I actually think it was a give and take. They supported each other in their goals, gave each other what they needed.. instep with each other. Does it matter who was the Dom? Not one damn but because it worked for them, however their dynamic was.

I personally, feel it’s a lack of respecting a boundary to contact someone that puts out there they are looking for either of those.

I personally, am monogamous, and I get a list of none monogamous or poly couples thinking I’d be a good fit.

It makes me wonder why only those that do not either Read more… read my profile or just don’t care what I say to ignore it, will reach out.

It’s not a challenge from me… I don’t want to share. That might be selfish but wtf is wrong with me that no one wants just me?

That’s what I get from such DM’s, and I’d not wish that on anyone, regardless of preference.

I’d think every brat has their own definition just as every dom would have what a brat is.