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RawAssforChemCum
RawAssforChemCum
Horny raw bottom looking to get fucked. Looking for long intense session. ParTy friendly ??? Kink and fetish friendly. Dab some chili p and whatever you pervs want in my my ass and breed. Very submissive when partying.
Male (28) Los Angeles, California
bj147
b***7
I am an older over-weight guy who learned that I really enjoy gay sex. I am a newbie with a desire to learn and experience the submissive side of me.
Male (64) Grass Valley, California
Valicore
V******e
I'm a chub Master for something long term. Generally prefer younger and thinner than me. Taboo and perv slaves welcome. I enjoy desperation. I want you to need me and beg for me. Start with face and body pics. I like to chat at first and I like slaves that can do the same. Are you willing to be an object for me to explore?
Male (37) Sacramento, California
DarionABDL
D********L
Hi. I live near San Jose, California and I am a non sexual ABDL, gay oriented. I am new to ABDL and are looking for friends to hang out with and/or caregivers for experience exchange. I have a partner. I am just looking for friends.
Male (42) San Jose, California
Peachesandeggplant
P****************t
I’m completely new here. I’d describe myself as calm on the outside with a lot of monk and desire on the inside. sometimes I feel it would be nice to meet men who can bring that out of me and we both enjoy it. I’m also into relaxing you on tables. a lot of these terms on the app I’m not familiar with so still figuring it all out. I have basic version, if you like me send a hello! I can’t see most of who checked me out yet
Male (38) West Sacramento, California
nochura
n*****a
Hi everyone ? I am a gay bottom guy who wants to know/meet some nice people (straight curious men, gay-friendly couples) for friendship and maybe more :) Originally I'm from Eastern Europe and have lived in this country since 2014.
Male (39) San Diego, California
faetherlyintent
f*************t
Looking for connections of all kinds- friends, subs, lovers, pups, fuck buddies, littles, rivals, life partners n everything in between- moved to DTLA during COVID and still haven't met many locals. Currently starting a career as an author in a long string of passions- most recently was a vet tech and before that a chef. Been very social distanced, vaxx'd and boostered, and finally making an actual effort to socialize safely. Would love to grab a bite, play a game, or smoke a bowl and get to know each other! Ace/Aro but v sex positive and kinky. Experienced TPE Dom, ask for my manual if you are interested in submission and not just a rough fuck. Date/play/hang solo or with my collared vers/switch pet. Not a premium user- can't see spanks- message me!
Male (32) Los Angeles, California
poway787
p******7
5'6", 190, Uncut 6.5, brown hair and blue eyes. Adventures, outgoing, kinky, and dominant
Male (50) Poway, California
LuckyR
L****R
Sportswear & bondage(50/50) & side person looking for another half. I am super into short running wear and also bondage/interrogation role play. Hit me up if you have a similar interest and would like to build up a long term relationship.
Male (37) Irvine, California
LockedPupJasper
L*************r
Hi there, I'm polyamorous, in a throuple. I like to chat first before anything, into kinky and dominate men, I am a sub but that doesn't mean disrespect me. Trust and respect are earned not freely given. What I'm into Doms Daddies Tall guys woof Chastity I don't body shame so all are welcome
Male (34) San Jose, California
subBottom2serve
s*************e
gay guy looking to get degraded and used by sadistic men or women. like the idea of serving a lady and fully submitting to get wrecked and or pleasure her. and love to get wrecked by men too. hit me up
Male (27) Los Angeles, California
ShadySnorlax13
S************3
looking to talk to fellow kinksters to learn and be more involved in the community **Desires and Fantasies** I’be had some experience, tried some things, open minded to alot. typically sub, tried and into body worship, dom/sub, bondage, cnc, and more. ig: shadysnorlax13
Male (20) San Clemente, California
NatureBoi
N*******i
Open-minded, free spirit. I am interested in exploring more of my kinky side with like-minded individuals. Good vibes and masculine energy are always welcome.
Male (44) Gardena, California
Dom_chris
D*******s
A Gay Dom in search of a very submissive son who’s ready to learn and explore more about the Bdsm/Gay lifestyle…….Alpha cock ready to explore
Male (50) California City, California
wrestleme32
w*********2
love wrestling ? being dominated by strong ? men who have power and control over me iPhone number 562-204-5638
Male (32) Hawthorne, California
santa-clarita775
s**************5
I'm a nice guy and I absolutely enjoy meeting other nice guys. I'm attracted to young guys with Good personalities and hard bodies.
Male (70) Burbank, California
nakedshot69
n*********9
I'm so eager to find an adventure with a guy who has the same concept of life sex and everything else. I love hanging out naked, watch porn, cuddle with a naked body and ass.
Male (40) Orange, California
ken4men
k*****n
I'm a pretty laid back chill type of guy who just happens to be horny all of the time.
Male (30) San Francisco, California
WilderWithin
W**********n
Hiya! I've a big brain, kind ❤️ & a bubbly boy butt. Looking for a partner to deepen & age with. NSA ok too! Romance, kink & role play w a daddy & dom esp = ❤️❤️❤️ Non-binary (male), they/them. 3xCovid, 2xMP, PrEP, gifted/wordy, ENM or monog. No oral only No DL No racists No transphobes. I❤️full sentences & connection 1st!
Male (40) Sherman Oaks, California
DevyBoo
D*****o
Happily partnered but each looking to explore more sexually. I’m interested in exploring more of my kinks, especially those involving bondage :) open to trying most anything but will always communicate what I’m not comfortable with! really interested in exploring my switch/dom side too, but would need someone who can give proper guidance in that area, as I’m not very experienced. always love being submissive tho and giving up control ;)
Male (25) Los Angeles, California
escokink
e******k
hairy kinky guy looking for others in to bdsm and chastity. would love to talk and possibly become a long term sub for anyone interested
Male (25) Escondido, California
Asian4older
A*********r
I am here looking for a serious,committed relationship,not into casual sex or hook up.only attracted to SINGLE older man,usually 50+.open to relocate,family oriented. I am not desperate,something in life is worth waiting for,never too late to try to find someone, I tell myself, optimistically. FYI,I look a little older in person than my photos,it's not intentional,that's how phones take pictures nowadays.
Male (38) San Francisco, California
chico699
c******9
54 yo Gay man looking to explore being tied up and fucked. I was sorta flogged (with a Cat o 9 tails) 30 years ago and I wanna try that too. my nipples are hard wired. love my pitts licked and to eat clean and ass . it will take avwhile get a full erection but when I do its a party
Male (54) Chico, California
AccIonHave01
A**********1
Submissive here, looking to try some total power exchange for a few hours with a verbal dom. =) Loves: Pits, Sweat, Spit *NO PISS, FEET, OR SCAT*
Male (22) Redlands, California

