I personally, feel it’s a lack of respecting a boundary to contact someone that puts out there they are looking for either of those.

I personally, am monogamous, and I get a list of none monogamous or poly couples thinking I’d be a good fit.

It makes me wonder why only those that do not either Read more… read my profile or just don’t care what I say to ignore it, will reach out.

It’s not a challenge from me… I don’t want to share. That might be selfish but wtf is wrong with me that no one wants just me?

That’s what I get from such DM’s, and I’d not wish that on anyone, regardless of preference.

I’d think every brat has their own definition just as every dom would have what a brat is.