Personal details

Gender Woman
Age 36
Status Single
Height 150cm
Body shape Curvy
Eye colour Blue
Hair length Long
Ethnicity Caucasian white
Origin England
Pubic Hair Shaved
Body hair None
Zodiac signs Aquarius
Smoker
Piercings

About me

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Description

If you don't have a face pic, I probably won't respond, I also filter messages by age.

I'm 4ft 11"

Kink is a big part of my life but being a Mumma will always come first.

I'm only interested in experienced kinksters, I've been on the scene a long time but I'm not into teaching my play partner "how to kink"

I am a divorcee and single mother, so I am not looking for a monogamous commitment.

If I had to label myself, it would be 'sadomasochist'

Right now I'm more interested in finding a regular top/dominant play partner.

I like a man who can throw me around like a ragdoll but then cuddle after.

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Knowing the ropes...

There are so many ways to learn rope out there. There are some amazing shibari books, but there's nothing quite like hands on experience. Why not both of you nip to your local rope group? They are generally non sexual spaces to learn to tie safely. I have a weekend rope workshop coming up in Read more… Brighton in September with some pretty amazing rope teachers coming over from the USA.. you also get first hand stories of aftercare, nerve damage and how to avoid injuries xx

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Breath play

Breathplay is awesome but you must always take precautions. I like to use a set of keys so that if the person drops the keys, it's an instant stop so you know they need to breath. Make sure your wife has an emergency plan in place just in case anything goes wrong. It's a really good thing to make a Read more… v with her hand so that she can apply pressure to your throat without crushing your windpipe. Simple pressure on the throat might not cut off your air circulation straight away but it will create what's called a blood choke, which can be a great slow burning asphyxiation. Definitely look into the medical side of things, make sure she knows where your nerves are to save damage. Workshops as eyemblacksheep has said are great if you can get to some.

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Support required

Lugnut, she doesn't have to show her face, and there is no rule that says skinny is the only shade of sexy. Does it matter if she's not a natural Dom, as long as you're both enjoying yourselves? Plus, if she needs tips you can just start another post and ask, most people LOVE giving advice to those Read more… who ask for it. We all have different tastes and fetishes and that's ok. You will be accepted as long as you're polite, which from what I can tell you are. That's just how the fetish scene is, we accept others because we in turn need to be accepted. Hope your BBQ and sexy treats go well tonight x

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Support required

There is nothing wrong, or shameful about your sexual desires. Cuckolding isn't even an uncommon fetish. I know that society likes to make us kinksters feel dirty or weird, but that's their issue, not ours - you have a right to your desires. I'm sure your wife has already given you some validation Read more… in this way, but I just wanted to say that you are accepted, maybe not in 'vanilla society' but you are accepted within your marriage, and here with all the rest of us perverts (I say that as a compliment, and not an insult). I'm sure there are many who will offer up their insights and opinions where all I can offer is support. But you have it. I wish you all the best and hope that you are able to come to terms with your fetishes x

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Is she into it?

I think the fact that you're getting the same answer to the same question says it all.. have you tried asking a different question? Instead of saying, "do you want to try.." maybe say "hey, when we tried that thing, did you enjoy it, what did/didn't you like about it, would you like to do it again?"

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Hurt me but not leave marks

Fish, I don't 'break' subs. They either serve me willingly or not at all. Stop asking about my personal preferences, I have offered advice but keep me out of your wank bank.

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Hurt me but not leave marks

Yes fish. I don't put it on my profile or I end up with hundreds of messages from subs and that's not what I'm after right now.

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Hurt me but not leave marks

Lots of breathplay experience on both sides.. be careful, have signals, I find letting the bottom hold a set of keys or similar can be comforting to them, if they drop the keys you STOP.. have an emergency plan.
As for nettles yes they're great but remember she needs to wear gloves, latex gloves Read more… work fine. Also, the younger the nettle plant, the ouchier the sting!!

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Hurt me but not leave marks

Stinging nettles.. cock and balls trampling, pegged balls.. pegged foreskin.. hair pulling.. tongue clamp.. depends what you're into

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Why are all the hot men in Germany? Lol
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