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Personal details

Gender Man
Age 56
Status Not single
Height 187cm
Weight 102kg
Body shape Average build
Eye colour Blue
Hair colour Brown
Hair length Short
Beard Shaved/no beard
Orientation Straight
Ethnicity Caucasian white
Origin USA
Pubic Hair Part shaved
Body hair Some hair
Circumcised Yes
Zodiac sign Gemini
Glasses
Smoker
Tattoos
Piercings
Languages English
Sign language

About me

Interested in:

I’m looking for:

Description

Cybersex is fun. simply hoping to chat/communicate with people with like-minded interests. i like learning about people and seeing how others see the world of kink, their likes, dislikes, what they want out of certain situations etc. Ive learned a lot from those who've reached out and/or answered messages but learning is not "the experience" and that is what I crave most.
chemistry and seek real connection.

I value communication and enjoy communicating with real people not facades and seek real connection. Im looking for someone that communicates well. If you have a sparse profile, are nervous or uncomfortable reaching out or talking about these things, arent willing to communicate with someone new, dont respond to messages you're sent (even if just to say not interested), only care about likes on your photos, or are overly hung up on age, you're probably not right for me at this time. Sorry if this seems so negative, I simply hope to weed out people wanting/willing to waste our time. There are too many fakes and scammers on this site…just trying to find the REAL ones.

Now to the good stuff...lol

If we vibe and want more, i value the human experience. I am on a journey seeking knowledge, understanding and experience in this lifestyle.

I have been dominant all my life - EXCEPT in the bedroom. I am still working my way around that but I do have a pretty good idea of what i am looking for.

I'm a decent respectful guy in day-to-day life but during play, Ive found I like submissive women. I like pushing limits (mine and my partners) obviously IF the connection/vibe is right. Dominance in this context is a fairly new thing for me and I simply want to explore it. Consent is of paramount importance to me. Everything is discussed before hand, so there are no surprises. I have no problem starting slow and allowing these things to happen. I want us both to be comfortable and enjoy the experience and what it has to offer both of us.

Physical attraction is important but sexual chemistry ...from a woman that feels sexy...Well, it doesn't get any better! I want to be/play with someone whose comfortable enough to BE all she is. To me that is sexy as hell and is more important to me. Ive found I connect very well with partners with this chemistry and good vibes.

I'm intrigued and wanting to find a female sub that wants to play, wants to explore and be explored. Id definitely like to become well versed in bondage/shibari but need someone to play with and/or practice on. I am not afraid of more (if we connect) but would like it to happen organically.

If you're that rare woman who is willing to communicate, let her guard down, give up control, to explore and be explored, I might just be the guy you've been looking/waiting for.

Admittedly and apparently I am asking for a lot. I have found this process hard on social apps but this seems to be the only way people do it these days, so here I am. lol. Finding active and or serious play partners in Boise has become a true art in and of itself and unfortunately I am not an artist. I know there's good subs out there lol...Lets have some fun and do this!!! I am also not afraid of a road trip if the vibe is right!!!

If submission isn't your jam, thats fine too. I love to chat. I like to learn about others kinks for those willing to share. I’d even like to find a willing partner to attend rope classes. (doesn’t have to be sexual.) just two people learning and art form.

As I am fairly new to the "kink world" in general, I don't know the proper etiquette or ways to go about things. Apologies in advance if I offend anyone.

Interested? Hit me up! I dont bite!! (unless you want me too!!! lol)
I dont have a premium membership and most likely wont
I do try to respond (even if im not interested), Id appreciate the same. Its good Karma.

Thank for taking the time to read my profile.

Best of luck to all

Limits

Will discuss with my submissive

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Fetish.com is like an appetizing smorgasbord in Boise with lots of hot guys to meet up with. Have a look around first if you prefer to see who’s around, or if you know what you want, search by selecting the right category "Kinky Dating”. Nobody stays alone here for long! Fetish.com has tons going on!

BacknBoise
icon-wio BacknBoise wrote something in the forum
  • 14.06.2026 11:25:33
  • Male (56)
  • Boise
  • Not single
Difference between a bottom and a submissive

I think it’s natural for people to try steer the conversation to see if they can get what they want, that’s why we’re all here.
And nobody wants to waste their time

i do think some are here for the quick fix so to speak and not really interested and what it takes to build a strong dynamic, or Read more… relationship

That being said, I think both parties needs must be met if it is to be successful

I also think if people are always trying to steer the conversation, they’re probably not right for you because they’re not what you’re looking for

BacknBoise
icon-wio BacknBoise finished the BDSM Test
  • 08.06.2026 17:18:34
  • Male (56)
  • Boise
  • Not single

83%
Dominant

23%
Submissive

BacknBoise
icon-wio BacknBoise has updated their profile description
  • 10.05.2026 18:34:28
  • Male (56)
  • Boise
  • Not single
Cybersex is fun. simply hoping to chat/communicate with people with like-minded interests. i like learning about people and seeing how others see the world of kink, their likes, dislikes, what they want out of certain situations etc. Ive learned a lot from those who've reached out and/or answered Read more… messages but learning is not "the experience" and that is what I crave most.
chemistry and seek real connection.

