Dating & Lifestyle

So, you’ve got your FET profile set up. You’ve browsed a few kinky ads, maybe Spanked someone cute, or spent a late night exploring the forums. You’re getting a taste of what FET can be — but here’s the thing: as a free user, you’re only scratching the surface. On FET, Premium and VIP aren’t j

So, you’ve got a kinky little profile. Maybe you've Spanked a few cuties, joined a Group, or even dabbled in a Kinky Ad. But if you’re not using VIP or Premium on FET, you’re honestly missing half the fun. This isn’t just about looking good (though you do). It’s about unlockin

Fulfilling relationships are about all good communication, and as kink or BDSM relationships are very much based around talking, Kayla Lords suggests we look at them more deeply to learn more about developing long-lasting and honest pairings with our partner/s. Ask someone what they thin

Our resident BDSM agony aunt Molly returns with advice for one FET member on the verge of exploring same-sex desires. Read on to discover more about the meaning of being heteroflexible and the advice Molly has to give... Dear Molly, I've started going to a couple of local munches and recentl

You may think masturbation is the most vanilla sex act out there, but there are ways to spice it up. That's especially true if you're jerking off together with a partner. Victoria Blisse explains why mutual masturbation can be hands-down horny. Let's not beat around the bush (!), masturb

Does receiving praise from a partner during sex make you wet or give you a hard-on? Or maybe it's dishing out the compliments that turns you on? If you answered 'yes' to either of these questions then you may have a praise kink. Fetish.com's praise-loving princess Victoria Blisse answers your questi

The hipster trend means facial hair and bushy beards are more common than ever. That’s great news if you’re a pogonophile – someone with a beard fetish. But what is it about facial fuzz that is such a turn-on? Victoria Blisse brushes us up on this kink... Are you a pogonophile? If you’re

What does masturbation in the 18th-century have to do with Cornflakes? As we move into Masturbation Month this May, kinky writer Leo Larkin answers this puzzler and shares some facts about the history of masturbation. And believe us; we have it so much better now! Self-love, wanking, fin

This month our BDSM advice guru Molly has some great advice for one kinkster dealing with ***ful intercourse – AKA dyspareunia – which began after she started the menopause. Cultivating intimacy, exploring new types of sex and lovin' lube is the way to go. Dear Molly, I am 50 years

It's good to flag up your fetishes when looking for a kinky relationship, but you also need to showcase your whole identity – and look for the same in others. This month our BDSM advice guru Molly has some tips for a single guy struggling to find his first-time Domme... Dear Molly, I’ve

For such a short word, 'no' can be hard to say and harder still to hear. It's difficult enough in everyday life sometimes, but it can be even trickier when it comes to BDSM dating. Victoria Blisse offers some tips to help you say no and mean it – without breaking kink etiquette. Being o

Dreading the time away from your Dom or sub during the hols? Our Molly shares her advice... I'm in a 24/7 Dom sub relationship with my Dom. We live in the same apartment building and spend nearly every night together. However, this will be our first Christmas and whilst we really want to

Ever feel down when looking at fetish images of slim models wrapped in beautiful shibari? Tired of only seeing perfect porn stars with peachy bottoms and tiny waists? Stop! Kink is body-positive and for everyone, no matter your size or shape. Victoria Blisse shares her experiences and body-positive

If you're new to the wonderful world of BDSM and wondering what the term BDSM dynamics means or how to create successful BDSM relationships, we're here to help shine a light on things! What is a BDSM dynamic? A BDSM dynamic refers to how people in BDSM/kink relationships relate to each

Violating BDSM consent isn't good, whether it's done deliberately or by accident. While in most cases, those called out as consent violators tend to be in Dominant roles, writer Sienna Saint-Cyr explains that submissives can violate consent, too. Violating BDSM consent Although most

The festive season is one of the busiest and most stressful times of the year. But, how do you manage it all and enjoy a kink over the holidays, too? We asked Victoria Blisse to serve up some suggestions to help you get your kink on during the festivities. Trying to fit it all in?

Discovering what your BDSM limits are is an essential part of being in the kink scene. If you don't know what your limits are, there are some ways to learn, says Stella Harris. It’s so common for people to enter the kink scene and claim they have no limits that it’s a cliché. In fact, many

Swinger clubs are a great place to explore your sexuality with your partner(s), but are kinky swingers welcome? Here's a guide to getting your kink on at a swinger club – and what not to do. So you're into kink? Maybe you're in a D/s relationship, or you simply like to incorporate kink int

BDSM isn’t all whips, chains, and dungeon scenes. Light BDSM is about exploring power dynamics, trust, and pleasure in a gentle, sensual way—no extreme *** or elaborate setups required. Think teasing, silk restraints, playful spanking, and whispered commands that build anticipation. Ready to dip yo

Believe it or not, there's a simple way to develop control over how and when you orgasm, tremendously boost its power and be a great addition to your BDSM play. In the last of our masturbation month series, we explore edging and orgasm denial in BDSM power exchange dynamics. Edging - und

Clothes form an integral part of sexual arousal, and how we dress can make all the difference. So what makes clothes sexy, and why do we get dressed up to get down and dirty? Victoria Blisse delves into the closet to find out why the kinky love getting all dressed up. Why do clothing fe

From the importance of staying isolated as much as possible to its disastrous economic impact, the COVID-19 pandemic has hit everyone, everywhere hard. Following our previous article on how to stay kinky during the pandemic, we look at what kinky activities have spiked in interest during 2020 as a r

BDSM aftercare is so much more than what takes place straight after a scene. We asked writer Kayla Lords to show you new ways to take care of your kinky partner/s - both before and after a scene. Here are her personal BDSM aftercare tips. When we think of “taking care” of each other in kink,

The internet is a wonderful place to meet fellow kinksters, and Fetish.com is a great forum for connecting with other people into the same fetishes as you. However, not everyone is who they appear to be, so we asked Victoria Blisse to give you some tips on how to avoid scammers. It's so