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*I am here to keep track of events and existing friendships.* ** DO NOT ASK ME TO BE YOUR DOM/MISTRESS/GODDESS/ETC. Same goes for addressing me with any of those descriptors. I'm not here for that, and I am so far from interested in people who approach me for a relationship that it's not even funny.*** Let my mail rating serve as an example of how I don't suffer idiots. If you come into my inbox with the intent of getting me to stroke your kink, I will not put up with it. I'm open to people who need more actual info about the community, or looking for resources. I'm basically asexual, so please don't start a convo with what you'd like to do to me. Openers about my appearance will only succeed in getting an eye roll. In real life, I'm a wannabe homesteader, Wastelander, cosplayer, prepper, geek, fail-gardener, and mother. I like the isolation that comes from living off the beaten path, where I can raise a family in peace and back to nature as I grew up. Years ago, I was labeled a pseudo extrovert, and it seems to fit quite well. The docs also slapped me on the spectrum as an aspie, so I've got that going for me! In kink life, I fill the role of Amazon Dom with my kitten. There are many fetishes that I wander through, and I seem to discover something new and fun every other week. However, just because I enjoy a kink with the people I love doesn't mean I will enjoy it with others. The connection that I have with my significant others is unique to me, so outside of a scene, I do not play with strangers. Add me, follow me, or message me - it's all good! Just don't be a dickweed, and I won't eat your face. ❤ **Desires and Fantasies** Someone who can read a profile would be a good start. All of my kink and romantic needs are fulfilled by the wonderful people in my life, so I am NOT looking to add anyone else to my personal dance card at this point. My time management skills are shit, and with the perpetually busy days that come with adulting, I want to dedicate every bit of free time that I have to my existing polycule.

This soul lives in the Sky and Sea. The girl has been isolated a majority of her life and chooses to be so now. I am a Dominant, Master, and Sadist. girl is a submissive, slave, and Masochist. We are a great many other labels, wearing 10,000 faces. We were born to serve and be served. We are the whole spectrum, becoming... Love, embodied. We listen to music 24/7, dance blindfolded at night, write endlessly in devotion to the Divine, which We define as a Higher and Lower (sub)Consciousness, Life and Death, Love, Lust, Hate... Air, Fire, Water, Earth... these descriptors going on and on. girl and her Master(We in One Body, Heart, and Mind) exist equally as chaos and order. We are exceptionally grounded, well-read, empathic, understanding, and maniacal. If one would like to experience Us before reaching out, Our user on fetlife is REMQuill, which has many writings and photos, though most are private. If We have a decent chemistry and I believe We won't scare you away, I will allow friendship to see deeper. Don't blind friend request, send a message as well. We are Philosophical, Psychological, Intellectual, and so much more... We are metaphysical and that is what I am seeking to reflect across the table. Another that has ascended/ descended to my level or we will not vibrate and resonate. I respond to eloquence, someone that actually attempted to write more than a hello. Someone that shows they see more than a body to fuck. I am a Limitless slave and an Infinity Master. Impress Us. Humble Us. Offer Us your wisdom, attention, fervor and favor, and We will do all We can to meet you half way. We are a Switch, but do not generally flip in a singular dynamic. Master remains as Master and slave would never dare to order Them around. We have 20 years in the lifestyle. girl was raised in 1950s household and was trained to be a slave since childhood. We grew into Mastery and Sadism as the stupid and curious child experienced the world and took control of her life with accountability and responsibility. Even when We are not owned, We perform rituals for the Spirit of BDSM daily. This is a belief system and the only way We exist. BDSM is Our breath. Acts of Service is Our Love Language. Extremes at hedonistic and starvation levels are Our die-hard romance. Above all, We are hopelessly hoping for heart-wrenching, mind-fucking Alchemical Twisted-Metal Romance. ♡

I am a Domme. As a Top I enjoy strict discipline, corporal punishment, sissy play and ***. I am selective as to who I will play with. My Partner and I own a 3000 square foot photo studio in Riverside. We rent space the for photography, videography, podcasts and more. Contact me for more information. Come hang out at an event or free classes. The studio offers free lifestyle educational events. Our classes cover everything from basic 101 classes up.

