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Princesita
Princesita
spoiled princess exploring her dom side ♡ into praise, teasing, attention, control, pretty things, and watching good boys behave for me. soft when deserved, mean when earned. i like clingy devotion, gifts, late night chats, obedience, and being treated like the pretty distraction i am. still exploring, but definitely discovering i enjoy being worshipped 🤭
Female (22) San Diego, California
Damselchick
Damselchick
Looking for that special person that helps discover the secrets to total relaxation. I love making good vibes and memories filled with great satisfaction. I offer great meetup fun, naughty funs and great massage sessions including nuru
Female (27) San Diego, California
Submeplzzzz
Submeplzzzz
30 year old business woman building a legacy for herself, In my external world I must be a strong dominant business woman that shows no emotions, so ddlg has been my outlet. I love being a soft silly little girl and dressing up and just being myself.
Female (30) San Diego, California
Emily-5910
Emily-5910
I am ready to open my heart again. I'm looking for an honest, sincere man who values kindness and companionship. Someone who enjoys quiet conversations over tea, sharing laughs, and building a gentle, trusting relationship. If you are looking for a genuine romantic man
Female (39) San Diego, California
Mzz_nuella
Mzz_nuella
I AM AN EXPERIENCED DOMINANT MISTRESS WITH A DEEP APPRECIATION FOR (FlNDOM) AND A WIDE RANGE OF BDSM DYNAMICS AND FETISHES. I VALUE DISCIPLINE, TRUST, RESPECT, COMMUNICATION, AND THE POWER EXCHANGE THAT FORMS THE FOUNDATION OF A GENUINE D/S RELATIONSHIP.
Female (40) San Diego, California
Layla8869
Layla8869
Hello! I'm a 26 year old Latina/Italian submissive exploring the thrilling world of kink. I’m passionate about BDSM, role-playing, pet play] and eager to connect with like-minded individuals who appreciate the beauty of power exchange.
Female (38) San Diego, California
Patricia-3883
Patricia-3883
I’m very naughty sub and looking for a good dom to complete me. I’m very naughty and loved to be pleased and satisfied every single moment we spend together. I think I enjoy all kind of kinky activities.
Female (49) San Diego, California
KittenAttack
KittenAttack
I’m bi : ) I want a master. I like sex parties and masturbation control. I like being restrained. I want you to dress me and decide if i get to wear underwear. I want to be spanked and punished.
Female (24) San Diego, California
selisorman234
selisorman234
I dream of meeting a man who is strong, kind and protective; someone who can make me feel safe, loved, and cherished. A man who values tenderness, loyalty, and family.
Female (39) San Diego, California
Austene
A*****e
Looking for someone who can take care of both of my sides brat or not.
Female (21) San Diego, California
Girl6Knicks
G*********s
**YOUR PLACE** **I DO NOT HOST** **Must be tested prior to the play session** A Virgo pillow princess, ***ter, singer, dancer. Def a triple threat in the arts with a clown aura. I love sociology and Afrocentric culture specifically Black feminist (womanist) theory. No unsolicited sexual messages/photos or harassment. I don’t need you to degrade me as a compliment. You will be blocked. I don’t do FFM or couple play. Threesomes are reserved for MMF only. BEMA ( Brandon Kyle Goodman) Body : Kissed and licked in the ear, neck, and forehead, brush inner thighs, playful feet and leg entanglement, rubbing of each others legs on one another, light blowing on pussy, dick slaps on clitoris, laying on chest, nipple licking, fingering, edging,moaning out loud and in my ear. Cuddling is a must! Environment: Big bed,kitchen,garage,sofa,and hotel. Cold room temp: 66-69 Mood: Moody/dark lighting,Sade/R&B/con-tempo R&B playlist/yacht rock/trip hop Accouterment : Kiwi vibrator, lube, blindfold,ribbon or soft fabric for arm/hand restraints, and cock ring.
Female (26) San Diego, California
vxpe
v**e
mostly for chit chats and getting my ego inflated beyond repair. if your limits include femdom, pegging and women bossing you around, get out my dms. I get on here once a week maybe. I’ll message if you are interesting enough or gas me up. I’m kind of avoidant but if you are subby and hot I’m chasing you around forever.
Female (31) San Diego, California
angelinanoir
a**********r
