Find kinky women in San Francisco

Rather than jumping straight into practice, I value spiritual connection and in-depth communication more. If you'd like to explore the wonders of this world with me, please feel free to say hello
Female (40) San Francisco, California
Baby Dom, doin this kinky shit professionally! 👑 I enjoy power exchange dynamics that really connect you to your authentic desires. My goal is to be a trusted partner through the exploration of kink and play. One of my favorite dynamics is MommyDom, with a lifestyle feel to it; taking special care that my subs feel nurtured as well as stimulated. _💋
Female (33) San Francisco, California
I do as I please My personality tends to switch with the person I am interacting with I have both a dominant side, and a VERY submissive side for certain people. I like to get to know the person I am engaging with prior to indulging in our play, as it is very important to establish our roles and boundaries. Last Tested: 01/28/26 D#isclaimer: I Do NOT consent to my info, pics, or otherwise being used for any kind of project or otherwise, without my absolute written permission.
Female (27) San Francisco, California
*** If you are a cis man, odds are not in your favor. Fair warning. Hello there ~ I'm here for something different from Fetlife. Interested in friends, play partners, and people I can attend munches, classes, and events with. Connections I'm interested in: - Masochists, submissives, bottoms, pets, slaves, or sub-leaning switches for both short term and long term play partner dynamics. - Queer community folks and other femmes! - Other poly/ENM folks for discussing our dating & relationship experiences! For the record, I am ENM and happily married to my submissive partner. - Local community only. - Dungeon, kink event, munch, and class partners/friends. - Nerdy/Artsy/Weird people for platonic friendships and/or play partners! - Rope enthusiasts I can learn from and with. - 🩸/Needle play enthusiasts (I require recent testing prior to play). - Fire play and wax play lovers. - Fantasy, sci-fi, and horror fans (this includes people who love books, D&D, anime, movies, and cons of course). - Interesting people who can teach me new things. Connections I am NOT interested in: - No long distance. No online. No tourists. - No racists, homophobes, sexists, transphobes or any other sort of bigoted asshole. - No conservatives, centrists, or libertarians. - No sissy fetishists. - No illegal/abusive activities. - No hookups for vanilla sex acts. - No swingers/unicorn hunting couples. - No pay-for-play dynamics (respect to those who are into it, but I'm not).
Female (34) San Francisco, California
I'm still pretty new to this whole scene, and honestly, I didn't expect to enjoy it so much. I’ve only experienced a few, but I hope to learn more and experience this lifestyle over time
Female (45) San Francisco, California
I’m not here for dates, lunches, or casual hangouts. I prefer keeping things on MY terms. I enjoy control, teasing energy, and deep mental play. I appreciate those who understand that energy, attention, and generosity are part of the exchange. If you know how to show respect and appreciation, we’ll get along just fine💋 I also enjoy connecting with others in the community, building real friendships, and attending events that feed my curiosity. And yes,,I’m into wax play🔥. Sensual, slow, and just the right amount of sting😌
Female (32) San Francisco, California
Returning after awhile, not sure where I'm going onward. But would like some naughty friends~ Just someone who had pent up fantasies bottled in. Had some naughty experiences but still exploring kinks. I love dressing sexyy and cutee. I'm a hugee brat that loves to tease until you can't help but *** yourself inside me. I also have a big crush on older men. I've had some experiences with that as well. I've been fantasizing of being free-use stress relief with my body.. or cnc (:
Female (21) San Francisco, California
My specialty is asphyxiation and electrocution. Extremist looking for love. giggle Are you starting to get the picture that I’m super intense? Sanguine vampire with *** fetish. Please make sure you read the profile completely before messaging me. And when you message me, I expect you to follow the guidelines I have given you or I will block you. I am looking for a partner that is dominant or a sub that can switch. I have no interest in anything else. The partner must be self-sufficient and I do not require them to be monogamous although I am by nature. They must be mature in the Mind, prove self reflection, in case you don’t know that means, are you more than your dick? I demand that before you talk to me off the platform is that you call me on the video and we can connect. The backstory is, I have chosen not to have sex or feed from a donor for a year and a half because I haven’t found someone that meets my expectations. My expectations are not based on looks Nor the size of your equipment. It is based on connection, chemistry, and your ability to articulate and be truthful. Remember my kink comes first. Which is ***. If you are squeamish about *** or *** fetish then do not message me. This comes first. Then your needs. As we deepen our connection, then we could negotiate. Once I have bonded to my partner, I worship them. In Any and always and therefore I’m not going to give myself to just anyone. If you live in a different state or a different country, I expect you to come see me. I expect you to do all the work at first. And then once we are bonding, I will travel. I have a very high education, I’m very articulate, and I’m probably more of a nerd with a kink. I am planning to move to the Portugal area in the next few years. So I am definitely open to people in other countries. None of my pictures have any filters on them and most of them are with me without make-up. My body is still a 35-year-old even though I am much older. Hence the *** kink. Don’t message me unless you plan on giving me something verbally substantial. Good luck, my loves. I’m excited to find you.