New members in California

RawAssforChemCum
RawAssforChemCum
Horny raw bottom looking to get fucked. Looking for long intense session. ParTy friendly ??? Kink and fetish friendly. Dab some chili p and whatever you pervs want in my my ass and breed. Very submissive when partying.
Male (28) Los Angeles, California
nochura
n*****a
Hi everyone ? I am a gay bottom guy who wants to know/meet some nice people (straight curious men, gay-friendly couples) for friendship and maybe more :) Originally I'm from Eastern Europe and have lived in this country since 2014.
Male (39) San Diego, California
Peachesandeggplant
P****************t
I’m completely new here. I’d describe myself as calm on the outside with a lot of monk and desire on the inside. sometimes I feel it would be nice to meet men who can bring that out of me and we both enjoy it. I’m also into relaxing you on tables. a lot of these terms on the app I’m not familiar with so still figuring it all out. I have basic version, if you like me send a hello! I can’t see most of who checked me out yet
Male (38) West Sacramento, California
LuckyR
L****R
Sportswear & bondage(50/50) & side person looking for another half. I am super into short running wear and also bondage/interrogation role play. Hit me up if you have a similar interest and would like to build up a long term relationship.
Male (37) Irvine, California
LockedPupJasper
L*************r
Hi there, I'm polyamorous, in a throuple. I like to chat first before anything, into kinky and dominate men, I am a sub but that doesn't mean disrespect me. Trust and respect are earned not freely given. What I'm into Doms Daddies Tall guys woof Chastity I don't body shame so all are welcome
Male (34) San Jose, California
subBottom2serve
s*************e
gay guy looking to get degraded and used by sadistic men or women. like the idea of serving a lady and fully submitting to get wrecked and or pleasure her. and love to get wrecked by men too. hit me up
Male (27) Los Angeles, California
NatureBoi
N*******i
Open-minded, free spirit. I am interested in exploring more of my kinky side with like-minded individuals. Good vibes and masculine energy are always welcome.
Male (44) Gardena, California
wrestleme32
w*********2
love wrestling ? being dominated by strong ? men who have power and control over me iPhone number 562-204-5638
Male (32) Hawthorne, California
nakedshot69
n*********9
I'm so eager to find an adventure with a guy who has the same concept of life sex and everything else. I love hanging out naked, watch porn, cuddle with a naked body and ass.
Male (40) Orange, California
Dom_chris
D*******s
A Gay Dom in search of a very submissive son who’s ready to learn and explore more about the Bdsm/Gay lifestyle…….Alpha cock ready to explore
Male (50) California City, California
bj147
b***7
I am an older over-weight guy who learned that I really enjoy gay sex. I am a newbie with a desire to learn and experience the submissive side of me.
Male (64) Grass Valley, California
DevyBoo
D*****o
Happily partnered but each looking to explore more sexually. I’m interested in exploring more of my kinks, especially those involving bondage :) open to trying most anything but will always communicate what I’m not comfortable with! really interested in exploring my switch/dom side too, but would need someone who can give proper guidance in that area, as I’m not very experienced. always love being submissive tho and giving up control ;)
Male (25) Los Angeles, California
DarionABDL
D********L
Hi. I live near San Jose, California and I am a non sexual ABDL, gay oriented. I am new to ABDL and are looking for friends to hang out with and/or caregivers for experience exchange. I have a partner. I am just looking for friends.
Male (42) San Jose, California
WilderWithin
W**********n
Hiya! I've a big brain, kind ❤️ & a bubbly boy butt. Looking for a partner to deepen & age with. NSA ok too! Romance, kink & role play w a daddy & dom esp = ❤️❤️❤️ Non-binary (male), they/them. 3xCovid, 2xMP, PrEP, gifted/wordy, ENM or monog. No oral only No DL No racists No transphobes. I❤️full sentences & connection 1st!
Male (40) Sherman Oaks, California
SoCaldaddy
S********y
