Rather than jumping straight into practice, I value spiritual connection and in-depth communication more. If you'd like to explore the wonders of this world with me, please feel free to say hello
I do as I please
My personality tends to switch with the person I am interacting with I have both a dominant side, and a VERY submissive side for certain people.
I like to get to know the person I am engaging with prior to indulging in our play, as it is very important to establish our roles and boundaries.
Last Tested: 01/28/26
D#isclaimer: I Do NOT consent to my info, pics, or otherwise being used for any kind of project or otherwise, without my absolute written permission.
*** If you are a cis man, odds are not in your favor. Fair warning.
Hello there ~
I'm here for something different from Fetlife. Interested in friends, play partners, and people I can attend munches, classes, and events with.
Connections I'm interested in:
- Masochists, submissives, bottoms, pets, slaves, or sub-leaning switches for both short term and long term play partner dynamics.
- Queer community folks and other femmes!
- Other poly/ENM folks for discussing our dating & relationship experiences! For the record, I am ENM and happily married to my submissive partner.
- Local community only.
- Dungeon, kink event, munch, and class partners/friends.
- Nerdy/Artsy/Weird people for platonic friendships and/or play partners!
- Rope enthusiasts I can learn from and with.
- 🩸/Needle play enthusiasts (I require recent testing prior to play).
- Fire play and wax play lovers.
- Fantasy, sci-fi, and horror fans (this includes people who love books, D&D, anime, movies, and cons of course).
- Interesting people who can teach me new things.
Connections I am NOT interested in:
- No long distance. No online. No tourists.
- No racists, homophobes, sexists, transphobes or any other sort of bigoted asshole.
- No conservatives, centrists, or libertarians.
- No sissy fetishists.
- No illegal/abusive activities.
- No hookups for vanilla sex acts.
- No swingers/unicorn hunting couples.
- No pay-for-play dynamics (respect to those who are into it, but I'm not).
I'm still pretty new to this whole scene, and honestly, I didn't expect to enjoy it so much. I’ve only experienced a few, but I hope to learn more and experience this lifestyle over time
I’m not here for dates, lunches, or casual hangouts. I prefer keeping things on MY terms. I enjoy control, teasing energy, and deep mental play.
I appreciate those who understand that energy, attention, and generosity are part of the exchange. If you know how to show respect and appreciation, we’ll get along just fine💋
I also enjoy connecting with others in the community, building real friendships, and attending events that feed my curiosity.
And yes,,I’m into wax play🔥. Sensual, slow, and just the right amount of sting😌
I’m 25, full of energy and optimism, and believe love should be built on trust, respect, and laughter. I enjoy spending time with family and friends, exploring new places, and finding joy in life’s little moments. I’m looking for someone genuine, loyal, and ready to share both everyday adventures and a meaningful future together.
FROM WATER AND STARDUST. NOT RIB.
Understand this: I am not the woman you’re looking for.
The Cherub-Faced Charmer or Assassin, depending on who you ask. I am a Black, queer, pansexual woman.
I walk the line(s) between sensualist, sadist, and - with a very select few - slut. (Don't ask to be apart of this few unless you want to anger me.)
I crave a silver tongue and a pair of velvet lips skilled, reverent, and hungry. Lips that know their place between my thighs. The idea of a devoted yoni worshiper - unapologetically focused haunts my idle hours.
Yes, I am nurturing. Yes, I am soft. But never mistake softness for weakness. I can be cruel and filthy with the willing, eager, and most of all, deserving.
My philosophy is simple. Play should be alchemical: part chaos, part discovery. Liberation wrapped in tension. Reverence wrapped in ruin. But always, always grounded in respect and consent.
My kinky interests include (but are not limited to):
* Power play
* Impact play (flogging, paddling)
* Pegging
* Pet play
* Wax
* Food play
* Sensory deprivation
* Burlesque
* Ass and Yoni worship
* Occasional group encounters
I am in search of (unless I EXPLICITLY state otherwise):
* Community (real connections with real people)
* Educational Events and Opportunities to further my kinky education and skills
* Play Events
* Mentorship
I AM NOT SEEKING (Unless I explicitly state otherwise):
* One-on-one's
* A Dom/ Daddy
* Your validation or approval
My type:
BWC 👩🏻❤️💋👨🏼
Tall & Muscular
Big ass
Affectionate
Generous & loves to spoil me
Goal oriented
Loves to cuddle & give warm oil massages 💆🏻♀️
My kinks:
Breastfeeding
Pegging (occasionally)
Experienced kinkster. Professional level brat. Occasional switch.
