Find kinky women in San Francisco

I am easy to get along with and open person. I like good communication, like to share without reservation. I am very adventurous. I am not only a beautiful woman, but also a well-educated woman who knows how to take care of you, make you feel romantic every day, hard working, good at communicating and getting along with people. I like to smile and have a good sense of humor. I'm very interested in sports and fitness. I like gardening in my free time, i love to do anything to make my life colorful and meaningful. Comments: I'm looking for someone who is down-to-earth and easy going. I am looking for a sincere man who is family-oriented, loving, caring, romantic and kind.
Female (40) San Francisco, California
Don’t be shy! message me. I am a little/ sub/ kitten and I’m looking for a daddy/ dom to play with me. I like to have rules and structure but it’s funny because I’m a brat?
Female (22) San Francisco, California
little & sub ♡︎ **Desires and Fantasies** looking for friends and events in the bay area ♡ not interested in being added to a current dynamic; i’m a scorpio.. u get the picture my kinks are mostly centered around cgl and petplay, and i have a tendency to want to be cared for and nurtured monogamous strictly submissive— i couldn’t dom you even if i tried i have limits, feel free to ask before assuming not into pic exchange, attract me with your words full time college student so spoiling is a plus 4/20 friendly ♡°
Female (21) San Francisco, California
Looking to get out of my comfort zone and try something new with someone local. I’m a sensual and safety oriented person, into girls and guys and open to trying new things with someone who can respect my boundaries. Reach out :)
Female (26) San Francisco, California
I am a genuine, honest girl. My proudest qualities are my optimism and humor; I believe laughter can make life better. I am looking for an equally sincere, optimistic man, hoping to find a long-term and serious relationship here
Female (35) San Francisco, California
I am a cheerful and happy woman. I am a positive and life loving person with a good sense of humor. I see good things in every day. I am reliable, faithful and know how to love. I love to travel and explore new places. I like to study the culture and cuisine of different countries of the world.
Female (40) San Francisco, California
I’m a woman that values being able to understand different perspectives and ideas, it helps me increase my understanding of the world around me . In fact, im worldly and craves difference. The idea of being stuck in a particular place for the rest of my life feels like hell on earth , so yes I love traveling, fashion , adventure and meeting new people. I love having fun and being happy ?
Female (32) San Francisco, California
**About Me:** **Experienced BDSM mistress offering a blend of elegance and dominance. Skilled in creating safe, consensual, and fulfilling experiences.** **What I’m Looking For:** **Seeking respectful and dedicated individuals eager to explore submission and power exchange. Open to both seasoned submissives and curious novices.**
Female (26) San Francisco, California
I’m looking for some naughty people to be punished If you have been a bad boy and need some discipline, you’ve come to the right girl. I’ll make sure you get the correction you need to start behaving like the good boy I know you are
Female (24) San Francisco, California
I’m looking to continue exploring my kinky side and my sudden bi-curious side-:) I’m a foodie, like to laugh, read, go to Giants games, live music, movies, write, theater. I get bored easily so I’m attracted to smarty pants people that have lots of interests. please, send me something more then ‘hi’ to get my attention. I’m am clean and sober. you don’t need to me but not hard drugs or alkies please.