Female (49) San Francisco, California
hey ✨ just here to make friends and have a bit of fun while i explore. my big boobs match my big heart so be kind or i’ll bite.
Female (25) San Francisco, California
Surprise me ✨💋 Mommy Dom Vibes. Brat First. Submissive Second. Always a handful. ✨Spoil me and your Forever 💋💋🤭 I’m a bold, curvy brat with a wicked tongue, a nurturing touch, and a deep craving for control—both giving and receiving. I just moved to San Francisco, and I’m ready to play intentionaly Spankings? I WILL DIE ON THAT HILL 😈 Bare-bottomed, over your knee—please. I glow under dominant energy, sensual teasing and being put in my place 🤤 Mommy knows how to balance care with discipline. I’m a switch, but the mommy dom in me is possessive, playful, and will degrade you , Milk you and own you and make you worship me and spoil me if you earn my time. I’m looking for play partners, parties events, Doms and subs
Female (30) San Francisco, California
Hi friends! I am a 50 year old curvy, tatted, HSV1(g) positive lady. I changed my username because I am no longer in a relationship. Looking for fun and safe play. Please be respectful. I prefer an FWB/lover situation. INTJ-A (Architect) I am looking for lovers with availability at least once a week. Communication, honesty, and attention is required for access to me. I smoke weed and love a first meet at a dispensary lounge or somewhere low-key where we can just check the vibe. if you have a partner and your partner does not know you are seeking other women, skip me. I’m not interested.
Female (50) San Francisco, California
arrow, not a sex worker, and definitely not YOUR [insert title or pet name]. not looking for a relationship. open to a dynamic. not looking for or to be a kink vending machine. My test results vary—CHECK BACK OFTEN!! (the blessings and curses of having a switchy/flexible personality!) I'm looking for someone local to join me at munches, to host, to christen me into the City scene... and a human punching bag. (my screenshot pics are from another "dating" app account I have)
Female (33) San Francisco, California
Daddy and I are looking for a woman to join us! We are fun, dirty, and dynamic. My Daddy is ethical and empathic, but structured and creative. He owns my ass (and every other part too 😘 ). I am, also, open to possible friendships.
Female (47) San Francisco, California
5’9 Amazonian badass. Plays well with others 👫 I speak fluent Spanish. Big bark, small bite. I love to be submissive and let others take control when theres trust and familiarity.
Female (34) San Francisco, California
sub at heart looking for trouble, who wants to have some fun and connect on a deep level. very intellectually stimulated and sapiosexual. also a brat. some of my kinks: namecalling going down on you spanking teasing control/denial punishments/rewards bondage anal group dynamics being trained to your liking
Female (29) San Francisco, California
Call me Goddess Mia. ✨ *** only. You haven't had a domme like me yet, I can assure you that. Let's talk boundaries and get your initial tribute sent. 💋💰 Then you can worship me and be my good boy. 😌
Female (31) San Francisco, California
Here for subs and slaves who enjoy giving their power over completely to an experienced Domme. Only approach Me if you are ready to give a true Goddess an offering. ✨
Female (30) San Francisco, California
just a young woman looking for a cyber daddy (emphasis on cyber) that could possibly turn into a real one. I have a daddy kink and a sucking kink and I’m always wanting to play and suck. a nice feeding 😌 a data engineer who would love to be able to turn my brain off and suck to soothe. I’m pretty needy of my daddy so enjoy the heavy attention of one man. I tend to be attracted to older white men but very open to men of all different backgrounds. I’m very normal and it’s easy for me to get a date. I’m just a girl with kinks and her own addictions. that’s why I’m here. let’s talk and discuss more, my love. To be very clear, I’m not interested in dating anyone on this app.
