Kinky women in Oakland

I’m new to the D/s world, but I’m learning quickly what draws me in. I’m a quiet, sweet Domme with a calm kind of control the type that doesn’t need to raise my voice to be felt. I’m discovering that I enjoy patience, subtle command, and the kind of dynamic where someone genuinely wants to please. I appreciate effort, devotion, and someone who listens with intention. I have a soft approach, but very clear boundaries. Respect is nonnegotiable with me. If you want my attention, you show consistency. If you want my trust, you earn it. I’m still exploring, still figuring out my style, but I know I prefer a dynamic built on communication, respect, and genuine willingness; to be clear I’m a Domme in every sense, including financial. I expect devotion in all forms emotional, mental, and financial. If you serve me, you serve fully.… xoxo

Looking for fun, playful, and emotionally intelligent cuties who are just as eager as I am to explore most kinks! My life philosophy is “try everything twice.” ;) - size queen 👑 (extra points if you wanna prove it) - impact play - CNC - D/s servant/training dynamics - keen to explore more shibari & suspension bondage If you can name it, I’ve likely tried it or am willing to try it. So, let’s chat.

Confident, body and sex positive queer femme with strong communication skills and a strong sense of fun and humor. Looking for D/s and bottoming experiences from a confident, Daddy, Sir, or Masc top. also open and excited to play with femmes. given my confident personality I need someone who can hold my tendency towards control and sometimes defiant behavior.

New to kink so a lot to learn. I’m petite and curvy brunette with a small waist, thick thighs, full hips and a juicy 🍑. I’m a sub looking for someone to have regular D/s play sessions. I think desire starts in the mind so I want to be seduced. I Love lots of foreplay (verbal & physical), anticipation, tension, toys, dirty talk and ***fulness. I like to playfully resist and be subdued and overcome. discreet public teasing really excites me. If you lean towards being a pleasure Dom, enjoy the art of seduction, love to give more than receive and looking for a regular playmate then please reach out. I prefer an athletic build and no mustaches (beards can be sexy.) Please Send pics of face if not on your profile. Please dont message me, if you aren’t nearby or cant host. Im not interested in cyber sex, being friends or exchanging pics. Condoms, clear boundaries and good communication skills are nonnegotiable. I hold myself with respect and expect the same.

no bra no razor no panties yes, hairy , swinging, and free! not modest exhibitionist love pussy

Hello I go by Nirvana, I've been into kink for a while but never really explored it, always have been wanting to and this is the perfect time to, I've been wanting to explore my Dom side(femdom), and seeing/being with women/mtf/fem more I've been with mainly men, and tiny amount of women but not sure where to start. Still down to talk to men that's not outta the question. I'm not looking to jump into something right away, but I guess it's all down to vibes. I am currently momentarily disabled it's a mobility issue, I have issues walking, so I'm a bit slower than most people atm. Besides that I love to go out to eat places or a cute picnic is suffice, I'm kinda of a cheap date to a degree. I'm a bit geeky and nerdy, I'm introverted-extroverted, and yeah. I don't know what else to put on here but if you have any questions just ask ☺️

dom side : I am a compassion dom looking for sweet and playful connections where sentry play is all about nurture , gentleness, and desire. sub side: can be very bratty, hard to submit but love someone stronger and smarter than me. I love worship and pampering

cis woman in a sapphic, loving, committed relationship with my trans femme girlfriend. we enjoy meeting and playing with other fun folks. LGBTQ+ to the front.

I’m new to the scene but this scene isn’t new to me. Have a lot of friends into fet and I know what is and isn’t okay behavior. Looking to experiment, play, and discover what I like.

NO MEN. Hi, I'm Brooke, I love to travel, work on, and offer my travel service, I live in downtown Oakland, and I also love to work out, read, and study.