Female (64) San Francisco, California
Hellooo~ I’m Amara, a kinky bisexual, British Caribbean Black girl who **loves** cumshots and tributes. Pretty much sums me up, haha! A few things to note: This is not my first rodeo on Fet. I know what I’m looking for and what I offer so this is a very lengthy profile. Buckle up! If you cannot reach the bottom of this profile, I guarantee you will not be able to handle my level of communication in a relationship. ✌ If you don’t fit within the hard limits, please don’t bother DMing. It will save us both the time! If you’re within the flexible limit, shoot your shot and let’s see if our personality matches. : ) Let’s start with you and what I’m hoping you’re like: - Caucasian (hard limit) - American or Australian (soft limit) - Ideally around the ages of 38-52~ (soft limit with some wiggle room. My preference is mid to late 40s though!) - (Anyone under 30 is an automatic hard pass for conversation) - Single (HARD LIMIT. No married guys and, for now, no ENMs/Polys. I’m a greedy little gremlin and I’m not looking to share at the moment!). - Monogamous with the open mindedness for *potentially* opening the bedroom up for one-off play sessions or house parties. This would be with mutually picked partners but in the waaay off future. - I have a huuuge weakness for men with accents. The Californian accent, the Southern drawl and the Australian twang especially is like an instant boarding pass to inside my panties. - Not overly muscular nor extremely weighty in build. I do genuinely like a little bit of a dad bod! ♥️ - Smaller physical attributes (hair colour, eye colour etc.) don’t really matter to me though I would prefer a little bit of hair (though not completely bald/shaved). It gives something to grip on to! Not entirely a dealbreaker, however, if there is a great connection. Due to the nature of Fet, I’m not planning on sharing a full-on selfie early on but I will reveal it slowly over time with the right person. Plus, semi-anonymous play IS one of my kinks! It really adds to the hotness for me. For now, here’s a description of me: - 26 years old, 5’2”. - Light-skinned, British Caribbean black female. - Dark brown eyes. - Curly dark brown hair. Both almost look black unless I’m in the sun where the true colour shines through. - 180lbs and declining (thanks to 75Hard!) - Ample bosom and butt (thanks to genetics!). - Ears pierced, no tattoos. - Never married, zero kids. - UK based My personality and some things that I enjoy: **The Vanilla Stuff** - Demisexual, Sapiosexual, Bisexual. - Insomniac so I’m often up at weird hours of the night. - Video games. I have the majority of all the consoles so let’s play something sometime! - VERY Amateur Woodworking. - Woods and forests for strolls, hikes and non-vanilla things. - Would love to try my hand at cosplay next year and I already have the perfect outfits in mind! 70s Ororo Munroe (X-Men Storm), Teen Titans (Original) Rachel Roth (Raven), Shego from Kim Possible, Tifa Lockhart from Final Fantasy. - I LOVE asking and receiving questions; and, as you can see from this profile, I adore lengthy messages so please be inquisitive and talkative! There’s a lot of conversation starters here to choose from if you’re stuck. **The Kinkier Stuff** - ✨ Brat / Submissive / Accidental Occasional Domme / Middle (DDMG) ✨ You don’t have to like all of the same things that I do but having some overlap to talk about would be nice! : ) Here’s a list of some of my interests and things I want to try: Spanking and other impact play Choking and other breath play Collars and gags Blindfolds and hoods Restriction/Pinning/Cuffs Shibari DDMG Age gaps Interracial / Raceplay CNC Cock worship Fucking machines Suspension/Suspension fucking **Light** verbal possessive degradation Photo exchange Hot candle wax play **Some** knife play Public play Voyeurism Rutting and Primal Casual nudity Freeuse Orgasm control Aaaand forced orgasm. Phew! Okay, now that the bullet points are out of the way… if you’re still here and interested then I’d like to finish up by expressing what I’m looking for in a connection and why. ~ Outside of the bedroom | I’m hoping that whilst you’re dominant in the bedroom, you have a firm, yet softer, persona outside of the bedroom that allows me to be a bit of a ‘dominant caregiver’. One of my main ‘love languages’ is acts of service and I tend to autonomously ensure everyone’s needs are met. Whether it’s making sure you’re fed and your cup is full, keeping up with appointments, upcoming celebrations and gift wrapping to medicine, hot water bottles and head massages when you’re sick. Now, by no means am I referring to being nothing more than a subservient 1950s housewife stereotype. I do these things as a show of affection… because I want to, when I want to. NOT out of a sense of obligation and ‘tradition’. I’m headstrong and will speak my mind. I’m the dominant in my own life and have to be to have gotten where I am plus where I want to get to. So, I’m not looking for anyone who wants a meek, yes-woman who will wait on them hand and foot… I’m not looking for someone who wants to ‘tame’ or diminish and pacify the spirit that I have built. But rather I want someone who is looking for their equal. Someone to gently fan this fire so that we can both be great, together, in our own individual yet harmonious ways… (Unless, of course, we’re roleplaying then by all means let that misogynistic freak flag fly!) ~ Inside the bedroom | In the bedroom, however, I want you to grab the bull by the horns and put me in my place. At