53yo, 6"2 , 20 stone, man. Originally from norF London. A bit rough and ready. I am very passionate and can be loud when excited. I can be moody,angry,sad, and all the other emotions dependent on circumstances. No bs my bag of fucks is empty. I am looking for someone I can invest in 100% with no compromise.Now mellowing and fairly laid back, I'm almost horizontal. I'm starting a new life from the ground up. Blanc canvas.My 31-year marriage is over. Sadly, we have grown apart, no dramas. Divorce is in the post as I am writing this. We will be putting the house on the market after Christmas. We still live together ( separate bedrooms ) and are friends. If things were to progress sexually, I would prefer not to be here as it will feel weird, and it's all a bit fresh. I would like to really get to know you first . I would be happy to stay in an air b+b,hotel, to come and visit you for dates if I live a long way away, or weekend away but I would like a relationship before any bedroom olympics. When sold, I will be buying a small house, but I will not be tied to this area. I would be prepared to move nearer to you or possibly both move somewhere. I am not tied to work as I am closing the business ( shop ). I am not a ponce or freeloader, so I will be looking for work or another venture.I am not rich. Obviously, house and work locations can wait according to our relationship. I don't want your ***, just you're love and lust.I am looking for a down to earth, loyal, gsoh,caring, honest, monogamous partner,friend and lover who is a bit kinky and submissive when the time comes and loves orgasms. I like to tie you up and give ***d orgasms or edge you, and oral is my kryptonite. I love using toys, outfits, and role-playing.I will do more or less what you would like in the bedroom ( no other men, I will get jealous and nothing near my bum hole please ), but I am dominant. All consensual. I like all different things comedy,music,films,games,general interests,food,etc. I prefer to stay in and snuggle or play. I hate sport, keep fat, and not fit and I smoke ( saying that, the right person will change me ). I am looking to get to know each other first and slowly merge our lives. I understand that if you have kids, this will take a lot longer. Kids come first. Mine are all grown up. I am not religious. I smoke,drink occasionally, swear, and I am no angel, especially in the bedroom. I've never been to prison. I also think I'm funny, it doesn't mean you will. I am highly sexual, ***cly loyal, passionate, and have love to give. I expect baggage and skeletons. I have lots of baggage, which is being disposed of, but it's my problem and left at the door. I want a partner who I can love and focus on. YOU will be my world.I would like to meet to discuss the past,present, and future. Hopefully, in time, we could iron out our kinks together. Chat/ text, dates, and hopefully love and happiness. Progress at your pace, no pressure. I want us to get it right ( true ). I am in no rush for sex ( lies ). Honestly & Transparentcie.

Me =Soft
You= Hard as you like or soft as you like.