Female (31) San Francisco, California
watching people being turned on by *** so hard. look for a another women who likes to be ***d and ***d to the extreme. we like to eat acid deep and do coke and special k and do fuck up shit. must be willing to be bullied.
Female (38) San Francisco, California
I am a conscience ethical Domme who is looking for subs,slaves,to play with in a ethical way I am aware that consent and ethics are to separate things and just because someone consents dose not make it ethical the choices I make are based on ethics. I am a unapologetic sadist who runs strict slave training.
Female (45) San Francisco, California
leave me a comment if you want me to notice 😉 new to kink and actively exploring 🥵 most interested in softdom or DD/lg dynamics, ask away about your other fantasies… chances are I’m into trying 😉
Female (27) San Francisco, California
Blond-ish, green-eyed, ENFP with ADHD. Busy bee, social butterfly, occasional sloth. Amateur chef, house-head, failed actress with a now mostly useless talent for accents. Admittedly a little bougie. I love the ballet, the opera, great restaurants, boutique hotels, and honestly any excuse to get dressed up. But I’m equally happy in a dive bar with a great burger, or staying in listening to music and talking until way too late. Emotionally perceptive, very affectionate, occasionally inappropriate, and probably funnier than I look. I’m an experienced kinkster who’s been trapped in a world of vanilla for far too long. Former kink.com cam model. Comfortable in the deep end. Equal parts playful, submissive, bratty, curious, and insatiable when the chemistry and trust are right. I’ve been called a switch, but the truth is I’m mostly just a brat who needs someone capable of putting her in her place. I’m hyper-independent and honestly exhausted by it. I want to feel small for once. Safe enough to soften. Desired enough to surrender a little. I’m drawn to older, grounded, masculine energy. Men who take initiative, follow through, communicate clearly, and know how to lead without turning it into a performance. Yes, I want chemistry. But I also want consistency, emotional intelligence, honesty, and a real partnership outside the bedroom too. I crave both emotional and physical connection, and I definitely have an above-average appetite for both. I like tension, teasing, control, praise when it’s earned, and being thoroughly corrupted by someone I trust. hopefully I have the chance to tell you to “Make me.”
Female (41) San Francisco, California
feeling a little restless tonight ✨ just out of a long term relationship, and trying to find some of the spark I’ve been missing also, just chopped my hair! it’s at my shoulders now
Female (29) San Francisco, California

New members in San Francisco

Rather than jumping straight into practice, I value spiritual connection and in-depth communication more. If you'd like to explore the wonders of this world with me, please feel free to say hello
Female (40) San Francisco, California
Baby Dom, doin this kinky shit professionally! 👑 I enjoy power exchange dynamics that really connect you to your authentic desires. My goal is to be a trusted partner through the exploration of kink and play. One of my favorite dynamics is MommyDom, with a lifestyle feel to it; taking special care that my subs feel nurtured as well as stimulated. _💋
Female (33) San Francisco, California
I’m not here for dates, lunches, or casual hangouts. I prefer keeping things on MY terms. I enjoy control, teasing energy, and deep mental play. I appreciate those who understand that energy, attention, and generosity are part of the exchange. If you know how to show respect and appreciation, we’ll get along just fine💋 I also enjoy connecting with others in the community, building real friendships, and attending events that feed my curiosity. And yes,,I’m into wax play🔥. Sensual, slow, and just the right amount of sting😌
Female (32) San Francisco, California
I'm still pretty new to this whole scene, and honestly, I didn't expect to enjoy it so much. I’ve only experienced a few, but I hope to learn more and experience this lifestyle over time
Female (45) San Francisco, California
I do as I please My personality tends to switch with the person I am interacting with I have both a dominant side, and a VERY submissive side for certain people. I like to get to know the person I am engaging with prior to indulging in our play, as it is very important to establish our roles and boundaries. Last Tested: 01/28/26 D#isclaimer: I Do NOT consent to my info, pics, or otherwise being used for any kind of project or otherwise, without my absolute written permission.