the end of the day, I’m tired of having to be the strong dominant for everyone else and just want to find someone who will let me melt completely in their open arms. At last being able to relinquish the remaining shred of my control, fully knowing that I am safe. ~ Brattiness | I’m a ‘playful’ bratty sub. My form of ‘disrespect’ is playful teasing and rebellious defiance. I like to gently poke the bear and run away when it’s finally riled up. I expect to face the consequences of my actions but that won’t stop me from batting my big, brown eyes at you and pleading for forgiveness… Which you’ll give me because I’m your sweet girl… Sucker. I like to run until I’m caught, kick until I’m pinned and gently nibble until I’m gagged. Hidden message for those paying attention. If you’ve made it this far, say: pickled purple cabbages. You’ll shoot straight to the top of my lookout list. ~ Adventurous | My kink list above is by no means exhaustive, with new things being added to it fairly regularly. Though the list is long, there is still a *large* part of it that is yet to be physically explored. I’m looking for a safe, reliable space in which to do that with an experienced, patient dominant who is happy to show me the (sometimes literal) ropes. Mentor me in the experiences I’ve yet to try and guide me in perfecting the things you enjoy most. I want you to turn me into your personal, custom-made toy. I’m hoping you’re equally adventurous, wanting to grow and explore new things together. Toys, outfits, scenes, clubs and hidden gems. There’s a whole world of fun out there to be explored and I’m willing to bet it would be better shared. ~ Relocating | In regards to long distance and relocating, I’m up for moving to an entirely different country for the right person. Not at this current point in time but definitely in the future should things progress and remain steady. My goal has always been to move to either California or Canada so I’ll eventually be in either USA or CA regardless. I’m flexible on where exactly within these countries I’d move to. I could consider Australia for the right person if they were unable to immigrate to the US with me. But, as an overly ambitious heads-up, should we ever be cohabiting a home together, I fully intend to repurpose a whole room (or basement) into a depraved little playroom, filled with all sorts of devious devices for both to enjoy. If you’ve made it this far then perhaps you’re the person I’ve been looking for… If you think so then I’d love to hear from you! Send me a message, opening with a little bit about yourself like your age, location, SFW interests/hobbies and our NSFW shared interests.
Female (27) San Francisco, California
looking for a safe sensual dom to train me **Desires and Fantasies** , MMF, MFF, groups. ideally looking for a fun dom to play with me. I love pleasing my partner, and being spoiled. I am more submissive, my partner on the dominant side. I like the idea of switching with a couple and playing with each of our partners together.
Female (37) San Francisco, California
Seeking a submissive, young man. Trust and communication are essential.Message me to start. PS: I only share pictures and audio with people I'm into. And just so you know, I'm verified and the real deal! So, please don't come asking if I'm real.
Female (42) San Francisco, California
Hi ... **_Female's Only Please_** I'm looking for a female Dom or Mommy if you are already a couple females looking for a sub or little one that's me I'm very shy to talk unless you make me very comfortable to speak up but many times instead of speaking I act, maybe I will be shy talking to you but for sure I won't go to bed before send a good night text to you just to let you know I'm thinking of you I'm very sweet and I do smell sweet and taste sweet too So soft very caring selfless person you would ever know I love to snuggle very clingy at night I would love you to hug me and play with my hair tangling your leg with mine whisper sweet things feel the warm from our bodies against each other drew me in very close to you I want your voice to send a shiver down my spine and your eyes to make my stomach tingle I love kisses I'm a very good kisser I would love to kiss your lips your cheek your neck and your hand I like all pet names but my favorite is Baby I like to be tied up, blindfolded and teased but I can't hold it, if I'm close I want release otherwise won't end well I'm not a brat but the only trouble I would ever imagine getting into is eating lots of sugar Love sweet wine cherry pie with champagne is my favorite dinner I take things to heart taking things personally has been always one of my downfalls Whatever you do please don't hurt my little heart
Female (49) San Francisco, California
Looking for a real connection with an athletic dominant who can keep up with me, likes smart women and invests himself in conversation. I’m interested in meeting and talking to like-minded people who are experienced in the BDSM lifestyle. I appreciate direct communication, flirting, banter, and Doms whose egos aren’t easily bruised by a little teasing and the occasional sarcasm or smart remark. If you have no experience with brats or women who love to challenge and push boundaries, please move on. :)
Female (38) San Francisco, California
I sleep on silk pillowcases. I've been weightlifting for 15 years. I do not wear earth tones. I usually don't speak unless I have something to say. I am trans and have a dick which I use often. I'm not sure why the app didn't have "trans women" as a gender option.
