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Rather than jumping straight into practice, I value spiritual connection and in-depth communication more. If you'd like to explore the wonders of this world with me, please feel free to say hello
Female (40) San Francisco, California
I do as I please My personality tends to switch with the person I am interacting with I have both a dominant side, and a VERY submissive side for certain people. I like to get to know the person I am engaging with prior to indulging in our play, as it is very important to establish our roles and boundaries. Last Tested: 01/28/26 D#isclaimer: I Do NOT consent to my info, pics, or otherwise being used for any kind of project or otherwise, without my absolute written permission.
Female (27) San Francisco, California
Baby Dom, doin this kinky shit professionally! 👑 I enjoy power exchange dynamics that really connect you to your authentic desires. My goal is to be a trusted partner through the exploration of kink and play. One of my favorite dynamics is MommyDom, with a lifestyle feel to it; taking special care that my subs feel nurtured as well as stimulated. 💋
Female (33) San Francisco, California
I'm still pretty new to this whole scene, and honestly, I didn't expect to enjoy it so much. I’ve only experienced a few, but I hope to learn more and experience this lifestyle over time
Female (45) San Francisco, California
leave me a comment if you want me to notice 😉 new to kink and actively exploring 🥵 most interested in softdom or DD/lg dynamics, ask away about your other fantasies… chances are I’m into trying 😉
Female (27) San Francisco, California
First and Foremost: Sanguine Vampire Extreme *** Fetish If you’re not interested in being a donor, please don’t message me and waste my time and yours Not seeking a mate or slave at the moment. (In a state of self reflection) I am the architect of a forgotten art, seeking a servant for a life of total devotion. I have a suitor, and you will serve us both. This is not for the modern "casual"; this is a return to the old ways—a dynamic of absolute hierarchy where you receive nothing and give everything. There is no sex in this architecture; sex is ephemeral noise. I require the cold, exquisite geometry of control. You must be bisexual, a masochist of the purest order, and ready to exist as a vessel refined by the sting of my discipline. Know the Threshold: I am a Sanguine vampire, a Dominatrix with 33 years in the fire. My body reads as 35, but my soul has seen centuries. I am demisexual, arrogant, and entirely bored by posturing. I have not taken a partner or a donor in 20 months; I value my worth too much to suffer the rot of modern entitlement. I require a master of mind and body—someone who understands that *** and control are the highest forms of art. The Covenant: I offer you the mercy of being owned. The trial begins in the quiet of the weekends—a crucible of service where I shall see if your spirit possesses the strength to be erased. For the one who masters the silence and earns their place, there is a future written in the soil of Romania, a life of permanent, silent service. Do not bring me your fragile fantasies. Speak to me of what you are prepared to burn away. If you lead with ego, you will find the sharp end of my nature. If you lead with something real, you might just earn the right to exist in my presence. I see through bullshit like glass. Proceed accordingly.
Female (49) San Francisco, California
About Me: Confident, composed, and in total control. I know exactly what I want and expect absolute respect, discretion, and effort from those who enter my space. What Excites Me: Clean execution, genuine submissiveness, clear communication, and the art of dynamic play. I appreciate submissives who know their place, respect boundaries, and don't waste time with half-hearted energy. Here to Explore: Building authentic, structured dynamic connections. Rules of Approach: Messages without effort will be ignored. Read my profile fully before reaching out Respect is non-negotiable.