I’m here just looking to have some fun and for someone to dominate me. I am a bit shy so I need someone who can be sweet but still able to handle my bratty side (; i’m also very new when it come with doing anything with girls

Im autistic and if you explain something to me in a non condescending way while maintaining eye contact i might melt 😉 i like being praised and direct communication. I’ve spent my entire life in fight or flight, if you make me feel safe and get me to turn that off, you can have me forever 💗

I'm a Mistress seeking submissive partners to explore with newbies are warmly welcomed to message me and discover together. Serious inquiries only. No time-wasters.

#1 mad scientist fetishist of all time. i could be your next experiment :0 20, artist, nerd, rat + mouse enthusiast, neurodivergent, chronically ill, and quite silly the kinks listed in my profile are what im mostly into other than the whole mad scientist thing, so if anything here intrigues you hit me up!

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I’m only looking for single men born between 2000 and May 2005. NOT looking for friends here, especially fwb 💀. I have none but definitely not looking for it online. Don’t ask me to message you just because you can’t message me. Setting high standards. 😌 Even one true friend is better than a whole group of NPCs. I’m here for the vibes, maybe some chaos, maybe romance, but don’t get it twisted. If you lie to me, I’ll catch it mid-DM like a glitch in the matrix. My preferences for men's personalities are different from what most people might have. I've noticed that many men share similar traits, which you, the reader, likely possess as well. Personally, I find these traits unappealing in anyone, but I digress. Autistic, unshaved, virgin, can’t drive yet, but when I do? I’m racing into my main character era with the love of my life. In cosplay. Maybe we’re Johnny & Lola from Bully (not the toxicity but the aesthetic), or Ethan & Mia from Resident Evil (traumatic but iconic). Either way, we serve. Don’t show your face? Bye. Say “I’ll show you in dms”? Double bye. When I fall, I FALL. Outfits, playlists, delusions, screaming into the pillow level type love. Sensitive? correct. Stupid? not quite. Oh, and no nudes—I’m not your dropbox. 💅

I am just a girl🤭. I like to nerd out about a lot of things like hair, music or food. I will be respectful if you are respectful (unless we have inside jokes).

I’m pretty easy going and playful im always looking for fun. I love trying new things and saying yes to new experiences. Let’s enjoy the moment and see where things go type of person. I’m very open minded it’s been a while since the last time I’ve put myself out there so I’m hoping now is the right time we will see I guess lol

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Im 24 having lots of fun raving, and enjoying my youth! No long distance!!!! Looking for a rave bae, Long term, I miss being in love and loved. Or a long term situationship to go to afters with me, gotta be muscular enough to handle these curves 🤭

I'm a portrait artist and starting to tattoo. I'm a BBW, and I love to laugh. I do draw live models sometimes, so maybe in the future, I might draw you. I'm a married woman. However, under the current situation, there are times of separation between him and I, which during that time we agreed to let me go out with women or men. However, I will always respond to women. My spare time is limited, so if you are a flake, please don't waste it. FYI: If you're a guy that's writing, no disrespect, but I have a soft spot for nerds and Asians.

I’m a submissive baby girl with a soft heart, a sharp mind, and a playful streak. I’m looking for the right Daddy/Dom who can lead with confidence, care, and consistency. My last relationship didn’t work out, but it made me crystal clear on what I value: honesty, emotional safety, and a man who follows through on every promise he makes. I’m drawn to a man who shows up as his word. Must be financially stable, grounded, hygienic, ambitious, and proud of the life he’s building. Bonus points if the gym is part of your world and your mindset is just as strong as your body. Constantly bettering yourself in every way. I want a connection where I can let go and feel cherished... where dominance is steady, nurturing, and earned through trust. I’m looking for something monogamous, loyal, and meaningful. With real communication, consideration, emotional maturity, and space for softness. Aftercare matters to me: reassurance, presence, and the kind of tenderness that lets me fully relax into the bond we’re building. If you’re the kind of man who can guide with strength, keep me laughing, loves to spoil, tease me just enough, and still know when to hold me close. Slide in. I don’t bite... unless you tell me to 😉