Just a Gothicc Girl from the City of Angels living in San Diego... I'm not intentionally looking for a relationship right now but I am open to the possibility of more if the vibe is right with someone. What I am intentionally looking for is more queer friends who just want to have fun with no hidden agendas or drama. Does that exist? Lastly...l'm not interested in being your first time anything or your third to you and your partner.
Female (40) San Diego, California
covington91971
c************1
4'11 down to earth, enjoy hiking, nature, water activities, sshhr👀mz 😍 erotic massages, foreplay and being orally please, love giving hand jobs, edging, milking and light anal play. I'm a switch but can be 💲ubmi$$ive for the right daddy🤑
Female (39) San Diego, California
RigelVenus
R********s
I'm looking for local friends and play partners. If you can not physically get to me to play, please dont waste my time or yours, it's a no. I am looking for connections and bonds. To start ,friends with benefits. Eventually, I would love a long-term nonmonogamaus relationship. In my vanilla life, when at home, I enjoy cooking, playing video games, and mostly RPG PVE like dragon age or skyrim. When I'm out, I'm usually hanging out at Fiesta or any other place my best budy can go. My best buddy is my dog, Jade.
Female (49) San Diego, California
kizzlerose
k********e
I’m exploring the intersection of feminine authority, ritual, sensuality and consensual power exchange. My emerging Dominant energy is warm, observant and ceremonial. I’m drawn to devotion, discipline, psychological tension, service, reverence, intentional surrender and the delicious power of a carefully chosen command. I don’t need to shout to be obeyed. I’m currently here to learn, attend educational events and munches, connect with experienced women Dominants, and build genuine community. I take consent, negotiation, physical safety, confidentiality and aftercare seriously. I play sober, move deliberately and believe that spiritual language should deepen consent—never override it. Outside this space, I’m a creative professional with an established public life, so discretion matters. I keep my worlds separate and expect others to respect that boundary. I’m not interested in unsolicited explicit messages, instant submission, manipulation disguised as mentorship or anyone attempting to rush access to me. Approach me as a whole human being first. At my threshold, intention comes before access. 🖤🔮
Female (30) San Diego, California
SoftRebelXO
S*********O
Just looking to meet new people, make friends, and see where the vibe goes. I’m pretty chill but shy at first. I like good conversation, gaming, anime, food, and traveling. I’m open-minded, definitely a bratty service sub 😇, and trying to step outside my comfort zone a little. 😊 looking for a D/s relationship I’m looking for a hunter, not prey. Don’t call yourself a hunter and then expect me to chase you. I will starve your ego every time.
Female (35) San Diego, California
letsplaay_queen
l*************n
looking for a sexy open minded down to earth women I can vibe and have some fun with either with just myself or/and if your open to it including my boyfriend in the fun if not then that’s fine too ☺️😉 IM INTERESTED IN COUPLES OR FEMALES ONLY NO SINGLE MEN !
Female (31) San Diego, California
KandiMae
K******e
Just here for some fun wanting to experience anything and everything! very much yallternative.. country and witchy In need of a new sub to worship me.
Female (25) San Diego, California
Babyy_girl
B********l
I like to be a bully😈 and in charge Also love 💵💵 love someone who wants to financially support me
Female (27) San Diego, California
clau0834
c******4
I like to read, go on walks, love to go dancing and trying new foods. I’m interested in exploring new kinks and finding myself in the lifestyle.
Female (36) San Diego, California
saintlucouture
s************e
I like someone who extremely submissive and would do anything just to make me happy, generous, obedient,and fast payment. when I know you won’t waste my time I’ll give you a chance, *** : chericouture
Female (19) San Diego, California
ObsessedDommie
O************e
I want you to beg, bend over, and once I’m done with you, go buy my matcha. Ok. That is it.🖤🗜️🚬🍒 Will not engage if you’re not local unless you are flying me out and treating me the whole time or want to do online only things then you can request my private snap.
Female (26) San Diego, California
Sailorgirl1SD
S***********D
Sailing lady. Curious about clubs and swinging. Only straight men. Not interested in Women. Maybe MM and me. interesting in Poly Wanting to know a person to gain some trust. ask some questions. Before anything sexual. New to the whole scene. Safety is a must
Female (61) San Diego, California

