Vanilla: I'm a postgraduate white-collar professional. I’m also an ex-college athlete and a former military officer. I love traveling (I have been to more than 40 countries), photography, cooking, ***ting, reading, working out, and enjoying the outdoors. I'm open-minded and thoughtful, and I love deep conversation.

Kink: I am a Daddy Dom, kink photographer, and I switch. I have always been interested in kink and BDSM. After moving to the mainland from Hawaii, I became more involved in the community. Since then, I've attended kink education events and BDSM parties, met new people through this site, and increased my online presence. I'm excited to continue exploring and learning within this beautiful community. I love listening to people's stories about how they discovered kink. I found that kink tends to give comfort and happiness to people from discomfort and anger before they jump into the deep end. I would love to hear your story, and if you would like, ask me about mine. I'm happy to share.