I have had one other daddy that was my first love. When we broke up, I completely changed. I left my baby girl side for a while and knew a huge piece was missing, but I lost something so great- it broke my heart and a piece of me went. In more ways than one, I carry this trauma with me despite Read more… this being years old. I’m deeply afraid of being abandoned because “always and forever”, right? I have a deep belief everything happens for a reason, regardless if we want it to. In my opinion, these relationships are harder to heal due to the level of intimacy and how deep the bond is intended to be. My Daddy and I have both had traumatic experiences and have broken up twice. Both times, I felt my heart break all over again and again. It destroyed me. How I healed from the first time? I devoted my time elsewhere.
Talking has helped the most.

As a little, this is the absolute one thing I believe is unforgivable. I feel for you and am so sorry this happened. If you guys had this agreement where you both have the ability to see others, I still believe the communication needed to be more open. That is not fair to you, but when you say Read more… cheating- it sounds as if he went out without your knowledge. That is not how true successful relationships should work. I would talk to him about it and address the situation. You know him and your relationship better than anyone, so you should make a determination from there. My opinion, I’d been gone. You don’t deserve to have to stress or worry about whether your daddy is faithful.

As a bratty submissive, I find one thing that will snap me back into place (literally)- riding crop. My Daddy has tried a number of things such as orgasm denial, hand spanking, chastity. We were going to visit his horses and he had purchased a new crop for training purposes. I happened to smart Read more… off as he held the feed next to the crop. I was made to bend over, grab my ankles and was swatted 15 times. Enough pain inflicted for a couple of weeks, set myself back in Daddy’s good graces. I will stop whatever behavior once threatened with the crop. Try it out haha