*** If you are a cis man, odds are not in your favor. Fair warning.

Hello there ~

I'm here for something different from Fetlife. Interested in friends, play partners, and people I can attend munches, classes, and events with.

Connections I'm interested in:

• Masochists, submissives, bottoms, pets, slaves, or sub-leaning switches for both short term and long term play partner dynamics.
• Queer community folks and other femmes!
• Other poly/ENM folks for discussing our dating & relationship experiences! For the record, I am ENM and happily married to my submissive partner.
• Local community only.
• Dungeon, kink event, munch, and class partners/friends.
• Nerdy/Artsy/Weird people for platonic friendships and/or play partners!
• Rope enthusiasts I can learn from and with.
• 🩸/Needle play enthusiasts (I require recent testing prior to play).
• Fire play and wax play lovers.
• Fantasy, sci-fi, and horror fans (this includes people who love books, D&D, anime, movies, and cons of course).
• Interesting people who can teach me new things.

Connections I am NOT interested in:

• No long distance. No online. No tourists.
• No racists, homophobes, sexists, transphobes or any other sort of bigoted asshole.
• No conservatives, centrists, or libertarians.
• No sissy fetishists.
• No illegal/abusive activities.
• No hookups for vanilla sex acts.
• No swingers/unicorn hunting couples.
• No pay-for-play dynamics (respect to those who are into it, but I'm not).

My hard limits include:

• All the usual illegal things.
• Vanilla sex acts.
• Foot fetishists.
• Sissy fetishists.
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• Sexual harassment.
• Cis men.
• Switching.