You are here because you are a slim young woman who wants an older man. I am a tall (6'3" / 1.90 m), slim, single, and vegetarian. I am retired, so my time is flexible to fit around your schedule. I have a bushy grey beard, so I am the wrong partner for pogonophobes!

I have had sexually rewarding relationships, but until now, I never had one that fulfilled my secret desire to be a dom. I am now in a relationship, my new partner wants to be a sub, but she has never explored this before, so she wonders what her limits are. We will explore this together. I would be grateful for your experience and advice!

I am a lifelong motorcyclist, so bike leathers are second nature to me. I have motorcycled through much of Europe, so I am more than happy to ride across Britain for the right meet-up. I am a graduate, intelligent and cultured, and my new partner is sapiosexual.

I am also a photographer, with more than 35 years' experience. If you like, I can take a few photos for your profile, or even do a naughty photoshoot for you. My current cameras are Canon EOS 7D and 7D mark II, plus I am learning to use a Canon R6.

No b****, p***, s***, or electric shocks. I would love to restrain you, but I abhor extremes. I would like to command you, but I do not want to degrade or humiliate you. I would give you some paddling, and maybe nipple clamps, if you like them. And then, when you have taken the correction that you needed, I will reward you with the pleasure you deserve. I call myself "big hands" for a reason! I am a kindly dom. If you want to bring me your daddy issues, you can. If you want comfort and cuddles after submitting to BDSM, here they are!