New members in San Diego

Emily-5910
Emily-5910
I am ready to open my heart again. I'm looking for an honest, sincere man who values kindness and companionship. Someone who enjoys quiet conversations over tea, sharing laughs, and building a gentle, trusting relationship. If you are looking for a genuine romantic man
Female (39) San Diego, California
Damselchick
Damselchick
Looking for that special person that helps discover the secrets to total relaxation. I love making good vibes and memories filled with great satisfaction. I offer great meetup fun, naughty funs and great massage sessions including nuru
Female (27) San Diego, California
Mzz_nuella
Mzz_nuella
I AM AN EXPERIENCED DOMINANT MISTRESS WITH A DEEP APPRECIATION FOR (FlNDOM) AND A WIDE RANGE OF BDSM DYNAMICS AND FETISHES. I VALUE DISCIPLINE, TRUST, RESPECT, COMMUNICATION, AND THE POWER EXCHANGE THAT FORMS THE FOUNDATION OF A GENUINE D/S RELATIONSHIP.
Female (40) San Diego, California
Submeplzzzz
Submeplzzzz
30 year old business woman building a legacy for herself, In my external world I must be a strong dominant business woman that shows no emotions, so ddlg has been my outlet. I love being a soft silly little girl and dressing up and just being myself.
Female (30) San Diego, California
Patricia-3883
Patricia-3883
I’m very naughty sub and looking for a good dom to complete me. I’m very naughty and loved to be pleased and satisfied every single moment we spend together. I think I enjoy all kind of kinky activities.
Female (49) San Diego, California
selisorman234
selisorman234
I dream of meeting a man who is strong, kind and protective; someone who can make me feel safe, loved, and cherished. A man who values tenderness, loyalty, and family.
Female (39) San Diego, California
Princesita
Princesita
spoiled princess exploring her dom side ♡ into praise, teasing, attention, control, pretty things, and watching good boys behave for me. soft when deserved, mean when earned. i like clingy devotion, gifts, late night chats, obedience, and being treated like the pretty distraction i am. still exploring, but definitely discovering i enjoy being worshipped 🤭
Female (22) San Diego, California
KittenAttack
KittenAttack
I’m bi : ) I want a master. I like sex parties and masturbation control. I like being restrained. I want you to dress me and decide if i get to wear underwear. I want to be spanked and punished.
Female (24) San Diego, California
Layla8869
Layla8869
Hello! I'm a 26 year old Latina/Italian submissive exploring the thrilling world of kink. I’m passionate about BDSM, role-playing, pet play] and eager to connect with like-minded individuals who appreciate the beauty of power exchange.
Female (38) San Diego, California
Austene
A*****e
Looking for someone who can take care of both of my sides brat or not.
Female (21) San Diego, California
Girl6Knicks
G*********s
**YOUR PLACE** **I DO NOT HOST** **Must be tested prior to the play session** A Virgo pillow princess, ***ter, singer, dancer. Def a triple threat in the arts with a clown aura. I love sociology and Afrocentric culture specifically Black feminist (womanist) theory. No unsolicited sexual messages/photos or harassment. I don’t need you to degrade me as a compliment. You will be blocked. I don’t do FFM or couple play. Threesomes are reserved for MMF only. BEMA ( Brandon Kyle Goodman) Body : Kissed and licked in the ear, neck, and forehead, brush inner thighs, playful feet and leg entanglement, rubbing of each others legs on one another, light blowing on pussy, dick slaps on clitoris, laying on chest, nipple licking, fingering, edging,moaning out loud and in my ear. Cuddling is a must! Environment: Big bed,kitchen,garage,sofa,and hotel. Cold room temp: 66-69 Mood: Moody/dark lighting,Sade/R&B/con-tempo R&B playlist/yacht rock/trip hop Accouterment : Kiwi vibrator, lube, blindfold,ribbon or soft fabric for arm/hand restraints, and cock ring.
Female (26) San Diego, California
Sailorgirl1SD
S***********D
Sailing lady. Curious about clubs and swinging. Only straight men. Not interested in Women. Maybe MM and me. interesting in Poly Wanting to know a person to gain some trust. ask some questions. Before anything sexual. New to the whole scene. Safety is a must
Female (61) San Diego, California
prettyinpinklipgloss
p******************s
My name is Beth or Bethie, I'm only really looking for chatting n maybe some online stuff, I'm into a lot, I love pink, sparkles, glitter and girly stuff. I love to cook and do art, and I'm a switch primary sub! Oh also I'm bi lol
Female (18) San Diego, California
letsplaay_queen
l*************n
looking for a sexy open minded down to earth women I can vibe and have some fun with either with just myself or/and if your open to it including my boyfriend in the fun if not then that’s fine too ☺️😉 IM INTERESTED IN COUPLES OR FEMALES ONLY NO SINGLE MEN !