I value communication and enjoy communicating with real people not facades and seek real connection. Im looking for someone that communicates well. If you have a sparse profile, are nervous or uncomfortable reaching out or talking about these things, arent willing to communicate with someone new, dont respond to messages you're sent (even if just to say not interested), only care about likes on your photos, or are overly hung up on age, you're probably not right for me at this time. Sorry if this seems so negative, I simply hope to weed out people wanting/willing to waste our time. There are too many fakes and scammers on this site…just trying to find the REAL ones.

Now to the good stuff...lol

If we vibe and want more, i value the human experience. I am on a journey seeking knowledge, understanding and experience in this lifestyle.

I have been dominant all my life - EXCEPT in the bedroom. I am still working my way around that but I do have a pretty good idea of what i am looking for.

I'm a decent respectful guy in day-to-day life but during play, Ive found I like submissive women. I like pushing limits (mine and my partners) obviously IF the connection/vibe is right. Dominance in this context is a fairly new thing for me and I simply want to explore it. Consent is of paramount importance to me. Everything is discussed before hand, so there are no surprises. I have no problem starting slow and allowing these things to happen. I want us both to be comfortable and enjoy the experience and what it has to offer both of us.

Physical attraction is important but sexual chemistry ...from a woman that feels sexy...Well, it doesn't get any better! I want to be/play with someone whose comfortable enough to BE all she is. To me that is sexy as hell and is more important to me. Ive found I connect very well with partners with this chemistry and good vibes.

I'm intrigued and wanting to find a female sub that wants to play, wants to explore and be explored. Id definitely like to become well versed in bondage/shibari but need someone to play with and/or practice on. I am not afraid of more (if we connect) but would like it to happen organically.

If you're that rare woman who is willing to communicate, let her guard down, give up control, to explore and be explored, I might just be the guy you've been looking/waiting for.

Admittedly and apparently I am asking for a lot. I have found this process hard on social apps but this seems to be the only way people do it these days, so here I am. lol. Finding active and or serious play partners in Boise has become a true art in and of itself and unfortunately I am not an artist. I know there's good subs out there lol...Lets have some fun and do this!!! I am also not afraid of a road trip if the vibe is right!!!

If submission isn't your jam, thats fine too. I love to chat. I like to learn about others kinks for those willing to share. I’d even like to find a willing partner to attend rope classes. (doesn’t have to be sexual.) just two people learning and art form.

As I am fairly new to the "kink world" in general, I don't know the proper etiquette or ways to go about things. Apologies in advance if I offend anyone.

Interested? Hit me up! I dont bite!! (unless you want me too!!! lol)
I dont have a premium membership and most likely wont
I do try to respond (even if im not interested), Id appreciate the same. Its good Karma.

Thank for taking the time to read my profile.

Best of luck to all
BacknBoise
icon-wio BacknBoise posted a status update
  • 11.04.2025 2:26:09
  • Male (56)
  • Boise
  • Not single
Man! The dirty thoughts that go through my mind sometimes…..whoa!!! Lol
BacknBoise
icon-wio BacknBoise posted a status update
  • 29.01.2025 2:03:17
  • Male (56)
  • Boise
  • Not single
“ so backnboise, something kinky on your mind?”
….

…Something KINKY is almost always on my mind! Lol
Finding someone to share it with is the hard part
BacknBoise
icon-wio BacknBoise posted a status update
  • 08.02.2024 21:51:12
  • Male (56)
  • Boise
  • Not single
Funny how people can’t even accept compliments these days without thinking, there’s an ulterior motive
BacknBoise
icon-wio BacknBoise wrote something in the forum
  • 10.01.2024 21:52:36
  • Male (56)
  • Boise
  • Not single
Giving orders

I struggle a bit with it too. Ive found that thinking about it intensely makes me want it more and more. As a result its becoming a lil more comfortable for me. It helpsnthat ive been given the green loght. I don’t know if it helps, but it might.

BacknBoise
icon-wio BacknBoise posted a status update
  • 04.01.2024 6:56:17
  • Male (56)
  • Boise
  • Not single
So frustrating. Honesty strikes another blow.
BacknBoise
icon-wio BacknBoise posted a status update
  • 03.01.2024 18:51:38
  • Male (56)
  • Boise
  • Not single
Its tough sometimes trying to find someone this way. Honesty and transparency are lauded in public but yet still ignored in private….frustrating…. Yet I continue hoping I’ll find what i’m looking for
BacknBoise
icon-wio BacknBoise has bought a Premium-membership!
  • 28.12.2023 21:23:32
  • Male (56)
  • Boise
  • Not single
BacknBoise
icon-wio BacknBoise posted a status update
  • 25.12.2023 22:20:22
  • Male (56)
  • Boise
  • Not single
I certainly understand their purpose but message filters aggravate me. They take some of the spontaneity away when you see something you like

And the fact that you can’t message new members without being a paid member aggravates me too. It didn’t used to be that way.
BacknBoise
icon-wio BacknBoise posted a status update
  • 24.12.2023 23:12:09
  • Male (56)
  • Boise
  • Not single
I don’t know why, but I am thinking the very dirtiest of thoughts right now. Wish I had a sub to play with.
LikeKbee09
BacknBoise
icon-wio BacknBoise posted a status update
  • 11.12.2023 9:06:18
  • Male (56)
  • Boise
  • Not single
All this sexual energy and no one to share it with…what a shame
BacknBoise
icon-wio BacknBoise posted a status update
  • 05.12.2023 15:07:27
  • Male (56)
  • Boise
  • Not single
Anybody else not receiving notifications about NEW messages?

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