Just a girl wanting to go on cute dates with other girls —and probably more;)) Let’s meet IRL and see if sparks fly? Major foodie! Love long strolls and trying new drinks. What bar should we meet at?! Not looking for anything too serious. Happily partnered and we’re curious in playing with a 3rd (though not needed). Def can just be you and I

soft domme mommy in NorCal. Respect is mandatory. Do not message me with “hey,” “how are you,” or low-effort nonsense. If you approach me, be clear, intentional, and ready to serve appropriately. And yes — if you’re messaging me, you should already understand that my time and attention are not free.

Looking for the Kurt Russel to my Goldie Hawn. Someone confident, funny, relaxed, and kind. Someone who likes to plunge the depths of philosophy, meta physics, and politics, but knows the value of a well-timed dick joke ;) No pictures here because my friends are on here and I don’t want anyone to know what I like lol - it’s going to get kind of explicit here - but happy to send pictures if you message. What I look like: Apparently Scotch-Irish, haha. Round, youthful face. Short (5’ 3”). Slim and working on getting back in shape. Wavy shoulder-length light brown hair, green/blue eyes, a couple of tattoos, 0g piercings. Mostly don’t wear makeup, described as naturally pretty. Love dressing with intention, sometimes funky, mostly a laid back NorCal vibe, usually in my carharrts or jeans, but I love an excuse to dress up - I’m dying for an occasion to wear my red satin dress and neon green 6” platform sandals. Sounds wild but I swear it works. Who I am: I’m a filmmaker, budding auto mechanic, and plant enthusiast. I have a strong personality, but never a desire to dominate a room or conversation. Over the years, I’ve been teaching myself to listen better and soften myself, to find balance. I like to drop into the flow. I like myself best when I’m at ease, and I have a mediation practice around being at peace with life. I believe in non-***, not from a place of naive idealism, but from a true understanding of the transformative, unsustainable nature of ***. I’m oriented towards repair, and enjoy connecting with everyone around me. I’m direct, confident, tender-hearted, logical, and sincere. I’m an absolute goofball. While I’m very selective on who comes into my life, I’m described as non-judgmental and compassionate - life is hard for all of us and as it is, I consider myself a reformed fuck-up haha. I love punk, neo-surf rock, and Asian/SE Asian psychedelic rock music - I love taking long drives discovering new music to decompress. I put myself at the intersection of environmentalism, anti-consumerism, and frugality. I live a pretty simple life, but know the value of something good quality. I consider myself working class and earn a deeper level of respect for others through a shared sense of labor - I deeply admire a strong work ethic and emotional awareness. If building a greenhouse with me sounds like your idea of fun, we’re on the same page ;) What I like / why I’m on Fet: I’ve never come with a partner before, I always take care of myself. I’d like to change that. I enjoy sex that is both a little rough and very respectful - I want to meet you as an equal. I’m on a journey of sexual discovery and I’m looking for experiences that are experimental, a little weird and fun, but at the heart very tender and authentic. I’ve been described as submissive, but see myself as more switchy. I love to give pleasure and be in control of that - love an uncut cock, love eating ass, love pretending I’m strong enough to pin you down and kiss you everywhere I want. I’m learning a lot about myself right now and what I like. I know I get turned on by the shifting dynamics of sex. It doesn’t matter to me as much how you look as how you are with me. Are we in step with each other? Are we working together to challenge and yield to each other? I like sex that is playful and safe. I like light choking, having my face slapped roughly but not ***fully, and having pressure on my body. Someone put their whole weight on me once and it just made me feel safe and open. In that vein, I like having my legs tied sometimes and I love wrestling with someone and having them pin me down and fuck me. Kinda a clumslut, enjoy anal and being double stuffed. Would love to have an experience with two men. Enjoy free use. Aftercare is non-negotiable. Who you might be: Confident and comfortable in yourself, curious and engaged. Empathetic, connected. Values driven. Masculine. I’m super open minded about what package that comes in but I know that I like men who are capable and give themselves projects, who work with their hands but are also intellectually and emotionally intelligent. I’m looking for a man who is around my age, uses substances minimally, and offers warmth. Bonus points if you’re Australian ;) Hope to hear from you

Looking for fun, playful, and emotionally intelligent cuties who are just as eager as I am to explore most kinks! My life philosophy is “try everything twice.” ;) - size queen 👑 (extra points if you wanna prove it) - impact play - CNC - D/s servant/training dynamics - keen to explore more shibari & suspension bondage If you can name it, I’ve likely tried it or am willing to try it. So, let’s chat.

cis woman in a sapphic, loving, committed relationship with my trans femme girlfriend. we enjoy meeting and playing with other fun folks. LGBTQ+ to the front.

