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Demoness, Mistress, Domme and sometimes Mommy. I tolerate no rivals for devotion and no casual familiarity with my divinity. Never forget that my grace is a gift and my wrath is a promise. Approach with respect. Ask to speak to me and I'll decide if I should.
Female (37) Bassett, California
Rather than jumping straight into practice, I value spiritual connection and in-depth communication more. If you'd like to explore the wonders of this world with me, please feel free to say hello
Female (40) San Francisco, California
*I am here to keep track of events and existing friendships.* ** DO NOT ASK ME TO BE YOUR DOM/MISTRESS/GODDESS/ETC. Same goes for addressing me with any of those descriptors. I'm not here for that, and I am so far from interested in people who approach me for a relationship that it's not even funny.*** Let my mail rating serve as an example of how I don't suffer idiots. If you come into my inbox with the intent of getting me to stroke your kink, I will not put up with it. I'm open to people who need more actual info about the community, or looking for resources. I'm basically asexual, so please don't start a convo with what you'd like to do to me. Openers about my appearance will only succeed in getting an eye roll. In real life, I'm a wannabe homesteader, Wastelander, cosplayer, prepper, geek, fail-gardener, and mother. I like the isolation that comes from living off the beaten path, where I can raise a family in peace and back to nature as I grew up. Years ago, I was labeled a pseudo extrovert, and it seems to fit quite well. The docs also slapped me on the spectrum as an aspie, so I've got that going for me! In kink life, I fill the role of Amazon Dom with my kitten. There are many fetishes that I wander through, and I seem to discover something new and fun every other week. However, just because I enjoy a kink with the people I love doesn't mean I will enjoy it with others. The connection that I have with my significant others is unique to me, so outside of a scene, I do not play with strangers. Add me, follow me, or message me - it's all good! Just don't be a dickweed, and I won't eat your face. ❤ **Desires and Fantasies** Someone who can read a profile would be a good start. All of my kink and romantic needs are fulfilled by the wonderful people in my life, so I am NOT looking to add anyone else to my personal dance card at this point. My time management skills are shit, and with the perpetually busy days that come with adulting, I want to dedicate every bit of free time that I have to my existing polycule.
Female (37) Camptonville, California
Im a little looking for a caregiver I’m Bi and Polyam also looking for events and such and to meet new people☺️ I love reading(mostly romance books of any kind), gaming, knitting, crocheting, sewing, hanging out with my gf, and drawing. I’m kinda shy at first but once you get me talking I’m all giggles
Female (22) Clovis, California
I am a Domme. As a Top I enjoy strict discipline, corporal punishment, sissy play and ***. I am selective as to who I will play with. My Partner and I own a 3000 square foot photo studio in Riverside. We rent space the for photography, videography, podcasts and more. Contact me for more information. Come hang out at an event or free classes. The studio offers free lifestyle educational events. Our classes cover everything from basic 101 classes up.
Female (57) Corona, California
I want something real. I want a 24/7 dynamic. if you don't understand what that means then you're not the one. I would feel better talking about this more in private.
Female (24) Susanville, California
Hello! I'm a 26 year old Latina/Italian submissive exploring the thrilling world of kink. I’m passionate about BDSM, role-playing, pet play] and eager to connect with like-minded individuals who appreciate the beauty of power exchange.
Female (38) San Diego, California
looking for single men born between 2003 and May 2005. NOT looking for friends here, especially fwb 💀. I have none but definitely not looking for it online. Don’t ask me to message you just because you can’t message me. I don’t like blue eyes demons 😂. I keep forgetting to mention this, but I have no desire to look for a guy nearby or in the states. It sounds ridiculous, but I have my reasons. Setting high standards. 😌 Even one true friend is better than a whole group of NPCs. I’m here for the vibes, maybe some chaos (don’t get too crazy tho), maybe romance, but don’t be fooled. I think only 10% or less of guys have what I want in a guy. sad to think about more likely true. Autistic, unshaved, virgin, can’t drive yet, but when I do? I’m racing into my main character era with the love of my life. In cosplay. Maybe we’re Johnny & Lola from Bully (not the toxicity but the aesthetic), or Ethan & Mia from Resident Evil (traumatic but iconic). Don’t show your face? Bye. Say “I’ll show you in dms”? Double bye. Sensitive? correct. Stupid? not quite. no nudes—I’m not your dropbox. 💅
Female (21) Los Angeles, California
I do as I please My personality tends to switch with the person I am interacting with I have both a dominant side, and a VERY submissive side for certain people. I like to get to know the person I am engaging with prior to indulging in our play, as it is very important to establish our roles and boundaries. Last Tested: 01/28/26 D#isclaimer: I Do NOT consent to my info, pics, or otherwise being used for any kind of project or otherwise, without my absolute written permission.