Female (31) San Diego, California
MsSerene
M******e
Hey there, I’m serene. Naturally dominant, confident, and a little dangerous. I like men who know their place, enjoy surrendering control, and aren’t afraid of a woman who expects obedience. I enjoy being in control and pushing my submissives’ limits within clearly established boundaries. If you’re into worship, consensual ***, teasing, and proving yourself to a woman who knows exactly what she wants, we might get along very well. Don’t tell me you’re submissive. Show me. IRL ***gies who like to be stomped on welcome. mommy needs a boob job💋xoxo not buying premium match me or I won’t see you🙄 Snapchat @sraw_brry
Female (20) San Diego, California
angelinanoir
a**********r
Just a Gothicc Girl from the City of Angels living in San Diego... I'm not intentionally looking for a relationship right now but I am open to the possibility of more if the vibe is right with someone. What I am intentionally looking for is more queer friends who just want to have fun with no hidden agendas or drama. Does that exist? Lastly...l'm not interested in being your first time anything or your third to you and your partner.
Female (40) San Diego, California
SoftRebelXO
S*********O
Just looking to meet new people, make friends, and see where the vibe goes. I’m pretty chill but shy at first. I like good conversation, gaming, anime, food, and traveling. I’m open-minded, definitely a bratty service sub 😇, and trying to step outside my comfort zone a little. 😊 looking for a D/s relationship I’m looking for a hunter, not prey. Don’t call yourself a hunter and then expect me to chase you. I will starve your ego every time.
Female (35) San Diego, California
Babyy_girl
B********l
I like to be a bully😈 and in charge Also love 💵💵 love someone who wants to financially support me
Female (27) San Diego, California
Bunnystailfloof
B*************f
New to kink and exploring (more like lurking) around different apps & sites to meet like minded people and maybe make friends!! Im here specifically to pretty much learn about how these spaces function ✨ My practice is pretty closed and quite limited so going out to meet up is out the window, I'm not looking for a dom/daddy/owner, & random pet names or disrespect will not be tolerated Aaaand I'm pretty shy so forgive me if you do end up reaching out and the convo doesn't hold up Errrr no idea what to really put here since I never use dating apps lol...
Female (18) San Diego, California
saintlucouture
s************e
I like someone who extremely submissive and would do anything just to make me happy, generous, obedient,and fast payment. when I know you won’t waste my time I’ll give you a chance, *** : chericouture
Female (19) San Diego, California
lil-bitt-tha-great
l****************t
Taking my time to look around, learn, and meet respectful people in the community. Focused on genuine conversations, shared interests, and exploring new experiences safely. Mind the limits, keep it respectful. so tried of the bullshit
Female (38) San Diego, California
abel_bigmama
a**********a
My name is Anna . I am 5’9” tall with an athletic-slim figure, a defined waist, curvy hips, and an attractive appearance. I am seeking a committed partner to guide and own me within a consensual D/s dynamic. I am willing to serve both domestically and intimately, and I have a naturally high sex drive. I have been involved in this lifestyle for the past three years. Recently, my former Master chose to leave the lifestyle and released me, leaving me searching for a new connection built on trust, structure, and mutual understanding. I consider myself highly experienced and open-minded. My interests include impact play, bondage, discipline, ***, domestic service, anal and oral play, breath play, caging, and various forms of consensual BDSM activities. I enjoy both physical and psychological aspects of submission and am eager to continue exploring this lifestyle with the right Master. I have been unemployed since separating from my former Master, but I am willing to work outside the home and contribute financially while also helping with household responsibilities. My goal is to find a stable, long-term dynamic where I can be devoted, loyal, and supportive.
Female (29) San Diego, California
ObsessedDommie
O************e
I want you to beg, bend over, and once I’m done with you, go buy my matcha. Ok. That is it.🖤🗜️🚬🍒 Will not engage if you’re not local unless you are flying me out and treating me the whole time or want to do online only things then you can request my private snap.
Female (26) San Diego, California

