Married. I have three partners. No, you may not be one of them. If you want someone to hit on, move the hell on. I'm extremely busy with life things. Polysaturated as hell. Please, guys, stop messaging me to ask me how I am doing today. I'm busy. I probably won't see your messages for at least a month and by that point I'm not going to even bother to message you back to blow you off.

If you're interested in talking to me about my husband who IS looking for a soft dom, IRL, in the area, say that in your opening message. Otherwise, I'm going to assume you're looking to hit on me and I'm not here for it.

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I'm a geeky person and look for the same in my friendships. I have two life partners and an LDR. Polysaturated, and not looking for anything new.

I strongly identify as a submissive and am an owned pet, but I also have my own sub so I guess I count as a switch now. Regardless, I consider myself a lifestyle submissive. I'm one of those subs who has a strong dominant personality. I have a tendency to lead any group I'm comfortable with. I'm a completely different person in groups I'm not comfortable with though, so depending on where you meet/see me, understand that if I'm completely quiet I'm probably not comfortable with where I'm at (I have a hard time breaking out of my shell at munches or really any gatherings of strangers where I'm expected to socialize). It's really a night and day difference.

While I'm not interested in new connections, I am looking for a local (any gender) to dominate or maybe top my husband (alone or as group play) since he's recently discovered he's submissive instead of vanilla (very soft though). Ideally someone nerdy and cool that can hang out instead of just a hook up.
But I'm not looking very hard on this website at all.