Female (28) San Francisco, California
I’m drawn to minds before anything else. Real conversation is rare and I know it when I see it. Tell me something true — the strange, specific kind of true — and I'll meet you there. Bring me the thing you think about at 2am — not the polished version, the one you hide when you get out of the bed in the morning. That’s the whole invitation. —————————————————————————— *About Me* Grey is my color, silence my fluent tongue, and writing is how I stay — the way string lights stay lit against a dark I know too well. I turn ache into object, into verse, into something I can set on a shelf and love without bleeding. I keep what others discard: the annotated book, the failing tape, the used thing with a past, the once-loved-by-another. Poetry is the only religion I keep without believing; I study the dark and quiet church, the dead language, the mechanism of things. I’ve written through every version of myself, and kept a poem a stranger gave me one cold dawn like a relic. I read grief in a pupil before a word is spoken — I see who has suffered by the loneliness in their eyes. Solitude isn’t absence for me; it’s the fullest place I have, a pleasure I pity anyone for never tasting. I distrust anything eager to be liked — the peach, the easy comfort, the quick fix — and trust the version with teeth. I love mustard-yellow, moss-green, polka dots, mismatched socks, red eyes, little lights in every corner against the dark. Bring a candle, an old book, a rare fact. I’ve lived more than most would have the nerve to believe, and written all of it down with black pen in notebooks without finish the last pages. Ask me nothing you wouldn’t confess at four in the morning.
Female (36) San Francisco, California
Curious, communication-focused, and new to the community. I’m taking my time to learn, explore my interests, and figure out what genuinely resonates with me. I value consent, respect, self-awareness, and open communication, and I’m enjoying the journey of discovering this side of myself one step at a time. looking for something that could turn into something long term.
Female (29) San Francisco, California
33 f wanting to *** some worthless slaves I love heavy bondage and *** dm me if that interests you and maybe I will message back who is pathetic enough not interested in older than me, under 30 preferred
Female (34) San Francisco, California
I am a conscience ethical Domme who is looking for subs,slaves,to play with in a ethical way I am aware that consent and ethics are to separate things and just because someone consents dose not make it ethical the choices I make are based on ethics. I am a unapologetic sadist who runs strict slave training.
Female (45) San Francisco, California
︎if you want me to be you mistress let’s have a chat to see if I’m even interested, I’ll go easy but until then tread lightly and enjoy? ❥call me mistress/princess♡︎ ♥︎Degrader who loves to have things her way how would I describe myself ? hmm yingyang ,I have good in me and bad in me but don’t let the looks fool you I’m devilishly persuasive ♡︎ **Desires and Fantasies** I just want to watch all men do tricks for me , sometimes i need the entertainment🤍 I want to degrade you, and you and you and you!✨I promise I don’t bite. some of you think you can either break or “tame” me , I think thats cute watching you all put your minds together into a singular thought is almost impressive. Progress is progress, i guess
Female (26) San Francisco, California
Daddy and I are looking for a woman to join us! We are fun, dirty, and dynamic. My Daddy is ethical and empathic, but structured and creative. He owns my ass (and every other part too 😘 ). I am, also, open to possible friendships.
Female (47) San Francisco, California
Recently out of a LTR. Not looking for anything serious. Give me a detailed description of how you’d love to eat a woman out. (I’m a sub) would love to be part of an MFM threesome as well and I do have some experience with that 🙃 I don’t mind having a person to rave with!! I’m a bass and riddim kinda gal 💅🏾 I’m 5’ 4” and love to be eaten out. 420 friendly. The move you give, the more I give. I have my limits, just ask :)
Female (25) San Francisco, California
I wanna give someone a foot job. I have big feet size 8 1/2 - 9 . I personally like to keep them pedicured! I don’t have to much experience I. this field but you gotta start somewhere:) I’m of African descent, and weigh a good amount, but I’m not looking to be touched. I just want to try for a foot job and maybe a kiss. probably not. I’m quite picky. if I like it and you enough maybe a boob job. a little more abt me:) Likes/receiving: cnc edging teasing degrading praise *** impact play over stimulation butt play face fucking feet worship double/triple penetration free use breeding (actual breeding ) role playing I do have a domme side but that’s a different list on its own. quite similar though, think most of these but giving instead. I love reciprocation.
