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A lot of good info here. And most certainly retaining as much of this as possible.
I think I'm okay on the praise side. I work with a lot more positive reinforcement, however there have been times (she put the phone down in my ear) where I was most certainly to lenient or even nice.
My little identifies as both little/brat she is very submissive in little space, And very easy to control. We're 24/7 she thrives off of it however; I'm very much on the caregiving side and I know I'm to lenient when she snaps or barks at me for example when not in little space. She has told and Read more… asked on numerous occasions for me to be more strict her words "I like to be under your thumb"
And in the bedroom and when in little space, she is under my thumb. But with the behavioural modification, discipline, rules and rituals within the rest of the relationship I'm quite a softy.
Any advice
I'm hoping an experienced Dom or sub would be able to help me out with a few questions.
I'll keep them as short as possible.
I'm a switch, I don't like to be; but it is what it is. I have recently gotten into an in the works 24/7 DDLG Read more…relationship. My submissive is also a switch, however is quite bratty and even bitchy at tones. Myself as a Daddy am a bit to lenient on her when she speaks to me with disrespect, and even when it comes to banter she's a bit hard-core. Now I'm not here to cry.
I'm asking how I can be more dominant without being domineering. E.g I tell her to do something and she refuses, I'll scold her and she carries on pushing boundaries either name calling or trying to get me to switch. I struggle because I care about her and I am a bit of a softy with discipline. Sometimes she acts out due to stress and things, at the same time I'm Daddy right? I make the rules I have the last say.
Really struggling to find a balance because I'm not my mentor who had an unflinching resolve, I still feel like I'm taking baby steps of being a good Dom.
Any help? Please and thank you.
Aaron Black