Share who I am..... I don't know the answer to that anymore. I lost her a long time ago, she was carefree and ***less. She was angry, cold, and calculated. Strategic, ruthless, and calm. She was loyal, honest, and dependable. I want to find her again, Im sick of being numb. I want to explore and experience all of the things the old me wanted. To know who I am now. I want to be able to say, out loud, what I want, and then take it. I want freedom, acceptance, peace. To be cherished and valued. To be owned in all the right ways, to be shattered so that I can be put back together as the version of me I was meant to be all along.

A person who loves travel and food. If I could describe myself in three sentences, it would be: I'm conducting culinary experiments, and I enjoy sharing stories with friends.

New to the BDSM lifestyle but have always had an interest in exploring more into this side of my sexuality. Looking to make friends or a regular play partner to meet up with, maybe, once a month. Will need to own their own equipment & be okay with meeting at a public bdsm establishment until I feel comfortable. I cannot host!

Hello there ~ I'm here for something different from Fetlife. Interested in friends, play partners, and people I can attend munches, classes, and events with. Connections I'm interested in: - Masochists, submissives, bottoms, pets, slaves, or sub-leaning switches for both short term and long term play partner dynamics. - Queer community folks and other femmes! - Other poly/ENM folks for discussing our dating & relationship experiences! For the record, I am ENM and happily married to my submissive partner. - Local community only. - Dungeon, kink event, munch, and class partners/friends. - Nerdy/Artsy/Weird people for platonic friendships and/or play partners! - Rope enthusiasts I can learn from and with. - 🩸/Needle play enthusiasts (I require recent testing prior to play). - Fire play and wax play lovers. - Fantasy, sci-fi, and horror fans (this includes people who love books, D&D, anime, movies, and cons of course). - Interesting people who can teach me new things. Connections I am NOT interested in: - No long distance. No online. No tourists. - No racists, homophobes, sexists, transphobes or any other sort of bigoted asshole. - No conservatives, centrists, or libertarians. - No sissy fetishists. - No illegal/abusive activities. - No hookups for vanilla sex acts. - No swingers/unicorn hunting couples. - No pay-for-play dynamics (respect to those who are into it, but I'm not).

I am a little submissive bratty princess that loves to play with my stuffies but have no Daddy to play with me and take care of me . Looking for an experienced daddy dominant to get to know that i can treat like a king and he can treat me like a princess.

I am a sub/middle/babygirl. I am not a masochist but I do like spankings. I am wanting to test my *** tolerance but slowly. I wanna be owned and collared eventually. I'm very into the soft dom dynamic. I also adore pet play. I'm a cute little bunny or kitten depending on the situation. I am looking for a soft sensual primal DD that has a smidge of sadism in him that he springs on me unsuspectingly. One that encourages and plans. Also one that helps me become an overall better me in the process (mentally, physically and emotionally). I am naturally a sub and for me I prefer the 24/7 dynamic because in my everyday life I am in a position where I have to operate in a very masculine energy. For me it’s something about coming home and no longer having to make decisions knowing that your Dom has your best interest at heart ( physical, spiritual, and emotional). I also love, love, love the fact that your wants, needs and requirements are known up front so there is no misunderstanding. Clean test 2/2/26 Kinks: DDlg, Primal, CNC, 1950s housewife, fire play, free use, ANR, spanking, impact, closed triad

exotic, ambitious, confident, and full of charisma. I'm Egyptian, Hispanic, black, and sub Saharan African. I'm a full blown masochist, and I love to get disciplined.

