Kinky women in San Francisco

199 Kinky women in San Francisco

I Don’t stress out over things I have no control over. Enjoy life as much as I can since it’s the only one I got. Live on the east side looking for new friends.

Find someone who shares the same goal with you, who is patient and loving. When dawn comes, we will all return to normal, and all the wildness will be left behind in the night

little & sub ♡︎ **Desires and Fantasies** looking for friends and events in the bay area ♡ not interested in being added to a current dynamic; i’m a scorpio.. u get the picture my kinks are mostly centered around cgl and petplay, and i have a tendency to want to be cared for and nurtured monogamous strictly submissive— i couldn’t dom you even if i tried i have limits, feel free to ask before assuming not into pic exchange, attract me with your words full time college student so spoiling is a plus 4/20 friendly ♡°

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I am easy to get along with and open person. I like good communication, like to share without reservation. I am very adventurous. I am not only a beautiful woman, but also a well-educated woman who knows how to take care of you, make you feel romantic every day, hard working, good at communicating and getting along with people. I like to smile and have a good sense of humor. I'm very interested in sports and fitness. I like gardening in my free time, i love to do anything to make my life colorful and meaningful. Comments: I'm looking for someone who is down-to-earth and easy going. I am looking for a sincere man who is family-oriented, loving, caring, romantic and kind.

I am a genuine, honest girl. My proudest qualities are my optimism and humor; I believe laughter can make life better. I am looking for an equally sincere, optimistic man, hoping to find a long-term and serious relationship here

I’m an open book. I’m an obedient girl I just need direction and dominance. Sometimes I can’t think for myself and need someone better equipped to make the decisions for me

I am a cheerful and happy woman. I am a positive and life loving person with a good sense of humor. I see good things in every day. I am reliable, faithful and know how to love. I love to travel and explore new places. I like to study the culture and cuisine of different countries of the world.

Don’t be shy! message me. I am a little/ sub/ kitten and I’m looking for a daddy/ dom to play with me. I like to have rules and structure but it’s funny because I’m a brat?

I’m a woman that values being able to understand different perspectives and ideas, it helps me increase my understanding of the world around me . In fact, im worldly and craves difference. The idea of being stuck in a particular place for the rest of my life feels like hell on earth , so yes I love traveling, fashion , adventure and meeting new people. I love having fun and being happy ?

**About Me:** **Experienced BDSM mistress offering a blend of elegance and dominance. Skilled in creating safe, consensual, and fulfilling experiences.** **What I’m Looking For:** **Seeking respectful and dedicated individuals eager to explore submission and power exchange. Open to both seasoned submissives and curious novices.**

Seeking a submissive, young man. Trust and communication are essential. Message me to start. PS: I only share pictures and audio with people I'm into. And just so you know, I'm verified and the real deal! Yes, those are my legs in my profile picture. So, please don't come asking if I'm real. I value efficiency and directness. I'm not looking for cyberfun. After chatting and exchanging pictures, I immediately will demand voice/video chats. If we both feel connected, we meet in person. If you are shy/insecure/catfish/scammer or any other bs, don't waste my time by messaging. Don't ask me for Snapchat. I am not an immature/insecure little girl who needs cartoonish filter apps to talk to people.

pan but attracted to mascs want a daddy dom kink-safe knife and gun play hunt me, chase me, bite me anime and horror lover ive been told I have a great ass and cute feet tell me a song you wanna fuck to what's your go to-cologne? *hair color varies

mid 30's, single. Work full time and can provide for self. My passions are food and film. looking for some new excitement and fun. I prefer to be a sub in the bedroom, love to be "manhandled" a bit. (alot a bit) with full support, care, and recovery afterwards. love and want to expand my naughty side, but would ideally be hoping to find the one who can love me, fuck me, make me feel things I've never felt

Fat Babygirl in search of Daddy. Seeking kinky fun with someone who’s dominant/owner/master, communicative, and respectful of boundaries. I’m a switch, but right now I’m mostly exploring my more submissive side. I like being a bratty submissive puke & piss whore, but do enjoy being a soft mommy dom at times. I’m also really into being degraded, bred, and cnc. Aftercare is important to me in all forms, so, if I choose to play with you, that is something you must be able to provide. I like cuddling, smoking weed, and snacks, lol. I wanna be nasty and dirty together and still told I’m a pretty princess afterwards. I’m hard to tame, but I’m worth the effort.

