Smart, creative, interesting, with a dry sense of humour. Sharp. Sapiosexual. You would probably consider me very curious, “know's her own mind” and “what she wants”. If you speak online-dating. That is at least what I would ordinarily say, but i'm not sure where I’ve reached on the path of discovery into my own desire.

Presently - looking for exceptional and genuine connection. If you feel it, let me know

Previously - Would like to exchange power with an intelligent and experienced dom (for an ongoing relationship) who can help me explore my desires and limits. I'd also like to learn more about the dynamic, Dom perspective, culture and so on.

Partners have told me i'm switch, i suspect i'm more of a sub. I am certainly strong-willed with a lot of self-control. And, I live for the challenge.

Re my D side, i think its a non-consensual consensual (still figuring it out). I don't find seemingly willing submission a draw.

Desires and Fantasies
I don't like the labels or being reduced to binary data. And, tbh who here does? Down with the boxes! Its a spectrum. So, I mostly skipped them (don't obsess over them).

Desires etc - ask.