New personal ads in San Diego

kitty2112
*** group chat

I just want to be talked about in a group chat full of pervy men on hereeeee. I need itttt. I’m only comfy with the chat being on here but I neeeeeeed it to happen. I wanna hear all their disgusting honest thoughts about me and my body and about how they’d *** me.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around USA Columbus
bigdicklover666
Looking for a Dom to take care of me

I can be ur slave/sex slave in exchange message meeee 🥺
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 99 years ● 500km around USA Pineville
dirtywhore420
NEED SOMEONE TONIGHT

Meet at a park by motspur park station?
NSA ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around UK London
Babygirl997-2934
Hey you!

Yes, you! Are you looking for a gal who loves to have her pussy pounded and enjoys cuddles afterwards? A woman who get extremely wet when turned out over the littlest things like neck kisses and passionate kissing? Well you found her.

I am looking for someone who wants to be my friend with benefits. NSA. Someone who I can call over to have my pussy pounded, letting me cum a few times and some wonderful after (cuddles and kisses). I would ideally like someone who’s close, age 25-40.
Munch Buddy ● 18 to 46 years ● 30km around USA Greenfield
Calypso26
Let's meet and have a kinky date 🌹

Looking for a dominant partner to take on a date and possibly play with later.
Kinky Date ● 26 to 56 years ● 25km around USA Dallas
catladyk
Fingering is so nice

I like the way it feels.
BDSM/Fetish Family ● 21 to 50 years ● 25km around Canada Peace River
Service-pet
Sub seeking Domme or couple for dynamic

Hai there! I've been a part of the community for around 8 years now but have been away from it for a while. I am back and looking for a Domme or couple (trans/NB folk are very welcome). My profile bio has a lot of information. I am ideally looking for a long term dynamic as it is where I am most comfortable. I am honestly just looking for someone to truly devote myself in service to.
BDSM/Fetish Family ● 20 to 80 years ● 500km around UK Bradford
destinyy223
Sexting

Hit me uppp
Pro-Dom/me Session ● 18 to 40 years ● 500km around USA Wantagh
kayy13
I guess Im picky because...

