Athletic bi guy, 49. Married, discreet. Fun! I look like a regular man, butI don’t play that way.

I want a dominant person who takes the lead. Collar, chain, being claimed. I like verbal. I like my mouth used. I like being dressed femme or sissy, for someone who actually wants that. Bondage, spanking, protocol.

Looking for a man who hunts and then follows through. Open to a woman or a trans woman who tops the same way. I don’t become the man in the room. Couples too if both people are in it.

No bareback.
No photos of my face sent around.
No involving my wife.
No silent “just use my mouth and don’t talk.”
No meeting if you won’t say what you actually want.
I stay in control of substances. I don’t get wrecked.
Hard stop if I say stop.