I am long term married in a vanilla relationship, looking to continue exploring the BDSM scene.

I am open to NSA meetups or a LTR. I am not looking for just an online experience, being able to be together and to touch and feel is important to me.
I would describe myself as a relaxed and laid back person, happy to go with the flow and let things develop naturally. In general I like adopting a submissive role, but there are times where I also want to take charge.
My ideal prospective partner would be someone without the need to stick to rigidly to defined roles and just enjoying whatever develops.
My relationship makes it hard for me to travel, therefore looking for someone within easy travelling distance of Glasgow, as I would like to spend what time I can make available with you as opposed to travelling.

Desires and Fantasies
Giving control to a sexy dominant woman who uses me as her means to sexual fulfilment.

No permanent or lasting marks, no blood play, no scat