Female (32) San Francisco, California
New here ?wanted to try something new. I’m a single mom and I just wanna have some fun and enjoy life. Willing to meet new people and have some consensual fun ?
Female (39) San Francisco, California
Submissive bbw looking to explore more of the kink life. I’m fairly new to exploring, kinda shy but enjoy getting out of my comfort zone. I’m open to try things at least once, I enjoy being a brat and I love sensory manipulation play. Love being a pillow princess, I’m into bondage as well. I love big dick 9 and up preferred. Im in FFM,FFF,MFM,FM. Hard Limits -feces, urine, blood, puke -cutting, fisting
Female (29) San Francisco, California
Just a horny girl exploring kinks. Love the idea of being stress relief. Have a fair share of naughty adventures and a naughty mind. I love dressing sexy and cute. A teaser until you can't help but force yourself inside me. I have big crush on naughty older men. Love a little pain. I could be a brat sometimes. Very into Free-use/cnc currently
Female (21) San Francisco, California
Hey, introverted and shy wanting to explore and meet new people maybe try out new things too lol. I’m hoping to make friends on here that can maybe turn into something fun and casual. I’m a switch but don’t have much sexual experience just fantasy but i’m an angel at heart with manners.
Female (23) San Francisco, California
just a young woman looking for a cyber daddy (emphasis on cyber) that could possibly turn into a real one. I have a huge daddy kink and a sucking kink and I’m always wanting to play. I’m pretty needy so enjoy the heavy attention of one man. I tend to be attracted to white men but very open to men of all different backgrounds. I’m very normal and it’s easy for me to get a date. I’m just a girl with kinks and her own addictions. that’s why I’m here. let’s talk and discuss more, my love.
Female (29) San Francisco, California
Frequent Traveler who loves a great California cabernet , dogs , football and a man who can make me laugh. I am confident, feisty & can hold my ground. Enjoy men primary but also experimenting with women , or with a couple. Be patient, as I travel extensively for work and for f__k sake, I need to see your face! I’ll delete any profile without pics. I've only been in the lifestyle 2 years, but I quite enjoy it ?. Not into a lot of kinks, anything rough or BDSM. I am NOT dominant and not necessarily submissive either. If all you want to do is sexting, don’t bother me and try not to be too tacky and crass about what you want! That’s a quick Buh Bye ! Also, I’m not on here to just send ya pictures!! Either ya wanna meet or you don’t. Lastly, I need chemistry with whomever I meet. I don't fuck, just to fuck.Yes, I love your sexy pics but a face pic is a MUST, to move forward!! I also have a very HOT play partner, if you're into group or couples play. Let me know. Happy swinging ! PS - NOT A PAID MEMBER
Female (53) San Francisco, California
Hello :) Just a college student looking for fun in between studies ;) Hardcore kinks only** Will exchange selfies in DM, (I am hot LOL).
Female (21) San Francisco, California
❤️I am your pet wifey, Bunny. I’m on FL too ❤️Looking for a kinky hubby to be my daddy and puppy 1. Have garden and plants 2. Monogamous, NO contact with ex and past partners 3. NEVER married, NO kids yet 4. Mostly PLATONIC and LIGHT INTIMACY dating until marriage (no vag; done a*al before so open to that, though haven’t done it since 2018-2019) 5. MARRIAGE minded 6. CLEAN and NO intimacy encounters/partners for at least a year 7. Prefer green/blue eyes to mix onto my baby 8. Prefer someone local or near me. Don’t want to relocate, open to hubby relocating to me 9. Age is older than me but under 50 10. Will explore kinks with me and switch roles: Dom daddy collars me as his pet, also let me plug/peg him. Sensual photography and cross dress together.