I love playful power dynamics, teasing tension, and that moment when my Dom decides enough is enough. I tend to lean submissive when the chemistry is right, but I do have a switch side that comes out in the right context.
I’m newer to ENM and exploring it thoughtfully. Communication and respect are non negotiable for me.
What I’m hoping to find is either
• a confident *** who enjoys the challenge of a brat and knows how to keep her in line
or
• a part time service sub who takes real pleasure in being useful and attentive
I’m probably not looking for another switch dynamic right now. I tend to do best with someone who is comfortable sitting firmly on one side of the power exchange.
oh, and my favorite thing to say in private? “Make me.”
✨ Brat First. Submissive Second. Always a handful. ✨
I’m a bold, curvy brat with a sharp tongue, a wicked giggle, and a deep craving for connection, correction, and control. I’ve just moved to San Francisco and I’m easing back into my kink life after a long break—thirsty, hungry, and ready to feel everything again.
Spankings? Bare-bottomed and over the knee, please. I light up under dominant energy, sensual touch, teasing control, and playful tension. I’m not easy to tame—but if you know how to listen, lead, and leave your mark, I just might soften for you.
Looking for play partners, events, classes, and kink mischief. Touch my mind first, then my body. I’m not here for games—I’m here to be explored, challenged, and cherished. Can you handle the brat?
I’m confident a Mistress Christen who knows exactly what she wants. I value loyalty, discipline, and a man who understands the meaning of true devotion. I’m seeking a submissive who is ready to serve, grow, and find purpose under my guidance. Respect, trust, and consistency are everything, earn your place, and you’ll be rewarded.
feeling a little restless tonight ✨
just out of a long term relationship, and trying to find some of the spark I’ve been missing
also, just chopped my hair! it’s at my shoulders now
watching people being turned on by *** so hard.
look for a another women who likes to be ***d and ***d to the extreme.
we like to eat acid deep and do coke and special k and do fuck up shit.
must be willing to be bullied.
An update for those who think my wants are optional
bratty babygirl with princess standards and a mouth that occasionally needs supervision. 💅
I’m strictly submissive (read that twice), not a domme, not a switch, and definitely not interested in couples or “let’s all share” situations. Been in the lifestyle 10+ years, never owned mostly because I don’t hand over the leash to just anyone.
I want a *** who knows the difference between discipline and control. Someone who can tame me with patience, not ego. If you’re not into DD/bg dynamics or you think “aftercare” is optional, you can exit stage left now, babe. 🚪✨
I’m not a pillow princess I give as good as I get but I expect mutual respect and emotional intelligence to match. I want a partnership where we understand our roles in and out of the bedroom (and yeah, you’ll probably still have to remind me who’s in charge sometimes 😇).
Quick Summary for the attention-deficient:
✨ Brat, not bitch.
✨ Sub, not switch.
✨ Princess treatment required.
✨ Daddy energy only.
If you can’t handle a handful, you don’t deserve a full-time brat. 💋
leave me a comment if you want me to notice 😉
new to kink and actively exploring 🥵 most interested in softdom or DD/lg dynamics, ask away about your other fantasies… chances are I’m into trying 😉
Here for subs and slaves who enjoy giving their power over completely to an experienced Domme. Only approach Me if you are ready to give a true Goddess an offering. ✨
Frequent Traveler who loves a great California cabernet , dogs , football and a man who can make me laugh. I am confident, feisty & can hold my ground. Enjoy men primary but also experimenting with women , or with a couple. Be patient, as I travel extensively for work and for f__k sake, I need to see your face! I WON’T RESPOND TO ANYONE , WITHOUT A FACE PIC!!! I've only been in the lifestyle 2 years, but I quite enjoy it ?. Not into a lot of kinks, anything rough or BDSM. I am NOT dominant and not necessarily submissive either. If all you want to do is sexting, don’t bother me and try not to be too tacky and crass about what you want! That’s a quick Buh Bye ! Also, I’m not on here to just send ya pictures!! Either ya wanna meet or you don’t. Lastly, I need chemistry with whomever I meet. I don't fuck, just to fuck.Yes, I love your sexy pics but a face pic is a MUST, to move forward!! I also have a very HOT play partner, if you're into group or couples play. Let me know. Happy swinging ! PS - NOT A PAID MEMBER
I am a conscience ethical Domme who is looking for subs,slaves,to play with in a ethical way I am aware that consent and ethics are to separate things and just because someone consents dose not make it ethical the choices I make are based on ethics. I am a unapologetic sadist who runs strict slave training.