Currently on vacation in an area with poor cell service (7.18.24). Preferred Terms: Domme or Goddess Pronouns: She/They Role: Switch (with a dominant focus) About Me: Hello there! I am a true switch, though my dominant side usually dominates ;) In my dominant work, I embody a nurturing but strict presence, particularly enjoying the art of teaching men how to embrace their feminine/sub side. I’m quite bossy and I love that about myself. My nurturing/kind side does tend to come out even in a dominant role, which I think aligns well with teaching men about the more “feminine“ aspects of being a sub. When the rare occasion arises where I submit, it is only to the right person, and I expect to be treated with total respect and be completely pampered and cared for (IE, making sure I complete my goals, etc.) I am not interested in physically serving my partner or being humiliated; those dynamics do not align with my submissive side. And quite frankly, I’ve had enough of serving men in this lifetime. I’m ready to be the full focus of a man who can be devoted to me and whom I feel safe enough with to let my guard drop. I have been exploring the kink lifestyle for about five years. My main kinks revolve around being worshipped, served, and obeyed. I find immense pleasure in mentoring male subs who are devoted to me and to honoring femininity as a whole. As of yet, I’ve never found a man I could trust to be dominant with me, maybe someday! Unfortunately, I have found that many men have no idea the time and emotional range it takes to be a good Dom/Domme. In my free time, you can often find me enjoying nature or immersed in writing. These activities ground me and bring balance to my life. Looking For: - Male subs who are eager to learn, serve, devote themselves to me, and embrace their feminine side/cross dressing/sissification, etc - Individuals who respect the importance of communication, consent, and mutual respect in any dynamic. - Connections that are genuine, respectful, and devoid of unsolicited X-rated photos. Contact Preferences: I request respectful messages that convey your intentions and interests thoughtfully. Please refrain from sending explicit photos; I value meaningful interactions over crude gestures unless specifically requested. If you feel a genuine connection to my profile and believe you can thrive under my guidance, or if you’re daring enough to think that you could potentially be a good Dom for me, I look forward to hearing from you.

Very open minded and willing to give anything a try once. I’m a novice but I can be a good or bad student depending on what you like ;)

Looking for a real connection with an athletic dominant who can keep up with me, likes smart women and invests himself in conversation. I’m interested in meeting and talking to like-minded people who are experienced in the BDSM lifestyle. I appreciate direct communication, flirting, banter, and Doms whose egos aren’t easily bruised by a little teasing and the occasional sarcasm or smart remark. If you have no experience with brats or women who love to challenge and push boundaries, please move on. :)

I’m an insatiable, voluptuous, blonde, size-queen, BRAT looking for my handsome tamer. Also switchy… I do like putting a boy in his place. I might like another switch, or the 2 above might be different people, and that’s not off the table for me, though I don’t think ENM is right for me either. Cucking might be fun. I’m an experienced kinkster, but out of practice… I can usually get what I want, but it’s been far too long since I had some proper kink. I’ve always had a GB / DP fantasy… maybe you can help me fulfill ;-) it. TO GET MY ATTENTION: send a message with what you’re seeking. When it comes to subbing, I’m admittedly a little picky - please don’t be offended if I don’t reply. Be self aware. Thanks and happy hunting ;) I do have an OF - if you want the link, LMK

Hey, introverted and shy wanting to explore and meet new people maybe try out new things too lol. I’m hoping to make friends on here that can maybe turn into something fun and casual. I’m a switch but don’t have much sexual experience just fantasy but i’m an angel at heart with manners.

