and a very good girl- however that doesn’t mean i’m submissive for anyone who barks demands at me. submission is earned with respect and trust, messaging me orders or telling me what you want to do to me won’t get you very far. (:
Age: 20
Location: Southampton
Role: Brat (with a soft center, sharp tongue, and zero shame)
Looking For: A Daddy Dom who isn’t just here to play—but to stay.
Let’s get one thing straight: I’m not a good girl… unless I really want to be. And getting me there takes more than rules and rewards. I want a Daddy who sees the brat as part of the package, not a flaw to “fix.” Someone who finds joy in the push-and-pull—who knows that behind every smirk and eye roll is a girl who wants to feel safe enough to surrender.
I’m a chaotic mix of boldness and softness. I’ll test you, tease you, and pout when I don’t get my way—but what I’m really asking for is presence. Consistency. Patience. A firm hand, yes, but also a steady heart. I want discipline, affection, and the feeling that someone actually wants to understand me beyond the kink.
What I love:
Deep conversations that unravel into something raw and real
Long walks with music in my ears and daydreams in my head
Baking at 2AM because my mind’s too loud to sleep
Reading dark, spicy stories with morally grey men (Haunting Adeline is my problematic fave)
Solo coffee dates—because being alone doesn’t mean I’m lonely
Working on my music—because it’s where I say all the things I can’t explain out loud
Emotional growth, even when it’s ugly—because I’ve been made to feel like no one wants a “broken” sub, but I’m learning that my softness is strength
And of course… stirring up trouble wherever I go. Chaos? Always. Apologies? Rarely. Regret? Only if you earn it.
Important to know:
If you want to understand me, listen to my music. That’s where my heart lives. Sometimes I can’t explain how I’m feeling—but I can sing it. If you really want to know me, ask me to make you a song. It’ll say more than words ever could.
What I’m looking for:
Not just sex. Not just kink. I want a full dynamic. Emotional depth. Power exchange that exists outside the bedroom. I want to feel owned, not just used. Cherished and corrected. A soft place to land after being thoroughly put in my place.
If you're calm, communicative, consistent, and know how to take the reins without crushing the spirit you're holding…
Then I might just let you tame me.
Maybe.
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