As a package DOM/sub - husband/wife,
We want to talk to a person to see what they need and require .
We have one we have kind of been talking to via Google chat,,
Her statement is and I quote/cut-copy
I want all that sir
I want to be used and abuseb
That is her statement, there is no feelings or Read more… explanation of what makes you tick..
Makes us scared and unwilling to

Mine might be different- however it is plain on my profile what my wife and I are looking for.
Have had now aprox 7+ “ladies” contact with the wish to talk and see if we might match.
My wife and I were interested, thus we say let’s meet at a safe place library/park/restraunt that we all would feel Read more… safe at, to discuss our preferences and limitations..
No sooner that we say sure let’s meet, “Will I get $$$ help getting there cuz I don’t have a car or “whatever” family member needs medication money- ECT ECT.
NOPE SORRY, hard no for us..
We would have paid for the meal and stuff but needing cash to get there to talk and then needing more cash to get meds.
Sorry we both say nope and tell them the meeting is canceled..

Congratulations on finding someone whom your secure enough with to talk to openly and they with you.
There is never a time when your not nervous.
Start slow, easy, do a simple date, then a movie, then a Xrated movie, then a munch, then a club. Then some scenes. Go at a pace your comfortable with. Read more… Just remember to talk talk talk, and your SAFE WORD.
Now a warning — careful- this can lead to powerful feelings at eachother.
Good and bad.
You will be mentally HIGH physically HIGH but the come down/let down is also just as powerful…
Talk talk talk. Set limits and boundaries each and every time you play… your soft limits and HARD limits…
HAVE THE THE MOST FUN YOU WANT…

As a DOM of my loving SLAVE she is the most important think to me in my life.
I would never tell her to go fuck a random guy after a argument..
That’s putting your life in danger.
That says he does not care about your safety - physically - emotionally and /or sexually.. he does not care..
And then Read more… him saying send me pics of you “fucking” the random guy - he wants the pictures as a weapon to hold over you/ so you “can’t” leave because he will post them or share them with the world…
Do yourself a great service that your future self will thank you for..
RUN —- don’t pack anything you can replace at a latter safe point.
RUN —- as fast as you can.
RUN. —- to somewhere/someone who will protect you.
RUN —- block his number, change yours,
RUN RUN RUN..