Female (27) San Francisco, California
I'm a Mistress seeking submissive partners to explore with newbies are warmly welcomed to message me and discover together. Serious inquiries only. No time-wasters.
Im an highly experienced dominatrix with seductive streak of Sadism and some addictive qualities, im searching for a submissive who’s eager to explore his submissive nature and deeply craves being put in his place through indulgence his kinks and fantasies. I enjoy newbies who are eager and passionate about exploring and learning
Female (31) Oakland, California
I’m a Domme/Mommy/Mistress/Goddess…. It’s great to see you on here. I am a very strict and dominant Mistress, I am looking for a slave for active participation and meeting a slave to own and use as my property ,heart ,body and soul….Please I’m open to having conversations with people that only aligns with my kinks and fantasies, please read my bio well enough to understand what i want to avoid been spoke to rudely, I’m an independent domme and have full consent to pursue my fantasies… my basic rules are simple AND THIS IS A MUST READ!!! * Don’t address me commonly or with romantic words like hey baby, sweetheart, beautiful… (Learn the right manner of communication) * Don’t send me nudes without my permission!!! * Don’t call without proper consent from me * Don’t ask me for meet ups or one night stands… get yourself an online hooker or prostitute!!! * Be ready to commit and stay dedicated before making your mind up to DM me!!! * I don’t tolerate time wasting!!!
Female (36) San Jose, California
I’m a submissive baby girl with a soft heart, a sharp mind, and a playful streak. I’m looking for the right Daddy/Dom who can lead with confidence, care, and consistency. My last relationship didn’t work out, but it made me crystal clear on what I value: honesty, emotional safety, and a man who follows through on every promise he makes. I’m drawn to a man who shows up as his word. Must be financially stable, grounded, hygienic, ambitious, and proud of the life he’s building. Bonus points if the gym is part of your world and your mindset is just as strong as your body. Constantly bettering yourself in every way. I want a connection where I can let go and feel cherished... where dominance is steady, nurturing, and earned through trust. I’m looking for something monogamous, loyal, and meaningful. With real communication, consideration, emotional maturity, and space for softness. Aftercare matters to me: reassurance, presence, and the kind of tenderness that lets me fully relax into the bond we’re building. If you’re the kind of man who can guide with strength, keep me laughing, loves to spoil, tease me just enough, and still know when to hold me close. Slide in. I don’t bite... unless you tell me to 😉
Female (41) Orange, California
**Fun, Feisty, and Sexy AF** _Hey, I'm Lavish, your Luxury 304. Every thing about me is made to tease and and if you treat me right I might be in the mood to please._ **Discreet, Exxxotic Experience** **Desires and Fantasies** _**My Only Desire is to be the fun kind of kink... you know, a fantasy in the flesh.**_
Female (26) Tracy, California
I am seeking a very submissive and obedient man in-person. Your body type, race, age, status, etc are less important to me than your amount of submission. I am not looking for a one-time fling, but something that is a deep part of you for a long term.
I'm a seductive switch with a dominant edge commanding when I crave it, teasing when you deserve it, and open to explore the depths between pleasure and power. Control is a delicious game, and I know how to play it whether I’m holding the reins or letting you think you are. Curious minds and obedient souls are welcome, but know this: Respect is mandatory. Consent is sacred. Limits are non-negotiable.