Hello I go by Nirvana, I've been into kink for a while but never really explored it, always have been wanting to and this is the perfect time to, I've been wanting to explore my Dom side(femdom), and seeing/being with women/mtf/fem more I've been with mainly men, and tiny amount of women but not sure where to start. Still down to talk to men that's not outta the question. I'm not looking to jump into something right away, but I guess it's all down to vibes. I am currently momentarily disabled it's a mobility issue, I have issues walking, so I'm a bit slower than most people atm. Besides that I love to go out to eat places or a cute picnic is suffice, I'm kinda of a cheap date to a degree. I'm a bit geeky and nerdy, I'm introverted-extroverted, and yeah. I don't know what else to put on here but if you have any questions just ask ☺️

no bra no razor no panties yes, hairy , swinging, and free! not modest exhibitionist love pussy

soft domme mommy in NorCal. Respect is mandatory. Do not message me with “hey,” “how are you,” or low-effort nonsense. If you approach me, be clear, intentional, and ready to serve appropriately. And yes — if you’re messaging me, you should already understand that my time and attention are not free.

Looking for the Kurt Russel to my Goldie Hawn. Someone confident, funny, relaxed, and kind. Someone who likes to plunge the depths of philosophy, meta physics, and politics, but knows the value of a well-timed dick joke ;) No pictures here because my friends are on here and I don’t want anyone to know what I like lol - it’s going to get kind of explicit here - but happy to send pictures if you message. What I look like: Apparently Scotch-Irish, haha. Round, youthful face. Short (5’ 3”). Slim and working on getting back in shape. Wavy shoulder-length light brown hair, green/blue eyes, a couple of tattoos, 0g piercings. Mostly don’t wear makeup, described as naturally pretty. Love dressing with intention, sometimes funky, mostly a laid back NorCal vibe, usually in my carharrts or jeans, but I love an excuse to dress up - I’m dying for an occasion to wear my red satin dress and neon green 6” platform sandals. Sounds wild but I swear it works. Who I am: I’m a filmmaker, budding auto mechanic, and plant enthusiast. I have a strong personality, but never a desire to dominate a room or conversation. Over the years, I’ve been teaching myself to listen better and soften myself, to find balance. I like to drop into the flow. I like myself best when I’m at ease, and I have a mediation practice around being at peace with life. I believe in non-***, not from a place of naive idealism, but from a true understanding of the transformative, unsustainable nature of ***. I’m oriented towards repair, and enjoy connecting with everyone around me. I’m direct, confident, tender-hearted, logical, and sincere. I’m an absolute goofball. While I’m very selective on who comes into my life, I’m described as non-judgmental and compassionate - life is hard for all of us and as it is, I consider myself a reformed fuck-up haha. I love punk, neo-surf rock, and Asian/SE Asian psychedelic rock music - I love taking long drives discovering new music to decompress. I put myself at the intersection of environmentalism, anti-consumerism, and frugality. I live a pretty simple life, but know the value of something good quality. I consider myself working class and earn a deeper level of respect for others through a shared sense of labor - I deeply admire a strong work ethic and emotional awareness. If building a greenhouse with me sounds like your idea of fun, we’re on the same page ;) What I like / why I’m on Fet: I’ve never come with a partner before, I always take care of myself. I’d like to change that. I enjoy sex that is both a little rough and very respectful - I want to meet you as an equal. I’m on a journey of sexual discovery and I’m looking for experiences that are experimental, a little weird and fun, but at the heart very tender and authentic. I’ve been described as submissive, but see myself as more switchy. I love to give pleasure and be in control of that - love an uncut cock, love eating ass, love pretending I’m strong enough to pin you down and kiss you everywhere I want. I’m learning a lot about myself right now and what I like. I know I get turned on by the shifting dynamics of sex. It doesn’t matter to me as much how you look as how you are with me. Are we in step with each other? Are we working together to challenge and yield to each other? I like sex that is playful and safe. I like light choking, having my face slapped roughly but not ***fully, and having pressure on my body. Someone put their whole weight on me once and it just made me feel safe and open. In that vein, I like having my legs tied sometimes and I love wrestling with someone and having them pin me down and fuck me. Kinda a clumslut, enjoy anal and being double stuffed. Would love to have an experience with two men. Enjoy free use. Aftercare is non-negotiable. Who you might be: Confident and comfortable in yourself, curious and engaged. Empathetic, connected. Values driven. Masculine. I’m super open minded about what package that comes in but I know that I like men who are capable and give themselves projects, who work with their hands but are also intellectually and emotionally intelligent. I’m looking for a man who is around my age, uses substances minimally, and offers warmth. Bonus points if you’re Australian ;) Hope to hear from you