I’m a City girl in all ways. Beauty and brilliance require discipline. Let's Go!
If you're highly intelligent, and handsome, and take good care of yourself, let's establish chemistry, mental connection and build mutual trust.
I want to feel your energy and passion for life and what you might have in store for me.
My eyes are blue and compliment my blond hair 5'6" -fit!
This is not new to me. I love to be dominated by tall dark and handsome men. I love anal, cream pies, deep throating, and bondage. I am really up for anything and open to all types of people. Come share you're inner freak. I'm looking to meet in person and hook up with no strings attached..no bullshit..no games..just fucking
5’9 Amazonian badass. Plays well with others 👫
I speak fluent Spanish. Big bark, small bite. I love to be submissive and let others take control when theres trust and familiarity.
just a young woman looking for a cyber daddy (emphasis on cyber) that could possibly turn into a real one. I have a daddy kink and a sucking kink and I’m always wanting to play. I’m pretty needy so enjoy the heavy attention of one man. I tend to be attracted to white men but very open to men of all different backgrounds. I’m very normal and it’s easy for me to get a date. I’m just a girl with kinks and her own addictions. that’s why I’m here. let’s talk and discuss more, my love.
To be very clear, I’m not interested in dating anyone on this app.
Rather than jumping straight into practice, I value spiritual connection and in-depth communication more. If you'd like to explore the wonders of this world with me, please feel free to say hello
I’m 25, full of energy and optimism, and believe love should be built on trust, respect, and laughter. I enjoy spending time with family and friends, exploring new places, and finding joy in life’s little moments. I’m looking for someone genuine, loyal, and ready to share both everyday adventures and a meaningful future together.
FROM WATER AND STARDUST. NOT RIB.
Understand this: I am not the woman you’re looking for.
The Cherub-Faced Charmer or Assassin, depending on who you ask. I am a Black, queer, pansexual woman.
I walk the line(s) between sensualist, sadist, and - with a very select few - slut. (Don't ask to be apart of this few unless you want to anger me.)
I crave a silver tongue and a pair of velvet lips skilled, reverent, and hungry. Lips that know their place between my thighs. The idea of a devoted yoni worshiper - unapologetically focused haunts my idle hours.
Yes, I am nurturing. Yes, I am soft. But never mistake softness for weakness. I can be cruel and filthy with the willing, eager, and most of all, deserving.
My philosophy is simple. Play should be alchemical: part chaos, part discovery. Liberation wrapped in tension. Reverence wrapped in ruin. But always, always grounded in respect and consent.
My kinky interests include (but are not limited to):
* Power play
* Impact play (flogging, paddling)
* Pegging
* Pet play
* Wax
* Food play
* Sensory deprivation
* Burlesque
* Ass and Yoni worship
* Occasional group encounters
I am in search of (unless I EXPLICITLY state otherwise):
* Community (real connections with real people)
* Educational Events and Opportunities to further my kinky education and skills
* Play Events
* Mentorship
I AM NOT SEEKING (Unless I explicitly state otherwise):
* One-on-one's
* A Dom/ Daddy
* Your validation or approval
I’m not here for dates, lunches, or casual hangouts. I prefer keeping things on MY terms. I enjoy control, teasing energy, and deep mental play.
I appreciate those who understand that energy, attention, and generosity are part of the exchange. If you know how to show respect and appreciation, we’ll get along just fine💋
I also enjoy connecting with others in the community, building real friendships, and attending events that feed my curiosity.
And yes,,I’m into wax play🔥. Sensual, slow, and just the right amount of sting😌
I'm still pretty new to this whole scene, and honestly, I didn't expect to enjoy it so much. I’ve only experienced a few, but I hope to learn more and experience this lifestyle over time
I do as I please
My personality tends to switch with the person I am interacting with I have both a dominant side, and a VERY submissive side for certain people.
I like to get to know the person I am engaging with prior to indulging in our play, as it is very important to establish our roles and boundaries.
Last Tested: 01/28/26
D#isclaimer: I Do NOT consent to my info, pics, or otherwise being used for any kind of project or otherwise, without my absolute written permission.