Female (31) San Francisco, California

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**About Me:** **Experienced BDSM mistress offering a blend of elegance and dominance. Skilled in creating safe, consensual, and fulfilling experiences.** **What I’m Looking For:** **Seeking respectful and dedicated individuals eager to explore submission and power exchange. Open to both seasoned submissives and curious novices.**
Female (26) San Francisco, California
I am easy to get along with and open person. I like good communication, like to share without reservation. I am very adventurous. I am not only a beautiful woman, but also a well-educated woman who knows how to take care of you, make you feel romantic every day, hard working, good at communicating and getting along with people. I like to smile and have a good sense of humor. I'm very interested in sports and fitness. I like gardening in my free time, i love to do anything to make my life colorful and meaningful. Comments: I'm looking for someone who is down-to-earth and easy going. I am looking for a sincere man who is family-oriented, loving, caring, romantic and kind.
Female (40) San Francisco, California
I am a cheerful and happy woman. I am a positive and life loving person with a good sense of humor. I see good things in every day. I am reliable, faithful and know how to love. I love to travel and explore new places. I like to study the culture and cuisine of different countries of the world.
Female (40) San Francisco, California
I am a genuine, honest girl. My proudest qualities are my optimism and humor; I believe laughter can make life better. I am looking for an equally sincere, optimistic man, hoping to find a long-term and serious relationship here
Female (35) San Francisco, California
I’m a woman that values being able to understand different perspectives and ideas, it helps me increase my understanding of the world around me . In fact, im worldly and craves difference. The idea of being stuck in a particular place for the rest of my life feels like hell on earth , so yes I love traveling, fashion , adventure and meeting new people. I love having fun and being happy ?
Female (32) San Francisco, California
Don’t be shy! message me. I am a little/ sub/ kitten and I’m looking for a daddy/ dom to play with me. I like to have rules and structure but it’s funny because I’m a brat?
Female (22) San Francisco, California
Looking to get out of my comfort zone and try something new with someone local. I’m a sensual and safety oriented person, into girls and guys and open to trying new things with someone who can respect my boundaries. Reach out :)
Female (26) San Francisco, California
little & sub ♡︎ **Desires and Fantasies** looking for friends and events in the bay area ♡ not interested in being added to a current dynamic; i’m a scorpio.. u get the picture my kinks are mostly centered around cgl and petplay, and i have a tendency to want to be cared for and nurtured monogamous strictly submissive— i couldn’t dom you even if i tried i have limits, feel free to ask before assuming not into pic exchange, attract me with your words full time college student so spoiling is a plus 4/20 friendly ♡°
Female (21) San Francisco, California
New here ?wanted to try something new. I’m a single mom and I just wanna have some fun and enjoy life. Willing to meet new people and have some consensual fun ?
Female (39) San Francisco, California
I’m looking for some naughty people to be punished If you have been a bad boy and need some discipline, you’ve come to the right girl. I’ll make sure you get the correction you need to start behaving like the good boy I know you are
Female (24) San Francisco, California
Submissive bbw looking to explore more of the kink life. I’m fairly new to exploring, kinda shy but enjoy getting out of my comfort zone. I’m open to try things at least once, I enjoy being a brat and I love sensory manipulation play. Love being a pillow princess, I’m into bondage as well. I love big dick 9 and up preferred. Im in FFM,FFF,MFM,FM. Hard Limits -feces, urine, blood, puke -cutting, fisting
Female (29) San Francisco, California
Frequent Traveler who loves a great California cabernet , dogs , football and a man who can make me laugh. I am confident, feisty & can hold my ground. Enjoy men primary but also experimenting with women , or with a couple. Be patient, as I travel extensively for work and for f__k sake, I need to see your face! I’ll delete any profile without pics. I've only been in the lifestyle 2 years, but I quite enjoy it ?. Not into a lot of kinks, anything rough or BDSM. I am NOT dominant and not necessarily submissive either. If all you want to do is sexting, don’t bother me and try not to be too tacky and crass about what you want! That’s a quick Buh Bye ! Also, I’m not on here to just send ya pictures!! Either ya wanna meet or you don’t. Lastly, I need chemistry with whomever I meet. I don't fuck, just to fuck.Yes, I love your sexy pics but a face pic is a MUST, to move forward!! I also have a very HOT play partner, if you're into group or couples play. Let me know. Happy swinging ! PS - NOT A PAID MEMBER
Female (53) San Francisco, California
Grew up respecting high power/authority but developed lots of rebellious in me too. easily get turned on by watching women in pain no matter if she’s being degraded, gang raped, tortured or watched. I am actually really new to trying anything myself irl. soooooo who is ready to train me?? btw, if I don’t have the desire to kiss you, im probably not that into you