**About Me** I’m a submissive at heart. I can try to top, but usually I’ll get too flustered to do it right. I prefer to be under control. To be throughly used and not have to think about anything other than pleasing my lover. But of course, that mind set only comes after I get to know you. Or if you show me my place ;3 Besides kinks, I’m a bit of a nerd. Gaming, anime, Dnd? Those are my main hobbies. If you can’t beat me in Mario kart or listen to me ramble about my favorite characters, then you can’t get head. That’s how it works with me pal. A connection is important to me above else. It doesn’t have to be serious, but I have to know someone enough to trust them to submit fully. Patience is key, and maybe a few stern words too ;3 **Desires and Fantasies** Honestly CNC is a huge kink of mine. Being ***d to do something, without a say in it? Really turns me on. I love the thought of being someone’s toy. Someone’s little play thing. It might be a bit weird.. but it’s exciting to me.

*I am here to keep track of events and existing friendships.* ** DO NOT ASK ME TO BE YOUR DOM/MISTRESS/GODDESS/ETC. Same goes for addressing me with any of those descriptors. I'm not here for that, and I am so far from interested in people who approach me for a relationship that it's not even funny.*** Let my mail rating serve as an example of how I don't suffer idiots. If you come into my inbox with the intent of getting me to stroke your kink, I will not put up with it. I'm open to people who need more actual info about the community, or looking for resources. I'm basically asexual, so please don't start a convo with what you'd like to do to me. Openers about my appearance will only succeed in getting an eye roll. In real life, I'm a wannabe homesteader, Wastelander, cosplayer, prepper, geek, fail-gardener, and mother. I like the isolation that comes from living off the beaten path, where I can raise a family in peace and back to nature as I grew up. Years ago, I was labeled a pseudo extrovert, and it seems to fit quite well. The docs also slapped me on the spectrum as an aspie, so I've got that going for me! In kink life, I fill the role of Amazon Dom with my kitten. There are many fetishes that I wander through, and I seem to discover something new and fun every other week. However, just because I enjoy a kink with the people I love doesn't mean I will enjoy it with others. The connection that I have with my significant others is unique to me, so outside of a scene, I do not play with strangers. Add me, follow me, or message me - it's all good! Just don't be a dickweed, and I won't eat your face. ❤ **Desires and Fantasies** Someone who can read a profile would be a good start. All of my kink and romantic needs are fulfilled by the wonderful people in my life, so I am NOT looking to add anyone else to my personal dance card at this point. My time management skills are shit, and with the perpetually busy days that come with adulting, I want to dedicate every bit of free time that I have to my existing polycule.

#1 mad scientist fetishist of all time. i could be your next experiment :0 20, artist, nerd, rat + mouse enthusiast, neurodivergent, chronically ill, and quite silly the kinks listed in my profile are what im mostly into other than the whole mad scientist thing, so if anything here intrigues you hit me up!

PLEASE DO NOT SEND ME PERSONAL PHOTOS/DICK pics with out permission and don't message me for naked photos. You will get blocked. Im not here for exchanging pictures. The ones on my profile are the ones you get to see. Thank you!

I’m a submissive baby girl with a soft heart, a sharp mind, and a playful streak. I’m looking for the right Daddy/Dom who can lead with confidence, care, and consistency. My last relationship didn’t work out, but it made me crystal clear on what I value: honesty, emotional safety, and a man who follows through on every promise he makes. I’m drawn to a man who shows up as his word. Must be financially stable, grounded, hygienic, ambitious, and proud of the life he’s building. Bonus points if the gym is part of your world and your mindset is just as strong as your body. Constantly bettering yourself in every way. I want a connection where I can let go and feel cherished... where dominance is steady, nurturing, and earned through trust. I’m looking for something monogamous, loyal, and meaningful. With real communication, consideration, emotional maturity, and space for softness. Aftercare matters to me: reassurance, presence, and the kind of tenderness that lets me fully relax into the bond we’re building. If you’re the kind of man who can guide with strength, keep me laughing, loves to spoil, tease me just enough, and still know when to hold me close. Slide in. I don’t bite... unless you tell me to 😉

