Hello o/

My names Andy 🙃

A good few years into my kink journey (at least publicly, as had an interest for years) and its been an educational and fun experience in equal measure. I've met some cracking people, had some great times and I'm looking forwards to continuing to do more of both in the future.

Vanilla me 😇

I'm an unashamed nerd at my core, always have been and probably always will be 😊

Dungeons and Dragons, anime, fantasy, sci-fi and everything related is my bread, butter and jam.

Happiest when I can spend my free time reading, watching anime, movies, shows or gaming away to my hearts content.

I read a fair bit and am one of those odd people that if left alone and in the mood will happily read a book from front to back in a day. Bill Brysons - ''A short history of nearly everything'' is a fantastic read and probably (definitely) my favourite book so far to date, though ''Infinity welcomes careful drivers'' isn't far off.

I tend to intentionally mangle the English language at times, as I find it fun to do. I'm also fairly fluent in gibberish and learning to understand ''Gaganese'' 🙃

But yeah I'm your friendly neighbourhood Spid... er... nerd.......

Kinky me 😈

"If you gaze for long into an abyss, the abyss gazes also into you''

I'm a Dom with a sadistic streak through the middle (like a bit of Blackpool rock). Granted I don't know everything there is to know as it were, but every day's a school day as they say and I love learning.

I like the application of both p.a.i.n and pleasure stimuli. Experiences so far -

Sensual and restrictive rope
Bare handed spanking
Hair play (There's something lovely about running your fingers through someone's hair softly and I love it in return, its just nice. It's also very fun to pull on and affix to things as well mind)
Impact play with various implements
A bunch of swishey swooshey caney thing's (originally for use in the garden) they make a thrummmm noise, they are excellent 😊
Clamps and clothes pegs
Floggers
Spreader bars
Restraints
Orgasm control and denial
A ex-wooden spoon, now just bits of wood (rest in pieces brave soldier, you stirred many a fine stew)
Gags (O-ring gags are amazing....)
Butt plugs
Nose hooks
Ass hooks
D.e.gradation and h.u.miliation
Power exchange/control

I can't see ''spanks'' or message certain profiles (new ones) as I'm not paying currently, so feel free to send the first message to start up a dialogue 🙃.

Currently actively looking for a submissive/play mate in the local area and attending events.

FL handle is the same name

''Be someone who is wonderful to experience. Be your own true delicious flavour to savour. Be a person who only wants nice things for everyone involved.''

S.h.i.t and needles are my main hard non negotiable limits