Female (37) San Francisco, California
Hi ... **_Female's Only Please_** I'm looking for a female Dom or Mommy if you are already a couple females looking for a sub or little one that's me I'm very shy to talk unless you make me very comfortable to speak up but many times instead of speaking I act, maybe I will be shy talking to you but for sure I won't go to bed before send a good night text to you just to let you know I'm thinking of you I'm very sweet and I do smell sweet and taste sweet too So soft very caring selfless person you would ever know I love to snuggle very clingy at night I would love you to hug me and play with my hair tangling your leg with mine whisper sweet things feel the warm from our bodies against each other drew me in very close to you I want your voice to send a shiver down my spine and your eyes to make my stomach tingle I love kisses I'm a very good kisser I would love to kiss your lips your cheek your neck and your hand I like all pet names but my favorite is Baby I like to be tied up, blindfolded and teased but I can't hold it, if I'm close I want release otherwise won't end well I'm not a brat but the only trouble I would ever imagine getting into is eating lots of sugar Love sweet wine cherry pie with champagne is my favorite dinner I take things to heart taking things personally has been always one of my downfalls Whatever you do please don't hurt my little heart
Female (49) San Francisco, California
Hiii, my name is Holly, wasian lesbian, from the San Francisco area. I'm a sub bottom. Kind of new to kink. Into video games, fitness, anime, cooking, music, and more! Would love to get to know you! @hollypoplove in case you lose me
Female (27) San Francisco, California
I like older guys and I’m just here out of curiosity. if you’ve seen my pictures before i have been active on reddit’s kink forums as well as tumblrs.
Female (18) San Francisco, California
ex-vangelical just desperately trying to get over being embarrassed about how hot I am /s take me to queer spaces, karaoke, nature, or anything with movement. love connecting with women 1:1 or in a pack. sex goddesses, assemble! sex-positive queer friends who are workin' on themselves are pretty rad, too rompersexual liberal AF! sane, respectful, silly, kind ¡me encanta hablar español! married / parent / open since 2022 tested April "24 vaxxed & boosted Asheville, NC
Female (40) San Francisco, California
Hellooo~ I’m Amara, a kinky bisexual, British Caribbean Black girl who **loves** cumshots and tributes. Pretty much sums me up, haha! A few things to note: This is not my first rodeo on Fet. I know what I’m looking for and what I offer so this is a very lengthy profile. Buckle up! If you cannot reach the bottom of this profile, I guarantee you will not be able to handle my level of communication in a relationship. ✌ If you don’t fit within the hard limits, please don’t bother DMing. It will save us both the time! If you’re within the flexible limit, shoot your shot and let’s see if our personality matches. : ) Let’s start with you and what I’m hoping you’re like: - Caucasian (hard limit) - American or Australian (soft limit) - Ideally around the ages of 38-52~ (soft limit with some wiggle room. My preference is mid to late 40s though!) - (Anyone under 30 is an automatic hard pass for conversation) - Single (HARD LIMIT. No married guys and, for now, no ENMs/Polys. I’m a greedy little gremlin and I’m not looking to share at the moment!). - Monogamous with the open mindedness for *potentially* opening the bedroom up for one-off play sessions or house parties. This would be with mutually picked partners but in the waaay off future. - I have a huuuge weakness for men with accents. The Californian accent, the Southern drawl and the Australian twang especially is like an instant boarding pass to inside my panties. - Not overly muscular nor extremely weighty in build. I do genuinely like a little bit of a dad bod! ♥️ - Smaller physical attributes (hair colour, eye colour etc.) don’t really matter to me though I would prefer a little bit of hair (though not completely bald/shaved). It gives something to grip on to! Not entirely a dealbreaker, however, if there is a great connection. Due to the nature of Fet, I’m not planning on sharing a full-on selfie early on but I will reveal it slowly over time with the right person. Plus, semi-anonymous play IS one of my kinks! It really adds to the hotness for me. For now, here’s a description of me: - 26 years old, 5’2”. - Light-skinned, British Caribbean black female. - Dark brown eyes. - Curly dark brown hair. Both almost look black unless I’m in the sun where the true colour shines through. - 180lbs and declining (thanks to 75Hard!) - Ample bosom and butt (thanks to genetics!). - Ears pierced, no tattoos. - Never married, zero kids. - UK based My personality and some things that I enjoy: **The Vanilla Stuff** - Demisexual, Sapiosexual, Bisexual. - Insomniac so I’m often up at weird hours of the night. - Video games. I have the majority of all the consoles so let’s play something sometime! - VERY Amateur Woodworking. - Woods and forests for strolls, hikes and non-vanilla things. - Would love to try my hand at cosplay next year