Female (27) San Francisco, California
*** If you are a cis man, odds are not in your favor. Fair warning. Hello there ~ I'm here for something different from Fetlife. Interested in friends, play partners, and people I can attend munches, classes, and events with. Connections I'm interested in: - Masochists, submissives, bottoms, pets, slaves, or sub-leaning switches for both short term and long term play partner dynamics. - Queer community folks and other femmes! - Other poly/ENM folks for discussing our dating & relationship experiences! For the record, I am ENM and happily married to my submissive partner. - Local community only. - Dungeon, kink event, munch, and class partners/friends. - Nerdy/Artsy/Weird people for platonic friendships and/or play partners! - Rope enthusiasts I can learn from and with. - 🩸/Needle play enthusiasts (I require recent testing prior to play). - Fire play and wax play lovers. - Fantasy, sci-fi, and horror fans (this includes people who love books, D&D, anime, movies, and cons of course). - Interesting people who can teach me new things. Connections I am NOT interested in: - No long distance. No online. No tourists. - No racists, homophobes, sexists, transphobes or any other sort of bigoted asshole. - No conservatives, centrists, or libertarians. - No sissy fetishists. - No illegal/abusive activities. - No hookups for vanilla sex acts. - No swingers/unicorn hunting couples. - No pay-for-play dynamics (respect to those who are into it, but I'm not).
Female (34) San Francisco, California
Returning after awhile, not sure where I'm going onward. But would like some naughty friends~ Just someone who had pent up fantasies bottled in. Had some naughty experiences but still exploring kinks. I love dressing sexyy and cutee. I'm a hugee brat that loves to tease until you can't help but *** yourself inside me. I also have a big crush on older men. I've had some experiences with that as well. I've been fantasizing of being free-use stress relief with my body.. or cnc (:
Female (21) San Francisco, California
Call me Goddess Mia. ✨ *** only. You haven't had a domme like me yet, I can assure you that. Let's talk boundaries and get your initial tribute sent. 💋💰 Then you can worship me and be my good boy. 😌
Female (31) San Francisco, California
Hello 👋 not looking for a relationship just maybe texting friends. I am a tease and a submissive brat 😈 If ya’ll need someone to please you over the phone or send pics to help you get off I can do that for exchange $$ 😈
Female (33) San Francisco, California
I’m a dom looking for a sub who will spoil me with gifts. I want to take care of them in return. it’s just that simple. add me on snap if your serious about worshipping me: drewdomme
Female (22) San Francisco, California
arrow, not a sex worker, and definitely not YOUR [insert title or pet name]. not looking for a relationship. open to a dynamic. not looking for or to be a kink vending machine. My test results vary—CHECK BACK OFTEN!! (the blessings and curses of having a switchy/flexible personality!) I'm looking for someone local to join me at munches, to host, to christen me into the City scene... and a human punching bag. (my screenshot pics are from another "dating" app account I have)
Female (33) San Francisco, California
I’m confident a Mistress Christen who knows exactly what she wants. I value loyalty, discipline, and a man who understands the meaning of true devotion. I’m seeking a submissive who is ready to serve, grow, and find purpose under my guidance. Respect, trust, and consistency are everything, earn your place, and you’ll be rewarded.
Female (34) San Francisco, California
Into femdom, strong feminine energy, and playful power dynamics. I appreciate confidence, control, teasing, and someone who knows exactly what they want.
Female (37) San Francisco, California
I am divorced woman looking to explore my submissive side with a sexy dominant woman or women. I love to please women and i want a sexy woman who will teach who be a good submissive slave. willing to explore with the right partner
Female (40) San Francisco, California
watching people being turned on by *** so hard. look for a another women who likes to be ***d and ***d to the extreme. we like to eat acid deep and do coke and special k and do fuck up shit. must be willing to be bullied.
