In past relationship's whenever i brought up the topic of being buggered with a strap on, i was met with freaked out expressions and whatever i had in mind was off the menu. Only recently after a conversation i've decided to act upon it. I have a friend of a friend coming round soon to help me get those last 2 inches of a 12" x 8" rubber torpedo firmly in. I have friends in the lifestyle whom were rather surprised (who know my imagination) that i was not, so i have started reading up for the noob i am.

Currently reading: Domination & Submission: The BDSM Relationship Handbook by Michael Makai

Next read: The Ultimate Guide to Kink: BDSM, role-play and the Erotic Edge by Tristan Taormino

I'm currently not looking for anyone just yet. I want to see what happens after the arranged visit listed above, but am just curious to read up and chat.

Desires and Fantasies
Dunno yet.. Boring reply yes... But i'll probably want to get fisted at some point.