Just a horny girl exploring kinks. Love the idea of being stress relief. Have a fair share of naughty adventures and a naughty mind. I love dressing sexy and cute. A teaser until you can't help but force yourself inside me. I have big crush on naughty older men. Love a little pain. I could be a brat sometimes. Very into Free-use/cnc currently

Just looking for something casual, only open to having NSA with a woman, this is the condition my partner was comfortable with and I will not consider a male to be with. I’m in a committed relationship but with consensual non-monogamy. I still consider myself new to the lifestyle, I have dabbled in it over the years but have only recently started exploring it more.

dm me on instagram @dangnicebutt spoil me? looking for someone I can trust and feel safe with, along with trying new things. I can be very obedient but sometimes I like to challenge my partners. Not looking for a long distance connection

Hellooo~ I’m Amara, a kinky bisexual, British Caribbean Black girl who **loves** cumshots and tributes. Pretty much sums me up, haha! A few things to note: This is not my first rodeo on Fet. I know what I’m looking for and what I offer so this is a very lengthy profile. Buckle up! If you cannot reach the bottom of this profile, I guarantee you will not be able to handle my level of communication in a relationship. ✌ If you don’t fit within the hard limits, please don’t bother DMing. It will save us both the time! If you’re within the flexible limit, shoot your shot and let’s see if our personality matches. : ) Let’s start with you and what I’m hoping you’re like: - Caucasian (hard limit) - American or Australian (soft limit) - Ideally around the ages of 38-52~ (soft limit with some wiggle room. My preference is mid to late 40s though!) - (Anyone under 30 is an automatic hard pass for conversation) - Single (HARD LIMIT. No married guys and, for now, no ENMs/Polys. I’m a greedy little gremlin and I’m not looking to share at the moment!). - Monogamous with the open mindedness for *potentially* opening the bedroom up for one-off play sessions or house parties. This would be with mutually picked partners but in the waaay off future. - I have a huuuge weakness for men with accents. The Californian accent, the Southern drawl and the Australian twang especially is like an instant boarding pass to inside my panties. - Not overly muscular nor extremely weighty in build. I do genuinely like a little bit of a dad bod! ♥️ - Smaller physical attributes (hair colour, eye colour etc.) don’t really matter to me though I would prefer a little bit of hair (though not completely bald/shaved). It gives something to grip on to! Not entirely a dealbreaker, however, if there is a great connection. Due to the nature of Fet, I’m not planning on sharing a full-on selfie early on but I will reveal it slowly over time with the right person. Plus, semi-anonymous play IS one of my kinks! It really adds to the hotness for me. For now, here’s a description of me: - 26 years old, 5’2”. - Light-skinned, British Caribbean black female. - Dark brown eyes. - Curly dark brown hair. Both almost look black unless I’m in the sun where the true colour shines through. - 180lbs and declining (thanks to 75Hard!) - Ample bosom and butt (thanks to genetics!). - Ears pierced, no tattoos. - Never married, zero kids. - UK based My personality and some things that I enjoy: **The Vanilla Stuff** - Demisexual, Sapiosexual, Bisexual. - Insomniac so I’m often up at weird hours of the night. - Video games. I have the majority of all the consoles so let’s play something sometime! - VERY Amateur Woodworking. - Woods and forests for strolls, hikes and non-vanilla things. - Would love to try my hand at cosplay next year and I already have the perfect outfits in mind! 70s Ororo Munroe (X-Men Storm), Teen Titans (Original) Rachel Roth (Raven), Shego from Kim Possible, Tifa Lockhart from Final Fantasy. - I LOVE asking and receiving questions; and, as you can see from this profile, I adore lengthy messages so please be inquisitive and talkative! There’s a lot of conversation starters here to choose from if you’re stuck. **The Kinkier Stuff** - ✨ Brat / Submissive / Accidental Occasional Domme / Middle (DDMG) ✨ You don’t have to like all of the same things that I do but having some overlap to talk about would be nice! : ) Here’s a list of some of my interests and things I want to try: Spanking and other impact play Choking and other breath play Collars and gags Blindfolds and hoods Restriction/Pinning/Cuffs Shibari DDMG Age gaps