and I already have the perfect outfits in mind! 70s Ororo Munroe (X-Men Storm), Teen Titans (Original) Rachel Roth (Raven), Shego from Kim Possible, Tifa Lockhart from Final Fantasy. - I LOVE asking and receiving questions; and, as you can see from this profile, I adore lengthy messages so please be inquisitive and talkative! There’s a lot of conversation starters here to choose from if you’re stuck. **The Kinkier Stuff** - ✨ Brat / Submissive / Accidental Occasional Domme / Middle (DDMG) ✨ You don’t have to like all of the same things that I do but having some overlap to talk about would be nice! : ) Here’s a list of some of my interests and things I want to try: Spanking and other impact play Choking and other breath play Collars and gags Blindfolds and hoods Restriction/Pinning/Cuffs Shibari DDMG Age gaps Interracial / Raceplay CNC Cock worship Fucking machines Suspension/Suspension fucking **Light** verbal possessive degradation Photo exchange Hot candle wax play **Some** knife play Public play Voyeurism Rutting and Primal Casual nudity Freeuse Orgasm control Aaaand forced orgasm. Phew! Okay, now that the bullet points are out of the way… if you’re still here and interested then I’d like to finish up by expressing what I’m looking for in a connection and why. ~ Outside of the bedroom | I’m hoping that whilst you’re dominant in the bedroom, you have a firm, yet softer, persona outside of the bedroom that allows me to be a bit of a ‘dominant caregiver’. One of my main ‘love languages’ is acts of service and I tend to autonomously ensure everyone’s needs are met. Whether it’s making sure you’re fed and your cup is full, keeping up with appointments, upcoming celebrations and gift wrapping to medicine, hot water bottles and head massages when you’re sick. Now, by no means am I referring to being nothing more than a subservient 1950s housewife stereotype. I do these things as a show of affection… because I want to, when I want to. NOT out of a sense of obligation and ‘tradition’. I’m headstrong and will speak my mind. I’m the dominant in my own life and have to be to have gotten where I am plus where I want to get to. So, I’m not looking for anyone who wants a meek, yes-woman who will wait on them hand and foot… I’m not looking for someone who wants to ‘tame’ or diminish and pacify the spirit that I have built. But rather I want someone who is looking for their equal. Someone to gently fan this fire so that we can both be great, together, in our own individual yet harmonious ways… (Unless, of course, we’re roleplaying then by all means let that misogynistic freak flag fly!) ~ Inside the bedroom | In the bedroom, however, I want you to grab the bull by the horns and put me in my place. At the end of the day, I’m tired of having to be the strong dominant for everyone else and just want to find someone who will let me melt completely in their open arms. At last being able to relinquish the remaining shred of my control, fully knowing that I am safe. ~ Brattiness | I’m a ‘playful’ bratty sub. My form of ‘disrespect’ is playful teasing and rebellious defiance. I like to gently poke the bear and run away when it’s finally riled up. I expect to face the consequences of my actions but that won’t stop me from batting my big, brown eyes at you and pleading for forgiveness… Which you’ll give me because I’m your sweet girl… Sucker. I like to run until I’m caught, kick until I’m pinned and gently nibble until I’m gagged. Hidden message for those paying attention. If you’ve made it this far, say: pickled purple cabbages. You’ll shoot straight to the top of my lookout list. ~ Adventurous | My kink list above is by no means exhaustive, with new things being added to it fairly regularly. Though the list is long, there is still a *large* part of it that is yet to be physically explored. I’m looking for a safe, reliable space in which to do that with an experienced, patient dominant who is happy to show me the (sometimes literal) ropes. Mentor me in the experiences I’ve yet to try and guide me in perfecting the things you enjoy most. I want you to turn me into your personal, custom-made toy. I’m hoping you’re equally adventurous, wanting to grow and explore new things together. Toys, outfits, scenes, clubs and hidden gems. There’s a whole world of fun out there to be explored and I’m willing to bet it would be better shared. ~ Relocating | In regards to long distance and relocating, I’m up for moving to an entirely different country for the right person. Not at this current point in time but definitely in the future should things progress and remain steady. My goal has always been to move to either California or Canada so I’ll eventually be in either USA or CA regardless. I’m flexible on where exactly within these countries I’d move to. I could consider Australia for the right person if they were unable to immigrate to the US with me. But, as an overly ambitious heads-up, should we ever be cohabiting a home together, I fully intend to repurpose a whole room (or basement) into a depraved little playroom, filled with all sorts of devious devices for both to enjoy. If you’ve made it this far then perhaps you’re the person I’ve been looking for… If you think so then I’d love to hear from you! Send me a message, opening with a little bit about yourself like your age, location, SFW interests/hobbies and our NSFW shared interests.