Female (38) San Francisco, California
leave me a comment if you want me to notice 😉 new to kink and actively exploring 🥵 most interested in softdom or DD/lg dynamics, ask away about your other fantasies… chances are I’m into trying 😉
Female (27) San Francisco, California
Here for subs and slaves who enjoy giving their power over completely to an experienced Domme. Only approach Me if you are ready to give a true Goddess an offering. ✨
Female (30) San Francisco, California
feeling a little restless tonight ✨ just out of a long term relationship, and trying to find some of the spark I’ve been missing also, just chopped my hair! it’s at my shoulders now
Female (29) San Francisco, California
This is not new to me. I love to be dominated by tall dark and handsome men. I love anal, cream pies, deep throating, and bondage. I am really up for anything and open to all types of people. Come share you're inner freak. I'm looking to meet in person and hook up with no strings attached..no bullshit..no games..just fucking
Female (25) San Francisco, California
I am an artist. I love the attire we get to wear in the scene. the leather the corsets the shoes the ropes the collars and the implements used. I believe I am a switch but am still getting that out. I want to explore shibari, device bondage, to experience a pleasure Dom, to learn the proper etiquette, and to make lifelong friends/ play partners. I'm into women and men and couples. I don't have a lot of experience due to lack of like-minded people and I'm a bit shy and often feel out of place but I get over that if made to feel welcome. I enjoy both sides of a flogger and love worshipping both cock and pussy so far but I'm still a newbie. looking for serious fun in SF.
Female (44) San Francisco, California
5’9 Amazonian badass. Plays well with others 👫 I speak fluent Spanish. Big bark, small bite. I love to be submissive and let others take control when theres trust and familiarity.
Female (34) San Francisco, California
Hi friends! I am a 50 year old curvy, tatted, HSV1(g) positive lady. I changed my username because I am no longer in a relationship. Looking for fun and safe play. Please be respectful. I prefer an FWB/lover situation. INTJ-A (Architect) I am looking for lovers with availability at least once a week. Communication, honesty, and attention is required for access to me. I smoke weed and love a first meet at a dispensary lounge or somewhere low-key where we can just check the vibe. if you have a partner and your partner does not know you are seeking other women, skip me. I’m not interested.
Female (50) San Francisco, California
My specialty is asphyxiation and electrocution. Extremist looking for love. giggle Are you starting to get the picture that I’m super intense? Sanguine vampire with *** fetish. Please make sure you read the profile completely before messaging me. And when you message me, I expect you to follow the guidelines I have given you or I will block you. I am looking for a partner that is dominant or a sub that can switch. I have no interest in anything else. The partner must be self-sufficient and I do not require them to be monogamous although I am by nature. They must be mature in the Mind, prove self reflection, in case you don’t know that means, are you more than your dick? I demand that before you talk to me off the platform is that you call me on the video and we can connect. The backstory is, I have chosen not to have sex or feed from a donor for a year and a half because I haven’t found someone that meets my expectations. My expectations are not based on looks Nor the size of your equipment. It is based on connection, chemistry, and your ability to articulate and be truthful. Remember my kink comes first. Which is ***. If you are squeamish about *** or *** fetish then do not message me. This comes first. Then your needs. As we deepen our connection, then we could negotiate. Once I have bonded to my partner, I worship them. In Any and always and therefore I’m not going to give myself to just anyone. If you live in a different state or a different country, I expect you to come see me. I expect you to do all the work at first. And then once we are bonding, I will travel. I have a very high education, I’m very articulate, and I’m probably more of a nerd with a kink. I am planning to move to the Portugal area in the next few years. So I am definitely open to people in other countries. None of my pictures have any filters on them and most of them are with me without make-up. My body is still a 35-year-old even though I am much older. Hence the *** kink. Don’t message me unless you plan on giving me something verbally substantial. Good luck, my loves. I’m excited to find you.
Female (49) San Francisco, California
hi I’m Mahogany and I’m a bit new. looking to meet someone who listens to commands. send me a message and let’s see how we connect.
Female (25) San Francisco, California

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