Where are the older pleasure doms at, who can hold a good naughty conversation and actually turn me on ?
BDSM Play Partner ● 21 to 65 years ● 500km around USA Firestone Park
LunitaGatita
🦇Bratty kitten looking to make friends🦇

I'd like to meet friends for sure, with all people from different walks of life. If a connection happens that turns into something more than friendship, that's fantastic. But I'm not here specifically for dates or seggsy stuffs.

Those who love shibari, impact play, pet play, DDlg and D/s dynamics will have more in common with me with kink, and vanilla me loves all things spooky, Halloween, horror, and pagan witchy.
BDSM/Fetish Family ● 36 to 60 years ● 80km around USA Phoenix
hollybee6707
Young big girl looking for sugar daddy 💋

I’m 19 y/o 5’6 and 314lbs looking for a sugar daddy who will praise me and pay me while I praise him and repay him with my body 💋💕 only exchanging photos not ready to meet up with anyone yet.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 77 years ● 500km around USA Bangor
RoseGold
27F 👀 for SUB in Seattle or surrounding area

27F interested in well trained or trainable SUB.
(NOT MENTORSHIP) Must be in or around Seattle area (WA) as I’m seeking IRL ONLY.

Must be 25yrs or older, cis man or masculine presenting nb or trans man.
Preferably single (ENM is fine).

For lifestyle servitude and/or MF/MC mainly.

No NSA

No couples
BDSM Play Partner ● 25 to 80 years ● 160km around USA Seattle
pretty-praire61769
Hey everyone

Looking for some fun with my Husband ❤️
BDSM/Fetish Family ● 18 to 80 years ● 85km around USA Corning
MadamMira
petite 5' bunny girl looking for partner

Hey all! Looking for a Dom that's interested in kinks listed on my page, I'm not into , or excessive since.

My ideal relationship would involve an emotionally mature person with conversation skills to back it up. If that's you, then please send a DM my way 😘

Ages: 30 - 40
Location: Minneapolis, MN
BDSM Play Partner ● 30 to 40 years ● 175km around USA Minneapolis
bigdicklover666
Looking for a Dom to make me his sex slave

I don't wanna be in society anymore I wanna be a sex slave until I die
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 99 years ● 500km around USA Pineville
kitty2112
Need a dadaaaaa

I weaallyyyy wanna explore ddlgggg. I keep imagining a dada who’s so caring and sweet but can be scary and evil sometimes hehehehe maybe I’m silly for wanting thatttt
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around USA Columbus
curvyravebabee420
Put the lady first

Someone who is a gentleman now that's a kink no man can accomplish. Change my mind
Munch Buddy ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Waveland
nerdlover1738
Looking for daddy

I want to be in a 24/7 dynamic with someone. I enjoy things including DD/lg and pet play. I’m trying to find my life partner. Maybe you can make me not feel silly for doing this here lol.
Kinky Date ● 18 to 36 years ● 470km around USA Beaver
SantinaWilliam
Looking for a sub

I hope to find someone to walk life's path alongside me someone with whom I can start as friends and gradually become lovers, and who, based on mutual trust and his own free will, is willing to become my submissive. I seek someone who is my equal in spirit, yet willing to submit to me within the relationship
Pro-Dom/me Session ● 51 to 99 years ● 500km around USA Miami
pimpcessxs
i lowkey have nothing to say

please just be funny and freaky 😔
Kinky Date ● 18 to 25 years ● 25km around USA New York
GG-babe
Yah hey

💞🎮🧩🎼⛸️
Kinky Date ● 18 to 29 years ● 165km around USA Dayton
Beachybbylove
Video chatting?

Does anyone like video chatting, sometimes I like to play on cam and have someone watch or join play with me 😉😋
Kinky Date ● 38 to 80 years ● 80km around USA Quincy
graygoatwitch
Hi new to area

Looking for some show me around and more maybe depending on how u taste
Club Buddy ● 18 to 58 years ● 80km around USA Custer
babylikespink
my x is public rn😋

x: babylikespink
BDSM/Fetish Family ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Peoria

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