Hi all, I’m a 24yo female Little who is currently in the Midwest for grad school. I’m originally from California though, and that’s my home. My Info: Age: 24 Little Age: 5-6ish Gender: Female Ethnicity: Indian Height: 5’ Likes- 1. Being cozy. I love blankets and cuddles and stuffies and fluffy socks. 2. Reading books and watching shows/movies (especially if it’s with my daddy dom) 3. Little art projects 4. Good food 5. Sleep and nice bedtime routines 6. Cute nicknames and titles: 6a. Nicknames for me: kitten, sweetheart, love, little one, little girl, etc. 6b. Titles I like using with others: Sir, Mister, Daddy, Master. I like being a respectful sub with using dom titles, but only when we get to that point. What I’m looking for: I’d prefer to speak with people who are between 20-30 years old. 1. A patient, safe Daddy Dom who is very good at the caregiving side. I need a lot of kindness and care before, during, after sessions that we do. And in day-to-day interactions. I don’t want something purely sexual with minimal caring/little space time. 2. Online at first, since school takes much of my free time. Texts throughout the day work very well for me. 3. Structured rules for a ddlg dynamic. I love sitting with my dom to make these. 4. Use Discord!! It’s my absolute favorite to chat on, and it’s much more comfy for me to share pics on there. 5. Text role plays are very very important to me to connect. I mean the kind where we text out what we’d do if we were right next to each other. I’ve made little pillow forts and done other small activities like this, and it’s very nice especially if we’re busy with work/school. What I’m like as a Little/sub- 1. Obedient, within limits of course. But I generally want to please my dom. He takes care of my little side, so I want to look after him and do things that he likes too. 2. Playful. I love sneaking up on my dom and letting out my kitten side. 3. Cuddly. I basically want to be in my dom’s lap all day. Interests- 1. Rules- both sexual and non-sexual 2. Comfort 3. Edges 4. Small pet play (kitten) 5. Spanks 6. Showing cute/ sexy pics 7. Small *** 8. Little/sub training Limits- 1. Public 2. Anything that brings too much physical harm 3. Bathroom stuff

I'm a Mistress seeking submissive partners to explore with newbies are warmly welcomed to message me and discover together. Serious inquiries only. No time-wasters.

I require you to do better than "hey" or "hi" put effort into a message! PUT in the effort if you want My attention! I want to chat with you before adding you as a friend. . I take my time to get to know you; I won't text or kik you right out the gate. I am interested in meeting submissive men. A friendship is a MUST for Me. Outside of kink I am a foodie and love wine! I enjoy cake and cupcake decorating from time to time. I love relaxing by the pool with a good book and meditating & reflecting on the beach. I am very spiritual. In my business life I am an entrepreneur. I have ZERO time for bullsh*t and games. I am direct and shoot straight. I am enjoying this amazing journey called life! you can show your appreciation for Me and browse My wish list here: https://***/hz/wishlist/ls/1AB61O41E8XX?ref_=wl_share

I am a very curious and passionate girl who is looking for some fun and exploration of her new found sexuality. I love taking in *** and I love giving it back at any chance I get, I can be a very fun little puzzle if you know how to put all the pieces together !!

I'm sincere, romantic and kinky woman. I like to explore and trying new things. I like to have fun and very adventurous too.

I am a family-oriented and trustworthy woman who embraces her feminine side with grace. At my core, I lead a simple life and cherish the little things; my greatest desire is to experience the profound connection that comes with mutual love. I truly believe in the magic of love and the warmth it brings to our lives.

I’m 25, full of energy and optimism, and believe love should be built on trust, respect, and laughter. I enjoy spending time with family and friends, exploring new places, and finding joy in life’s little moments. I’m looking for someone genuine, loyal, and ready to share both everyday adventures and a meaningful future together.

If I needed to describe my character in one word, I would say that I am kind. But I can also say about myself that I am caring, honest, ambitious. I love to take care, but I also want to take care of me.