Interracial / Raceplay CNC Cock worship Fucking machines Suspension/Suspension fucking **Light** verbal possessive degradation Photo exchange Hot candle wax play **Some** knife play Public play Voyeurism Rutting and Primal Casual nudity Freeuse Orgasm control Aaaand forced orgasm. Phew! Okay, now that the bullet points are out of the way… if you’re still here and interested then I’d like to finish up by expressing what I’m looking for in a connection and why. ~ Outside of the bedroom | I’m hoping that whilst you’re dominant in the bedroom, you have a firm, yet softer, persona outside of the bedroom that allows me to be a bit of a ‘dominant caregiver’. One of my main ‘love languages’ is acts of service and I tend to autonomously ensure everyone’s needs are met. Whether it’s making sure you’re fed and your cup is full, keeping up with appointments, upcoming celebrations and gift wrapping to medicine, hot water bottles and head massages when you’re sick. Now, by no means am I referring to being nothing more than a subservient 1950s housewife stereotype. I do these things as a show of affection… because I want to, when I want to. NOT out of a sense of obligation and ‘tradition’. I’m headstrong and will speak my mind. I’m the dominant in my own life and have to be to have gotten where I am plus where I want to get to. So, I’m not looking for anyone who wants a meek, yes-woman who will wait on them hand and foot… I’m not looking for someone who wants to ‘tame’ or diminish and pacify the spirit that I have built. But rather I want someone who is looking for their equal. Someone to gently fan this fire so that we can both be great, together, in our own individual yet harmonious ways… (Unless, of course, we’re roleplaying then by all means let that misogynistic freak flag fly!) ~ Inside the bedroom | In the bedroom, however, I want you to grab the bull by the horns and put me in my place. At the end of the day, I’m tired of having to be the strong dominant for everyone else and just want to find someone who will let me melt completely in their open arms. At last being able to relinquish the remaining shred of my control, fully knowing that I am safe. ~ Brattiness | I’m a ‘playful’ bratty sub. My form of ‘disrespect’ is playful teasing and rebellious defiance. I like to gently poke the bear and run away when it’s finally riled up. I expect to face the consequences of my actions but that won’t stop me from batting my big, brown eyes at you and pleading for forgiveness… Which you’ll give me because I’m your sweet girl… Sucker. I like to run until I’m caught, kick until I’m pinned and gently nibble until I’m gagged. Hidden message for those paying attention. If you’ve made it this far, say: pickled purple cabbages. You’ll shoot straight to the top of my lookout list. ~ Adventurous | My kink list above is by no means exhaustive, with new things being added to it fairly regularly. Though the list is long, there is still a *large* part of it that is yet to be physically explored. I’m looking for a safe, reliable space in which to do that with an experienced, patient dominant who is happy to show me the (sometimes literal) ropes. Mentor me in the experiences I’ve yet to try and guide me in perfecting the things you enjoy most. I want you to turn me into your personal, custom-made toy. I’m hoping you’re equally adventurous, wanting to grow and explore new things together. Toys, outfits, scenes, clubs and hidden gems. There’s a whole world of fun out there to be explored and I’m willing to bet it would be better shared. ~ Relocating | In regards to long distance and relocating, I’m up for moving to an entirely different country for the right person. Not at this current point in time but definitely in the future should things progress and remain steady. My goal has always been to move to either California or Canada so I’ll eventually be in either USA or CA regardless. I’m flexible on where exactly within these countries I’d move to. I could consider Australia for the right person if they were unable to immigrate to the US with me. But, as an overly ambitious heads-up, should we ever be cohabiting a home together, I fully intend to repurpose a whole room (or basement) into a depraved little playroom, filled with all sorts of devious devices for both to enjoy. If you’ve made it this far then perhaps you’re the person I’ve been looking for… If you think so then I’d love to hear from you! Send me a message, opening with a little bit about yourself like your age, location, SFW interests/hobbies and our NSFW shared interests.