Dom masc here. looking for a man to degrade. I need you to give yourself up to me mentally and physically. Into choking, nipple play, poppers, stroking, oral, and making you completely and utterly obsessed with me. Let me be your best worst mistake ? Also looking for popperbate bros and some one who matches my energy. top on top play. let’s wrestle.
Male (34) Rialto, California
faetherlyintent
f*************t
Looking for connections of all kinds- friends, subs, lovers, pups, fuck buddies, littles, rivals, life partners n everything in between- moved to DTLA during COVID and still haven't met many locals. Currently starting a career as an author in a long string of passions- most recently was a vet tech and before that a chef. Been very social distanced, vaxx'd and boostered, and finally making an actual effort to socialize safely. Would love to grab a bite, play a game, or smoke a bowl and get to know each other! Ace/Aro but v sex positive and kinky. Experienced TPE Dom, ask for my manual if you are interested in submission and not just a rough fuck. Date/play/hang solo or with my collared vers/switch pet. Not a premium user- can't see spanks- message me!
Male (32) Los Angeles, California
campo509
c******9
I'm just a 27 year old engaged gay male looking for some kinky experiences, open to trying most of anything, my partner (32 male) may want to watch or join in~
Male (27) Alpine, California
AccIonHave01
A**********1
Submissive here, looking to try some total power exchange for a few hours with a verbal dom. =) Loves: Pits, Sweat, Spit *NO PISS, FEET, OR SCAT*
Male (22) Redlands, California
chico699
c******9
54 yo Gay man looking to explore being tied up and fucked. I was sorta flogged (with a Cat o 9 tails) 30 years ago and I wanna try that too. my nipples are hard wired. love my pitts licked and to eat clean and ass . it will take avwhile get a full erection but when I do its a party
Male (54) Chico, California
Asian4older
A*********r
I am here looking for a serious,committed relationship,not into casual sex or hook up.only attracted to SINGLE older man,usually 50+.open to relocate,family oriented. I am not desperate,something in life is worth waiting for,never too late to try to find someone, I tell myself, optimistically. FYI,I look a little older in person than my photos,it's not intentional,that's how phones take pictures nowadays.
Male (38) San Francisco, California
Valicore
V******e
I'm a chub Master for something long term. Generally prefer younger and thinner than me. Taboo and perv slaves welcome. I enjoy desperation. I want you to need me and beg for me. Start with face and body pics. I like to chat at first and I like slaves that can do the same. Are you willing to be an object for me to explore?
Male (37) Sacramento, California
ken4men
k*****n
I'm a pretty laid back chill type of guy who just happens to be horny all of the time.
Male (30) San Francisco, California
poway787
p******7
5'6", 190, Uncut 6.5, brown hair and blue eyes. Adventures, outgoing, kinky, and dominant
Male (50) Poway, California
escokink
e******k
hairy kinky guy looking for others in to bdsm and chastity. would love to talk and possibly become a long term sub for anyone interested
Male (25) Escondido, California

New personal ads in California

readyfor69
Drinks and d&ck?

For local Buffalo folks. Heading to glen park tavern for some drinks. Let’s enjoy ourselves.
Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA, Amherst ● 5 minutes ago
kasshh
Weekend

How's the weekend looking?
Club Buddy ● 18 to 80 years ● 60km around USA, Woonsocket ● 19.04.2024 - 21.04.2024
GMchatMLforsb
First kink as slave

well I went to a party with some friends. it got spicy then hell broke loose. you know? the group left for a moment and came back for me. i sighned a waiver but didn't know it would be so much fun. they stripped me and tied me up, collared me, then started giving me plenty of amazing feels I've never felt. I am normally in charge so being a slave is my favorite go to. will you take charge of me?
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 80km around USA, Nampa ● 19.04.2024 - 30.04.2024
wickedgames13
Hung male looking for attention

Im interested in meeting women just don’t be too old lol
NSA ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA, Stafford ● 55 minutes ago
Controversialkinks
Start of something new?

