Ok, so I feel like I need to reiterate this, please, if you DM me, treat me like a person. If you need hook to start a conversation try these... I am a scientist, I love the outdoors, cycling , running, wild swimming and hiking, I have spent the majority of my life sailing (seriously, since I was 5), I'm a massive sci-fi and fantasy nerd, love a regency costume drama, and I am a deeply liberally socialist.
If you don't love the outdoors, hiking, running, watersports (the non kink kind) then I'm not for you. They're so intrinsic to show I am, I have to be able to share them with my partner!
I love real connection. I love good deep conversations where the nuance of the world gets picked apart. That said I enjoy talking about truly meaningless nonsense too. I mean who isn't willing to die on the hill of their top five ice creams/lollies from the ice-cream van?
Just me? Cool, cool, cool, cool, cool!
As for my Dom side. It is something that has been an integral part of my life for over 20 years now. I take pleasure in sadism, have keen ear for sadism, adore aftercare, and hand craft my own paddles, floggers and collars because who doesn't love an arts and crafts crossover?
Hard Limits: Toilet play, permanent marks, ***s, people who put in low/no effort to communication, and Tories, and now reformers. Anyone on the right wing basically.