I’m an open book. I’m an obedient girl I just need direction and dominance. Sometimes I can’t think for myself and need someone better equipped to make the decisions for me

I Don’t stress out over things I have no control over. Enjoy life as much as I can since it’s the only one I got. Live on the east side looking for new friends.

Find someone who shares the same goal with you, who is patient and loving. When dawn comes, we will all return to normal, and all the wildness will be left behind in the night

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**About Me:** **Experienced BDSM mistress offering a blend of elegance and dominance. Skilled in creating safe, consensual, and fulfilling experiences.** **What I’m Looking For:** **Seeking respectful and dedicated individuals eager to explore submission and power exchange. Open to both seasoned submissives and curious novices.**

I am easy to get along with and open person. I like good communication, like to share without reservation. I am very adventurous. I am not only a beautiful woman, but also a well-educated woman who knows how to take care of you, make you feel romantic every day, hard working, good at communicating and getting along with people. I like to smile and have a good sense of humor. I'm very interested in sports and fitness. I like gardening in my free time, i love to do anything to make my life colorful and meaningful. Comments: I'm looking for someone who is down-to-earth and easy going. I am looking for a sincere man who is family-oriented, loving, caring, romantic and kind.

I am a cheerful and happy woman. I am a positive and life loving person with a good sense of humor. I see good things in every day. I am reliable, faithful and know how to love. I love to travel and explore new places. I like to study the culture and cuisine of different countries of the world.

I am a genuine, honest girl. My proudest qualities are my optimism and humor; I believe laughter can make life better. I am looking for an equally sincere, optimistic man, hoping to find a long-term and serious relationship here

I’m a woman that values being able to understand different perspectives and ideas, it helps me increase my understanding of the world around me . In fact, im worldly and craves difference. The idea of being stuck in a particular place for the rest of my life feels like hell on earth , so yes I love traveling, fashion , adventure and meeting new people. I love having fun and being happy ?

Don’t be shy! message me. I am a little/ sub/ kitten and I’m looking for a daddy/ dom to play with me. I like to have rules and structure but it’s funny because I’m a brat?

little & sub ♡︎ **Desires and Fantasies** looking for friends and events in the bay area ♡ not interested in being added to a current dynamic; i’m a scorpio.. u get the picture my kinks are mostly centered around cgl and petplay, and i have a tendency to want to be cared for and nurtured monogamous strictly submissive— i couldn’t dom you even if i tried i have limits, feel free to ask before assuming not into pic exchange, attract me with your words full time college student so spoiling is a plus 4/20 friendly ♡°

Just looking for something casual, only open to having NSA with a woman, this is the condition my partner was comfortable with and I will not consider a male to be with. I’m in a committed relationship but with consensual non-monogamy. I still consider myself new to the lifestyle, I have dabbled in it over the years but have only recently started exploring it more.

pan but attracted to mascs want a daddy dom kink-safe knife and gun play hunt me, chase me, bite me anime and horror lover ive been told I have a great ass and cute feet tell me a song you wanna fuck to what's your go to-cologne? *hair color varies

mid 30's, single. Work full time and can provide for self. My passions are food and film. looking for some new excitement and fun. I prefer to be a sub in the bedroom, love to be "manhandled" a bit. (alot a bit) with full support, care, and recovery afterwards. love and want to expand my naughty side, but would ideally be hoping to find the one who can love me, fuck me, make me feel things I've never felt

