eyemblacksheep when you cross a busy road; you use a crossing to reduce the risk.
You can still be hit on the crossing. Someone nudged into me through red lights. My brother ended up in hospital being hit when he was crossing using a traffic island.
So the risk doesn't go away, but you reduce the risk by using Read more… a crossing and waiting for the signal.
Of course, it may be you actually really know the road and know when it's safe to duck across - but if you were giving someone advice, you'd tell them to wait for the signal.
But, we all still cross roads despite there being a risk.
Talking to someone online over a period of time does lessen risks - but - some of the biggest scams have been from people who've built up an online relationship over a period of time. This doesn't disregard due precaution.
If the two would be blindfolded this would suggest that in the time chatting online they've never actually *seen* each other. Never actually did any form of video chat. So, it adds to the excitement but also the risk.
Certainly an easy way for both people to be able to call for help - and help can mean a number of things. Also - practising things like putting on condoms blindfolded, to make sure they can be opened and placed on without splitting. And both being able to go into the room with minimal belongings - because obviously if arriving/leaving blindfolded it might be missed if something is dropped from a pocket accidentally.
And, at least a voicecall - both up front and on the day to say that she is in the room, it's ready/safe and any info he might need to navigate blindfolded

VictoriaBlisse Yes, accidents still happen, that is why it's Risk AWARE Consensual Kink and why talking about all the possible problems etc is helpful. When you're doing something risky, there's always a chance of something going wrong. That's why you need to have thought that through in advance. Yes, accidents still happen, that is why it's Risk AWARE Consensual Kink and why talking about all the possible problems etc is helpful. When you're doing something risky, there's always a chance of something going wrong. That's why you need to have thought that through in advance.

Deleted profile ➦Deleted profile quote Deleted profile:❝RACK - Risk Aware Consensual Kink.
Being risk aware, as @eyemblacksheep says, is essential. You need to know them so you can mitigate them. BDSM activities are risky, no denying that, so all people involved need to know the risks and how to minimise Read more… them/what to do if things go wrong.
The OP was asking for tips and advice, which are being given.
Being Risk aware is essential, not paranoia. ❞
I don't need you to remind me about RACK, I practice knives play, ropes, strangulation, breath play and my subs are still alived and happy and safe.
the op didnt get any tips or advice other than open the door wide, or scared him about doing his fantasy.
I read his post and what I thought was that they chat and skype numerous times, and that he mentioned shes very submissive to the point of doing that fantasy. Its not like its on their first comms they decided to do it. So I assumed maybe wrongly they are was enought trust between them two. We didnt get any more details regarding how long they had comms between them before deciding that risky frisky kink.
So maybe here is the tips and advice.
Ask someone you can trust to wait for you at the hotel or near by.
Do this kind of fantasy if both of you agree to leave their driving licence to a third party.
Agree to film the session and sign an agreement, then delete the video after a month.
Now for the sake of proving my point, you could assess all the risk you want, accidents still happen. You have your sub tied to a chair and suddenly the chair break and she land on her side cracking ribs or even the clavicule. Or lets say you had a sub for a year , done all sorts of kink, involving rape play, whipping etc, then one day after a year you have a knock at the door then you see the blue light outside. She accused you of rape and physical abuse.
Thats why I mention paranoia...