Female (23) San Francisco, California
I’m 24 years old very laidback and chill outside the bedroom but inside the bedroom I like to get rough and kinky looking for someone who can put me in my place because I’m an absolute brat with daddy issues and a dislike for stupid people, I’m a huge gamer and I enjoy reading and listening to music, in the bedroom I like *** I’m a sadist and a masochist basically use me and *** me and before you ask “who hurt you” um well basically everyone I’ve trusted, I’m a switch so I can be submissive or dominant depending on the situation I’m a rope bunny I love being tied up so yeah that’s about it message me if you wanna know more
Female (25) San Francisco, California
Here for fun, chemistry, and good vibes. Looking for kinky dates and like-minded people. No strings attached, but communication and respect are a must. ✨
Female (24) San Francisco, California
hey ✨ just here to make friends. before you get any ideas, my big boobs have already been claimed by my pretty submissive baby. i’m not looking for anything romantic or sexual, so please be normal, be respectful, so we could be friends!
Female (25) San Francisco, California
I am your Goddess. Your limits are irrelevant; your submission is your liberation. Control is my art, and you are my masterpiece. Serve, obey, and lose yourself in my dominance
Female (36) San Francisco, California
What I’m looking for is a professional, respectful dynamic built on clear communication, consistency, and mutual understanding. Financial security is an important part of that dynamic for me, and I value someone who genuinely appreciates the time, energy, and attention I invest. I’m interested in connections where expectations are transparent and respect goes both ways always ☺️
Female (26) San Francisco, California
bi pillow princess / sub looking to explore - excited by or willing to try most things. spankings, plugs, restraints, toys. only available on Sundays and Mondays. not looking for penpals. please be local to me in the sf Bay Area
Female (34) San Francisco, California
I am an artist. I love the attire we get to wear in the scene. the leather the corsets the shoes the ropes the collars and the implements used. I believe I am a switch but am still getting that out. I want to explore shibari, device bondage, to experience a pleasure Dom, to learn the proper etiquette, and to make lifelong friends/ play partners. I'm into women and men and couples. I don't have a lot of experience due to lack of like-minded people and I'm a bit shy and often feel out of place but I get over that if made to feel welcome. I enjoy both sides of a flogger and love worshipping both cock and pussy so far but I'm still a newbie. looking for serious fun in SF.
Female (44) San Francisco, California
feeling a little restless tonight ✨ just out of a long term relationship, and trying to find some of the spark I’ve been missing also, just chopped my hair! it’s at my shoulders now
Female (29) San Francisco, California

New members in San Francisco

Rather than jumping straight into practice, I value spiritual connection and in-depth communication more. If you'd like to explore the wonders of this world with me, please feel free to say hello
Female (40) San Francisco, California
Baby Dom, doin this kinky shit professionally! 👑 I enjoy power exchange dynamics that really connect you to your authentic desires. My goal is to be a trusted partner through the exploration of kink and play. One of my favorite dynamics is MommyDom, with a lifestyle feel to it; taking special care that my subs feel nurtured as well as stimulated. 💋
Female (33) San Francisco, California
I'm still pretty new to this whole scene, and honestly, I didn't expect to enjoy it so much. I’ve only experienced a few, but I hope to learn more and experience this lifestyle over time
Female (45) San Francisco, California
I do as I please My personality tends to switch with the person I am interacting with I have both a dominant side, and a VERY submissive side for certain people. I like to get to know the person I am engaging with prior to indulging in our play, as it is very important to establish our roles and boundaries. Last Tested: 01/28/26 D#isclaimer: I Do NOT consent to my info, pics, or otherwise being used for any kind of project or otherwise, without my absolute written permission.
Female (27) San Francisco, California
33 f wanting to *** some worthless slaves I love heavy bondage and *** dm me if that interests you and maybe I will message back who is pathetic enough not interested in older than me, under 30 preferred
Female (34) San Francisco, California
Curious, communication-focused, and new to the community. I’m taking my time to learn, explore my interests, and figure out what genuinely resonates with me. I value consent, respect, self-awareness, and open communication, and I’m enjoying the journey of discovering this side of myself one step at a time. looking for something that could turn into something long term.