Female (27) San Francisco, California
I have a really hard time writing out bios and describing myself. I saw a post recently of someone saying you should treat a bio like a resume and that really clicked with my autism. Honestly makes writing everything out so much easier so here we go: Willow (Online name not Irl name) - 23 - Poly Lesbian - San Francisco, CA Interests: Non - Sexual Impact Play Shibari/Rope Play Pet Play Power Exchange CNC Non - sexual cgl Primal Play Blood Play Water Sports Chastity E-stim Hard No’s: Scat Men More about me: I consider myself a Switch leaning Sub. Somewhat experienced in a wide variety of scenes. Definitely still have a lot to learn. I'm very much a jack of all trades master of none and I’m working to change that. Currently focusing on exploring Impact, Rope and E-stim. I’d love to build up my confidence as a more Dominant partner ie Learning proper technique and safety. I have been really enjoying going to wicked ground classes and putting myself out into the sf scene more. Outside of kink I’m a huge nerd big into mtg, fantasy, scifi, and crochet. What I’m looking for: Play Partners/Friends/Mentors Play Partners: Looking for Doms to do scenes with either sexual or non-sexual depending on what's negotiated Friends: People to talk to and connect with! I love hanging out with people and learning about them and their interests (kink related or not). Mentors: Would love to talk with and learn from more veteran members in the scene. Want to build on my skill set as a switch so I'm more balanced in what I'm comfortable in participating in.
Female (23) San Francisco, California
Hello :) Just a college student looking for fun in between studies ;) Hardcore kinks only** Will exchange selfies in DM, (I am hot LOL).
Female (21) San Francisco, California
I desire for power and thirst for control. I carry a big sense of self-confidence and a need to be in charge. I also am very ambitious and enjoy taking initiative. I love being spoiled and when some can follow directions and gives me everything I desire.
Female (25) San Francisco, California
Dominant Duo for Your Darkest Desires Step into the realm of twisted pleasures with us, the Sadistic Seductresses, Mistress Victoria & Mistress Kendal. Indulge in the Taboo.. Embark on a journey of torment and ecstasy with our expertise in: •Exquisite Corporal Punishment •Bondage and Discipline •Humiliation and Degradation •Sissification and Role Reversal •Sensory Deprivation •Medical Play •Mind Control and Mental Torture •Pet Play & Training Weaving Torment and Ecstasy.. As masters of pain and pleasure, we'll push the boundaries of your wildest fantasies, exploring the edges of your limits with Safe, Sane, and Consensual Practices. Serious Inquiries Only Obedience and devotion are non-negotiable. Introduce yourself with your ideal arrangement, and let's explore your submissive kinks and fetishes together. Your Secrets Are Safe. Privacy and discretion are assured. Let's delve into the depths of your desires without reservation. Don't Be Shy, Dare to Indulge
Female (24) San Francisco, California
Seeking a submissive, young man. Trust and communication are essential.Message me to start. PS: I only share pictures and audio with people I'm into. And just so you know, I'm verified and the real deal! So, please don't come asking if I'm real.
Female (42) San Francisco, California
I guess you can say I’m a more clam laidback person, I’m always into trying new things nothing to crazy. I also offer services for anyone in the area if you know what I mean ??.
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