Currently on vacation in an area with poor cell service (7.18.24). Preferred Terms: Domme or Goddess Pronouns: She/They Role: Switch (with a dominant focus) About Me: Hello there! I am a true switch, though my dominant side usually dominates ;) In my dominant work, I embody a nurturing but strict presence, particularly enjoying the art of teaching men how to embrace their feminine/sub side. I’m quite bossy and I love that about myself. My nurturing/kind side does tend to come out even in a dominant role, which I think aligns well with teaching men about the more “feminine“ aspects of being a sub. When the rare occasion arises where I submit, it is only to the right person, and I expect to be treated with total respect and be completely pampered and cared for (IE, making sure I complete my goals, etc.) I am not interested in physically serving my partner or being humiliated; those dynamics do not align with my submissive side. And quite frankly, I’ve had enough of serving men in this lifetime. I’m ready to be the full focus of a man who can be devoted to me and whom I feel safe enough with to let my guard drop. I have been exploring the kink lifestyle for about five years. My main kinks revolve around being worshipped, served, and obeyed. I find immense pleasure in mentoring male subs who are devoted to me and to honoring femininity as a whole. As of yet, I’ve never found a man I could trust to be dominant with me, maybe someday! Unfortunately, I have found that many men have no idea the time and emotional range it takes to be a good Dom/Domme. In my free time, you can often find me enjoying nature or immersed in writing. These activities ground me and bring balance to my life. Looking For: - Male subs who are eager to learn, serve, devote themselves to me, and embrace their feminine side/cross dressing/sissification, etc - Individuals who respect the importance of communication, consent, and mutual respect in any dynamic. - Connections that are genuine, respectful, and devoid of unsolicited X-rated photos. Contact Preferences: I request respectful messages that convey your intentions and interests thoughtfully. Please refrain from sending explicit photos; I value meaningful interactions over crude gestures unless specifically requested. If you feel a genuine connection to my profile and believe you can thrive under my guidance, or if you’re daring enough to think that you could potentially be a good Dom for me, I look forward to hearing from you.

I’m melisa Justin , born in Singapore on 17-06-1994,and now residing in the USA , I’m single looking for a partner for a serious relationship , and I own 2 boutique stores located in Singapore and Hongkong

Very open minded and willing to give anything a try once. I’m a novice but I can be a good or bad student depending on what you like ;)

New here ?wanted to try something new. I’m a single mom and I just wanna have some fun and enjoy life. Willing to meet new people and have some consensual fun ?

I’m looking for some naughty people to be punished If you have been a bad boy and need some discipline, you’ve come to the right girl. I’ll make sure you get the correction you need to start behaving like the good boy I know you are

Submissive bbw looking to explore more of the kink life. I’m fairly new to exploring, kinda shy but enjoy getting out of my comfort zone. I’m open to try things at least once, I enjoy being a brat and I love sensory manipulation play. Love being a pillow princess, I’m into bondage as well. I love big dick 9 and up preferred. Im in FFM,FFF,MFM,FM. Hard Limits -feces, urine, blood, puke -cutting, fisting

Hi ... **_Female's Only Please_** I'm very shy to talk unless you make me very comfortable to speak up but many times instead of speaking I act, maybe I will be shy talking to you but for sure I won't go to bed before send a good night text to you just to let you know I'm thinking of you I'm very sweet and I do smell sweet and taste sweet too So soft very caring selfless person you would ever know I love to snuggle very clingy at night I would love you to hug me and play with my hair tangling your leg with mine whisper sweet things feel the warm from our bodies against each other drew me in very close to you I want your voice to send a shiver down my spine and your eyes to make my stomach tingle I love kisses I'm a very good kisser I would love to kiss your lips your cheek your neck and your hand I like all pet names but my favorite is Baby I like to be tied up, blindfolded and teased but I can't hold it, if I'm close I want release otherwise won't end well I'm not a brat but the only trouble I would ever imagine getting into is eating lots of sugar Love sweet wine cherry pie with champagne is my favorite dinner I take things to heart taking things personally has been always one of my downfalls Whatever you do please don't hurt my little heart

Hiii, my name is Holly, wasian lesbian, from the San Francisco area. I'm a sub bottom. Kind of new to kink. Into video games, fitness, anime, cooking, music, and more! Would love to get to know you! @hollypoplove in case you lose me

I like older guys and I’m just here out of curiosity. if you’ve seen my pictures before i have been active on reddit’s kink forums as well as tumblrs.