“I’m a dominant personality with a controlled, deliberate approach. I value clear communication, mutual trust, and consensual power exchange. My interests lean toward psychological dominance, structured dynamics, ritual, and the interplay between discipline and desire. I’m drawn to partners who appreciate guidance, intensity, and the thrill of surrendering in a safe, respectful environment. I bring confidence, intention, and consistency to every interaction—balancing authority with care.”

I'm a woman who's down to earth. I am a loyal person with a good heart who is willing to take risks in life and more when it comes to love. I hope he is old-fashioned, knows how to love old-fashioned, and is a great conversationalist with the desire to learn more. about me, I'm just a person who knows how to take care of and maintain food and physical condition

I’m pretty easy going and playful im always looking for fun. I love trying new things and saying yes to new experiences. Let’s enjoy the moment and see where things go type of person. I’m very open minded it’s been a while since the last time I’ve put myself out there so I’m hoping now is the right time we will see I guess lol

I love good care and funny conversations until late at night. I want a relationship where everything feels real.

DDLG.Slave/Master.Owned. Pet Play. Seeking a Daddy who wants to connect on an emotional, mental and physical level. Balance of Dominate & Nurturing. Creative, loyal, affectionate. I like funny guys. I don’t drink or smoke. I am Moderate. Agnostic. 💚Traditional, Wholesome, Family Values💚 💕Serious relationship 💕wants marriage Don’t talk to me if you are….. 🚫into Casual Sex.🚫Married🚫offering me *** 🚫 ENM🚫Polyamorous.🚫Switch🚫Couple 🚫think open relationships are healthy for long term success. I love going on walks, the gym, hiking, the beach, museums, Hearst Castle, watching old movies from the golden age of Hollywood, cuddling, being bathed, having my hair brushed by my daddy, accomplishing a list my daddy has made for me, drawing and ***ting, writing songs and writing books.

I’m the kind of person who looks sweet at first glance but gives off a different kind of energy once you get to know me. I like chemistry, tension, and connections that make the room feel just a little warmer. I’m playful, curious, and open-minded, with a soft spot for someone who knows how to read the moment without needing everything spelled out. If you know how to match energy, communicate clearly, and enjoy a little heat beneath the surface, we’ll get along dangerously well.

I’m disciplined, down-to-earth, and looking to connect with someone genuine — no games, just good energy and real conversations.Physically, I stay in great shape (A Sergeant in the Military), and I’m the type who believes respect, humor, and good vibes go a long way. Whether it’s grabbing coffee, going for walks, or just hanging out and talking about life — I’m down to build something meaningful

I like to lead an active lifestyle, do sports, yoga, stretching and love active recreation on quad bikes. I am always open and honest and I appreciate sincerity in relationships. I love to cook and my specialty is pasta with seafood. My energy and passion for life make every day bright and intense, but deep down I dream of finding someone who will share these moments with me. On this dating site I want to meet a man who knows how to enjoy life and who is not interested in the opinion of other people. Also, who is not afraid of a relationship with a young, energetic and hot woman.

I am calm, feminine, easy-going woman who likes life and lives it passionately. Life is a canvas and we all have ***ts. I used to use bright colors. I enjoy every single moment of this life. I like to open my personality to people I like and to make their life brighter, too. I am like a fairy, who will touch me immediately gets my magic power. I am very positive, I love new experiences and always open to new emotions and knowledges. I like to argue on interesting topics. My heart is open to love. I trust people and try to look at them only good things, so, please, don't break my tender heart. So no lies, no empty promises and illusions, I am here to meet a real man with serious intentions, who wants to plunge into a loving relationship.

I’m someone who loves deeply, stays loyal, and gives my all to the right person. I work hard, I value honesty, and I’m looking for a real connection with someone sincere and mature. I want a relationship built on trust, respect, and passion nothing less. If you’re genuine and ready for something real, I’m all yours.

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I live in China because I'm not used to the American lifestyle. My parents are currently retired and planning a round-the-world trip.