Hi All,
My partner and I have been discussing BDSM for a while now, I have tired to do research but have a hard time trying to understand it. I am the kind of person that likes to get all the information before proceeding but I know this won't be the case for BDSM, I have tried to watch videos on Read more…it and do some research about it with my partner so I can ask her questions to help me understand and see how she views it to better understand her and her kinks, but as she has been into BDSM alot longer than I have she get annoyed as it is going over the same information that she already knows and I understand that it would be annoying for her to keep repeating herself. I have tried reading and watching videos but when it comes to trying things I always get in my own head that I won't be able to meet her needs as I am so new to this and am scared that it won't be enjoyable and make her not like me. I feel like I should be able to by now but can't get out of my own head that I suck at this and I am just going to keep letting my partner down.
Sorry for the big message, but any advice would be appreciated so much.