Hello all.

I'm looking to start connecting with someone to start vetting for a new dynamic.

I have taken some time out and am now ready to start chatting and see if I can find what I'm looking for.

I am a sadist, caregiver, and love nothing more than giving equal amounts of pleasure and punishment when earned. I like the mind play and excitement that comes from knowing what gives a tingle and reaction.

I'm hoping to find someone who lives to please, enjoys praise and maybe a little bit of degrading. I like a good mix.

I don't have a preference in looks, and treat everyone equally. If you think I'm potentially able to give what you require then send me a message.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 65 years ● 500km around UK, North Ayrshire ● 19.04.2024 - 10.05.2024
Ivan212
kinda want someone on top of me rn

someone willing?
Kinky Date ● 18 to 40 years ● 500km around Norway, Bergen ● one hour ago
Trip_Cyclone
Voyeur scene

Looking for a young lady or sb for a specific voyeur scene.
Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 125km around USA, Columbus ● 2 hours ago
satominakono
Someone

Des rencontres de ce type sur Dijon ? Je connais personne pour sortir sur mes quelque jours de passage.
Kinky Date ● 18 to 26 years ● 25km around France, Dijon ● 2 hours ago
jwmaid
Cleaning maid

Looking for a Woman who likes her feet kissed, as much as I enjoy kissing them.

Also enjoy Housework.
Now that I am retired, I am exploring my submissive side by looking for:
1) a Pen Pal.
2) who is a Dominate Woman.
3) who will treat me as a lowly cleaning maid.

You must be interested in FLR and Male Chastity?
BDSM Play Partner ● 60 to 80 years ● 500km around USA, Reynoldsburg ● 2 hours ago
Isno
Seeking teacher

I want to chat with someone who could teach me how to be a proper submissive partner. Currently single but that can change depending on you😉
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around USA, Visalia ● 2 hours ago
Rustyrudd
Extremely horny who wants to break me in

Open to anyone who wants to teach me about how to play
NSA ● 18 to 80 years ● 35km around USA, Memphis ● 2 hours ago
novara239442
Ciao. Sono uno studente, ho 26 anni. Amo il cinema

This could be fun 😊
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 49 years ● 205km around Italy, Novara ● 3 hours ago
lightfare
New to this, would like someone to teach me the ro

Anyone who is kind and willing to teach please hmu, I wanna learn more and I doubt I can do it alone lol.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 50 years ● 240km around USA, Bridgeport ● 3 hours ago
Seth2024
Looking for playdates

Busy life need to unwind and play with likeminded people.
NSA ● 35 to 60 years ● 65km around UK, Haywards Heath ● 4 hours ago
cape-coral50786
Looking for cougars

Cougar fet
NSA ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA, Cape Coral ● 4 hours ago
MGladson
Description

Someone who is alright with my kinks and is willing to indulge in them
Kinky Date ● 24 to 40 years ● 125km around USA, Indianapolis ● 4 hours ago
TheShiestyDaddy
Freaky Bull 👀 4 fun

Looking 4 someone who csn handle me
Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 55km around USA, Hammond ● 4 hours ago
redondo-beach484094
Strong daddy seeks play partner

I am new to the lifestyle and looking for a partnership with a kind and loving sex positive soul.
Kinky Date ● 18 to 35 years ● 65km around USA, Redondo Beach ● 5 hours ago
DreDot18
An older woman who wants a younger man in her life

I’m new to the app and don’t know what to expect but if your down to mess around hmu
Munch Buddy ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA, Zephyrhills ● 5 hours ago
Cumpumper
Breeding and creampie.

Anyone looking to be bread or just filled with cum Cock to practice throating.
BDSM Play Partner ● 150km around USA, Marysville ● 5 hours ago
Cumpumper
Breeding and creamoies

Here 4 Breeding and creampie ,fill ups, cum throat
BDSM/Fetish Family ● 100km around USA, Marysville ● 5 hours ago
Kosegutt69
Hello there 😉

Want to meet open minded fun loving people that are more into pleasure than *** 😇⛓️😈
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 44 years ● 500km around Norway, Bergen ● 19.04.2024 - 17.05.2024
sab87
Begging for a pegging

😭
Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around UK, Liverpool ● 6 hours ago
sneakylin69
Nsa fun in gulf coast ?

Trying to have some fun in Mississippi gulf coast area. Any body know a good spot 👀
NSA ● 18 to 80 years ● 80km around USA, Pascagoula ● 6 hours ago

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