I like to take control and to tie up my partner then to use ticklers, fingers, tongue to tease them until they are writhing but deny them the satisfaction until they almost give up then I would relent and allow them to climax. I do like to spank, have rough sex with dirty talk but I am keen on sensual massages like tantric/yonic/nuru which can be incorporated into bondage orgasm denial scene.
Desires and Fantasies
To tie you up and to tease you with ticklers, toys, hands and tongue until you are squirming for release.