If you don't have a face pic, I probably won't respond, I also filter messages by age.
I'm 4ft 11"
Kink is a big part of my life but being a Mumma will always come first.
I'm only interested in experienced kinksters, I've been on the scene a long time but I'm not into teaching my play partner "how to kink"
I am a divorcee and single mother, so I am not looking for a monogamous commitment.
If I had to label myself, it would be 'sadomasochist'
Right now I'm more interested in finding a regular top/dominant play partner.
I like a man who can throw me around like a ragdoll but then cuddle after.
There are so many ways to learn rope out there. There are some amazing shibari books, but there's nothing quite like hands on experience. Why not both of you nip to your local rope group? They are generally non sexual spaces to learn to tie safely. I have a weekend rope workshop coming up in Read more… Brighton in September with some pretty amazing rope teachers coming over from the USA.. you also get first hand stories of aftercare, nerve damage and how to avoid injuries xx
Breathplay is awesome but you must always take precautions. I like to use a set of keys so that if the person drops the keys, it's an instant stop so you know they need to breath. Make sure your wife has an emergency plan in place just in case anything goes wrong. It's a really good thing to make a Read more… v with her hand so that she can apply pressure to your throat without crushing your windpipe. Simple pressure on the throat might not cut off your air circulation straight away but it will create what's called a blood choke, which can be a great slow burning asphyxiation. Definitely look into the medical side of things, make sure she knows where your nerves are to save damage. Workshops as eyemblacksheep has said are great if you can get to some.