Female (31) Dodgertown, California
exotic, ambitious, confident, and full of charisma. I'm Egyptian, Hispanic, black, and sub Saharan African. I'm a full blown masochist, and I love to get disciplined. Dont even think about messaging me if you dont have any profile pictures, i will not respond and will most likely block you. tiktok: @yelitsa13 insta: yelitsa818
Female (19) Arcadia, California
I am just a girl🤭. I like to nerd out about a lot of things like hair, music or food. I will be respectful if you are respectful (unless we have inside jokes).
Female (25) Newbury Park, California
I like to lead an active lifestyle, do sports, yoga, stretching and love active recreation on quad bikes. I am always open and honest and I appreciate sincerity in relationships. I love to cook and my specialty is pasta with seafood. My energy and passion for life make every day bright and intense, but deep down I dream of finding someone who will share these moments with me. On this dating site I want to meet a man who knows how to enjoy life and who is not interested in the opinion of other people. Also, who is not afraid of a relationship with a young, energetic and hot woman.
Female (42) Escondido, California
Im 24 having lots of fun raving, and enjoying my youth! No long distance!!!! Looking for a rave bae, Long term, I miss being in love and loved. Or a long term situationship to go to afters with me, gotta be muscular enough to handle these curves 🤭
I’m a pansexual I’m looking to try new things. I just wanna explore have some fun. I’m 19. My profile age is wrong by the way I won’t respond to messages with too much aggression LETS GO OUT
Female (21) Victorville, California
I am a person who loves life and enjoys exploring new things. In my spare time, I enjoy traveling, reading and also relish quiet moments. For me, good communication and an interesting soul are more important than anything else. If we could produce a chemical reaction, that would be the best start
Female (37) Sacramento, California
I’m here just looking to have some fun and for someone to dominate me. I am a bit shy so I need someone who can be sweet but still able to handle my bratty side (; i’m also very new when it come with doing anything with girls

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Rather than jumping straight into practice, I value spiritual connection and in-depth communication more. If you'd like to explore the wonders of this world with me, please feel free to say hello
Female (40) San Francisco, California
Demoness, Mistress, Domme and sometimes Mommy. I tolerate no rivals for devotion and no casual familiarity with my divinity. Never forget that my grace is a gift and my wrath is a promise. Approach with respect. Ask to speak to me and I'll decide if I should.
Female (37) Bassett, California
*I am here to keep track of events and existing friendships.* ** DO NOT ASK ME TO BE YOUR DOM/MISTRESS/GODDESS/ETC. Same goes for addressing me with any of those descriptors. I'm not here for that, and I am so far from interested in people who approach me for a relationship that it's not even funny.*** Let my mail rating serve as an example of how I don't suffer idiots. If you come into my inbox with the intent of getting me to stroke your kink, I will not put up with it. I'm open to people who need more actual info about the community, or looking for resources. I'm basically asexual, so please don't start a convo with what you'd like to do to me. Openers about my appearance will only succeed in getting an eye roll. In real life, I'm a wannabe homesteader, Wastelander, cosplayer, prepper, geek, fail-gardener, and mother. I like the isolation that comes from living off the beaten path, where I can raise a family in peace and back to nature as I grew up. Years ago, I was labeled a pseudo extrovert, and it seems to fit quite well. The docs also slapped me on the spectrum as an aspie, so I've got that going for me! In kink life, I fill the role of Amazon Dom with my kitten. There are many fetishes that I wander through, and I seem to discover something new and fun every other week. However, just because I enjoy a kink with the people I love doesn't mean I will enjoy it with others. The connection that I have with my significant others is unique to me, so outside of a scene, I do not play with strangers. Add me, follow me, or message me - it's all good! Just don't be a dickweed, and I won't eat your face. ❤ **Desires and Fantasies** Someone who can read a profile would be a good start. All of my kink and romantic needs are fulfilled by the wonderful people in my life, so I am NOT looking to add anyone else to my personal dance card at this point. My time management skills are shit, and with the perpetually busy days that come with adulting, I want to dedicate every bit of free time that I have to my existing polycule.
Female (37) Camptonville, California
I am a domme who has released the limits of societal standards. Here to be worshipped, obeyed, and praised. I don’t want love, I want adoration. Make my life easier and you win, but understand that you will never be the only. I am also a switch, but I will only sub (within boundaries) for those who have divine feminine or divine masculine energy.
