For me aftercare doesn’t always have to be cuddling. Sometimes it’s quality time, conversation or small talk.
Freeuse: One partner has the liberty to initiate sex without asking and without foreplay, whether the other partner is occupied, asleep, or what have you.
CNC: to be forced into sexual activity.
The difference is in the dynamic for example:
Freeuse- I’m in the kitchen washing dishes. My partner Read more… walks into the kitchen pulls my pants down an fucks me.
CNC- An intruder (my partner) breaks into my home, forces me on the floor, rips my clothes off, holds me down a violates me.