I sometimes feel I would have liked to be a Victorian governor with responsibility for my ward. Responsible for the care and development of a young lady, but also responsible for her discipline chastisement and deportment. Walking that line between beastly and benevolent, finding that sweet spot of cherishing a sub and yet keeping them in hand. A place of safety of sorts.
OK what I am really after is someone who will come out into the Welsh Forests with me or skulk around abandoned mine workings and get up to mischief.......... if I told you what mischief it would spoil the suspense
Here is where you start, make friends explore questions, share fantasies and find someone to help you grow. I have to say the chatrooms are the warmest I know of.
Another thought is finding your nearest "munch", a place to meet folk in a vanilla setting. It helps to filter the strange ones from Read more… the stranger ones.