Female (36) San Marcos, California
I'm sexually fluid and just don't have a lot of experience. When people ask what my sexuality is I say "is sexual and only should matter if you're invited"
Looking to explore cnc and breathplay. I really want you to bend me over and punish me! Talk me through it and tell me , "i know it hurts baby,but it feels good for daddy".
Female (31) San Bernardino, California
Im a little looking for a caregiver I’m Bi and Polyam also looking for events and such and to meet new people☺️ I love reading(mostly romance books of any kind), gaming, knitting, crocheting, sewing, hanging out with my gf, and drawing. I’m kinda shy at first but once you get me talking I’m all giggles
Female (22) Clovis, California
I am seeking a very submissive and obedient man in-person. Your body type, race, age, status, etc are less important to me than your amount of submission. I am not looking for a one-time fling, but something that is a deep part of you for a long term.
Puppy girl who really wants an older man. Like older. 40+. Maybe 36+. Shy and awkward. Picky because scared of everyone. Chubby and latina with soft curly hair. Small tits, never uses a bra. 5"2.
Female (26) Lake Elsinore, California
i really honestly just want a pretty woman eating my pussy who will let me sometimes eat theirs. and also maybe sometimes pay for things i like ;)
Female (22) Orange, California
I'm looking for a Dom online and only online. Somebody to teach, train, guide, and keep me accountable in my life and work. I have never played IRL, but I've submitted (and bratted) online for about 20 years now. I am not very comfortable sharing pictures or videos.
Female (36) Los Angeles, California
***/ DOMME- Hit me up if you love yourself a freaky baby girl. DO NOT REACH OUT IF YOU DONT LIKE FAT GIRLS. I HAVE A BELLY. Serious SUBS TRIBUTE🖤 $chessluv
Female (35) Dodgertown, California
PLEASE DO NOT SEND ME PERSONAL PHOTOS/DICK pics with out permission and don't message me for naked photos. You will get blocked. Im not here for exchanging pictures. The ones on my profile are the ones you get to see. Thank you!
Female (34) Johnson Valley, California
I’m a submissive baby girl with a soft heart, a sharp mind, and a playful streak. I’m looking for the right Daddy/Dom who can lead with confidence, care, and consistency. My last relationship didn’t work out, but it made me crystal clear on what I value: honesty, emotional safety, and a man who follows through on every promise he makes. I’m drawn to a man who shows up as his word. Must be financially stable, grounded, hygienic, ambitious, and proud of the life he’s building. Bonus points if the gym is part of your world and your mindset is just as strong as your body. Constantly bettering yourself in every way. I want a connection where I can let go and feel cherished... where dominance is steady, nurturing, and earned through trust. I’m looking for something monogamous, loyal, and meaningful. With real communication, consideration, emotional maturity, and space for softness. Aftercare matters to me: reassurance, presence, and the kind of tenderness that lets me fully relax into the bond we’re building. If you’re the kind of man who can guide with strength, keep me laughing, loves to spoil, tease me just enough, and still know when to hold me close. Slide in. I don’t bite... unless you tell me to 😉
Female (41) Orange, California
Hi all, I’m a 24yo female Little who is currently in the Midwest for grad school. I’m originally from California though, and that’s my home. My Info: Age: 24 Little Age: 5-6ish Gender: Female Ethnicity: Indian Height: 5’ Likes- 1. Being cozy. I love blankets and cuddles and stuffies and fluffy socks. 2. Reading books and watching shows/movies (especially if it’s with my daddy dom) 3. Little art projects 4. Good food 5. Sleep and nice bedtime routines 6. Cute nicknames and titles: 6a. Nicknames for me: kitten, sweetheart, love, little one, little girl, etc. 6b. Titles I like using with others: Sir, Mister, Daddy, Master. I like being a respectful sub with using dom titles, but only when we get to that point. What I’m looking for: I’d prefer to speak with people who are between 20-30 years old. 1. A patient, safe Daddy Dom who is very good at the caregiving side. I need a lot of kindness and care before, during, after sessions that we do. And in day-to-day interactions. I don’t want something purely sexual with minimal caring/little space time. 2. Online at first, since school takes much of my free time. Texts throughout the day work very well for me. 3. Structured rules for a ddlg dynamic. I love sitting with my dom to make these. 