Chaotic, all or nothing kind of person. I'm often called kind and naive at times.

I'm embarking on a new career adventure in the autumn after a long career in IT.

I've experienced a little BDSM. I have learned a lot about myself on that journey and I would like to continue the journey that I am on.

I am looking to expand my experiences to more than just a bedroom only dynamic.

I am looking for an experienced, accepting (autism-friendly) individual that is happy to be a little firm and a little sadistic. This person must also be grounding with the willingness to communicate and understand "why".

I am not open to training anyone new at this time.

I'm happy to talk more about what I'm looking for and look forward to your message.

Bedroom limits to be shared more openly during chat and getting to know each other.

Willing to explore being a middle (not little). So far I've been a sub heavily leaning towards the slave designation as opposed to a brat.

No pet play, *** play, ***.