*** If you are a cis man, odds are not in your favor. Fair warning.
Hello there ~
I'm here for something different from Fetlife. Interested in friends, play partners, and people I can attend munches, classes, and events with.
Connections I'm interested in:
- Masochists, submissives, bottoms, pets, slaves, or sub-leaning switches for both short term and long term play partner dynamics.
- Queer community folks and other femmes!
- Other poly/ENM folks for discussing our dating & relationship experiences! For the record, I am ENM and happily married to my submissive partner.
- Local community only.
- Dungeon, kink event, munch, and class partners/friends.
- Nerdy/Artsy/Weird people for platonic friendships and/or play partners!
- Rope enthusiasts I can learn from and with.
- 🩸/Needle play enthusiasts (I require recent testing prior to play).
- Fire play and wax play lovers.
- Fantasy, sci-fi, and horror fans (this includes people who love books, D&D, anime, movies, and cons of course).
- Interesting people who can teach me new things.
Connections I am NOT interested in:
- No long distance. No online. No tourists.
- No racists, homophobes, sexists, transphobes or any other sort of bigoted asshole.
- No conservatives, centrists, or libertarians.
- No sissy fetishists.
- No illegal/abusive activities.
- No hookups for vanilla sex acts.
- No swingers/unicorn hunting couples.
- No pay-for-play dynamics (respect to those who are into it, but I'm not).
I’m confident a Mistress Christen who knows exactly what she wants. I value loyalty, discipline, and a man who understands the meaning of true devotion. I’m seeking a submissive who is ready to serve, grow, and find purpose under my guidance. Respect, trust, and consistency are everything, earn your place, and you’ll be rewarded.
Into femdom, strong feminine energy, and playful power dynamics. I appreciate confidence, control, teasing, and someone who knows exactly what they want.
I am divorced woman looking to explore my submissive side with a sexy dominant woman or women. I love to please women and i want a sexy woman who will teach who be a good submissive slave. willing to explore with the right partner
watching people being turned on by *** so hard.
look for a another women who likes to be ***d and ***d to the extreme.
we like to eat acid deep and do coke and special k and do fuck up shit.
must be willing to be bullied.
leave me a comment if you want me to notice 😉
new to kink and actively exploring 🥵 most interested in softdom or DD/lg dynamics, ask away about your other fantasies… chances are I’m into trying 😉
Here for subs and slaves who enjoy giving their power over completely to an experienced Domme. Only approach Me if you are ready to give a true Goddess an offering. ✨
“Business owner by day, good company by night. Curves, ambition, and a great sense of humor included. If you’re emotionally mature and like a woman who has her life together, say hello.”
feeling a little restless tonight ✨
just out of a long term relationship, and trying to find some of the spark I’ve been missing
also, just chopped my hair! it’s at my shoulders now
This is not new to me. I love to be dominated by tall dark and handsome men. I love anal, cream pies, deep throating, and bondage. I am really up for anything and open to all types of people. Come share you're inner freak. I'm looking to meet in person and hook up with no strings attached..no bullshit..no games..just fucking
My type:
BWC 👩🏻❤️💋👨🏼
Tall & Muscular
Big ass
Affectionate
Generous & loves to spoil me
Goal oriented
Loves to cuddle & give warm oil massages 💆🏻♀️
My kinks:
Breastfeeding
Pegging (occasionally)
I am an artist. I love the attire we get to wear in the scene. the leather the corsets the shoes the ropes the collars and the implements used. I believe I am a switch but am still getting that out. I want to explore shibari, device bondage, to experience a pleasure Dom, to learn the proper etiquette, and to make lifelong friends/ play partners. I'm into women and men and couples. I don't have a lot of experience due to lack of like-minded people and I'm a bit shy and often feel out of place but I get over that if made to feel welcome. I enjoy both sides of a flogger and love worshipping both cock and pussy so far but I'm still a newbie. looking for serious fun in SF.
5’9 Amazonian badass. Plays well with others 👫
I speak fluent Spanish. Big bark, small bite. I love to be submissive and let others take control when theres trust and familiarity.
I’m a City girl in all ways. Beauty and brilliance require discipline. Let's Go!
If you're highly intelligent, and handsome, and take good care of yourself, let's establish chemistry, mental connection and build mutual trust.
I want to feel your energy and passion for life and what you might have in store for me.
My eyes are blue and compliment my blond hair 5'6" -fit!
looking for some people who can help me figure out what i like and try new things, i wanna try and am open to most things. I also really wanna try to do more anal
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