I’m new to the scene but this scene isn’t new to me. Have a lot of friends into fet and I know what is and isn’t okay behavior. Looking to experiment, play, and discover what I like.

NO MEN. Hi, I'm Brooke, I love to travel, work on, and offer my travel service, I live in downtown Oakland, and I also love to work out, read, and study.

New to kink so a lot to learn. I’m petite and curvy brunette with a small waist, thick thighs, full hips and a juicy 🍑. I’m a sub looking for someone to have regular D/s play sessions. I think desire starts in the mind so I want to be seduced. I Love lots of foreplay (verbal & physical), anticipation, tension, toys, dirty talk and ***fulness. I like to playfully resist and be subdued and overcome. discreet public teasing really excites me. If you lean towards being a pleasure Dom, enjoy the art of seduction, love to give more than receive and looking for a regular playmate then please reach out. I prefer an athletic build and no mustaches (beards can be sexy.) Please Send pics of face if not on your profile. Please dont message me, if you aren’t nearby or cant host. Im not interested in cyber sex, being friends or exchanging pics. Condoms, clear boundaries and good communication skills are nonnegotiable. I hold myself with respect and expect the same.

Confident, body and sex positive queer femme with strong communication skills and a strong sense of fun and humor. Looking for D/s and bottoming experiences from a confident, Daddy, Sir, or Masc top. also open and excited to play with femmes. given my confident personality I need someone who can hold my tendency towards control and sometimes defiant behavior.

dom side : I am a compassion dom looking for sweet and playful connections where sentry play is all about nurture , gentleness, and desire. sub side: can be very bratty, hard to submit but love someone stronger and smarter than me. I love worship and pampering

Just a girl wanting to go on cute dates with other girls —and probably more;)) Let’s meet IRL and see if sparks fly? Major foodie! Love long strolls and trying new drinks. What bar should we meet at?! Not looking for anything too serious. Happily partnered and we’re curious in playing with a 3rd (though not needed). Def can just be you and I

I’m new to the D/s world, but I’m learning quickly what draws me in. I’m a quiet, sweet Domme with a calm kind of control the type that doesn’t need to raise my voice to be felt. I’m discovering that I enjoy patience, subtle command, and the kind of dynamic where someone genuinely wants to please. I appreciate effort, devotion, and someone who listens with intention. I have a soft approach, but very clear boundaries. Respect is nonnegotiable with me. If you want my attention, you show consistency. If you want my trust, you earn it. I’m still exploring, still figuring out my style, but I know I prefer a dynamic built on communication, respect, and genuine willingness; to be clear I’m a Domme in every sense, including financial. I expect devotion in all forms emotional, mental, and financial. If you serve me, you serve fully.… xoxo