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Gender	Man
Age	52
Status	Not single
Height	194cm
Weight	98kg
Body shape	Athletic
Eye colour	Blue
Hair length	Short
Beard	5 o'clock shadow
Orientation	Straight
Ethnicity	Caucasian white
Body hair	Some hair
Zodiac sign	Cancer
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I sometimes feel I would have liked to be a Victorian governor with responsibility for my ward. Responsible for the care and development of a young lady, but also responsible for her discipline chastisement and deportment. Walking that line between beastly and benevolent, finding that sweet spot of cherishing a sub and yet keeping them in hand. A place of safety of sorts.

Desires and Fantasies
OK what I am really after is someone who will come out into the Welsh Forests with me or skulk around abandoned mine workings and get up to mischief.......... if I told you what mischief it would spoil the suspense

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03.04.2018 20:10:35
Male (52)
●London
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28.02.2018 22:14:25
Male (52)
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BMBen created a topic in BDSM Forum

30.01.2018 22:24:44
●London

Urethral sounding

Has anyone tried urethral sounding? I was sent a video by a masochist friend suggesting that it might be a desirable M/f activity she’d like to indulge in but in the interest of sanity and safety I am keen to hear any do’s and dont’s. I can see it is quite an intimate act but seems to carry all manner of medical risks. All advice and opinion gratefully received.

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Biggemazinn I love it

Like · 04.07.2025 12:30:13

BigDaddyJPZ I recently indulged in giving it a try. It is a kink to be taken very seriously with the risks involved. There's plenty of articles online about how to ease into it, risk vs reward, and most importantly , STERILIZATION!. proper abundant lubrication and going slowly are key when you first try as well

Like · 04.07.2025 1:36:57

Tmac-2195 ➦Tmac-2195 quote PencilDick-2604:❝I have done it many times. love it. Worked my way from 6mm to now a rather tight 9mm. the feeling is wonderful. you have to clean them, sterilize them both before and after, and use surgical gel, not Kay. Amazon sells it. i fanticize someone doing it with me and to me😍❞
Message me please I'd love some tips

Like · 02.07.2025 3:20:34

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30.01.2018 21:51:39
Male (52)
●London
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Are you curious..?

That made me giggle and I wouldn’t have said I am a giggled, thanks Firewitch!

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29.01.2018 14:25:07
Male (52)
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29.01.2018 14:23:06
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●London
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BMBen wrote something in the forum

29.01.2018 11:22:14
Male (52)
●London
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Vanilla girl brand new to any and all kinks; where the hell do I start?

Here is where you start, make friends explore questions, share fantasies and find someone to help you grow. I have to say the chatrooms are the warmest I know of.
Another thought is finding your nearest "munch", a place to meet folk in a vanilla setting. It helps to filter the strange ones from Read more… the stranger ones.

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