Female (29) San Francisco, California
I wanna give someone a foot job. I have big feet size 8 1/2 - 9 . I personally like to keep them pedicured! I don’t have to much experience I. this field but you gotta start somewhere:) I’m of African descent, and weigh a good amount, but I’m not looking to be touched. I just want to try for a foot job and maybe a kiss. probably not. I’m quite picky. if I like it and you enough maybe a boob job. a little more abt me:) Likes/receiving: cnc edging teasing degrading praise *** impact play over stimulation butt play face fucking feet worship double/triple penetration free use breeding (actual breeding ) role playing I do have a domme side but that’s a different list on its own. quite similar though, think most of these but giving instead. I love reciprocation.
Female (23) San Francisco, California
Here for fun, chemistry, and good vibes. Looking for kinky dates and like-minded people. No strings attached, but communication and respect are a must. ✨
Female (24) San Francisco, California
attention wh0re with a praise k!nk looking for entertainment, boring will be ignored. the likelihood of a reply increases with quality of your first message ;)
Female (27) San Francisco, California
What I’m looking for is a professional, respectful dynamic built on clear communication, consistency, and mutual understanding. Financial security is an important part of that dynamic for me, and I value someone who genuinely appreciates the time, energy, and attention I invest. I’m interested in connections where expectations are transparent and respect goes both ways always ☺️
Female (26) San Francisco, California
I am your Goddess. Your limits are irrelevant; your submission is your liberation. Control is my art, and you are my masterpiece. Serve, obey, and lose yourself in my dominance
Female (36) San Francisco, California
I’m drawn to minds before anything else. Real conversation is rare and I know it when I see it. Tell me something true — the strange, specific kind of true — and I'll meet you there. Bring me the thing you think about at 2am — not the polished version, the one you hide when you get out of the bed in the morning. That’s the whole invitation. —————————————————————————— *About Me* Grey is my color, silence my fluent tongue, and writing is how I stay — the way string lights stay lit against a dark I know too well. I turn ache into object, into verse, into something I can set on a shelf and love without bleeding. I keep what others discard: the annotated book, the failing tape, the used thing with a past, the once-loved-by-another. Poetry is the only religion I keep without believing; I study the dark and quiet church, the dead language, the mechanism of things. I’ve written through every version of myself, and kept a poem a stranger gave me one cold dawn like a relic. I read grief in a pupil before a word is spoken — I see who has suffered by the loneliness in their eyes. Solitude isn’t absence for me; it’s the fullest place I have, a pleasure I pity anyone for never tasting. I distrust anything eager to be liked — the peach, the easy comfort, the quick fix — and trust the version with teeth. I love mustard-yellow, moss-green, polka dots, mismatched socks, red eyes, little lights in every corner against the dark. Bring a candle, an old book, a rare fact. I’ve lived more than most would have the nerve to believe, and written all of it down with black pen in notebooks without finish the last pages. Ask me nothing you wouldn’t confess at four in the morning.
Female (36) San Francisco, California
I’m a dom looking for a sub who will spoil me with gifts. I want to take care of them in return. it’s just that simple. add me on snap if your serious about worshipping me: drewdomme
Female (22) San Francisco, California
I’m confident a Mistress Christen who knows exactly what she wants. I value loyalty, discipline, and a man who understands the meaning of true devotion. I’m seeking a submissive who is ready to serve, grow, and find purpose under my guidance. Respect, trust, and consistency are everything, earn your place, and you’ll be rewarded.
Female (34) San Francisco, California
Into femdom, strong feminine energy, and playful power dynamics. I appreciate confidence, control, teasing, and someone who knows exactly what they want.