4. Use Discord!! It’s my absolute favorite to chat on, and it’s much more comfy for me to share pics on there. 5. Text role plays are very very important to me to connect. I mean the kind where we text out what we’d do if we were right next to each other. I’ve made little pillow forts and done other small activities like this, and it’s very nice especially if we’re busy with work/school. What I’m like as a Little/sub- 1. Obedient, within limits of course. But I generally want to please my dom. He takes care of my little side, so I want to look after him and do things that he likes too. 2. Playful. I love sneaking up on my dom and letting out my kitten side. 3. Cuddly. I basically want to be in my dom’s lap all day. Interests- 1. Rules- both sexual and non-sexual 2. Comfort 3. Edges 4. Small pet play (kitten) 5. Spanks 6. Showing cute/ sexy pics 7. Small *** 8. Little/sub training Limits- 1. Public 2. Anything that brings too much physical harm 3. Bathroom stuff
Female (24) Sacramento, California
I'm a Mistress seeking submissive partners to explore with newbies are warmly welcomed to message me and discover together. Serious inquiries only. No time-wasters.
I require you to do better than "hey" or "hi" put effort into a message! PUT in the effort if you want My attention! I want to chat with you before adding you as a friend. . I take my time to get to know you; I won't text or kik you right out the gate. I am interested in meeting submissive men. A friendship foundation is a MUST for Me. DO NOT lead with your wants and desires...I am seeking a TRUE submissive. Outside of kink I am a foodie and love wine! I enjoy cake and cupcake decorating from time to time. I love relaxing by the pool with a good book and meditating & reflecting on the beach. I am very spiritual. In my business life I am an entrepreneur. I have ZERO time for bullsh*t and games. I am direct and shoot straight. I am enjoying this amazing journey called life! you can show your appreciation for Me and browse My wish list here: https://***/hz/wishlist/ls/1AB61O41E8XX?ref_=wl_share
Female (49) Oceanside, California
I am a very curious and passionate girl who is looking for some fun and exploration of her new found sexuality. I love taking in *** and I love giving it back at any chance I get, I can be a very fun little puzzle if you know how to put all the pieces together !!
Female (18) Santa Ana, California
I'm sincere, romantic and kinky woman. I like to explore and trying new things. I like to have fun and very adventurous too.
Female (48) Artesia, California
I am a family-oriented and trustworthy woman who embraces her feminine side with grace. At my core, I lead a simple life and cherish the little things; my greatest desire is to experience the profound connection that comes with mutual love. I truly believe in the magic of love and the warmth it brings to our lives.
Female (56) Oakland, California
I’m 25, full of energy and optimism, and believe love should be built on trust, respect, and laughter. I enjoy spending time with family and friends, exploring new places, and finding joy in life’s little moments. I’m looking for someone genuine, loyal, and ready to share both everyday adventures and a meaningful future together.
Female (25) San Francisco, California
If I needed to describe my character in one word, I would say that I am kind. But I can also say about myself that I am caring, honest, ambitious. I love to take care, but I also want to take care of me.
Female (49) San Diego, California
“I’m a dominant personality with a controlled, deliberate approach. I value clear communication, mutual trust, and consensual power exchange. My interests lean toward psychological dominance, structured dynamics, ritual, and the interplay between discipline and desire. I’m drawn to partners who appreciate guidance, intensity, and the thrill of surrendering in a safe, respectful environment. I bring confidence, intention, and consistency to every interaction—balancing authority with care.”
Female (35) Santa Clarita, California
I'm a woman who's down to earth. I am a loyal person with a good heart who is willing to take risks in life and more when it comes to love. I hope he is old-fashioned, knows how to love old-fashioned, and is a great conversationalist with the desire to learn more. about me, I'm just a person who knows how to take care of and maintain food and physical condition
Female (40) Dodgertown, California

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