Female (37) San Francisco, California
I am divorced woman looking to explore my submissive side with a sexy dominant woman or women. I love to please women and i want a sexy woman who will teach who be a good submissive slave. willing to explore with the right partner
Female (40) San Francisco, California
watching people being turned on by *** so hard. look for a another women who likes to be ***d and ***d to the extreme. we like to eat acid deep and do coke and special k and do fuck up shit. must be willing to be bullied.
Female (38) San Francisco, California
leave me a comment if you want me to notice 😉 new to kink and actively exploring 🥵 most interested in softdom or DD/lg dynamics, ask away about your other fantasies… chances are I’m into trying 😉
Female (27) San Francisco, California
feeling a little restless tonight ✨ just out of a long term relationship, and trying to find some of the spark I’ve been missing also, just chopped my hair! it’s at my shoulders now
Female (29) San Francisco, California
About Me: Confident, composed, and in total control. I know exactly what I want and expect absolute respect, discretion, and effort from those who enter my space. What Excites Me: Clean execution, genuine submissiveness, clear communication, and the art of dynamic play. I appreciate submissives who know their place, respect boundaries, and don't waste time with half-hearted energy. Here to Explore: Building authentic, structured dynamic connections. Rules of Approach: Messages without effort will be ignored. Read my profile fully before reaching out Respect is non-negotiable.
Female (28) San Francisco, California
This is not new to me. I love to be dominated by tall dark and handsome men. I love anal, cream pies, deep throating, and bondage. I am really up for anything and open to all types of people. Come share you're inner freak. I'm looking to meet in person and hook up with no strings attached..no bullshit..no games..just fucking
Female (25) San Francisco, California
I am an artist. I love the attire we get to wear in the scene. the leather the corsets the shoes the ropes the collars and the implements used. I believe I am a switch but am still getting that out. I want to explore shibari, device bondage, to experience a pleasure Dom, to learn the proper etiquette, and to make lifelong friends/ play partners. I'm into women and men and couples. I don't have a lot of experience due to lack of like-minded people and I'm a bit shy and often feel out of place but I get over that if made to feel welcome. I enjoy both sides of a flogger and love worshipping both cock and pussy so far but I'm still a newbie. looking for serious fun in SF.
Female (44) San Francisco, California
First and Foremost: Sanguine Vampire Extreme *** Fetish If you’re not interested in being a donor, please don’t message me and waste my time and yours Not seeking a mate or slave at the moment. (In a state of self reflection) I am the architect of a forgotten art, seeking a servant for a life of total devotion. I have a suitor, and you will serve us both. This is not for the modern "casual"; this is a return to the old ways—a dynamic of absolute hierarchy where you receive nothing and give everything. There is no sex in this architecture; sex is ephemeral noise. I require the cold, exquisite geometry of control. You must be bisexual, a masochist of the purest order, and ready to exist as a vessel refined by the sting of my discipline. Know the Threshold: I am a Sanguine vampire, a Dominatrix with 33 years in the fire. My body reads as 35, but my soul has seen centuries. I am demisexual, arrogant, and entirely bored by posturing. I have not taken a partner or a donor in 20 months; I value my worth too much to suffer the rot of modern entitlement. I require a master of mind and body—someone who understands that *** and control are the highest forms of art. The Covenant: I offer you the mercy of being owned. The trial begins in the quiet of the weekends—a crucible of service where I shall see if your spirit possesses the strength to be erased. For the one who masters the silence and earns their place, there is a future written in the soil of Romania, a life of permanent, silent service. Do not bring me your fragile fantasies. Speak to me of what you are prepared to burn away. If you lead with ego, you will find the sharp end of my nature. If you lead with something real, you might just earn the right to exist in my presence. I see through bullshit like glass. Proceed accordingly.
Female (49) San Francisco, California
just looking around at this point I kind of have a type…. muscles, tattoos, dark hair 🥰 so message me
Female (26) San Francisco, California

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